Skip to content
  • Categories
  • Recent
  • Tags
  • Popular
  • World
  • Users
  • Groups
Skins
  • Light
  • Cerulean
  • Cosmo
  • Flatly
  • Journal
  • Litera
  • Lumen
  • Lux
  • Materia
  • Minty
  • Morph
  • Pulse
  • Sandstone
  • Simplex
  • Sketchy
  • Spacelab
  • United
  • Yeti
  • Zephyr
  • Dark
  • Cyborg
  • Darkly
  • Quartz
  • Slate
  • Solar
  • Superhero
  • Vapor

  • Default (No Skin)
  • No Skin
Collapse
Code Project
  1. Home
  2. The Lounge
  3. Is she cheating on me? ...Probably No...

Is she cheating on me? ...Probably No...

Scheduled Pinned Locked Moved The Lounge
questionlearning
50 Posts 27 Posters 0 Views 1 Watching
  • Oldest to Newest
  • Newest to Oldest
  • Most Votes
Reply
  • Reply as topic
Log in to reply
This topic has been deleted. Only users with topic management privileges can see it.
  • M Matt Matt

    Thomas George wrote:

    Do you always call her? . . . or does she ever call you?

    Both ways, but i guess i do it much more than she does

    L Offline
    L Offline
    Lost User
    wrote on last edited by
    #11

    What would be her motivation to call you, if she indeed wanted to get it over with you? . . . and since she mentioned that a friend of hers is using the phone, I think you are being paranoid. My suggestion: don't make a mess of it with your suspicion. The telephone being busy at your girlfriend's place, where her friend is also staying, is no reason to even suspect, IMO. But, if you see that she is getting aloof from you, you might as well bring that up in a friendly conversation.

    1 Reply Last reply
    0
    • M Matt Matt

      Thomas George wrote:

      Do you always call her? . . . or does she ever call you?

      Both ways, but i guess i do it much more than she does

      M Offline
      M Offline
      MoustafaS
      wrote on last edited by
      #12

      Matt@Matt wrote:

      i guess i do it much more than she does

      Then you really have to worry.:laugh:

      ------------------------------
      "The Soapbox has been so ..."

      1 Reply Last reply
      0
      • M Matt Matt

        I know I am a pathetic person to write this in the lounge. But i need some suggestions on the best course of action. She is the one who makes me still a part of the "real world", otherwise my whole life revolves around computers. I am talking of my girl friend. Recently I noticed that I find her increasingly in call waiting. I had rung her up unexpectedly at night after our regular conversation for something and found her to be in call waiting. She said its a friend using her phone, and also in few other ocations when i dint expect her to be on phone. Unlike the regular me these incidents somehow keeps disturbing me. Any suggestions on the best course of action? - "Always Trust" OR "Be Skeptical" OR "Look Out For Proof"? Any suggestions? :confused: -- modified at 7:32 Wednesday 10th May, 2006

        L Offline
        L Offline
        L_u_r_k_e_r
        wrote on last edited by
        #13

        if you really want to know when you are over there 2 possible ways to find out Caller ID redial with redial on my phone it lists the last 3 calls made. See who she calls and how they answer the phone

        1 Reply Last reply
        0
        • M Matt Matt

          I know I am a pathetic person to write this in the lounge. But i need some suggestions on the best course of action. She is the one who makes me still a part of the "real world", otherwise my whole life revolves around computers. I am talking of my girl friend. Recently I noticed that I find her increasingly in call waiting. I had rung her up unexpectedly at night after our regular conversation for something and found her to be in call waiting. She said its a friend using her phone, and also in few other ocations when i dint expect her to be on phone. Unlike the regular me these incidents somehow keeps disturbing me. Any suggestions on the best course of action? - "Always Trust" OR "Be Skeptical" OR "Look Out For Proof"? Any suggestions? :confused: -- modified at 7:32 Wednesday 10th May, 2006

          R Offline
          R Offline
          realJSOP
          wrote on last edited by
          #14

          You registered on codeproject just to start this thread? You're as pathetic as your gay lover - Link2006. "Little sister" rule be damned, you're nothin' but a f*ckin' loser troll... ------- sig starts "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001

          M J P 3 Replies Last reply
          0
          • P Paul Watson

            First off you are not pathetic. This kind of thing happens to many of us and you would have to be a strange human not to worry or want to seek help from friends. Second, ask her. You have to talk to her man. You should be comfortable talking to a person you call your girlfriend. Preferably not by text or email, see her face to face :) regards, Paul Watson Ireland Feed Henry!

