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  • M Maximilien

    Don't let the situation stand, go see your "boss" and ask him about it.


    Maximilien Lincourt Your Head A Splode - Strong Bad

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    Josh Smith
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    Maximilien wrote:

    Don't let the situation stand, go see your "boss" and ask him about it.

    I did. He blew it off as he "laughed" about it and walked away.

    :josh: My WPF Blog[^] The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it. - Michelangelo (1475-1564)

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    • M Mark Salsbery

      Yeah...depends on the conference. If it's a "How to be a better developer" conference then it's a good sign! Mark

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      Josh Smith
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      Mark Salsbery wrote:

      If it's a "How to be a better developer" conference then it's a good sign!

      True. :) However, that is not the case. It actually seems like a very interesting conference and I want to attend it.

      :josh: My WPF Blog[^] The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it. - Michelangelo (1475-1564)

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      • J Josh Smith

        Maximilien wrote:

        Don't let the situation stand, go see your "boss" and ask him about it.

        I did. He blew it off as he "laughed" about it and walked away.

        :josh: My WPF Blog[^] The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it. - Michelangelo (1475-1564)

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        _Damian S_
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        Doesn't sound like a good sign to me... is it time to consider other employment options?

        ------------------------------------------- Damian - Insert snappy one-liner here.

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        • J Josh Smith

          ...or does something seem 'off' when everyone in your group at work is invited to attend a three day developer conference except for you? That's the situation I found myself in today. :|

          :josh: My WPF Blog[^] The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it. - Michelangelo (1475-1564)

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          Scott Dorman
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          Did you just recently go to another conference? I had a similar thing happen with a 5 day workshop of .NET 3.5 at Microsoft. I didn't get to go even though I wanted to, but I had just come back from TechEd so it was understandable.

          ----------------------------- In just two days, tomorrow will be yesterday.

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            Doesn't sound like a good sign to me... is it time to consider other employment options?

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            _Damian S_ wrote:

            Doesn't sound like a good sign to me... is it time to consider other employment options?

            That thought crossed my mind, but I just started this job five or six months ago. I'd hate to start all over again so soon.

            :josh: My WPF Blog[^] The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it. - Michelangelo (1475-1564)

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            • S Scott Dorman

              Did you just recently go to another conference? I had a similar thing happen with a 5 day workshop of .NET 3.5 at Microsoft. I didn't get to go even though I wanted to, but I had just come back from TechEd so it was understandable.

              ----------------------------- In just two days, tomorrow will be yesterday.

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              Scott Dorman wrote:

              Did you just recently go to another conference?

              No. I have only taken one sick day since I started the job almost 6 months ago.

              :josh: My WPF Blog[^] The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it. - Michelangelo (1475-1564)

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              • J Josh Smith

                _Damian S_ wrote:

                Doesn't sound like a good sign to me... is it time to consider other employment options?

                That thought crossed my mind, but I just started this job five or six months ago. I'd hate to start all over again so soon.

                :josh: My WPF Blog[^] The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it. - Michelangelo (1475-1564)

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                Luis Alonso Ramos
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                Josh Smith wrote:

                I just started this job

                Well, then that might explain it. Maybe they are just trying to make sure you'll stay enough time at the company before spending too much on you.

                Luis Alonso Ramos Intelectix Chihuahua, Mexico

                Not much here: My CP Blog!

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                  Josh Smith wrote:

                  I just started this job

                  Well, then that might explain it. Maybe they are just trying to make sure you'll stay enough time at the company before spending too much on you.

                  Luis Alonso Ramos Intelectix Chihuahua, Mexico

                  Not much here: My CP Blog!

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                  Luis Alonso Ramos wrote:

                  Maybe they are just trying to make sure you'll stay enough time at the company before spending too much on you.

                  I edited that post shortly after writing it. I started the job about 6 months ago. That's long enough to warrant sending me to a conference, in my opinion.

                  :josh: My WPF Blog[^] The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it. - Michelangelo (1475-1564)

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                  • J Josh Smith

                    The convention[^] is about technologies which have no direct bearing on what I work on, but another person in the group is in the same situation as I am, and he was invited. This seems like a very odd thing for management to do. It's like they're giving me the middle finger.

