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  • L leckey 0

    Growing up in South Dakota, which is behind the times in many ways, I found that many native South Dakota'ns are very much concerned with consideration and making your neighbors feel welcomed. Where I used to live we had the occasional stupid person (one with a laser pen for example) at the movie theater, but always after one request the person stopped the action. I just can't believe how here people think they are entitled to do whatever they feel like without the consideration of others.

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    I was a little concerned about your earlier posts because of the blanket racial statements, but your comments about native South Dakota residents is reassuring about your acceptance of non-white people. I too have had many positive interactions with Native Americans, and I am glad the Natives of South Dakota provided you with positive social interactions. Regards.

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      So that makes two nice Mexicans in the world (I am the other :-D)

      Luis Alonso Ramos Intelectix Chihuahua, Mexico

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      Christopher Duncan
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      That's only because you're from Chihuahua. And as we all know, anything having to do with Chihuahuas (whether geographic or canine) is, by definition, inherently cool. :-D

      Author of The Career Programmer and Unite the Tribes www.PracticalStrategyConsulting.com

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        Uh, actually I am part Native American (Iriquois) so....nah nah nah nah! :-D

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        And by the way, since my ancestors screwed your ancestors (not to mention the fact that "Indians" have suffered as many racial slurs as Africans and Mexicans), I figure I've got the "nah nah nah nah" coming, and offer you a 5 in return. :-D

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          Excellent! I was hoping that someone would make this point. :) America is a collection of continents, but of course what most people mean by American is "United States of American." With that in mind, I'll say something that I know goes against current politically correct terminolgies. There's no such thing as a Native American. Native American is a relatively newly contrived term, used solely to consolidate a group of people and derive political power from the grouping. The people who lived here and were ultimately conquered by European invaders were absolutely, positively not the first "United States of Americans" and hence aren't "Native Americans." In fact, not only were they not the first Americans, they wanted nothing to do with America other than us getting the heck off of their land. Consequently, I object to the term Native American for a couple of reasons. First, it implies that they were co-founders of the very nation that screwed them, which just doesn't make any sense. Secondly, it robs them of their true national identity. To lump all "Native Americans" together is an insult and a racial slur no different than the incorrectly assumed "Indian." These people are not Native American. They are Cherokee, Apache, Comanche and decendants of many other of the countless great nations who once occupied this land. Including the Iriquois nation. :) Today, with the exception of those who choose to live on the sovereign lands of reservations, they are first and foremost American citizens, and like all other Americans, they ultimately are from somewhere else. My ancestors were from European nations. Your ancestors were from the Iriquois nation. So, like I said, everyone here is from somewhere else. :-D

          Author of The Career Programmer and Unite the Tribes www.PracticalStrategyConsulting.com

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          El Corazon
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          Christopher Duncan wrote:

          These people are not Native American.

          Very true, in fact you even have to watch the tribal references. Most tribal names stem from the names that another tribe called them, but that tribe talked to "Americans" first. So instead of what they call themselves, they are often called something else. The local example is probably Navajo, who call themselves the Diné. Navajo is actually the name given from the Tewa Pueblo Peoples. Depending on who you ask, and what mood they are in they will tell you means theives (takers of the fields), or idiots (farmers of washes/arroyos). Navajo by any meaning was meant and used as an insult by the Pueblo peoples. Most Nations names for themselves are simply "the people". When referring collectively to the many nations, they prefer just that "the Nations". Thus, the Gathering of Nations being an annual event.

          _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)

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          • L Luis Alonso Ramos

            So that makes two nice Mexicans in the world (I am the other :-D)

            Luis Alonso Ramos Intelectix Chihuahua, Mexico

            Not much here: My CP Blog!

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            El Corazon
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            Luis Alonso Ramos wrote:

            So that makes two nice Mexicans in the world

            I know quite a few more too. :)

            _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)

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            • L leckey 0

              Uh, actually I am part Native American (Iriquois) so....nah nah nah nah! :-D

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              And actually, many Mexicans are part European, which is also a big dividing line in Mexican culture. There are numerous distinct racial groups contained within the current boundaries of the country. As for the Iriquois part... Which tribe? Are you 'Cayuga,' 'Mohawk,' 'Oneida,' 'Onodaga,' 'Seneca,' or 'just made it up so I could support my arguement with nah nah nah nah?' Regards.