            Shog9 wrote:

            eh, stop bugging me about it, give it a couple of days, see what happens.

            R Offline
            R Offline
            realJSOP
            wrote on last edited by
            #15

            Paul, check his bio - he's been here less than a month and only has two posts. He registered just to post this. ------- sig starts "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001

            N P 2 Replies Last reply
            0
            • M Matt Matt

              I know I am a pathetic person to write this in the lounge. But i need some suggestions on the best course of action. She is the one who makes me still a part of the "real world", otherwise my whole life revolves around computers. I am talking of my girl friend. Recently I noticed that I find her increasingly in call waiting. I had rung her up unexpectedly at night after our regular conversation for something and found her to be in call waiting. She said its a friend using her phone, and also in few other ocations when i dint expect her to be on phone. Unlike the regular me these incidents somehow keeps disturbing me. Any suggestions on the best course of action? - "Always Trust" OR "Be Skeptical" OR "Look Out For Proof"? Any suggestions? :confused: -- modified at 7:32 Wednesday 10th May, 2006

              M Offline
              M Offline
              Matt Matt
              wrote on last edited by
              #16

              Thats not what i am trying not to be "paranoid". Exactly why i took it to the lounge. I wanted to calmly think of best ways to tackle it rationally if a problem exists. This is very insignificant but if something bigger comes up sometime in the future rather than it giving me surprise, i wanna think of phsychological approach i can take -- modified at 8:39 Wednesday 10th May, 2006

              1 Reply Last reply
              0
              • R realJSOP

                You registered on codeproject just to start this thread? You're as pathetic as your gay lover - Link2006. "Little sister" rule be damned, you're nothin' but a f*ckin' loser troll... ------- sig starts "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001

                M Offline
                M Offline
                Matt Matt
                wrote on last edited by
                #17

                I was expecting this to come from someone. just dint wanna mix up my technical discussions with the kind. sorry. You guys are smart enough to put 1 and 1 together and figure out, just let me tell u its not worth it -- modified at 8:38 Wednesday 10th May, 2006

                1 Reply Last reply
                0
                • R realJSOP

                  Paul, check his bio - he's been here less than a month and only has two posts. He registered just to post this. ------- sig starts "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001

                  N Offline
                  N Offline
                  Nish Nishant
                  wrote on last edited by
                  #18

                  John Simmons / outlaw programmer wrote:

                  Paul, check his bio - he's been here less than a month and only has two posts. He registered just to post this.

                  He's probably a regular member who created a new ID to post this. Regards, Nish


                  Nish’s thoughts on MFC, C++/CLI and .NET (my blog)
                  The Ultimate Grid - The #1 MFC grid out there!

                  1 Reply Last reply
                  0
                  • M Matt Matt

                    I know I am a pathetic person to write this in the lounge. But i need some suggestions on the best course of action. She is the one who makes me still a part of the "real world", otherwise my whole life revolves around computers. I am talking of my girl friend. Recently I noticed that I find her increasingly in call waiting. I had rung her up unexpectedly at night after our regular conversation for something and found her to be in call waiting. She said its a friend using her phone, and also in few other ocations when i dint expect her to be on phone. Unlike the regular me these incidents somehow keeps disturbing me. Any suggestions on the best course of action? - "Always Trust" OR "Be Skeptical" OR "Look Out For Proof"? Any suggestions? :confused: -- modified at 7:32 Wednesday 10th May, 2006

                    N Offline
                    N Offline
                    Nish Nishant
                    wrote on last edited by
                    #19

                    If she's cheating, you'll soon see other signs. Regards, Nish


                    Nish’s thoughts on MFC, C++/CLI and .NET (my blog)
                    The Ultimate Grid - The #1 MFC grid out there!

                    R 1 Reply Last reply
                    0
                    • R realJSOP

                      Paul, check his bio - he's been here less than a month and only has two posts. He registered just to post this. ------- sig starts "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001

                      P Offline
                      P Offline
                      Paul Watson
                      wrote on last edited by
                      #20

                      Quoting, well, you... "I don't care who you are, that is funny." regards, Paul Watson Ireland Feed Henry!

                      Shog9 wrote:

                      eh, stop bugging me about it, give it a couple of days, see what happens.