                    :josh: My WPF Blog[^] The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it. - Michelangelo (1475-1564)

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                    Josh Smith wrote:

                    The convention[^] is about technologies which have no direct bearing on what I work on, but another person in the group is in the same situation as I am, and he was invited. This seems like a very odd thing for management to do. It's like they're giving me the middle finger.

                    Well, think of it this way. They figured your time wasn't worth wasting... and by the looks of it, it would be wasted.

                    -Matt Newman

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                      Luis Alonso Ramos wrote:

                      Maybe they are just trying to make sure you'll stay enough time at the company before spending too much on you.

                      I edited that post shortly after writing it. I started the job about 6 months ago. That's long enough to warrant sending me to a conference, in my opinion.

                      :josh: My WPF Blog[^] The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it. - Michelangelo (1475-1564)

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                      _Damian S_
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                      Is there some other reason why you aren't going, eg: you are a critical member of a project that has a delivery date this week, or support person for a mission critical system etc?

                      ------------------------------------------- Damian - Insert snappy one-liner here.

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                      • J Josh Smith

                        Scott Dorman wrote:

                        Did you just recently go to another conference?

                        No. I have only taken one sick day since I started the job almost 6 months ago.

                        :josh: My WPF Blog[^] The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it. - Michelangelo (1475-1564)

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                        Scott Dorman
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                        Maybe it is time to start looking again. 6 months should be plenty of time. I was able to go to TechEd after being with the company about that same amount of time. The only other thing would be if they see you as critical path for something and don't think they can afford not having you be productive for that amount of time.

                        ----------------------------- In just two days, tomorrow will be yesterday.

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                        • _ _Damian S_

                          Is there some other reason why you aren't going, eg: you are a critical member of a project that has a delivery date this week, or support person for a mission critical system etc?

                          ------------------------------------------- Damian - Insert snappy one-liner here.

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                          Josh Smith
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                          _Damian S_ wrote:

                          Is there some other reason why you aren't going, eg: you are a critical member of a project that has a delivery date this week, or support person for a mission critical system etc?

                          No.

                          :josh: My WPF Blog[^] The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it. - Michelangelo (1475-1564)

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                          • J Josh Smith

                            Luis Alonso Ramos wrote:

                            Maybe they are just trying to make sure you'll stay enough time at the company before spending too much on you.

                            I edited that post shortly after writing it. I started the job about 6 months ago. That's long enough to warrant sending me to a conference, in my opinion.

                            :josh: My WPF Blog[^] The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it. - Michelangelo (1475-1564)

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                            Josh Smith wrote:

                            That's long enough to warrant sending me to a conference, in my opinion

                            Yes, you're right... but there might be other reasons for you to stay. Maybe just not leaving the office alone could be a reason, in case anything happens?

                            Luis Alonso Ramos Intelectix Chihuahua, Mexico

                            Not much here: My CP Blog!

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                            • M Matt Newman

                              Josh Smith wrote:

                              The convention[^] is about technologies which have no direct bearing on what I work on, but another person in the group is in the same situation as I am, and he was invited. This seems like a very odd thing for management to do. It's like they're giving me the middle finger.

                              Well, think of it this way. They figured your time wasn't worth wasting... and by the looks of it, it would be wasted.

                              -Matt Newman

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                              Matt Newman wrote:

                              Well, think of it this way. They figured your time wasn't worth wasting... and by the looks of it, it would be wasted.

                              I know what you mean, but that's a justification for them excluding me. I'm more concerned about how they treat me than the contents of the conference.

                              :josh: My WPF Blog[^] The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it. - Michelangelo (1475-1564)

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                                Josh Smith wrote:

                                That's long enough to warrant sending me to a conference, in my opinion

                                Yes, you're right... but there might be other reasons for you to stay. Maybe just not leaving the office alone could be a reason, in case anything happens?

                                Luis Alonso Ramos Intelectix Chihuahua, Mexico

                                Not much here: My CP Blog!

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                                Luis Alonso Ramos wrote:

                                Maybe just not leaving the office alone could be a reason, in case anything happens?

