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    R Giskard Reventlov
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    I do hope someone from the general LA area can help with this. I have a close relative who lives in LA who has become involved with and addicted to drugs (marijuana). That person has the chance and has expressed a desire to attend a rehabilitation unit. I'd like to try and help but know nothing of the system there or what is involved. The unit that has been mooted is: Action Recovery[^]. Whilst I appreciate this is a long shot, does anyone have any knowledge of this place? The web site does not, as far as I can tell, give a proper location which always makes me suspicious nor do they plainly state what the costs would be. Does anyone have any better understanding either of this unit or how the system works? Is there any state or local help? Are there any better ways to help someone in LA? If you have an answer you'd prefer not to tell everyone else please mail me direct. Thank you.

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      I do hope someone from the general LA area can help with this. I have a close relative who lives in LA who has become involved with and addicted to drugs (marijuana). That person has the chance and has expressed a desire to attend a rehabilitation unit. I'd like to try and help but know nothing of the system there or what is involved. The unit that has been mooted is: Action Recovery[^]. Whilst I appreciate this is a long shot, does anyone have any knowledge of this place? The web site does not, as far as I can tell, give a proper location which always makes me suspicious nor do they plainly state what the costs would be. Does anyone have any better understanding either of this unit or how the system works? Is there any state or local help? Are there any better ways to help someone in LA? If you have an answer you'd prefer not to tell everyone else please mail me direct. Thank you.

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      They have rehab for dope ? Unless todays marijuana is very different to the stuff I took, I'd say what he most needs, is to move away from where he is, so he's not surrounded by friends who take/supply the stuff. If he wants to go to this place, couldn't you email or call them for those details ? They must have some contact details on the site ?

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        They have rehab for dope ? Unless todays marijuana is very different to the stuff I took, I'd say what he most needs, is to move away from where he is, so he's not surrounded by friends who take/supply the stuff. If he wants to go to this place, couldn't you email or call them for those details ? They must have some contact details on the site ?

        Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )

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        I hear that there are much stronger strains now and mental health problems are more common as a result. But your basic advice is true bout so called friends. Elaine :rose:

        Visit http://www.readytogiveup.com/[^] and do something special today.

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          I hear that there are much stronger strains now and mental health problems are more common as a result. But your basic advice is true bout so called friends. Elaine :rose:

          Visit http://www.readytogiveup.com/[^] and do something special today.

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          Trollslayer wrote:

          mental health problems are more common as a result

          Mental health problems are the cause, not the result.

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            Trollslayer wrote:

            mental health problems are more common as a result

            Mental health problems are the cause, not the result.

            "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt, 1997
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            I guess that's one that's hard to debate, on either side.

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              I hear that there are much stronger strains now and mental health problems are more common as a result. But your basic advice is true bout so called friends. Elaine :rose:

              Visit http://www.readytogiveup.com/[^] and do something special today.

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              IIRC during your teenage years you can be suseptable from damage if you take large amounts, but once your past that growth stage it only tends to bring out pre-existing mental problems rather than cuase them. And I didn't see anything in the original post that would warrant you calling into question the standing of his friends.

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                They have rehab for dope ? Unless todays marijuana is very different to the stuff I took, I'd say what he most needs, is to move away from where he is, so he's not surrounded by friends who take/supply the stuff. If he wants to go to this place, couldn't you email or call them for those details ? They must have some contact details on the site ?

                Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )

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                It is, from what I can gather a little different and much more addictive than it used to be. Moving away is not really an option for a number of reasons. I could call or email but I'm 6000 miles away. They could tell me anything and I have no way of verifying the information. I appreciate the insight but I was hoping for direct knowledge.

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                  Trollslayer wrote:

                  mental health problems are more common as a result

                  Mental health problems are the cause, not the result.

                  "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt, 1997
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                  Eh!:wtf:

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                    Trollslayer wrote:

                    mental health problems are more common as a result

                    Mental health problems are the cause, not the result.

