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  • M Matt Newman

    I really don't get some people, when I read your story my mind didn't jump to "this is a scam". You have posted on this before and are practically a fixture here. My mind went straight to how can I fit this into my stressed budget? I'm hoping to have something when I get paid on Friday, If I could give you my entire paycheck I would. And there were a bunch of people that feel the same way. Don't let these people get you down, there are people that care. I am one of them and I will try to help you in any way I can.

    Please visit http://www.readytogiveup.com/ and do something special today.

    -Matt Newman

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    Mike Poz
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    Matt Newman wrote:

    Please visit http://www.readytogiveup.com/ and do something special today.

    It took a while because of the server outtage but I already did. And Rex, I've been reading the Digg site for a while now, just a lurker really. Those guys tend to be rather viscious, they're always looking for the dark side of things, unless it's a scantilly clad female, then they fire up the spot lights. Be that as it may, I remember reading some posts by you previously, mentioning your daughter, so I have no qualms about accepting the reality of the situation. I also know that a nice house on the outside can be completely barren on the inside. Having kids, I can honestly say that if they had similar medical issues as your daughter, I would crawl across a field of broken glass to get them the help they needed. It may not feel it right now because of the Digg twits, but you're doing the right thing for your daughter. That's what is important. Don't let the doubters get you down.

    Mike Poz

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      I do think that some explanation needs to be given for my request and my circumstances I mean after all. Once I hit submit the only thing I am is some essence that exists somewhere out there in some part of the world. I might live in the Ukraine running a spyware ring, I might be Nigerian trying to lure American's to my land to beat and torture them. Some people have delved into public record and discovered where I live and they have asked some compelling questions. The question of my situation being real or not is very difficult to address. I'm sitting here in my home and I'm wondering just exactly how I demonstrate that Katie is real and she does exist. Once I've done that how do I prove that she has a real condition that is actually baffling modern medicine? But even then, public record has been read on my home and frankly it's a nice home. It's not luxuriant not by a long shot. But it's not a ghetto either. How do I satisfy these questions, validate my need and restore my credibility? I am at a point where I must do this even though I now wish I had not ever done this at all. However as the saying goes (kind of) "You spill the milk you need to clean it up." Short of posting scanned in documents of actual medical bills we received for Katie I cannot prove her condition or that she even exists. I've posted photos but those could be anyone. If someone wishes I can produce a record of one medical bill we have of several for $85,000 or it's $87,000 I don't remember which but we saved it because we knew that someday we'd look at it in awe and wonder. I'm certain my wife knows where it is. Due to identity theft and privacy issues and some delicate relationships I have with the Social Security Administration and with Idaho Medicaid I don't want to say much more about Katie unless it's requested and I can do this. Other questions have been asked about our trip to Jamaica and some of the equipment I have in my office. First, the trip to Jamaica was paid for by friends who received a $250,000 inheritance from there grand mother. I have no way to prove this and they would not give me the documents if I asked for them. But these people have known us for a long time and they know I have worked very long hours for a very long time. They took us on the only trip we've had in 12 years outside of the Oregon Coast (which we went to, all expenses paid as our kids were in a wedding). Our 12th wedding anniversary was 3 days ago and I'm just realizing I missed it completely. I'm surprised my wife let that one pass. But friends of

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      I've read your posts, visited you site, thought about your situation. It is a messy business, not the clean cut - black and white - situation that people prefer. First, forget about the non-constructive criticism. You've got more important things to worry about. It is that simple. Second, do get a plan. It doesn't matter that you were just venting at first and now it has snowballed. Use the momentum you've got to make something of it. Get your thinking straight, is this about debt or about your daughter? They are connected, yes, but which is the one that you are getting stuck on? You don't need to answer the question to me or to anyone. But you need to identify your problems clearly and go from there. It also seems right that you seek legal advice, as it is that you start a fund. Last, it is not about being forthright about your situation. You don't have to explain yourself. However, perception matters and you will be well advised to consider how you want to present your situation to others. At this point, I am afraid, it is too messy. It doesn't help either when you express your frustation, how ever understandable it is that you feel that way. Take some time to think it over. Going public is a new challenge you've added to the list BUT you've got a start and, believe me, you are very lucky considering how positively some people have responded. You've got a start, don't let it go to waste.

