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Do you give her the ring when you propose?

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  • R Ryan Binns

    I didn't give one when I proposed. We both went to a few shops afterwards and found one we both really liked. It turned out that I picked it anyway, but she certainly appreciated having some say in the decision.

    Ryan

    "Punctuality is only a virtue for those who aren't smart enough to think of good excuses for being late" John Nichol "Point Of Impact"

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    devvvy
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    That's practical advise... Norman Fung

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    • D devvvy

      Do you give her the ring when you propose? Or when you actually get married? How is this done? What do you give when you propose? Just flowers? never done this before ... :doh: Norman Fung

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      Abu Mami
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      Before the engagement - Spend thousands of dollars on restaurants, movies, theater, and gifts. For the engagement - Spend thousands of dollars on an engagement ring. (Note, the his and hers matching wedding bands are simple and don't cost much) After the engagement - Continue spending thousands of dollars on restaurants, movies, theater, and gifts. After the wedding - Hand your paycheck over to your little girl. (For me, this has been going on for over 28 years) In some cases there's a disengagement (divorce) - Someone else will have to fill in the details on this one, but I heard it also involves thousands of dollars and several pints of blood.

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      • D devvvy

        Do you give her the ring when you propose? Or when you actually get married? How is this done? What do you give when you propose? Just flowers? never done this before ... :doh: Norman Fung

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        pop the question with a parallel thread that pops the ring in the same time. You give 2 rings to a woman in your life... engaging and marrying. :-D I've found a living worth working for, but I haven't found work worth living for. :beer:
        :jig:

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        • P Paddy Boyd

          I do like the diversity of the messages posted in here. Big geeky self help group :-D -- modified at 5:00 Friday 30th June, 2006 Oh, and hopefully congratulations... ;)

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          Thanks :) Norman Fung

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          • R Ryan Binns

            I didn't give one when I proposed. We both went to a few shops afterwards and found one we both really liked. It turned out that I picked it anyway, but she certainly appreciated having some say in the decision.

            Ryan

            "Punctuality is only a virtue for those who aren't smart enough to think of good excuses for being late" John Nichol "Point Of Impact"

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            Paddy Boyd
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            Ryan Binns wrote:

            I didn't give one when I proposed.

            :laugh::-O

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            • D devvvy

              Do you give her the ring when you propose? Or when you actually get married? How is this done? What do you give when you propose? Just flowers? never done this before ... :doh: Norman Fung

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              Charles Keepax
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              Personally, I took her best friend with me to help me choose the engagement ring. Then obviously she chose her own wedding ring.

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              • P Paddy Boyd

                Ryan Binns wrote:

                I didn't give one when I proposed.

                :laugh::-O

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                Ryan Binns
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                paddyboyd wrote:

                :laugh::-O

                :confused:

                Ryan

                "Punctuality is only a virtue for those who aren't smart enough to think of good excuses for being late" John Nichol "Point Of Impact"

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                • R Ryan Binns

                  paddyboyd wrote:

                  :laugh::-O

                  :confused:

                  Ryan

                  "Punctuality is only a virtue for those who aren't smart enough to think of good excuses for being late" John Nichol "Point Of Impact"

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                  Paddy Boyd
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                  Might be a slight cultural difference here... Where's the innuendo smiley face..??

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                    pop the question with a parallel thread that pops the ring in the same time. You give 2 rings to a woman in your life... engaging and marrying. :-D I've found a living worth working for, but I haven't found work worth living for. :beer:
                    :jig:

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                    Personally though, I have no love for rocks and stones... and never figured out why people spend so much money... on a piece of rock. Norman Fung

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                    • P Paddy Boyd

                      Might be a slight cultural difference here... Where's the innuendo smiley face..??

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                      Ryan Binns
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                      I got the distinct impression you though I did the wrong thing...

                      Ryan

                      "Punctuality is only a virtue for those who aren't smart enough to think of good excuses for being late" John Nichol "Point Of Impact"

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                      • J Jon Sagara

                        I just bought the stone and gave that to her. She got to pick out the setting that she wanted afterward. So, the way it worked for me was that I bought an engagement set: the ring with the stone in it, and then an additional band to be fused to the engagment ring just prior to the wedding. Anything else you give her in addition to the ring is just gravy. :) Congrats! Jon Sagara When I grow up, I'm changing my name to Joe Kickass! My Site | My Blog | My Articles

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                        Paul Watson
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                        You proposed with a stone? Classy. Try a pebble next time eh ;) regards, Paul Watson Ireland FeedHenry needs you

                        Shog9 wrote:

                        eh, stop bugging me about it, give it a couple of days, see what happens.

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                        • R Ryan Binns

                          I got the distinct impression you though I did the wrong thing...

                          Ryan

                          "Punctuality is only a virtue for those who aren't smart enough to think of good excuses for being late" John Nichol "Point Of Impact"

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                          Paddy Boyd
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                          ah god no. Sounds like a good job to me, just exercising my puerile sense of humour :)

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                          • P Paddy Boyd

                            ah god no. Sounds like a good job to me, just exercising my puerile sense of humour :)

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                            Ryan Binns
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                            paddyboyd wrote:

                            Sounds like a good job to me, just exercising my puerile sense of humour

                            Oh ok. That's alright then :)

                            Ryan

                            "Punctuality is only a virtue for those who aren't smart enough to think of good excuses for being late" John Nichol "Point Of Impact"

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                            • M Monty2

                              norm wrote:

                              why didn't you propose to buy her an x-box instead of the ring?

                              :laugh:


                              **You know you're obsessed with computer graphics when you're outside and you look up at the trees and think, "Wow! That's spectacular resolution!"

                              Only kings, presidents, editors, and people with tapeworms have the right to use the editorial "we."**

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                              Ryan Binns
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                              Monty2 wrote:

                              Only kings, presidents, editors, and people with tapeworms have the right to use the editorial "we."

                              We disagree ;)

                              Ryan

                              "Punctuality is only a virtue for those who aren't smart enough to think of good excuses for being late" John Nichol "Point Of Impact"

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                                Do you give her the ring when you propose? Or when you actually get married? How is this done? What do you give when you propose? Just flowers? never done this before ... :doh: Norman Fung

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                                Chris Meech
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                                I guess I'm old-fashioned. I proposed over the telephone, but I did already have a ring picked out. It must have been the right one, because she is still wearing it to this day, 24 years later. Congrats and hope things go well for you. :) Chris Meech I am Canadian. [heard in a local bar] When no one was looking, every single American woman between the ages of 18 and 32 went out and got a tatoo just above their rumpus. [link[^]]

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                                  Do you give her the ring when you propose? Or when you actually get married? How is this done? What do you give when you propose? Just flowers? never done this before ... :doh: Norman Fung

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                                  Joe Woodbury
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                                  I was a very poor college student when I proposed. Afterward, we purchased a simple, but attractive, combination engagement/wedding ring for her. One condition was that I wouldn't wear a ring--I loathe wearing jewelry of all types. (My wife doesn't like most jewelry either so she understood.) For a wedding ceremony, I suggest the one from Joe Versus the Volcano: Waponi Chief: Do you want to marry him? Patricia: Yes. Waponi Chief: Do you want to marry her? Joe Banks: Yes. Waponi Chief: Good. You're married. Anyone who thinks he has a better idea of what's good for people than people do is a swine. - P.J. O'Rourke

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