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  • C Chris Maunder

    It's a long story...

    cheers, Chris Maunder

    CodeProject.com : C++ MVP

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    Vikram A Punathambekar
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    * comes around and sits near fire waiting for Maunder to begin story *

    Cheers, Vikram.


    The cold will freeze our stares We won't care...

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    • J Judah Gabriel Himango

      Christian Graus wrote:

      at the MVP summit, I was happy to get up and play guitar/sing a couple of songs (talk dirty to me and Panama, FWIW )

      Cool.

      Christian Graus wrote:

      but I have a hard time at dinner sitting with people I don't know

      I hear you. I play guitar and sing at a small Bible study every week, no problem, but I feel awkward trying to talk with random people. Once I get to know people, I'm totally relaxed. My wife is the same way. We both actively avoid social situations where we have to talk to lots of people we don't know.

      Tech, life, family, faith: Give me a visit. I'm currently blogging about: Rabbi Kadouri Meets Messiah? The apostle Paul, modernly speaking: Epistles of Paul Judah Himango

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      Anna Jayne Metcalfe
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      Judah Himango wrote:

      I hear you. I play guitar and sing at a small Bible study every week, no problem, but I feel awkward trying to talk with random people. Once I get to know people, I'm totally relaxed.

      I'm the same...I used to be very socially awkward, and even now I still struggle a bit until I get to know people a little. That said, I'm getting more and more involved in my Church (in such things as Congregational Care and the organisation of social events) so that can only help. :)

      Anna :rose: Linting the day away :cool: Anna's Place | Tears and Laughter "If mushy peas are the food of the devil, the stotty cake is the frisbee of God"

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        I was just reading a short article on FoxNews about celebrities and their phobias. What are your phobias? I am afraid of spiders and crowded places because I am afraid a fire will break out. I was afraid of fire for years and wasn't sure why. Turns out I mimicked my parents and took the hot car cigarette lighter to my lips as a toddler and hated all hot things after that. I didn't even try to light a match until college. I used to keep a car door open while starting the car in case the car started on fire during startup and then I could make a quicker getaway. I finally conquered that fear. I still hate spiders and will panic at packed places (like the mall during the holidays). Not sure if I will get over those. Anyone willing to admit your phobias? BTW, what would the fear of not being able to read CP be?

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        Nic Rowan
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        Fear of large crowds. Cant stand crowded shopping centres and I battle at concerts. I usually have to get golden circle and stand at the back where there's space. Nothing else really bothers me except REALLY cramped spaces where I can't move.


        Dad always thought laughter was the best medicine, which I guess is why several of us died of tuberculosis. I can picture in my mind a world without war, a world without hate. And I can picture us attacking that world, because they'd never expect it.


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        • V Vikram A Punathambekar

          I'm not exactly *afraid* but I hate crowds.

          Cheers, Vikram.


          The cold will freeze our stares We won't care...

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          Nic Rowan
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          Me too. It makes me very uncomfortable and puts me in a bad mood whenever I have to be in a large crowd.


          Dad always thought laughter was the best medicine, which I guess is why several of us died of tuberculosis. I can picture in my mind a world without war, a world without hate. And I can picture us attacking that world, because they'd never expect it.


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            I was just reading a short article on FoxNews about celebrities and their phobias. What are your phobias? I am afraid of spiders and crowded places because I am afraid a fire will break out. I was afraid of fire for years and wasn't sure why. Turns out I mimicked my parents and took the hot car cigarette lighter to my lips as a toddler and hated all hot things after that. I didn't even try to light a match until college. I used to keep a car door open while starting the car in case the car started on fire during startup and then I could make a quicker getaway. I finally conquered that fear. I still hate spiders and will panic at packed places (like the mall during the holidays). Not sure if I will get over those. Anyone willing to admit your phobias? BTW, what would the fear of not being able to read CP be?

            _________________________________________ You can't fix stupid, but you can medicate crazy.

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            hairy_hats
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            leckey wrote:

            I am afraid of spiders and crowded places because I am afraid a fire will break out.

            You shouldn't worry, spiders have almost never been known to start fires in crowded places.

