Is she cheating on me? ...Probably No...
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I know I am a pathetic person to write this in the lounge. But i need some suggestions on the best course of action. She is the one who makes me still a part of the "real world", otherwise my whole life revolves around computers. I am talking of my girl friend. Recently I noticed that I find her increasingly in call waiting. I had rung her up unexpectedly at night after our regular conversation for something and found her to be in call waiting. She said its a friend using her phone, and also in few other ocations when i dint expect her to be on phone. Unlike the regular me these incidents somehow keeps disturbing me. Any suggestions on the best course of action? - "Always Trust" OR "Be Skeptical" OR "Look Out For Proof"? Any suggestions? :confused: -- modified at 7:32 Wednesday 10th May, 2006
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ok THAT wasn't called for X|
"Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come." I refuse to spend my life worrying about what I eat. There is no pleasure worth foregoing just for an extra three years in a geriatric ward.
He wants to abuse CP, I'll abuse him in return, and believe me, my last post was severely throttled down. ------- sig starts "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001
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I know I am a pathetic person to write this in the lounge. But i need some suggestions on the best course of action. She is the one who makes me still a part of the "real world", otherwise my whole life revolves around computers. I am talking of my girl friend. Recently I noticed that I find her increasingly in call waiting. I had rung her up unexpectedly at night after our regular conversation for something and found her to be in call waiting. She said its a friend using her phone, and also in few other ocations when i dint expect her to be on phone. Unlike the regular me these incidents somehow keeps disturbing me. Any suggestions on the best course of action? - "Always Trust" OR "Be Skeptical" OR "Look Out For Proof"? Any suggestions? :confused: -- modified at 7:32 Wednesday 10th May, 2006
There's really only on solution... First, get a black ski mask and stalk like you've never stalked before. Hide out in the bushes outside of her apartment. Be sure to bring a bottle of water and an empty bottle for urination. If that does not yield the results you are looking for, you should cheat on her. Take pictures of the deed, then confront her with them. Get very flustered and say, "YOU DROVE ME TO THIS WITH YOUR CHEATING!!!!". If she actually cheated on you, she'll say something like "WELL I NEEDED TO GET SATISFACTION SOMEHOW!!!". If she didn't cheat on you, she'll probably just cry and break up with you. But ultimately you'll know for sure.
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He wants to abuse CP, I'll abuse him in return, and believe me, my last post was severely throttled down. ------- sig starts "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001
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I know I am a pathetic person to write this in the lounge. But i need some suggestions on the best course of action. She is the one who makes me still a part of the "real world", otherwise my whole life revolves around computers. I am talking of my girl friend. Recently I noticed that I find her increasingly in call waiting. I had rung her up unexpectedly at night after our regular conversation for something and found her to be in call waiting. She said its a friend using her phone, and also in few other ocations when i dint expect her to be on phone. Unlike the regular me these incidents somehow keeps disturbing me. Any suggestions on the best course of action? - "Always Trust" OR "Be Skeptical" OR "Look Out For Proof"? Any suggestions? :confused: -- modified at 7:32 Wednesday 10th May, 2006
That's why I keep living on the other end. Now my Girl friend keeps asking me, "who was on the call".. I feel better with this.
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That's why I keep living on the other end. Now my Girl friend keeps asking me, "who was on the call".. I feel better with this.
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VuNic wrote:
Now my Girl friend keeps asking me, "who was on the call"..
:laugh:
Maxwell Chen
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You're being paranoid.
Being paranoid does not automatically that you are wrong, though. Some people are paranoid because others really are after them. :) Peace! -=- James
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VuNic wrote:
Now my Girl friend keeps asking me, "who was on the call"..
:laugh:
Maxwell Chen
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There's really only on solution... First, get a black ski mask and stalk like you've never stalked before. Hide out in the bushes outside of her apartment. Be sure to bring a bottle of water and an empty bottle for urination. If that does not yield the results you are looking for, you should cheat on her. Take pictures of the deed, then confront her with them. Get very flustered and say, "YOU DROVE ME TO THIS WITH YOUR CHEATING!!!!". If she actually cheated on you, she'll say something like "WELL I NEEDED TO GET SATISFACTION SOMEHOW!!!". If she didn't cheat on you, she'll probably just cry and break up with you. But ultimately you'll know for sure.
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First off you are not pathetic. This kind of thing happens to many of us and you would have to be a strange human not to worry or want to seek help from friends. Second, ask her. You have to talk to her man. You should be comfortable talking to a person you call your girlfriend. Preferably not by text or email, see her face to face :) regards, Paul Watson Ireland Feed Henry!
eh, stop bugging me about it, give it a couple of days, see what happens.
Paul Watson wrote:
Second, ask her.
So you're saying that chicks - unlike normal people - like being asked to explain where they were and what they were doing at random intervals? Fascinating! :rolleyes: Look, i'm sorry, but the guy is either paranoid or not telling us something. Calling a woman and finding that she's already on another line is as natural as calling a programmer and hearing him draw pointless analogies. ;)
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Paul Watson wrote:
Second, ask her.
So you're saying that chicks - unlike normal people - like being asked to explain where they were and what they were doing at random intervals? Fascinating! :rolleyes: Look, i'm sorry, but the guy is either paranoid or not telling us something. Calling a woman and finding that she's already on another line is as natural as calling a programmer and hearing him draw pointless analogies. ;)
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:rolleyes: Oh don't be so melodramatic young man. It just sounds like he needs to try actually talking to his brocolli-farmer rather than worrying to death in his cola-stained, pizza-marked dark room. You do discuss worries you have with the most important person in your life. Right? regards, Paul Watson Ireland Feed Henry!
eh, stop bugging me about it, give it a couple of days, see what happens.