                      1 Reply Last reply
                      0
                      • N Nish Nishant

                        If she's cheating, you'll soon see other signs. Regards, Nish


                        Nish’s thoughts on MFC, C++/CLI and .NET (my blog)
                        The Ultimate Grid - The #1 MFC grid out there!

                        R Offline
                        R Offline
                        realJSOP
                        wrote on last edited by
                        #21

                        Yeah - like little white sex pearls dripping out of the corner of her mouth when he arrives home unexpectedly, or maybe one night over dinner, she'll tell him it hurts when she poops, or that he should probably consider having some tests done down at the AIDS clinic, or wait - he notices a cow on the street that bears a striking resemblance to his "girl friend", and he swears it's not his kid... He should own up - he's really Link2006. He should be banned from CP for abusing the user registration process. ------- sig starts "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001

                        N M P L 4 Replies Last reply
                        0
                        • R realJSOP

                          Yeah - like little white sex pearls dripping out of the corner of her mouth when he arrives home unexpectedly, or maybe one night over dinner, she'll tell him it hurts when she poops, or that he should probably consider having some tests done down at the AIDS clinic, or wait - he notices a cow on the street that bears a striking resemblance to his "girl friend", and he swears it's not his kid... He should own up - he's really Link2006. He should be banned from CP for abusing the user registration process. ------- sig starts "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001

                          N Offline
                          N Offline
                          Nic Rowan
                          wrote on last edited by
                          #22

                          ok THAT wasn't called for X|


                          "Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come." I refuse to spend my life worrying about what I eat. There is no pleasure worth foregoing just for an extra three years in a geriatric ward.


                          R 1 Reply Last reply
                          0
                          • R realJSOP

                            Yeah - like little white sex pearls dripping out of the corner of her mouth when he arrives home unexpectedly, or maybe one night over dinner, she'll tell him it hurts when she poops, or that he should probably consider having some tests done down at the AIDS clinic, or wait - he notices a cow on the street that bears a striking resemblance to his "girl friend", and he swears it's not his kid... He should own up - he's really Link2006. He should be banned from CP for abusing the user registration process. ------- sig starts "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001

                            M Offline
                            M Offline
                            Matt Matt
                            wrote on last edited by
                            #23

                            First of all am not "Link2006" and the topic under discussion is not something too strange, the kindo suspicion happens because i myself am guilty of spending too much time in the office like a lot of others here, be the suspicion true or not, i was only consulting about the phsycological stand point that someone can take under similar circumstances. Anyway you wont understand and i wouldnt care to make understand either but i would like others to read this

                            P 1 Reply Last reply
                            0
                            • M Matt Matt

                              I know I am a pathetic person to write this in the lounge. But i need some suggestions on the best course of action. She is the one who makes me still a part of the "real world", otherwise my whole life revolves around computers. I am talking of my girl friend. Recently I noticed that I find her increasingly in call waiting. I had rung her up unexpectedly at night after our regular conversation for something and found her to be in call waiting. She said its a friend using her phone, and also in few other ocations when i dint expect her to be on phone. Unlike the regular me these incidents somehow keeps disturbing me. Any suggestions on the best course of action? - "Always Trust" OR "Be Skeptical" OR "Look Out For Proof"? Any suggestions? :confused: -- modified at 7:32 Wednesday 10th May, 2006

                              M Offline
                              M Offline
                              Maximilien
                              wrote on last edited by
                              #24

                              maybe she's using a modem ?


                              Maximilien Lincourt Your Head A Splode - Strong Bad

                              1 Reply Last reply
                              0
                              • N Nic Rowan

                                ok THAT wasn't called for X|


                                "Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come." I refuse to spend my life worrying about what I eat. There is no pleasure worth foregoing just for an extra three years in a geriatric ward.