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              I was just reading a short article on FoxNews about celebrities and their phobias. What are your phobias? I am afraid of spiders and crowded places because I am afraid a fire will break out. I was afraid of fire for years and wasn't sure why. Turns out I mimicked my parents and took the hot car cigarette lighter to my lips as a toddler and hated all hot things after that. I didn't even try to light a match until college. I used to keep a car door open while starting the car in case the car started on fire during startup and then I could make a quicker getaway. I finally conquered that fear. I still hate spiders and will panic at packed places (like the mall during the holidays). Not sure if I will get over those. Anyone willing to admit your phobias? BTW, what would the fear of not being able to read CP be?

              _________________________________________ You can't fix stupid, but you can medicate crazy.

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              TrickyPhilbert
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              I don't really have any phobias - I'm a brave old soul. However I did used to know a mate who's Mom was absolutely petrified when she saw a feather!! Oh the fun I used to have with that one ;P

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              • D Dario Solera

                I have a phobia for this insect[^], which I don't know how is it called in English, nor I want to know. X| I don't like crowded places, but I wouldn't call it a phobia.

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                Nic Rowan
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                Dario Solera wrote:

                which I don't know how is it called in English

                It's called a stink bug. If you want a real scary bug try this[^] bad boy. Those things freak me out no end and they are agressive things.


                Dad always thought laughter was the best medicine, which I guess is why several of us died of tuberculosis. I can picture in my mind a world without war, a world without hate. And I can picture us attacking that world, because they'd never expect it.


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                  leckey wrote:

                  I am afraid of spiders and crowded places because I am afraid a fire will break out.

                  You shouldn't worry, spiders have almost never been known to start fires in crowded places.

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                  Nic Rowan
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                  hahaha! - Do I smell a new movie title? "Arsonist Spiders in crowded places."


                  Dad always thought laughter was the best medicine, which I guess is why several of us died of tuberculosis. I can picture in my mind a world without war, a world without hate. And I can picture us attacking that world, because they'd never expect it.


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                    I was just reading a short article on FoxNews about celebrities and their phobias. What are your phobias? I am afraid of spiders and crowded places because I am afraid a fire will break out. I was afraid of fire for years and wasn't sure why. Turns out I mimicked my parents and took the hot car cigarette lighter to my lips as a toddler and hated all hot things after that. I didn't even try to light a match until college. I used to keep a car door open while starting the car in case the car started on fire during startup and then I could make a quicker getaway. I finally conquered that fear. I still hate spiders and will panic at packed places (like the mall during the holidays). Not sure if I will get over those. Anyone willing to admit your phobias? BTW, what would the fear of not being able to read CP be?

                    _________________________________________ You can't fix stupid, but you can medicate crazy.

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                    Sebastian Schneider
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                    I am uncomfortable around strangers. I make up excuses to not have to go to parties where I know less than 40% of the guests. I also have a great deal of respect for high-voltage installations. Had that ever since I poked around in a power supply to get the fan back going.... I was afraid of heights as a kid, but that has changed since I became a firefighter. I love being high up now (I moved into the top floor of a high-rise building for that reason). I absolutely love climbing "our" tower-ladder in full gear, with just a few inches of girder to keep you from falling off, then climbing into the basket on top. You can SEE so much stuff from up there. Like, replaced roof-tiles spelling "I (heart) U" to someone :)

                    Cheers, Sebastian -- Contra vim mortem non est medicamen in hortem.

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                    • B Bradml

                      BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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                      Jealous are we? ;P

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                        I was just reading a short article on FoxNews about celebrities and their phobias. What are your phobias? I am afraid of spiders and crowded places because I am afraid a fire will break out. I was afraid of fire for years and wasn't sure why. Turns out I mimicked my parents and took the hot car cigarette lighter to my lips as a toddler and hated all hot things after that. I didn't even try to light a match until college. I used to keep a car door open while starting the car in case the car started on fire during startup and then I could make a quicker getaway. I finally conquered that fear. I still hate spiders and will panic at packed places (like the mall during the holidays). Not sure if I will get over those. Anyone willing to admit your phobias? BTW, what would the fear of not being able to read CP be?