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        You are right and I appreciate that but maybe I do need to think of a plan. My current approach might work fine who knows but maybe a plan would be good. What plan and how? I'm not even sure. Maybe someone here will have an attorney kind of get me pointed in some kind of decent direction. The thing is that I don't want to do bankruptcy. It's money that we owe people trying to make a living just like us. I want to pay it back because that's the right thing to do. Bankruptcy isn't a solution it really just creates more problems for everyone.

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        Some people, when asked for help, suddenly think they have the right to make you lick their boots. This type of person only wants something in return. True giving is selfless. Keep your chin up, develop a concrete plan, and help will come your way.

        -------------------------------- "All that is necessary for the forces of evil to win in the world is for enough good men to do nothing" -- Edmund Burke

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          DeepWaters wrote:

          Right now I’m only able to take PayPal as I don’t really know how to take other types of payment" You can't take checks or anything else? I actually work for a hospital. The billing office, actually. How bout you send the address of your daughters hospital.. her name.. and we can help pay the bill off."

          Gosh I don't know how to answer this. If you contact me privately using the email link I will tell you how much we owe but it's all convoluted in consolidation loans. The reason I said PayPal is I don't know how to set up other payment processing and that's not my business paypal account. That's a personal one to a personal checking account. For an actual amount no, we don't need $1 million. But how do I know? If we could get free of our debt then we could probably handle the additional medical costs on our own. It's our current debt that really is killing us. Notice I say debt, not living expenses. Working a normal 40 hours a week I make enough to pay for our living expenses. Working an extra 40 hours a week I make enough to make the minimum payment on our debt. If you want the exact number of our debt you'll have to ask me privately I simply cannot put it out here in the open. If you want to buy a million pixels at $1 each great that's easy and clean but if you want a set line then I'll email you privately. My PayPal comment was mainly that I don't know how else to take payment online. You need SSL certificates and bank gateways and other stuff and I just don't know how to do that.

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          That's pretty haunting ! but not impossible to achieve in 1 year time. This is my suggestion, As Quartz already suggested and i respect him for that, if i were you, i will make a plan ! Add your expense of one year + the debts = X amounts, divide by 6 and think of achieving that IN ONE YEAR Don't work hard, donations cannot take you that far nope , THINK What can pay you that much ? you write very well so my first suggestion is 1. Think about writing a book on latest technology, that can get advance of as much as $ 20,000 for 2-3 months. work , 4 nice book published in an year can get you around $ 80,000, Do you see the potential here ! 2. Look for a high end ONE BIG SOFTWARE PROJECT ! big software projects can pay you the biggest amount in the time. ASK at code project , if they can GET YOU a HIGH END PROJECT WHICH YOU CAN DELIEVER, IN 3 MONTHS or 6 months, i am sure there are EVEN big shots from microsoft who are the secret CPIANS, EVEN they can get you a SUB CONTRACT PROJECT WORTH GOOD MONEY. what do you think

