You have to configure your SMTP Virtual Server in the Internet Information Manager. By default, it only relays mail for your domain, which is how you should be doing it anyway. It's not hard to configure, and you can always hit F1 or use the ? control box button for brief help. Some understand of SMTP is helpful, but not really required if you read the help files.
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