Not very likely that you will have any problems with Kdevelop. It ships with almost every Linux distribution.
As far as Kylix 3 is concerned, I have had no trouble installing it on SuSE 8.0 and on Debian.
I highly recommend using the Debian distribution. It doesn't have a graphical installation tool, and some of the system is not as automated as either RedHat, Mandrake, nor SuSE... BUT, it has the best system update mechanism, consists of over 10,000 packages (including Apache JSP, Kdevelop, and Anjuta), have the least trouble using new third party software with (I run Win4Lin and Kylix 3). Once I setup a Debian system, there is no maintenance for me to do... none. I run a Debian workstation here at work that I have not had to reboot (even after weekly automated upgrades to the system) for anything.
There is a price to pay for this god-like efficiency, though. You install Linux, you become a UNIX system administrator instantly, without training, without previous experience to draw from, and your only help comes from either the "install support" that ships with the product or the internet. Nevertheless, this can be a good experience if you prepare yourself for it, and dump all notions that your new Linux system is going to be just like Windows.
As far as Quickstarts on programming KDE / QT, there is material for that that installs with Kdevelop. You can read and search the docs within the IDE.