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                ushering wrote:

                I would trade the work ethic of most privileged people I work with now for the ethic of those poor Mexicans I came up with.

                So true. I bet most Mexicans immigrants are very hard-working, because they have made many sacrifices (leaving their family behind for example) to go to the US in search of a better life. Being poor doesn't make them less as persons, and doesn't mean they have no education or are impolite. The people leckey saw on the movie theather are just an exception rather than the rule.

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                Not much here: My CP Blog!

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                I don't know much about the history of Mexico, but since the entire lifeblood of my own nation is founded on the efforts and work ethic of immigrants who came here to bring their dreams to life, I'd have to say that in general, immigrants rock. Without them, there would be no America. However, I think a point often lost on immigrants to any country is the importance of understanding and integrating the culture of your new home into your daily interactions. I can't imagine moving to, say, Japan and not spending a lot of time educating myself on what's important in Japanese culture and society. Heaven knows that countless Americans have embarrassed us all by traveling around the world and ignoring this most fundamental requirement of accepting the hospitality of others - respect and gratitude.

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                • U ushering

                  And actually, many Mexicans are part European, which is also a big dividing line in Mexican culture. There are numerous distinct racial groups contained within the current boundaries of the country. As for the Iriquois part... Which tribe? Are you 'Cayuga,' 'Mohawk,' 'Oneida,' 'Onodaga,' 'Seneca,' or 'just made it up so I could support my arguement with nah nah nah nah?' Regards.

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                  ushering wrote:

                  'just made it up so I could support my arguement with nah nah nah nah?'

                  :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

                  Luis Alonso Ramos Intelectix Chihuahua, Mexico

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                    Christopher Duncan wrote:

                    These people are not Native American.

                    Very true, in fact you even have to watch the tribal references. Most tribal names stem from the names that another tribe called them, but that tribe talked to "Americans" first. So instead of what they call themselves, they are often called something else. The local example is probably Navajo, who call themselves the Diné. Navajo is actually the name given from the Tewa Pueblo Peoples. Depending on who you ask, and what mood they are in they will tell you means theives (takers of the fields), or idiots (farmers of washes/arroyos). Navajo by any meaning was meant and used as an insult by the Pueblo peoples. Most Nations names for themselves are simply "the people". When referring collectively to the many nations, they prefer just that "the Nations". Thus, the Gathering of Nations being an annual event.

                    _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)

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                    Christopher Duncan
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                    I'd never considered that, though it makes perfect sense, just as history is ever written by the victors. Cool stuff to learn. Saw one of the light & fluffy History Channel things a while back on the Comanche, and though it was translated into English, they said that one tribe refered to the Comanche as, "the ones who always want to fight," which seems to illustrate your point. I wonder if there are any web sites out there which objectively and accurately catalog all of the nations that existed on this land at the time of the European invasions. By the way, why have you started using El Corazon, and what does it translate to?

                    Author of The Career Programmer and Unite the Tribes www.PracticalStrategyConsulting.com

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                      I'd never considered that, though it makes perfect sense, just as history is ever written by the victors. Cool stuff to learn. Saw one of the light & fluffy History Channel things a while back on the Comanche, and though it was translated into English, they said that one tribe refered to the Comanche as, "the ones who always want to fight," which seems to illustrate your point. I wonder if there are any web sites out there which objectively and accurately catalog all of the nations that existed on this land at the time of the European invasions. By the way, why have you started using El Corazon, and what does it translate to?

                      Author of The Career Programmer and Unite the Tribes www.PracticalStrategyConsulting.com

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                      El Corazon
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                      Christopher Duncan wrote:

                      why have you started using El Corazon, and what does it translate to?

                      It translates to "the heart" I had a hard time coming up with a new name, which had to change due to new rules at work. New rules require changes in off-hour stuff as well. You can tell how hard I am working at obeying since all I changed was my name. :) letter of the law. :)

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                        Christopher Duncan wrote:

                        why have you started using El Corazon, and what does it translate to?