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Dion wrote:
Your plan is too complicated, maybe he could just take one dual purpose bottle?
Only because the idiot might confuuse the two bottles once they both contain fluid. ------- sig starts "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001
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:rolleyes: Oh don't be so melodramatic young man. It just sounds like he needs to try actually talking to his brocolli-farmer rather than worrying to death in his cola-stained, pizza-marked dark room. You do discuss worries you have with the most important person in your life. Right? regards, Paul Watson Ireland Feed Henry!
eh, stop bugging me about it, give it a couple of days, see what happens.
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Paul Watson wrote:
You do discuss worries you have with the most important person in your life. Right?
Of course, Paul. But, i don't worry about phone calls, and i'd be plenty annoyed if she started to. There'd have to be something else... And i'd guess Matt isn't telling us what it is.
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I know I am a pathetic person to write this in the lounge. But i need some suggestions on the best course of action. She is the one who makes me still a part of the "real world", otherwise my whole life revolves around computers. I am talking of my girl friend. Recently I noticed that I find her increasingly in call waiting. I had rung her up unexpectedly at night after our regular conversation for something and found her to be in call waiting. She said its a friend using her phone, and also in few other ocations when i dint expect her to be on phone. Unlike the regular me these incidents somehow keeps disturbing me. Any suggestions on the best course of action? - "Always Trust" OR "Be Skeptical" OR "Look Out For Proof"? Any suggestions? :confused: -- modified at 7:32 Wednesday 10th May, 2006
If she's lost interest in you there's not a thing you can do. It's all chemistry. Enjoy the ride while it lasts and for some of us it lasts forever (once we finally find the right person).
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Matt@Matt wrote:
"Always Trust" OR "Be Skeptical" OR "Look Out For Proof"? Any suggestions?
And why not simply speak ? If there is a problem, this is the best to solve it (without knowing what is the problem, it is difficult to solve it). And if there is nothing, then this will clear your doubts. Of course, there is also the way of abording the conversation :rolleyes:. Don't come and ask sudenly: "What's the problem with you ?". I don't think this will be appreciated ;P Maybe you are simply a little bit paranoid ;)
Cedric Moonen wrote:
And why not simply speak ?
Because people can lie. Jeremy Falcon
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You registered on codeproject just to start this thread? You're as pathetic as your gay lover - Link2006. "Little sister" rule be damned, you're nothin' but a f*ckin' loser troll... ------- sig starts "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001
John Simmons / outlaw programmer wrote:
You're as pathetic as your gay lover - Link2006.
:laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh: It's amazing to think how many people are so afriad over nothing. This is CP for crying out loud, nobody is going to put a gun to his face for asking a question. Jeremy Falcon
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I know I am a pathetic person to write this in the lounge. But i need some suggestions on the best course of action. She is the one who makes me still a part of the "real world", otherwise my whole life revolves around computers. I am talking of my girl friend. Recently I noticed that I find her increasingly in call waiting. I had rung her up unexpectedly at night after our regular conversation for something and found her to be in call waiting. She said its a friend using her phone, and also in few other ocations when i dint expect her to be on phone. Unlike the regular me these incidents somehow keeps disturbing me. Any suggestions on the best course of action? - "Always Trust" OR "Be Skeptical" OR "Look Out For Proof"? Any suggestions? :confused: -- modified at 7:32 Wednesday 10th May, 2006
Matt@Matt wrote:
I know I am a pathetic person to write this in the lounge.
Ok, it's obvious you're insecure. I'm willing to bet this is the reason your worried about her cheating. Maybe she's talking to some other guy on the phone, but without wire tapping you'll never know for sure. Now, knowledge is your friend, not stalking. I would suggest this book for some nice pointers. It's an easy read. Clickety[^] Use the techniques in that book. Also, if you want to keep her, start working on your insecurities. Really, women want men, and men are the ones they go to when they whine, not the other way around. I'm not calling you a whiner, but the point is, you gotta be the man here. Jeremy Falcon
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:rolleyes: Oh don't be so melodramatic young man. It just sounds like he needs to try actually talking to his brocolli-farmer rather than worrying to death in his cola-stained, pizza-marked dark room. You do discuss worries you have with the most important person in your life. Right? regards, Paul Watson Ireland Feed Henry!
eh, stop bugging me about it, give it a couple of days, see what happens.
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Paul Watson wrote:
brocolli-farmer
:omg: what's that??
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I know I am a pathetic person to write this in the lounge. But i need some suggestions on the best course of action. She is the one who makes me still a part of the "real world", otherwise my whole life revolves around computers. I am talking of my girl friend. Recently I noticed that I find her increasingly in call waiting. I had rung her up unexpectedly at night after our regular conversation for something and found her to be in call waiting. She said its a friend using her phone, and also in few other ocations when i dint expect her to be on phone. Unlike the regular me these incidents somehow keeps disturbing me. Any suggestions on the best course of action? - "Always Trust" OR "Be Skeptical" OR "Look Out For Proof"? Any suggestions? :confused: -- modified at 7:32 Wednesday 10th May, 2006
Get married, have a daughter, wait twelve years and you'll be amazed at how much time a female can spend on the phone. Now if you had written that your girl friend always answered right away, THAT would be a mystery. (Periodically, I will talk a long time on the phone with my brothers or a few close friends, but my wife makes FAR more phone calls than I do and my oldest daughter; well, let's just say she runs out the batteries on cordless and cell phones on a consistant basis.) Anyone who thinks he has a better idea of what's good for people than people do is a swine. - P.J. O'Rourke
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What if he needs to pee before he finishes his water?