          We Won't Let You Give Up

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            Dude, you don't have to worry at all, I am amazed, how some guys questions almost everything and everone, you are such a popular guy here. And the most important thing is, See what happened after you asked openly for help, you know you have so many friends , Who wants to help you. I think EVERYONE YOU KNOW in CODE PROJECT wants to help you, you need to come up with a definite plan , Although i don't know the impression about deepwaters but, there is one thing i agree, come up with a definite plan, EVERY BODY WILL SUPPORT IT , like you already said a million dollar page , ITS A WIN WIN IDEA, Come Up with an Idea, like one idea could be create a website like Rentacoder.com or put google advertisements in your readytogiveup.com, You will get a million hit in a month i am sure. You have a software company ! Start something and ask every one to contribute there. Just think about a good idea, i can assure you , you just have to start it, you will such boost up from each and everybody from code project. You have a million technical educated friends here ready to help you. You know why wiki became so popular because its is small contribution from everybody. You have to give a chance to everybody to help, And every body will help.A monetary help will not last forever, but if you come up with something and with the help of we all it will get launched. I want you to ignore all the scrutini and think what you got, think what you have the support of a million cpian. I want you help, but a $ 100 won't get you far, i want you to help you to establish back your company. or to get you a good job in a good company or to get you started in an online business. Anything. "Just Do it"

            Omit Needless Words - Strunk, William, Jr.


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            Quartz. wrote:

            I think EVERYONE YOU KNOW in CODE PROJECT wants to help you, you need to come up with a definite plan , Although i don't know the impression about deepwaters but, there is one thing i agree, come up with a definite plan, EVERY BODY WILL SUPPORT IT , like you already said a million dollar page , ITS A WIN WIN IDEA,

            Totally agree, i gave him these two suggestions , what do you think 1. Think about writing a book on latest technology, that can get advance of as much as $ 20,000 for 2-3 months. work , 4 nice book published in an year can get you around $ 80,000, Do you see the potential here ! 2. Look for a high end ONE BIG SOFTWARE PROJECT ! big software projects can pay you the biggest amount in the time. ASK at code project , if they can GET YOU a HIGH END PROJECT WHICH YOU CAN DELIEVER, IN 3 MONTHS or 6 months, i am sure there are EVEN big shots from microsoft who are the secret CPIANS, EVEN they can get you a SUB CONTRACT PROJECT WORTH GOOD MONEY.

            We Won't Let You Give Up

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              Quartz. wrote:

              I think EVERYONE YOU KNOW in CODE PROJECT wants to help you, you need to come up with a definite plan , Although i don't know the impression about deepwaters but, there is one thing i agree, come up with a definite plan, EVERY BODY WILL SUPPORT IT , like you already said a million dollar page , ITS A WIN WIN IDEA,

              Totally agree, i gave him these two suggestions , what do you think 1. Think about writing a book on latest technology, that can get advance of as much as $ 20,000 for 2-3 months. work , 4 nice book published in an year can get you around $ 80,000, Do you see the potential here ! 2. Look for a high end ONE BIG SOFTWARE PROJECT ! big software projects can pay you the biggest amount in the time. ASK at code project , if they can GET YOU a HIGH END PROJECT WHICH YOU CAN DELIEVER, IN 3 MONTHS or 6 months, i am sure there are EVEN big shots from microsoft who are the secret CPIANS, EVEN they can get you a SUB CONTRACT PROJECT WORTH GOOD MONEY.

              We Won't Let You Give Up

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              1 - you've obviously never written a book. It's very rare for a book to be profitable, compared to working those hours. 2 - This one is just hilarious. Why didn't *I* think of that ?

              Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )

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                1 - you've obviously never written a book. It's very rare for a book to be profitable, compared to working those hours. 2 - This one is just hilarious. Why didn't *I* think of that ?

                Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )

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                Christian Graus wrote:

                It's very rare for a book to be profitable

                you mean you can't earn $ 20,000 for 3 months of work by writing a book ? Have you written a book ? Why don't you share your statistics then, your comment is rather vague !

                Christian Graus wrote:

                This one is just hilarious. Why didn't *I* think of that ?

                These are just suggestions for Rex. You can give a better suggestion if you Have ONE about the situation.

                We Won't Let You Give Up

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                  1 - you've obviously never written a book. It's very rare for a book to be profitable, compared to working those hours. 2 - This one is just hilarious. Why didn't *I* think of that ?

                  Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )

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                  Christian Graus wrote:

                  Why didn't *I* think of that ?

                  may be because you are a pessimistic ? may be because you think, donation camp is a better idea ?