                        It translates to "the heart" I had a hard time coming up with a new name, which had to change due to new rules at work. New rules require changes in off-hour stuff as well. You can tell how hard I am working at obeying since all I changed was my name. :) letter of the law. :)

                        _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)

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                        Christopher Duncan
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                        Quite appropriate, methinks. On all counts. :)

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                        • U ushering

                          I was a little concerned about your earlier posts because of the blanket racial statements, but your comments about native South Dakota residents is reassuring about your acceptance of non-white people. I too have had many positive interactions with Native Americans, and I am glad the Natives of South Dakota provided you with positive social interactions. Regards.

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                          leckey 0
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                          I have a high respect for the Lakota and Dakota Sioux of South Dakota, even if they get a bad rap. I took a political science class in college where we discussed the Native Americans and I pointed out that I had a friend with the last name of 'Bad Yellow Hair' and how if caused her problems just because of the pre-concieved notions of Native Americans. I really don't want to blanket any ethnic group being myself part Native American, Jewish, (yeah I know, how can I be Jewish and Native American?) Basque and a few other minority groups. But my introduction to the Mexican immigrant in this area (I truly hope their attitude elsewhere is different) has lead me to my negative reactions. Anyhow, my post was not to put all Mexicans, or all immigrants into one category, but to show the behavior in this particular region. BTW, years ago I had a Mexican penpal that we connected through a sticker magazine because she learned English through the books of Laura Ingalls Wilder who lived in my hometown. I had a very positive look towards Mexicans because of her.

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                          • L Luis Alonso Ramos

                            So that makes two nice Mexicans in the world (I am the other :-D)

                            Luis Alonso Ramos Intelectix Chihuahua, Mexico

                            Not much here: My CP Blog!

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                            leckey 0
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                            I really want to believe in the goodness of all people regardless of where they come from. I am sure there are MANY Mexicans who are wonderful. Just that my experience with a few has been negative. Maybe that just says more about the people immigrating to the area than the ethnicity itself.

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                            • L Luis Alonso Ramos

                              So that makes two nice Mexicans in the world (I am the other :-D)

                              Luis Alonso Ramos Intelectix Chihuahua, Mexico

                              Not much here: My CP Blog!

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                              leckey 0
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                              I really want to believe in the goodness of all people regardless of where they come from. I am sure there are MANY Mexicans who are wonderful. Just that my experience with a few has been negative. Maybe that just says more about the people immigrating to the area than the ethnicity itself.

                              __________________ Bob is my homeboy.

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                                I have a high respect for the Lakota and Dakota Sioux of South Dakota, even if they get a bad rap. I took a political science class in college where we discussed the Native Americans and I pointed out that I had a friend with the last name of 'Bad Yellow Hair' and how if caused her problems just because of the pre-concieved notions of Native Americans. I really don't want to blanket any ethnic group being myself part Native American, Jewish, (yeah I know, how can I be Jewish and Native American?) Basque and a few other minority groups. But my introduction to the Mexican immigrant in this area (I truly hope their attitude elsewhere is different) has lead me to my negative reactions. Anyhow, my post was not to put all Mexicans, or all immigrants into one category, but to show the behavior in this particular region. BTW, years ago I had a Mexican penpal that we connected through a sticker magazine because she learned English through the books of Laura Ingalls Wilder who lived in my hometown. I had a very positive look towards Mexicans because of her.

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                                Thank you for your reply Leckey. I hope your future experiences are better. Regards.

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                                  Uh, actually I am part Native American (Iriquois) so....nah nah nah nah! :-D

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                                  Jerry Hammond
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                                  Actually your ancestors migrated across the Bearing Straights...so neener neener neener...