                                I'm not the lead dev on the team. The lead dev is the one going out to the conference. He wrote the system, so he knows how it works faaaar better than I do. If something goes wrong, he would be the one to fix it.

                                :josh: My WPF Blog[^] The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it. - Michelangelo (1475-1564)

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                                  Luis Alonso Ramos wrote:

                                  Maybe just not leaving the office alone could be a reason, in case anything happens?

                                  I'm not the lead dev on the team. The lead dev is the one going out to the conference. He wrote the system, so he knows how it works faaaar better than I do. If something goes wrong, he would be the one to fix it.

                                  :josh: My WPF Blog[^] The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it. - Michelangelo (1475-1564)

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                                  Luis Alonso Ramos
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                                  Well, then I cannot offer any more ideas... exit through a window, take an alternate route, floor the pedal, and get there before everyone else :-D

                                  Luis Alonso Ramos Intelectix Chihuahua, Mexico

                                  Not much here: My CP Blog!

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                                  • J Josh Smith

                                    ...or does something seem 'off' when everyone in your group at work is invited to attend a three day developer conference except for you? That's the situation I found myself in today. :|

                                    :josh: My WPF Blog[^] The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it. - Michelangelo (1475-1564)

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                                    Josh Smith wrote:

                                    ...or does something seem 'off' when everyone in your group at work is invited to attend a three day developer conference except for you? That's the situation I found myself in today.

                                    well, I don't know your situation. I do have a couple of views and one question. Would it be different if you were the ONLY one selected to go? Would it be a finger to everyone else in the group? If half had been selected and half had not would it still be a finger to anyone not invited? I have gone to conventions, and I have been rejected from going. Sometimes the rejection was because I could not be replaced for a week. And in one case, I went and ended up remotely developing customer changes from Los Angeles via the wireless connection at the convention. Camped out the entire time at an outlet between rooms. All I am saying is that it can be more complicated than just selecting people to go.

                                    _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)

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                                    • J Josh Smith

                                      Luis Alonso Ramos wrote:

                                      Maybe just not leaving the office alone could be a reason, in case anything happens?

                                      I'm not the lead dev on the team. The lead dev is the one going out to the conference. He wrote the system, so he knows how it works faaaar better than I do. If something goes wrong, he would be the one to fix it.

                                      :josh: My WPF Blog[^] The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it. - Michelangelo (1475-1564)

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                                      Josh Smith wrote:

                                      I'm not the lead dev on the team. The lead dev is the one going out to the conference. He wrote the system, so he knows how it works faaaar better than I do. If something goes wrong, he would be the one to fix it.

                                      but that might be exactly it. You simply may be the newest so you mind the shop so that the more experienced members "can go." It may be nothing specific to you, just that you are the newest.

                                      _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)

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                                      • J Josh Smith

                                        Matt Newman wrote:

                                        Well, think of it this way. They figured your time wasn't worth wasting... and by the looks of it, it would be wasted.

                                        I know what you mean, but that's a justification for them excluding me. I'm more concerned about how they treat me than the contents of the conference.

                                        :josh: My WPF Blog[^] The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it. - Michelangelo (1475-1564)

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                                        Josh Smith wrote:

                                        I know what you mean, but that's a justification for them excluding me. I'm more concerned about how they treat me than the contents of the conference.

                                        Be careful about assumptions like this, they may not realize how you feel like you are being treated.

                                        -Matt Newman

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                                        • E El Corazon

                                          Josh Smith wrote:

                                          I'm not the lead dev on the team. The lead dev is the one going out to the conference. He wrote the system, so he knows how it works faaaar better than I do. If something goes wrong, he would be the one to fix it.

                                          but that might be exactly it. You simply may be the newest so you mind the shop so that the more experienced members "can go." It may be nothing specific to you, just that you are the newest.

                                          _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)

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                                          Josh Smith
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                                          El Corazon wrote:

                                          You simply may be the newest so you mind the shop so that the more experienced members "can go."

                                          I hear you, but "minding the shop" on my project does not really matter much. If something needs to be fixed we have to create a new version of the app, which must be QA tested, pushed out to users, etc. My job does not involve putting out fires (with rare exceptions).

                                          :josh: My WPF Blog[^] The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it. - Michelangelo (1475-1564)

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