                  We Won't Let You Give Up

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                    I do think that some explanation needs to be given for my request and my circumstances I mean after all. Once I hit submit the only thing I am is some essence that exists somewhere out there in some part of the world. I might live in the Ukraine running a spyware ring, I might be Nigerian trying to lure American's to my land to beat and torture them. Some people have delved into public record and discovered where I live and they have asked some compelling questions. The question of my situation being real or not is very difficult to address. I'm sitting here in my home and I'm wondering just exactly how I demonstrate that Katie is real and she does exist. Once I've done that how do I prove that she has a real condition that is actually baffling modern medicine? But even then, public record has been read on my home and frankly it's a nice home. It's not luxuriant not by a long shot. But it's not a ghetto either. How do I satisfy these questions, validate my need and restore my credibility? I am at a point where I must do this even though I now wish I had not ever done this at all. However as the saying goes (kind of) "You spill the milk you need to clean it up." Short of posting scanned in documents of actual medical bills we received for Katie I cannot prove her condition or that she even exists. I've posted photos but those could be anyone. If someone wishes I can produce a record of one medical bill we have of several for $85,000 or it's $87,000 I don't remember which but we saved it because we knew that someday we'd look at it in awe and wonder. I'm certain my wife knows where it is. Due to identity theft and privacy issues and some delicate relationships I have with the Social Security Administration and with Idaho Medicaid I don't want to say much more about Katie unless it's requested and I can do this. Other questions have been asked about our trip to Jamaica and some of the equipment I have in my office. First, the trip to Jamaica was paid for by friends who received a $250,000 inheritance from there grand mother. I have no way to prove this and they would not give me the documents if I asked for them. But these people have known us for a long time and they know I have worked very long hours for a very long time. They took us on the only trip we've had in 12 years outside of the Oregon Coast (which we went to, all expenses paid as our kids were in a wedding). Our 12th wedding anniversary was 3 days ago and I'm just realizing I missed it completely. I'm surprised my wife let that one pass. But friends of

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                    Is it possible that she could come to Canada and get her treatment free - possibly using some church facility. Just a thought. I am actually thinking hard about your problem, there must be a solution.

                    Tapas Shome System Software Engineer Keen Computer Solutions 1408 Erin Street Winnipeg, Manitoba Canada R3E 2S8 http://www.keencomputer.com

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                      I do think that some explanation needs to be given for my request and my circumstances I mean after all. Once I hit submit the only thing I am is some essence that exists somewhere out there in some part of the world. I might live in the Ukraine running a spyware ring, I might be Nigerian trying to lure American's to my land to beat and torture them. Some people have delved into public record and discovered where I live and they have asked some compelling questions. The question of my situation being real or not is very difficult to address. I'm sitting here in my home and I'm wondering just exactly how I demonstrate that Katie is real and she does exist. Once I've done that how do I prove that she has a real condition that is actually baffling modern medicine? But even then, public record has been read on my home and frankly it's a nice home. It's not luxuriant not by a long shot. But it's not a ghetto either. How do I satisfy these questions, validate my need and restore my credibility? I am at a point where I must do this even though I now wish I had not ever done this at all. However as the saying goes (kind of) "You spill the milk you need to clean it up." Short of posting scanned in documents of actual medical bills we received for Katie I cannot prove her condition or that she even exists. I've posted photos but those could be anyone. If someone wishes I can produce a record of one medical bill we have of several for $85,000 or it's $87,000 I don't remember which but we saved it because we knew that someday we'd look at it in awe and wonder. I'm certain my wife knows where it is. Due to identity theft and privacy issues and some delicate relationships I have with the Social Security Administration and with Idaho Medicaid I don't want to say much more about Katie unless it's requested and I can do this. Other questions have been asked about our trip to Jamaica and some of the equipment I have in my office. First, the trip to Jamaica was paid for by friends who received a $250,000 inheritance from there grand mother. I have no way to prove this and they would not give me the documents if I asked for them. But these people have known us for a long time and they know I have worked very long hours for a very long time. They took us on the only trip we've had in 12 years outside of the Oregon Coast (which we went to, all expenses paid as our kids were in a wedding). Our 12th wedding anniversary was 3 days ago and I'm just realizing I missed it completely. I'm surprised my wife let that one pass. But friends of