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                                    Excellent! I was hoping that someone would make this point. :) America is a collection of continents, but of course what most people mean by American is "United States of American." With that in mind, I'll say something that I know goes against current politically correct terminolgies. There's no such thing as a Native American. Native American is a relatively newly contrived term, used solely to consolidate a group of people and derive political power from the grouping. The people who lived here and were ultimately conquered by European invaders were absolutely, positively not the first "United States of Americans" and hence aren't "Native Americans." In fact, not only were they not the first Americans, they wanted nothing to do with America other than us getting the heck off of their land. Consequently, I object to the term Native American for a couple of reasons. First, it implies that they were co-founders of the very nation that screwed them, which just doesn't make any sense. Secondly, it robs them of their true national identity. To lump all "Native Americans" together is an insult and a racial slur no different than the incorrectly assumed "Indian." These people are not Native American. They are Cherokee, Apache, Comanche and decendants of many other of the countless great nations who once occupied this land. Including the Iriquois nation. :) Today, with the exception of those who choose to live on the sovereign lands of reservations, they are first and foremost American citizens, and like all other Americans, they ultimately are from somewhere else. My ancestors were from European nations. Your ancestors were from the Iriquois nation. So, like I said, everyone here is from somewhere else. :-D

                                    Author of The Career Programmer and Unite the Tribes www.PracticalStrategyConsulting.com

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                                    Christopher Duncan wrote:

                                    These people are not Native American. They are Cherokee, Apache, Comanche and decendants of many other of the countless great nations who once occupied this land. Including the Iriquois nation

                                    Thank you. My great-grand father thanks you, and his father's father thanks you....in fact, Many Moons thank you, Whopping Big Feather thanks you....

                                    "We are all repositories for genetically-encoded information that we're all spreading back and forth amongst each other, all the time. We're just lousy with information." - Neal Stephenson

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                                      leckey wrote:

                                      I don't think they can control their kids anywhere

                                      Two-year old kids are usually dificult to control at any place where they must be quiet (cinema, church), that is not just for Mexicans.

                                      leckey wrote:

                                      it was the 'Mexican bravado' of the guy that made him say such a statement to me

                                      I don't think it comes from being Mexican. I am also, and in that situation, if you told me something about my kid being quiet, I would be terribly ashamed and my reply would have been "I am real sorry, it won't happen again." And if it kept happening I would have left with my kid. That politeness (or rudeness) does not come with the nationality, but from the education you get at home.

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                                      I DO care about immigrants straining American resources and then having the gall to tell me basically to shut up

                                      Without wanting to start a debate here, how do you know they were illegal? If they are not, they have basically the same rights to American resources as you do. My conclusion here, them being rude on you comes from their own personality and education, and in no way is related to being Mexican. Whether you agree or not with immigration is another thing, but you cannot dislike Mexicans because one was rude to you.

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                                      Jerry Hammond
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                                      Hey, Luis, you look French! (snicker) Happy "Cynco Da Mayo"

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                                        My only positive experience is a few weeks ago when a Mexican immigrant helped me to load top soil bags into the trunk of my car. In this area, they are incredibily far from polite.

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                                        Jerry Hammond
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                                        Are you a troll?

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                                          I have a high respect for the Lakota and Dakota Sioux of South Dakota, even if they get a bad rap. I took a political science class in college where we discussed the Native Americans and I pointed out that I had a friend with the last name of 'Bad Yellow Hair' and how if caused her problems just because of the pre-concieved notions of Native Americans. I really don't want to blanket any ethnic group being myself part Native American, Jewish, (yeah I know, how can I be Jewish and Native American?) Basque and a few other minority groups. But my introduction to the Mexican immigrant in this area (I truly hope their attitude elsewhere is different) has lead me to my negative reactions. Anyhow, my post was not to put all Mexicans, or all immigrants into one category, but to show the behavior in this particular region. BTW, years ago I had a Mexican penpal that we connected through a sticker magazine because she learned English through the books of Laura Ingalls Wilder who lived in my hometown. I had a very positive look towards Mexicans because of her.

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                                          leckey wrote:

                                          (yeah I know, how can I be Jewish and Native American?)

                                          First, we have to give you a lesson on cultural tolerance, and now we have to give you a lesson on reproductive biology?!

                                          "We are all repositories for genetically-encoded information that we're all spreading back and forth amongst each other, all the time. We're just lousy with information." - Neal Stephenson

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