Boy arrested for opening christmas gift early
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Stupid mother, Stupid Policemen. It's sad that such a small familial incident goes public, me think the police should have simply taken 5,10, 15 minutes and talk to the mother and the kid; and that the mother let it go, and not give this kid other presents on christmas day, that will teach him enough.
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Maximilien wrote:
and not give this kid other presents on christmas day
and not give this kid other any presents on christmas day :suss:
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Stupid mother, Stupid Policemen. It's sad that such a small familial incident goes public, me think the police should have simply taken 5,10, 15 minutes and talk to the mother and the kid; and that the mother let it go, and not give this kid other presents on christmas day, that will teach him enough.
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What a b****. She clearly doesn't have a clue what the word 'education' means. Probably the 'disruptiveness' is caused by herself and I really, really doubt it will get better with events like this.
Apparently lack of parenting skills runs in the family. Victim No. 1 is the boy's grandmother so she had to go along with this debacle! :rolleyes:
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That's not very subtle, is it? I reckon he'll find Christmas Day a bit dull without the additional games that he would've got. Being a 12 year old, he'll finish the bundled ones in a matter of days. Christmas Day is also a bit duff if everyone else is opening exciting presents and all you get is a humbug. Bah!
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Stupid mother, Stupid Policemen. It's sad that such a small familial incident goes public, me think the police should have simply taken 5,10, 15 minutes and talk to the mother and the kid; and that the mother let it go, and not give this kid other presents on christmas day, that will teach him enough.
Maximilien Lincourt Your Head A Splode - Strong Bad
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Stupid mother, Stupid Policemen.
She's 27, her boy is 12 and 'disruptive'. Do you need to know more?
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What a b****. She clearly doesn't have a clue what the word 'education' means. Probably the 'disruptiveness' is caused by herself and I really, really doubt it will get better with events like this.
Kids are different, and there is no foolproof "educating kids for Dummies" method. Unless I'd have dealt with this kid, I wouldn't dare to judge the mother. At least over here, single mothers are tough tanks.
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Kids are different, and there is no foolproof "educating kids for Dummies" method. Unless I'd have dealt with this kid, I wouldn't dare to judge the mother. At least over here, single mothers are tough tanks.
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The good thing is that the boy wasn't shoot dead by the policeman during arrestment!! :-O
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Maximilien wrote:
Stupid mother, Stupid Policemen.
She's 27, her boy is 12 and 'disruptive'. Do you need to know more?
dude ! i didn't even noticed that she had him at 15 !:wtf::omg:
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dude ! i didn't even noticed that she had him at 15 !:wtf::omg:
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Refer the Forums Guidelines and ask a friendAnd if he repoduces at the same age the mother would become a grandmother at 30. Geez I'm 32 and I cannot imagine being a grandfather just yet - I still feel a few years away from fatherhood.
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And if he repoduces at the same age the mother would become a grandmother at 30. Geez I'm 32 and I cannot imagine being a grandfather just yet - I still feel a few years away from fatherhood.
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Maximilien wrote:
Stupid mother, Stupid Policemen.
She's 27, her boy is 12 and 'disruptive'. Do you need to know more?
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so you think it's normal that a mother calls the police when her kid opens his present to early? In that case give me life-long imprisonment...
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so you think it's normal that a mother calls the police when her kid opens his present to early?
Where did I say that? No it's not "normal". Are you "normal"? Are your kids?
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My son once knowingly stole some food from a grocery store while my wife and I were shopping. We had suspected that he had done this before, as we found candy and food stuffs in his room following other shopping trips; things we knew we did not purchase ... On this one particular trip, I saw him pocket the food, and walked over to a manager to report him. The manager, being how most grocery store managers are, didn't know what to do with it (because my son was a minor). I wanted the police called, so an officer could "talk with him", but the store manager refused, and just "let it go" ... that was unacceptable to me. SO ... I took my son to the police department that night, and had an officer speak with him about stealing; showed him the back of a police car, and the officer even "wrote down his name" (for effect). My son, now 22, has told me that scared the #%*() out of him, and he's ever once considered stealing anything again. Today, looking back on it, I would never have handled this way ... and frankly, I feel that my actions, while they may have worked, were overkill. Many parents do what they "think" is the "right" thing to do, at the time ... and while we all like to believe we'd act in a mature and logical manner in situations such as this, until you've been there and had it happen to you, it is difficult to say just how you might react. I will never condone what this mother did, since all children sneak and open presents and one point or another, but none of us knows her situation, and being young and most likely not having the best upbringing herself, she did what she "thought" was going to have an effect on her son; since he obviously ignored all her prior "warnings". I would much rather see/hear her do something like this, than her having beaten the child ... My story and two cents on this matter.
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so you think it's normal that a mother calls the police when her kid opens his present to early? In that case give me life-long imprisonment...
I read this article on CNN and it talks about the boy having ADHD (attention deficit hyperactivity disorder). My brother and cousin both have ADD (-H) and unless you have experience dealing with these kind of kids you best not pass judgement on the mother. It is extermely hard to raise children like this and sometimes drastic measures can be helpful. I'm not saying this was right but I will not also jump the gun and say it was wrong. Unless you are part of the situation don't make assumptions about the parenting skills of another person who you've never even met. The true tragedy here is that this story made the news. A semi-personal issue not went national simply because it was an XMAS present that was involved. How very sad.
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I call hoax. At most, the mother and police officer colluded to scare the kid since no crime actually occurred.
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I understand why she had the boy arrested. Mybe sitting the night in jail might change the boys attitude. I do wonder does the mother not realize that she supports the boy and she might have to pay has legal fees for the charge that she filled against him?
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Mybe sitting the night in jail might change the boys attitude.
His attitude will definitely change, but not necessarily for the better.
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My son once knowingly stole some food from a grocery store while my wife and I were shopping. We had suspected that he had done this before, as we found candy and food stuffs in his room following other shopping trips; things we knew we did not purchase ... On this one particular trip, I saw him pocket the food, and walked over to a manager to report him. The manager, being how most grocery store managers are, didn't know what to do with it (because my son was a minor). I wanted the police called, so an officer could "talk with him", but the store manager refused, and just "let it go" ... that was unacceptable to me. SO ... I took my son to the police department that night, and had an officer speak with him about stealing; showed him the back of a police car, and the officer even "wrote down his name" (for effect). My son, now 22, has told me that scared the #%*() out of him, and he's ever once considered stealing anything again. Today, looking back on it, I would never have handled this way ... and frankly, I feel that my actions, while they may have worked, were overkill. Many parents do what they "think" is the "right" thing to do, at the time ... and while we all like to believe we'd act in a mature and logical manner in situations such as this, until you've been there and had it happen to you, it is difficult to say just how you might react. I will never condone what this mother did, since all children sneak and open presents and one point or another, but none of us knows her situation, and being young and most likely not having the best upbringing herself, she did what she "thought" was going to have an effect on her son; since he obviously ignored all her prior "warnings". I would much rather see/hear her do something like this, than her having beaten the child ... My story and two cents on this matter.
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Bad Astronomy |VCF|wxWidgets|WTLWell put.
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