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Is she cheating on me? ...Probably No...

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  • P Paul Watson

    First off you are not pathetic. This kind of thing happens to many of us and you would have to be a strange human not to worry or want to seek help from friends. Second, ask her. You have to talk to her man. You should be comfortable talking to a person you call your girlfriend. Preferably not by text or email, see her face to face :) regards, Paul Watson Ireland Feed Henry!

    Shog9 wrote:

    eh, stop bugging me about it, give it a couple of days, see what happens.

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    Paul, check his bio - he's been here less than a month and only has two posts. He registered just to post this. ------- sig starts "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001

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      I know I am a pathetic person to write this in the lounge. But i need some suggestions on the best course of action. She is the one who makes me still a part of the "real world", otherwise my whole life revolves around computers. I am talking of my girl friend. Recently I noticed that I find her increasingly in call waiting. I had rung her up unexpectedly at night after our regular conversation for something and found her to be in call waiting. She said its a friend using her phone, and also in few other ocations when i dint expect her to be on phone. Unlike the regular me these incidents somehow keeps disturbing me. Any suggestions on the best course of action? - "Always Trust" OR "Be Skeptical" OR "Look Out For Proof"? Any suggestions? :confused: -- modified at 7:32 Wednesday 10th May, 2006

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      Thats not what i am trying not to be "paranoid". Exactly why i took it to the lounge. I wanted to calmly think of best ways to tackle it rationally if a problem exists. This is very insignificant but if something bigger comes up sometime in the future rather than it giving me surprise, i wanna think of phsychological approach i can take -- modified at 8:39 Wednesday 10th May, 2006

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        You registered on codeproject just to start this thread? You're as pathetic as your gay lover - Link2006. "Little sister" rule be damned, you're nothin' but a f*ckin' loser troll... ------- sig starts "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001

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        I was expecting this to come from someone. just dint wanna mix up my technical discussions with the kind. sorry. You guys are smart enough to put 1 and 1 together and figure out, just let me tell u its not worth it -- modified at 8:38 Wednesday 10th May, 2006

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          Paul, check his bio - he's been here less than a month and only has two posts. He registered just to post this. ------- sig starts "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001

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          Nish Nishant
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          John Simmons / outlaw programmer wrote:

          Paul, check his bio - he's been here less than a month and only has two posts. He registered just to post this.

          He's probably a regular member who created a new ID to post this. Regards, Nish


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          • M Matt Matt

            I know I am a pathetic person to write this in the lounge. But i need some suggestions on the best course of action. She is the one who makes me still a part of the "real world", otherwise my whole life revolves around computers. I am talking of my girl friend. Recently I noticed that I find her increasingly in call waiting. I had rung her up unexpectedly at night after our regular conversation for something and found her to be in call waiting. She said its a friend using her phone, and also in few other ocations when i dint expect her to be on phone. Unlike the regular me these incidents somehow keeps disturbing me. Any suggestions on the best course of action? - "Always Trust" OR "Be Skeptical" OR "Look Out For Proof"? Any suggestions? :confused: -- modified at 7:32 Wednesday 10th May, 2006

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            Nish Nishant
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            If she's cheating, you'll soon see other signs. Regards, Nish


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              Paul, check his bio - he's been here less than a month and only has two posts. He registered just to post this. ------- sig starts "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001

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              Quoting, well, you... "I don't care who you are, that is funny." regards, Paul Watson Ireland Feed Henry!

              Shog9 wrote:

              eh, stop bugging me about it, give it a couple of days, see what happens.