                        _________________________________________ You can't fix stupid, but you can medicate crazy.

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                        pdohara
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                        I have a fear of falling, not a fear of heights. What's the difference? The top of the Sears Tower in Chicago is no problem, two steps up a wobbly step ladder is. Like many people here I don't care for crowds and groups of people. I don't think of it as a phobia however. No fear response, just don't care for it.

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                        • M Mike Gaskey

                          Height - if I drive on the outside lane of a high bridge I have to close my eyes. Standing at the window of a 50+ story building isn't fun. Driving the road to Hana was a noghtmare. Fire - death by, has to be the most horrid thing going.

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                          Marcus J Smith
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                          Mike Gaskey wrote:

                          if I drive on the outside lane of a high bridge I have to close my eyes

                          I hope you're the passenger in that case... :~


                          CleaKO

                          "I think you'll be okay here, they have a thin candy shell. 'Surprised you didn't know that." - Tommy Boy
                          "Fill it up again! Fill it up again! Once it hits your lips, it's so good!" - Frank the Tank (Old School)

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                            Rama Krishna Vavilala wrote:

                            Since my first car accident about 4 months back, I am afraid to drive in the left lane in a non-divided highway.

                            I think that happens to a lot of people. My husband's grandma was hit by a drunk driver when she was going to WalMart. She always took the 'back road' after that. People here don't know how to merge onto the interstate. A couple months ago I was almost in an accident because someone STOPPED on the merge lane. It was one of those neiher of us breathed or talked for a couple miles because we knew how close we were to a MAJOR accident. I still hate that exit to merge to the interstate.

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                            Marcus J Smith
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                            leckey wrote:

                            A couple months ago I was almost in an accident because someone STOPPED on the merge lane.

                            That really sucks when you're looking at the freeway to merge instead of the car in front of you. I feel your pain. :rose:


                            CleaKO

                            "I think you'll be okay here, they have a thin candy shell. 'Surprised you didn't know that." - Tommy Boy
                            "Fill it up again! Fill it up again! Once it hits your lips, it's so good!" - Frank the Tank (Old School)

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                              I was just reading a short article on FoxNews about celebrities and their phobias. What are your phobias? I am afraid of spiders and crowded places because I am afraid a fire will break out. I was afraid of fire for years and wasn't sure why. Turns out I mimicked my parents and took the hot car cigarette lighter to my lips as a toddler and hated all hot things after that. I didn't even try to light a match until college. I used to keep a car door open while starting the car in case the car started on fire during startup and then I could make a quicker getaway. I finally conquered that fear. I still hate spiders and will panic at packed places (like the mall during the holidays). Not sure if I will get over those. Anyone willing to admit your phobias? BTW, what would the fear of not being able to read CP be?

                              _________________________________________ You can't fix stupid, but you can medicate crazy.

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                              ednrgc
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                              I'm afraid that companies in my country will abuse the H1B visa law, and replace American workers in their home land. Oh, wait. It's already happening.

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                                I was just reading a short article on FoxNews about celebrities and their phobias. What are your phobias? I am afraid of spiders and crowded places because I am afraid a fire will break out. I was afraid of fire for years and wasn't sure why. Turns out I mimicked my parents and took the hot car cigarette lighter to my lips as a toddler and hated all hot things after that. I didn't even try to light a match until college. I used to keep a car door open while starting the car in case the car started on fire during startup and then I could make a quicker getaway. I finally conquered that fear. I still hate spiders and will panic at packed places (like the mall during the holidays). Not sure if I will get over those. Anyone willing to admit your phobias? BTW, what would the fear of not being able to read CP be?

                                _________________________________________ You can't fix stupid, but you can medicate crazy.

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                                Dan Neely
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                                stupid people.

                                -- Rules of thumb should not be taken for the whole hand.