                    "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt, 1997
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                    R Giskard Reventlov
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                    Not like you to talk complete rubbish. The person in question was a completely normal teenager until (as far as I can gather) they fell in with the wrong crowd and, most likely, gave in to peer pressure. There is no history of mental helath problems. I also know directly of some other youngsters (in the UK) caught up in this. Very often they experiment as a way to show off to their peers and quickly become hooked. This doesn't mean they are mentally ill. Having spoken to a couple of psychiatrists and they now clearly believe there is a strong link between taking drugs like cannabis and a growing problem with mental health issues as the drugs become cheaper and more widely available. They did not seem to think that they took drugs because they were already ill.

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                      It is, from what I can gather a little different and much more addictive than it used to be. Moving away is not really an option for a number of reasons. I could call or email but I'm 6000 miles away. They could tell me anything and I have no way of verifying the information. I appreciate the insight but I was hoping for direct knowledge.

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                      THC has an emotional addiction (like chocolate), as apposed to chemical(like opiates), so it's addictive as it's always been. The addiction arises from the user getting some other perceived benefit that they don't want to give up i.e. pleasure or mood alteration This is why THC isn't classed as a highly addictive substance because it's all down to the user, and the average user can mentally say "I want to stop using this now because the bad points out weigh the good". The problem with giving it up is usually either because the user doesn't really believe the bad points out weigh the good or they have an unusually addictive personality and would get hooked on most things given a chance. Going into rehad could well work if the user belives it will work (it's all in the mind), but if they have easy access to getting more once they are released then unless they belive they are better off without it it wont last.

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                        Not like you to talk complete rubbish. The person in question was a completely normal teenager until (as far as I can gather) they fell in with the wrong crowd and, most likely, gave in to peer pressure. There is no history of mental helath problems. I also know directly of some other youngsters (in the UK) caught up in this. Very often they experiment as a way to show off to their peers and quickly become hooked. This doesn't mean they are mentally ill. Having spoken to a couple of psychiatrists and they now clearly believe there is a strong link between taking drugs like cannabis and a growing problem with mental health issues as the drugs become cheaper and more widely available. They did not seem to think that they took drugs because they were already ill.

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                        Not like you to talk complete rubbish.

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                          THC has an emotional addiction (like chocolate), as apposed to chemical(like opiates), so it's addictive as it's always been. The addiction arises from the user getting some other perceived benefit that they don't want to give up i.e. pleasure or mood alteration This is why THC isn't classed as a highly addictive substance because it's all down to the user, and the average user can mentally say "I want to stop using this now because the bad points out weigh the good". The problem with giving it up is usually either because the user doesn't really believe the bad points out weigh the good or they have an unusually addictive personality and would get hooked on most things given a chance. Going into rehad could well work if the user belives it will work (it's all in the mind), but if they have easy access to getting more once they are released then unless they belive they are better off without it it wont last.

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                          originSH wrote:

                          Going into rehad could well work if the user belives it will work (it's all in the mind), but if they have easy access to getting more once they are released then unless they belive they are better off without it it wont last.

                          That is my main concern.

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                            originSH wrote:

                            Going into rehad could well work if the user belives it will work (it's all in the mind), but if they have easy access to getting more once they are released then unless they belive they are better off without it it wont last.

                            That is my main concern.

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                            Unfortunatly I dont have any good suggestions :S It's all about the weighing of the good and bad and it's very hard to stack up enough bad.

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                              I do hope someone from the general LA area can help with this. I have a close relative who lives in LA who has become involved with and addicted to drugs (marijuana). That person has the chance and has expressed a desire to attend a rehabilitation unit. I'd like to try and help but know nothing of the system there or what is involved. The unit that has been mooted is: Action Recovery[^]. Whilst I appreciate this is a long shot, does anyone have any knowledge of this place? The web site does not, as far as I can tell, give a proper location which always makes me suspicious nor do they plainly state what the costs would be. Does anyone have any better understanding either of this unit or how the system works? Is there any state or local help? Are there any better ways to help someone in LA? If you have an answer you'd prefer not to tell everyone else please mail me direct. Thank you.