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                If she's cheating, you'll soon see other signs. Regards, Nish


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                Yeah - like little white sex pearls dripping out of the corner of her mouth when he arrives home unexpectedly, or maybe one night over dinner, she'll tell him it hurts when she poops, or that he should probably consider having some tests done down at the AIDS clinic, or wait - he notices a cow on the street that bears a striking resemblance to his "girl friend", and he swears it's not his kid... He should own up - he's really Link2006. He should be banned from CP for abusing the user registration process. ------- sig starts "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001

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                  Yeah - like little white sex pearls dripping out of the corner of her mouth when he arrives home unexpectedly, or maybe one night over dinner, she'll tell him it hurts when she poops, or that he should probably consider having some tests done down at the AIDS clinic, or wait - he notices a cow on the street that bears a striking resemblance to his "girl friend", and he swears it's not his kid... He should own up - he's really Link2006. He should be banned from CP for abusing the user registration process. ------- sig starts "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001

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                  ok THAT wasn't called for X|


                  "Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come." I refuse to spend my life worrying about what I eat. There is no pleasure worth foregoing just for an extra three years in a geriatric ward.


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                    Yeah - like little white sex pearls dripping out of the corner of her mouth when he arrives home unexpectedly, or maybe one night over dinner, she'll tell him it hurts when she poops, or that he should probably consider having some tests done down at the AIDS clinic, or wait - he notices a cow on the street that bears a striking resemblance to his "girl friend", and he swears it's not his kid... He should own up - he's really Link2006. He should be banned from CP for abusing the user registration process. ------- sig starts "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001

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                    First of all am not "Link2006" and the topic under discussion is not something too strange, the kindo suspicion happens because i myself am guilty of spending too much time in the office like a lot of others here, be the suspicion true or not, i was only consulting about the phsycological stand point that someone can take under similar circumstances. Anyway you wont understand and i wouldnt care to make understand either but i would like others to read this

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                    • M Matt Matt

                      I know I am a pathetic person to write this in the lounge. But i need some suggestions on the best course of action. She is the one who makes me still a part of the "real world", otherwise my whole life revolves around computers. I am talking of my girl friend. Recently I noticed that I find her increasingly in call waiting. I had rung her up unexpectedly at night after our regular conversation for something and found her to be in call waiting. She said its a friend using her phone, and also in few other ocations when i dint expect her to be on phone. Unlike the regular me these incidents somehow keeps disturbing me. Any suggestions on the best course of action? - "Always Trust" OR "Be Skeptical" OR "Look Out For Proof"? Any suggestions? :confused: -- modified at 7:32 Wednesday 10th May, 2006

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                      maybe she's using a modem ?


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                      • N Nic Rowan

                        ok THAT wasn't called for X|


                        "Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come." I refuse to spend my life worrying about what I eat. There is no pleasure worth foregoing just for an extra three years in a geriatric ward.


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                        He wants to abuse CP, I'll abuse him in return, and believe me, my last post was severely throttled down. ------- sig starts "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001

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                        • M Matt Matt

                          I know I am a pathetic person to write this in the lounge. But i need some suggestions on the best course of action. She is the one who makes me still a part of the "real world", otherwise my whole life revolves around computers. I am talking of my girl friend. Recently I noticed that I find her increasingly in call waiting. I had rung her up unexpectedly at night after our regular conversation for something and found her to be in call waiting. She said its a friend using her phone, and also in few other ocations when i dint expect her to be on phone. Unlike the regular me these incidents somehow keeps disturbing me. Any suggestions on the best course of action? - "Always Trust" OR "Be Skeptical" OR "Look Out For Proof"? Any suggestions? :confused: -- modified at 7:32 Wednesday 10th May, 2006

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                          There's really only on solution... First, get a black ski mask and stalk like you've never stalked before. Hide out in the bushes outside of her apartment. Be sure to bring a bottle of water and an empty bottle for urination. If that does not yield the results you are looking for, you should cheat on her. Take pictures of the deed, then confront her with them. Get very flustered and say, "YOU DROVE ME TO THIS WITH YOUR CHEATING!!!!". If she actually cheated on you, she'll say something like "WELL I NEEDED TO GET SATISFACTION SOMEHOW!!!". If she didn't cheat on you, she'll probably just cry and break up with you. But ultimately you'll know for sure.

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                            He wants to abuse CP, I'll abuse him in return, and believe me, my last post was severely throttled down. ------- sig starts "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001

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                            John - you just flat *scare* me sometimes :) I think you should run for President. Charlie Gilley Will program for food... Whoever said children were cheaper by the dozen... lied. My son's PDA is an M249 SAW.

