Our Litigious Society
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David Wulff wrote:
Some people should not be licensed to breed.
Hitler thought so too. Nunc est bibendum
Hitler thought a lot of things. Congratulations on dragging Godwin's law in so quickly though.
Ðavid Wulff Die Freiheit spielt auf allen Geigen (video)
"If some individuals commit an act that is contrary to what their religion tells them to do, then the religion isn't violent... the individuals are." - espeir. -
Rob Graham wrote:
Appearently guns were ok anywhere else in the establishment...
Guns could fall out while you are dancing and accidently shoot someone. Shootings anywhere else in the establishment are deliberate.
And you are just as likely to trip on one and fall to your death from a broken neck. I've seen better runs in my shorts! - Patches O'Houlihan
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Jeremy Falcon wrote:
I don't think makes someone a bad person, anti-social maybe but not neccasirly bad.
Well, that would make me anti social, b/c if my wife left me, and I wanted to start dating, I'd probably start online. Hell, I live online. My point tho is that when my daughter is 14, I will be VERY closed minded about stuff like this, I'd tend to fear the worst rather than let her take risks I would take myself. She was *14*, that's really my core point here.
Jeremy Falcon wrote:
It's digusting IMO.
I agree, although the word I would use is 'sad'. It's sad that they can't see that they didn't take sensible precautions themselves, and that they think a pile of money will help them get through this. It won't, it will increase their tendency to blame others and feel sorry for themselveS ( not that it's not tragic, but it's also not the fault of the web site ). Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog
Christian Graus wrote:
My point tho is that when my daughter is 14, I will be VERY closed minded about stuff like this, I'd tend to fear the worst rather than let her take risks I would take myself.
And for all the worrying and closed mindedness, you don't have 100% control over your daughter 24 hours a day. And if you did try to control her 24 hours a day, every day until she's an adult, then the CPS, the ACLU and it's cronies, etc would accuse you of child abuse. The best you can hope for is to teach your child right from wrong by example and then hope that the lessons take root and bear fruit. My sister has two teenaged daughters who were taught by example from birth and they STILL do very stupid things (like drinking and driving) so really all you have is hope that your kids will survive unscathed into adulthood, and even then you'll still worry until the day you die. BTW, I have 21 year old daughter who travels the world and is currently enaged to an Egyptian muslim who lives in Cairo. Trust me when I say that I have reservations about this, mostly because I'm her father, and the rest because she's going to live in Cairo with him when they get married in March, which for the more radical minded makes her a target regardless of who she's married to, so I really do feel your pain and fear. Mike Poz
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Jeremy Falcon wrote:
I don't think makes someone a bad person, anti-social maybe but not neccasirly bad.
Well, that would make me anti social, b/c if my wife left me, and I wanted to start dating, I'd probably start online. Hell, I live online. My point tho is that when my daughter is 14, I will be VERY closed minded about stuff like this, I'd tend to fear the worst rather than let her take risks I would take myself. She was *14*, that's really my core point here.
Jeremy Falcon wrote:
It's digusting IMO.
I agree, although the word I would use is 'sad'. It's sad that they can't see that they didn't take sensible precautions themselves, and that they think a pile of money will help them get through this. It won't, it will increase their tendency to blame others and feel sorry for themselveS ( not that it's not tragic, but it's also not the fault of the web site ). Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog
Christian Graus wrote:
My point tho is that when my daughter is 14, I will be VERY closed minded about stuff like this, I'd tend to fear the worst rather than let her take risks I would take myself.
And for all the worrying and closed mindedness, you don't have 100% control over your daughter 24 hours a day. And if you did try to control her 24 hours a day, every day until she's an adult, then the CPS, the ACLU and it's cronies, etc would accuse you of child abuse. The best you can hope for is to teach your child right from wrong by example and then hope that the lessons take root and bear fruit. My sister has two teenaged daughters who were taught by example from birth and they STILL do very stupid things (like drinking and driving) so really all you have is hope that your kids will survive unscathed into adulthood, and even then you'll still worry until the day you die. BTW, I have 21 year old daughter who travels the world and is currently enaged to an Egyptian muslim who lives in Cairo. Trust me when I say that I have reservations about this, mostly because I'm her father, and the rest because she's going to live in Cairo with him when they get married in March, which for the more radical minded makes her a target regardless of who she's married to. Mike Poz
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Mike Mullikin wrote:
Nobody feels responsible for themselves.