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                              An ex gf of mine is from LA and used to be addicted to dope, among other drugs. She and a number of my friends from the area joined Narcotics Anonymous (http://www.na.org/) who have support groups and meetings all over the World as well as in SoCal. Contacting them may be a good idea as they are pretty friendly and provide a comprehensive peer based support structure. Mark

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                                I do hope someone from the general LA area can help with this. I have a close relative who lives in LA who has become involved with and addicted to drugs (marijuana). That person has the chance and has expressed a desire to attend a rehabilitation unit. I'd like to try and help but know nothing of the system there or what is involved. The unit that has been mooted is: Action Recovery[^]. Whilst I appreciate this is a long shot, does anyone have any knowledge of this place? The web site does not, as far as I can tell, give a proper location which always makes me suspicious nor do they plainly state what the costs would be. Does anyone have any better understanding either of this unit or how the system works? Is there any state or local help? Are there any better ways to help someone in LA? If you have an answer you'd prefer not to tell everyone else please mail me direct. Thank you.

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                                I would strongly second mpmansell's recommendation of trying NA first. This organization is based on principles similar to Alcoholics Anonymous, and has a good track record (success rate is better than most. It is also essentially free (contribution supported, typically $1 a meeting, but not required).

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                                  An ex gf of mine is from LA and used to be addicted to dope, among other drugs. She and a number of my friends from the area joined Narcotics Anonymous (http://www.na.org/) who have support groups and meetings all over the World as well as in SoCal. Contacting them may be a good idea as they are pretty friendly and provide a comprehensive peer based support structure. Mark

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                                  Ah, thank you. I'll take a look.

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                                    Ah, thank you. I'll take a look.

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                                    You're welcome :)

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                                      I would strongly second mpmansell's recommendation of trying NA first. This organization is based on principles similar to Alcoholics Anonymous, and has a good track record (success rate is better than most. It is also essentially free (contribution supported, typically $1 a meeting, but not required).

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                                      Again, thank you.

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                                        It is, from what I can gather a little different and much more addictive than it used to be. Moving away is not really an option for a number of reasons. I could call or email but I'm 6000 miles away. They could tell me anything and I have no way of verifying the information. I appreciate the insight but I was hoping for direct knowledge.

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                                        Sorry, but cannabis is not chemically addictive in any way. The worst that is going to happen to your relo is that his mind will become progessively unhinged, showing signs of paranoia and if he has the tendency, schizophrenia. And with the strength of todays gear that is more and more likely. He needs talking to, by experienced older people who have done the stuff and whose minds did become slightly unhinged, like me for example, and who, through vast amounts of alcohol and singing in Karaoke bars, has clawed their way back to normality. (OK, kind of normality, but you get my drift). Hope you find a way to het through to him. Really, coke or speed is better in many respects. OK your heart falls apart, and your brain developes legions, but at least you arent mad.

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                                          I do hope someone from the general LA area can help with this. I have a close relative who lives in LA who has become involved with and addicted to drugs (marijuana). That person has the chance and has expressed a desire to attend a rehabilitation unit. I'd like to try and help but know nothing of the system there or what is involved. The unit that has been mooted is: Action Recovery[^]. Whilst I appreciate this is a long shot, does anyone have any knowledge of this place? The web site does not, as far as I can tell, give a proper location which always makes me suspicious nor do they plainly state what the costs would be. Does anyone have any better understanding either of this unit or how the system works? Is there any state or local help? Are there any better ways to help someone in LA? If you have an answer you'd prefer not to tell everyone else please mail me direct. Thank you.

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                                          I know this is going to get me flamed but here goes, I for one do not think Marijuana should be illegal, hell I dont even think it should be classified as a "drug" per se, I mean I dont know of anyone who's ever committed a violent crime while "high", o drive-by shootings (hell they'd forget what they were doing the first fast-food place then seen) and I truly dont believe it's any worse for you than alcohol and thats legal. JMHO (let the flaming begin ;P)

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