Standard ASP.NET Calendar control will always do the postback. It is better to use the JavaScript, DHTML Calendar Controls. So many free JavaScript, DHTML Calendar controls are available free in the web. You can also use the AJAX calendar Control which will not do full postback. If you want to strict with the Standard ASP.NET calendar control, then I would suggest you to use AJAX Update Panel which removes full post backs.
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