You say it's not a conservative thing, but isn't that the definition of socialism?
No, socialism means someone else thinks he has to make all decisions for you.
Some of us walk the memory lane, others plummet into a rabbit hole
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Ray Cassick wrote:
Yeah, no one wants to take responsibility for thier own actions anymore.
Who is John Galt?
"Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt, 1997
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"...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001A beacon of normality, that A.R. tried to idolize by making everybody else look worse.
Some of us walk the memory lane, others plummet into a rabbit hole
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The most likely culprit in any child sexual abuse case is the stepfather, closely followed by the father, then the rest of the family. Ryan
"Michael Moore and Mel Gibson are the same person, except for a few sit-ups. Moore thought his cheesy political blooper reel was going to tell people how to vote. Mel thought that his little gay SM movie about his imaginary friend was going to help him get to heaven." - Penn Jillette
It takes a thorough understanding of statistics to not misunderstand that simplification.
Some of us walk the memory lane, others plummet into a rabbit hole
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Christian Graus wrote:
My point tho is that when my daughter is 14, I will be VERY closed minded about stuff like this, I'd tend to fear the worst rather than let her take risks I would take myself.
And for all the worrying and closed mindedness, you don't have 100% control over your daughter 24 hours a day. And if you did try to control her 24 hours a day, every day until she's an adult, then the CPS, the ACLU and it's cronies, etc would accuse you of child abuse. The best you can hope for is to teach your child right from wrong by example and then hope that the lessons take root and bear fruit. My sister has two teenaged daughters who were taught by example from birth and they STILL do very stupid things (like drinking and driving) so really all you have is hope that your kids will survive unscathed into adulthood, and even then you'll still worry until the day you die. BTW, I have 21 year old daughter who travels the world and is currently enaged to an Egyptian muslim who lives in Cairo. Trust me when I say that I have reservations about this, mostly because I'm her father, and the rest because she's going to live in Cairo with him when they get married in March, which for the more radical minded makes her a target regardless of who she's married to, so I really do feel your pain and fear. Mike Poz
Mike Poz wrote:
every day until she's an adult, then the CPS, the ACLU and it's cronies, etc would accuse you of child abuse.
14 is not an adult. If anyone wants to tell me that I can't tell my daughter who she can date at 14, they can well and truly get stuffed.
Mike Poz wrote:
The best you can hope for is to teach your child right from wrong by example and then hope that the lessons take root and bear fruit.
Yes, I agree that teaching her to think for herself is what matters, not outright control. But at 14, I would still take part in decisions like who she talks to online and certainly whose car she gets into.
Mike Poz wrote:
they STILL do very stupid things (like drinking and driving)
I'm sure she will do stupid things, and letting her do some is part of helping her to grow into an adult. But not when it could endanger her life. Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog
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It's also about risk tolerance. Not everyone has a high one and they want the (usually fake) protection health insurance provides them. Jeremy Falcon
I'll never understand people who are of the opinion that universal health care isn't desirable for a society. You say that, “...the (usually fake) protection health insurance provides...”; now you’re implying that health insurance doesn’t even work. This seems to be an argument on my side: that the U.S. health care system is “sick”. Steve
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Ever think that maybe those people don't want health insurance? I've considered not getting it myself since I haven't seen a doctor or taken prescription medicine in over a decade. The only reason I get it is because it's cheap and tax-deductible. Still, over the past decade I've wasted about $10,000 on it. Compounded with stock market returns, that's $16,000. Since bypass surgery costs about $25,000 (according to Google), just the money I wasted on insurance almost covers the cost of that operation...and I'm nowhere close to being old enough to need it. It would probably be smarter if I just invested the money. So not only is your argument flawed, but the whole notion of the necessity of compulsory health care is flawed as well.
espeir wrote:
Ever think that maybe those people don't want health insurance?
I know they'll almost certainly want their heart fixed if it develops a problem. It's no good telling me that health insurance is too expensive: if I was in charge health care would be free and universally accessible (not for cosmetic surgery and such). Steve
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Hitler thought a lot of things. Congratulations on dragging Godwin's law in so quickly though.
Ðavid Wulff Die Freiheit spielt auf allen Geigen (video)
"If some individuals commit an act that is contrary to what their religion tells them to do, then the religion isn't violent... the individuals are." - espeir.