                                R Offline
                                R Offline
                                realJSOP
                                wrote on last edited by
                                #25

                                He wants to abuse CP, I'll abuse him in return, and believe me, my last post was severely throttled down. ------- sig starts "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001

                                C 1 Reply Last reply
                                0
                                • M Matt Matt

                                  I know I am a pathetic person to write this in the lounge. But i need some suggestions on the best course of action. She is the one who makes me still a part of the "real world", otherwise my whole life revolves around computers. I am talking of my girl friend. Recently I noticed that I find her increasingly in call waiting. I had rung her up unexpectedly at night after our regular conversation for something and found her to be in call waiting. She said its a friend using her phone, and also in few other ocations when i dint expect her to be on phone. Unlike the regular me these incidents somehow keeps disturbing me. Any suggestions on the best course of action? - "Always Trust" OR "Be Skeptical" OR "Look Out For Proof"? Any suggestions? :confused: -- modified at 7:32 Wednesday 10th May, 2006

                                  R Offline
                                  R Offline
                                  Red Stateler
                                  wrote on last edited by
                                  #26

                                  There's really only on solution... First, get a black ski mask and stalk like you've never stalked before. Hide out in the bushes outside of her apartment. Be sure to bring a bottle of water and an empty bottle for urination. If that does not yield the results you are looking for, you should cheat on her. Take pictures of the deed, then confront her with them. Get very flustered and say, "YOU DROVE ME TO THIS WITH YOUR CHEATING!!!!". If she actually cheated on you, she'll say something like "WELL I NEEDED TO GET SATISFACTION SOMEHOW!!!". If she didn't cheat on you, she'll probably just cry and break up with you. But ultimately you'll know for sure.

                                  D 1 Reply Last reply
                                  0
                                  • R realJSOP

                                    He wants to abuse CP, I'll abuse him in return, and believe me, my last post was severely throttled down. ------- sig starts "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001

                                    C Offline
                                    C Offline
                                    charlieg
                                    wrote on last edited by
                                    #27

                                    John - you just flat *scare* me sometimes :) I think you should run for President. Charlie Gilley Will program for food... Whoever said children were cheaper by the dozen... lied. My son's PDA is an M249 SAW.

                                    1 Reply Last reply
                                    0
                                    • M Matt Matt

                                      I know I am a pathetic person to write this in the lounge. But i need some suggestions on the best course of action. She is the one who makes me still a part of the "real world", otherwise my whole life revolves around computers. I am talking of my girl friend. Recently I noticed that I find her increasingly in call waiting. I had rung her up unexpectedly at night after our regular conversation for something and found her to be in call waiting. She said its a friend using her phone, and also in few other ocations when i dint expect her to be on phone. Unlike the regular me these incidents somehow keeps disturbing me. Any suggestions on the best course of action? - "Always Trust" OR "Be Skeptical" OR "Look Out For Proof"? Any suggestions? :confused: -- modified at 7:32 Wednesday 10th May, 2006

                                      E Offline
                                      E Offline
                                      Eytukan
                                      wrote on last edited by
                                      #28

                                      That's why I keep living on the other end. Now my Girl friend keeps asking me, "who was on the call".. I feel better with this.


                                      --[V]--

                                      [My Current Status]

                                      M 1 Reply Last reply
                                      0
                                      • E Eytukan

                                        That's why I keep living on the other end. Now my Girl friend keeps asking me, "who was on the call".. I feel better with this.


                                        --[V]--

                                        [My Current Status]

                                        M Offline
                                        M Offline
                                        Maxwell Chen
                                        wrote on last edited by
                                        #29

                                        VuNic wrote:

                                        Now my Girl friend keeps asking me, "who was on the call"..

                                        :laugh:


                                        Maxwell Chen

                                        E 1 Reply Last reply
                                        0
                                        • R R Giskard Reventlov

                                          You're being paranoid. home
                                          bookmarks You can ignore relatives but the neighbours live next door

                                          J Offline
                                          J Offline
                                          James R Twine
                                          wrote on last edited by
                                          #30

                                          digital man wrote:

                                          You're being paranoid.

                                          Being paranoid does not automatically that you are wrong, though.  Some people are paranoid because others really are after them. :)    Peace! -=- James


                                          If you think it costs a lot to do it right, just wait until you find out how much it costs to do it wrong!
                                          Avoid driving a vehicle taller than you and remember that Professional Driver on Closed Course does not mean your Dumb Ass on a Public Road!
                                          DeleteFXPFiles & CheckFavorites (Please rate this post!)

                                          1 Reply Last reply
                                          0
                                          Reply
                                          • Reply as topic
                                          Log in to reply
                                          • Oldest to Newest
                                          • Newest to Oldest
                                          • Most Votes


                                          • Login

                                          • Don't have an account? Register

                                          • Login or register to search.
                                          • First post
                                            Last post
                                          0
                                          • Categories
                                          • Recent
                                          • Tags
                                          • Popular
                                          • World
                                          • Users
                                          • Groups