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                            • M Matt Matt

                              I know I am a pathetic person to write this in the lounge. But i need some suggestions on the best course of action. She is the one who makes me still a part of the "real world", otherwise my whole life revolves around computers. I am talking of my girl friend. Recently I noticed that I find her increasingly in call waiting. I had rung her up unexpectedly at night after our regular conversation for something and found her to be in call waiting. She said its a friend using her phone, and also in few other ocations when i dint expect her to be on phone. Unlike the regular me these incidents somehow keeps disturbing me. Any suggestions on the best course of action? - "Always Trust" OR "Be Skeptical" OR "Look Out For Proof"? Any suggestions? :confused: -- modified at 7:32 Wednesday 10th May, 2006

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                              That's why I keep living on the other end. Now my Girl friend keeps asking me, "who was on the call".. I feel better with this.


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                                That's why I keep living on the other end. Now my Girl friend keeps asking me, "who was on the call".. I feel better with this.


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                                VuNic wrote:

                                Now my Girl friend keeps asking me, "who was on the call"..

                                :laugh:


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                                  digital man wrote:

                                  You're being paranoid.

                                  Being paranoid does not automatically that you are wrong, though.  Some people are paranoid because others really are after them. :)    Peace! -=- James


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                                    VuNic wrote:

                                    Now my Girl friend keeps asking me, "who was on the call"..

                                    :laugh:


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                                    :-D


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                                    • R Red Stateler

                                      There's really only on solution... First, get a black ski mask and stalk like you've never stalked before. Hide out in the bushes outside of her apartment. Be sure to bring a bottle of water and an empty bottle for urination. If that does not yield the results you are looking for, you should cheat on her. Take pictures of the deed, then confront her with them. Get very flustered and say, "YOU DROVE ME TO THIS WITH YOUR CHEATING!!!!". If she actually cheated on you, she'll say something like "WELL I NEEDED TO GET SATISFACTION SOMEHOW!!!". If she didn't cheat on you, she'll probably just cry and break up with you. But ultimately you'll know for sure.

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                                      Your plan is too complicated, maybe he could just take one dual purpose bottle?

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                                      • P Paul Watson

                                        First off you are not pathetic. This kind of thing happens to many of us and you would have to be a strange human not to worry or want to seek help from friends. Second, ask her. You have to talk to her man. You should be comfortable talking to a person you call your girlfriend. Preferably not by text or email, see her face to face :) regards, Paul Watson Ireland Feed Henry!

                                        Shog9 wrote:

                                        eh, stop bugging me about it, give it a couple of days, see what happens.

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                                        Paul Watson wrote:

                                        Second, ask her.

                                        So you're saying that chicks - unlike normal people - like being asked to explain where they were and what they were doing at random intervals? Fascinating! :rolleyes: Look, i'm sorry, but the guy is either paranoid or not telling us something. Calling a woman and finding that she's already on another line is as natural as calling a programmer and hearing him draw pointless analogies. ;)

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                                          Paul Watson wrote:

                                          Second, ask her.

                                          So you're saying that chicks - unlike normal people - like being asked to explain where they were and what they were doing at random intervals? Fascinating! :rolleyes: Look, i'm sorry, but the guy is either paranoid or not telling us something. Calling a woman and finding that she's already on another line is as natural as calling a programmer and hearing him draw pointless analogies. ;)

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                                          Paul Watson
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                                          :rolleyes: Oh don't be so melodramatic young man. It just sounds like he needs to try actually talking to his brocolli-farmer rather than worrying to death in his cola-stained, pizza-marked dark room. You do discuss worries you have with the most important person in your life. Right? regards, Paul Watson Ireland Feed Henry!

                                          Shog9 wrote:

                                          eh, stop bugging me about it, give it a couple of days, see what happens.

                                          -- modified at 11:38 Wednesday 10th May, 2006

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