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                      Personally, I think you've done the right thing for you and your family. It takes a lot of courage to ask for help. ChrisB

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                        Christian Graus wrote:

                        It's very rare for a book to be profitable

                        you mean you can't earn $ 20,000 for 3 months of work by writing a book ? Have you written a book ? Why don't you share your statistics then, your comment is rather vague !

                        Christian Graus wrote:

                        This one is just hilarious. Why didn't *I* think of that ?

                        These are just suggestions for Rex. You can give a better suggestion if you Have ONE about the situation.

                        We Won't Let You Give Up

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                        DeepWaters wrote:

                        you mean you can't earn $ 20,000 for 3 months of work by writing a book ? Have you written a book ? Why don't you share your statistics then, your comment is rather vague !

                        Ah yes, if only writing a book and earning $20,000 was really as simple. 4 books in a year, sure thing.

                        may be because you are a pessimistic ?

                        The word is sarcastic. Again, if only life were so simple that there were HIGH END PROJECTS just waiting around. Can we also EARN MONEY WORKING 1 HOUR A WEEK FROM HOME?

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                          1 - you've obviously never written a book. It's very rare for a book to be profitable, compared to working those hours. 2 - This one is just hilarious. Why didn't *I* think of that ?

                          Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )

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                          Christian Graus wrote:

                          2 - This one is just hilarious. Why didn't *I* think of that ?

                          :laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh:

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                            Rex, i have been reading all the way with indifference, The reason for all this scrutiny is YOU never told "What is your target $ amount you seek" and What for "RIGHT NOW"? 1. You never gave any hospital details 2. You ask for payment to your companies paypal account, WHY YOU DID NOT CREATE A DONATION ACCOUNT IN A BANK ? I do want you to address this question at least, i have quoted it from DIGG "Right now I’m only able to take PayPal as I don’t really know how to take other types of payment" You can't take checks or anything else? I actually work for a hospital. The billing office, actually. How bout you send the address of your daughters hospital.. her name.. and we can help pay the bill off." The most important question, there is no definite amount you have put in your help blog? How much money can put you in the right track rex ? Do you want a million dollar like that million dollar page ? amount $ xyz can fix the current problem, can fix the issue thats it THE END If you ask others for help , you need to be very transparent. THERE SHOULD BE NO SCOPE AT ALL ABOUT PEOPLE MIS JUDGING IT THERE SHOULD BE NO NEED FOR YOUR EXPLAINATION AT ALL. this is what i think

                            We Won't Let You Give Up

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                            Lost User
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                            Easy to say when you aren't worn out through struggling to keep your child alive. I would say look at the reaction of others here who know Rex.