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                                  I was just reading a short article on FoxNews about celebrities and their phobias. What are your phobias? I am afraid of spiders and crowded places because I am afraid a fire will break out. I was afraid of fire for years and wasn't sure why. Turns out I mimicked my parents and took the hot car cigarette lighter to my lips as a toddler and hated all hot things after that. I didn't even try to light a match until college. I used to keep a car door open while starting the car in case the car started on fire during startup and then I could make a quicker getaway. I finally conquered that fear. I still hate spiders and will panic at packed places (like the mall during the holidays). Not sure if I will get over those. Anyone willing to admit your phobias? BTW, what would the fear of not being able to read CP be?

                                  _________________________________________ You can't fix stupid, but you can medicate crazy.

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                                  Don't know about phobias but I moved around a lot for years and when I got the chance to settle down I got very twitchy, always thinking something had to go wrong, that it couldn't last. It's been 16 months and I'll shortly be taking my first proper holiday in 12 years. Elaine :rose:

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                                    I was just reading a short article on FoxNews about celebrities and their phobias. What are your phobias? I am afraid of spiders and crowded places because I am afraid a fire will break out. I was afraid of fire for years and wasn't sure why. Turns out I mimicked my parents and took the hot car cigarette lighter to my lips as a toddler and hated all hot things after that. I didn't even try to light a match until college. I used to keep a car door open while starting the car in case the car started on fire during startup and then I could make a quicker getaway. I finally conquered that fear. I still hate spiders and will panic at packed places (like the mall during the holidays). Not sure if I will get over those. Anyone willing to admit your phobias? BTW, what would the fear of not being able to read CP be?

                                    _________________________________________ You can't fix stupid, but you can medicate crazy.

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                                    Andy Brummer
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                                    I used to be terrified of heights, until I finally realized that I don't fall down very often, and the chances of me falling off of anything is really very small.


                                    I can imagine the sinking feeling one would have after ordering my book, only to find a laughably ridiculous theory with demented logic once the book arrives - Mark McCutcheon

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                                    • V Vikram A Punathambekar

                                      * comes around and sits near fire waiting for Maunder to begin story *

                                      Cheers, Vikram.


                                      The cold will freeze our stares We won't care...

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                                      Justin Williams
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                                      I share Maunder's phobia, ya never know when they will turn on you![^] (Reuters) :omg:

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                                        I was just reading a short article on FoxNews about celebrities and their phobias. What are your phobias? I am afraid of spiders and crowded places because I am afraid a fire will break out. I was afraid of fire for years and wasn't sure why. Turns out I mimicked my parents and took the hot car cigarette lighter to my lips as a toddler and hated all hot things after that. I didn't even try to light a match until college. I used to keep a car door open while starting the car in case the car started on fire during startup and then I could make a quicker getaway. I finally conquered that fear. I still hate spiders and will panic at packed places (like the mall during the holidays). Not sure if I will get over those. Anyone willing to admit your phobias? BTW, what would the fear of not being able to read CP be?

                                        _________________________________________ You can't fix stupid, but you can medicate crazy.

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                                        wildref
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                                        I never really gave phobias must thought and never really thought i had any real fears till came across a situation as an engineering intern. I was at a construction site and had to walk across a beam about the width of a desk that was at least 5 stories high. I walked the beam but the guys on the other side were laughing so hard because the life line i was hooked to was vibrating so much due to my shaking hands. that is when i realize i have a very big fear of heights.

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                                          I was just reading a short article on FoxNews about celebrities and their phobias. What are your phobias? I am afraid of spiders and crowded places because I am afraid a fire will break out. I was afraid of fire for years and wasn't sure why. Turns out I mimicked my parents and took the hot car cigarette lighter to my lips as a toddler and hated all hot things after that. I didn't even try to light a match until college. I used to keep a car door open while starting the car in case the car started on fire during startup and then I could make a quicker getaway. I finally conquered that fear. I still hate spiders and will panic at packed places (like the mall during the holidays). Not sure if I will get over those. Anyone willing to admit your phobias? BTW, what would the fear of not being able to read CP be?

                                          _________________________________________ You can't fix stupid, but you can medicate crazy.

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                                          raulhmacias
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                                          Social anxiety. I panic everytime I need to talk in a meeting or when I am the center of attention.

                                          Raul Macias

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