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Pinky_Malta wrote:
im fixing bugs and updating important systems.
While SMSing your girlfriend ? You're on your own here, if you're doing it all the time, then you're making things hard for yourself.
Pinky_Malta wrote:
Should i change or what?
Has someone asked you to change ? In what way do you propose to change ? Do you see ways in which you should change ?
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
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First, what I am about to tell you is in no way a judgement on you or your employer. Second, I am only trying to give you an outsiders opinion (which is something that I have gotten here as well, not too long ago) Third, before you answer, think about what I am about to say. Don't answer hastily. You should take a few days off. Go somewhere, do not think about work. Leave work at home. If this is not possible, find a therapist. You are showing signs of a developing paranoia, and if you start to work on it now, it might be easy to help you. Yes, they could actually be persuing a plot to mob you out of there, but there are hundreds of explanations not involving a dagger stuck in your back. If you are not ready to do so, ask one of your colleagues if there are any sinister motives involved in their behaviour towards you. I am pretty sure there are not.
Cheers, Sebastian -- Ceterum censeo, borlandem esse delendam.
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no dude not at all.... when i do important stuff i stop msging at all and focus, its just during the day... maybe 5 or 6 in 8 hours!!! its not too much get me?
Cheers
The people you work with, obviously think it's a problem. If you want them to treat you differently, then you should stop giving them reasons to criticise, even if you think they are wrong. And, if you want to be given different tasks at work, you need to prove you can do them, and you need to ask for them.
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
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i think u should change because if people are not supporting and there is no motivation and praise for good work then any one will get depress and it is not good for ur personal development also so i will suggest u should change.
rahul
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The people you work with, obviously think it's a problem. If you want them to treat you differently, then you should stop giving them reasons to criticise, even if you think they are wrong. And, if you want to be given different tasks at work, you need to prove you can do them, and you need to ask for them.
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
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Talk to your boss. Elaine :rose:
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Talk to your boss. Elaine :rose:
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i do give them reason.....Any time i updated stuff, everything was smooth and running, when they gave me development, it always turned out to be good and running..... Sorry i didn't make my self clear i think.
Cheers
Perhaps, but I wouldn't change my advice.
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
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Dude, if your boss is telling you to stop SMSing at work, then stop. If your boss is making a joke of you, look for another job.
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
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Well I think you should change your job....you could be wrong or the others could be .... but in any case...i think its better you change your job.. But then you may take this negative opportunity positively ... and see if that makes a difference May be you are more timid and presented yourself as a easily vulnerable laughingstock... better learn to deal with these people and boost your own self-confidence.... i m not suggesting any full scale harmful and unethical retaliation ... but if you let this happen to you ... you'll more likely do that in future...finally bad for both the parties one risky suggestion that works if you are efficient at your work: Yell at your boss ... he'll learn to respect you...
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Well I think you should change your job....you could be wrong or the others could be .... but in any case...i think its better you change your job.. But then you may take this negative opportunity positively ... and see if that makes a difference May be you are more timid and presented yourself as a easily vulnerable laughingstock... better learn to deal with these people and boost your own self-confidence.... i m not suggesting any full scale harmful and unethical retaliation ... but if you let this happen to you ... you'll more likely do that in future...finally bad for both the parties one risky suggestion that works if you are efficient at your work: Yell at your boss ... he'll learn to respect you...
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Perhaps, but I wouldn't change my advice.
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
Dude, its not like im trying to hide my side of the problem. i admitted that i was SMSing too much and stopped, You may have a strict opinion about what i said, But i am really trying to do my best, i really am...like one guy said here...with no praise for good work, u wont get the best
Cheers
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thanks dude, one question tho.....was 5 to 8 SMSs day a lot in a 9 hour work day?
Cheers
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thanks dude, one question tho.....was 5 to 8 SMSs day a lot in a 9 hour work day?
Cheers
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umm.... i dont sms even tat little... if you have some free sms scheme on your mobile....try discussing bugs over sms with those ppl.... :))
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Hey Buddy You need to boast of what you are doing. Whenever you do something good just apeak aloud , when you doing this for a long , everybody will come to know what you are doing & how good you are. Make your stand , everybody may not be doing intentionally, but you need to shot a loud that you are good & doing good job. People need something to talk about & they find whatever is easiest. I would say just make your stand Tell to all that you are doing a good job Float self appreciation mails :-) Tell all al them that you are important & doing good job & i hope sending sms would be a small thing that you can manage without affecting your work. Regards
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Hey Buddy You need to boast of what you are doing. Whenever you do something good just apeak aloud , when you doing this for a long , everybody will come to know what you are doing & how good you are. Make your stand , everybody may not be doing intentionally, but you need to shot a loud that you are good & doing good job. People need something to talk about & they find whatever is easiest. I would say just make your stand Tell to all that you are doing a good job Float self appreciation mails :-) Tell all al them that you are important & doing good job & i hope sending sms would be a small thing that you can manage without affecting your work. Regards