                            The tigress is here :-D

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                              I do think that some explanation needs to be given for my request and my circumstances I mean after all. Once I hit submit the only thing I am is some essence that exists somewhere out there in some part of the world. I might live in the Ukraine running a spyware ring, I might be Nigerian trying to lure American's to my land to beat and torture them. Some people have delved into public record and discovered where I live and they have asked some compelling questions. The question of my situation being real or not is very difficult to address. I'm sitting here in my home and I'm wondering just exactly how I demonstrate that Katie is real and she does exist. Once I've done that how do I prove that she has a real condition that is actually baffling modern medicine? But even then, public record has been read on my home and frankly it's a nice home. It's not luxuriant not by a long shot. But it's not a ghetto either. How do I satisfy these questions, validate my need and restore my credibility? I am at a point where I must do this even though I now wish I had not ever done this at all. However as the saying goes (kind of) "You spill the milk you need to clean it up." Short of posting scanned in documents of actual medical bills we received for Katie I cannot prove her condition or that she even exists. I've posted photos but those could be anyone. If someone wishes I can produce a record of one medical bill we have of several for $85,000 or it's $87,000 I don't remember which but we saved it because we knew that someday we'd look at it in awe and wonder. I'm certain my wife knows where it is. Due to identity theft and privacy issues and some delicate relationships I have with the Social Security Administration and with Idaho Medicaid I don't want to say much more about Katie unless it's requested and I can do this. Other questions have been asked about our trip to Jamaica and some of the equipment I have in my office. First, the trip to Jamaica was paid for by friends who received a $250,000 inheritance from there grand mother. I have no way to prove this and they would not give me the documents if I asked for them. But these people have known us for a long time and they know I have worked very long hours for a very long time. They took us on the only trip we've had in 12 years outside of the Oregon Coast (which we went to, all expenses paid as our kids were in a wedding). Our 12th wedding anniversary was 3 days ago and I'm just realizing I missed it completely. I'm surprised my wife let that one pass. But friends of

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                              I know there have been negatives but hopefully this has also shown how people can stand up and be counted as well. Elaine :rose:

                              The tigress is here :-D

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                                I've read your posts, visited you site, thought about your situation. It is a messy business, not the clean cut - black and white - situation that people prefer. First, forget about the non-constructive criticism. You've got more important things to worry about. It is that simple. Second, do get a plan. It doesn't matter that you were just venting at first and now it has snowballed. Use the momentum you've got to make something of it. Get your thinking straight, is this about debt or about your daughter? They are connected, yes, but which is the one that you are getting stuck on? You don't need to answer the question to me or to anyone. But you need to identify your problems clearly and go from there. It also seems right that you seek legal advice, as it is that you start a fund. Last, it is not about being forthright about your situation. You don't have to explain yourself. However, perception matters and you will be well advised to consider how you want to present your situation to others. At this point, I am afraid, it is too messy. It doesn't help either when you express your frustation, how ever understandable it is that you feel that way. Take some time to think it over. Going public is a new challenge you've added to the list BUT you've got a start and, believe me, you are very lucky considering how positively some people have responded. You've got a start, don't let it go to waste.

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                                The tigress is here :-D

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                                  Christian Graus wrote:

                                  It's very rare for a book to be profitable

                                  you mean you can't earn $ 20,000 for 3 months of work by writing a book ? Have you written a book ? Why don't you share your statistics then, your comment is rather vague !

                                  Christian Graus wrote:

                                  This one is just hilarious. Why didn't *I* think of that ?

                                  These are just suggestions for Rex. You can give a better suggestion if you Have ONE about the situation.

                                  We Won't Let You Give Up

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                                  Christian Graus
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                                  I guarentee you, I make more than $20,000 for three months work. I've spoken to people who have written books. I've not pursued it, based on their advice.

                                  DeepWaters wrote:

                                  These are just suggestions for Rex

                                  I know you're trying to help, but your suggestions don't appear to be based in reality.

                                  Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )

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                                    Christian Graus wrote:

                                    Why didn't *I* think of that ?

                                    may be because you are a pessimistic ? may be because you think, donation camp is a better idea ?

                                    We Won't Let You Give Up

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                                    Christian Graus
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                                    I know that high paying jobs don't just fall off trees, if that's what you mean.

                                    Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )

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                                      I do think that some explanation needs to be given for my request and my circumstances I mean after all. Once I hit submit the only thing I am is some essence that exists somewhere out there in some part of the world. I might live in the Ukraine running a spyware ring, I might be Nigerian trying to lure American's to my land to beat and torture them. Some people have delved into public record and discovered where I live and they have asked some compelling questions. The question of my situation being real or not is very difficult to address. I'm sitting here in my home and I'm wondering just exactly how I demonstrate that Katie is real and she does exist. Once I've done that how do I prove that she has a real condition that is actually baffling modern medicine? But even then, public record has been read on my home and frankly it's a nice home. It's not luxuriant not by a long shot. But it's not a ghetto either. How do I satisfy these questions, validate my need and restore my credibility? I am at a point where I must do this even though I now wish I had not ever done this at all. However as the saying goes (kind of) "You spill the milk you need to clean it up." Short of posting scanned in documents of actual medical bills we received for Katie I cannot prove her condition or that she even exists. I've posted photos but those could be anyone. If someone wishes I can produce a record of one medical bill we have of several for $85,000 or it's $87,000 I don't remember which but we saved it because we knew that someday we'd look at it in awe and wonder. I'm certain my wife knows where it is. Due to identity theft and privacy issues and some delicate relationships I have with the Social Security Administration and with Idaho Medicaid I don't want to say much more about Katie unless it's requested and I can do this. Other questions have been asked about our trip to Jamaica and some of the equipment I have in my office. First, the trip to Jamaica was paid for by friends who received a $250,000 inheritance from there grand mother. I have no way to prove this and they would not give me the documents if I asked for them. But these people have known us for a long time and they know I have worked very long hours for a very long time. They took us on the only trip we've had in 12 years outside of the Oregon Coast (which we went to, all expenses paid as our kids were in a wedding). Our 12th wedding anniversary was 3 days ago and I'm just realizing I missed it completely. I'm surprised my wife let that one pass. But friends of

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                                      Joan M
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                                      Wow Rex... I'm very sorry to hear that from you... Don't give up... keep up fighting and for sure that you will succeed. I hope you will pass that soon. Regards, and tons of luck. :rose:

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                                        Quartz. wrote:

                                        I think EVERYONE YOU KNOW in CODE PROJECT wants to help you, you need to come up with a definite plan , Although i don't know the impression about deepwaters but, there is one thing i agree, come up with a definite plan, EVERY BODY WILL SUPPORT IT , like you already said a million dollar page , ITS A WIN WIN IDEA,

                                        Totally agree, i gave him these two suggestions , what do you think 1. Think about writing a book on latest technology, that can get advance of as much as $ 20,000 for 2-3 months. work , 4 nice book published in an year can get you around $ 80,000, Do you see the potential here ! 2. Look for a high end ONE BIG SOFTWARE PROJECT ! big software projects can pay you the biggest amount in the time. ASK at code project , if they can GET YOU a HIGH END PROJECT WHICH YOU CAN DELIEVER, IN 3 MONTHS or 6 months, i am sure there are EVEN big shots from microsoft who are the secret CPIANS, EVEN they can get you a SUB CONTRACT PROJECT WORTH GOOD MONEY.

                                        We Won't Let You Give Up

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                                        Chris Sells has said that he doesn't make any profit on his books, and he wrote one of the highest-selling Windows Forms books out there. Technical book authors do it to scratch the itch, not because it's profitable.

                                        Stability. What an interesting concept. -- Chris Maunder

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                                        • L LakshmiChava

                                          Christian Graus wrote:

                                          It's very rare for a book to be profitable

                                          you mean you can't earn $ 20,000 for 3 months of work by writing a book ? Have you written a book ? Why don't you share your statistics then, your comment is rather vague !

                                          Christian Graus wrote:

                                          This one is just hilarious. Why didn't *I* think of that ?

                                          These are just suggestions for Rex. You can give a better suggestion if you Have ONE about the situation.

                                          We Won't Let You Give Up

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                                          Rama Krishna Vavilala
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                                          DeepWaters wrote:

                                          you mean you can't earn $ 20,000 for 3 months of work by writing a book

                                          No it is impossible if you write a technical book. An extremely good sale of tech books is around 11000 copies (good is around 8000). Assuming each copy sells for $50 you will get around 10% commission on $25 (half the book price). So the maximum you ca earn if you write an exceptional book is 27000 over the life time of the book. But 90% of the books make only $10,000. And it typically takes hours and hours of effort to write a book.

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