How to forget
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How do you forget someone? I mean how do you get over a relationship that failed? I need help here, and I can't talk to friends about it. I used to know her years ago, but now I have learnt that she left last year. I even disconnected myself from old friends because they would remind me of her. I just wanted it to be over, but now the memories have come back. I need to get over it before I do something stupid. (I don't know if I can get any more stupid than looking for love in the wrong people). I really want myself to be glad it is over, but how? (It was an abusive relationship for me that started in 1999 that I ended around mid 2003, four years ago!) Please make some suggestions / words of wisdom.
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How do you forget someone? I mean how do you get over a relationship that failed? I need help here, and I can't talk to friends about it. I used to know her years ago, but now I have learnt that she left last year. I even disconnected myself from old friends because they would remind me of her. I just wanted it to be over, but now the memories have come back. I need to get over it before I do something stupid. (I don't know if I can get any more stupid than looking for love in the wrong people). I really want myself to be glad it is over, but how? (It was an abusive relationship for me that started in 1999 that I ended around mid 2003, four years ago!) Please make some suggestions / words of wisdom.
this is this.
Simply ignore them.
Vasudevan Deepak Kumar Personal Homepage Tech Gossips
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How do you forget someone? I mean how do you get over a relationship that failed? I need help here, and I can't talk to friends about it. I used to know her years ago, but now I have learnt that she left last year. I even disconnected myself from old friends because they would remind me of her. I just wanted it to be over, but now the memories have come back. I need to get over it before I do something stupid. (I don't know if I can get any more stupid than looking for love in the wrong people). I really want myself to be glad it is over, but how? (It was an abusive relationship for me that started in 1999 that I ended around mid 2003, four years ago!) Please make some suggestions / words of wisdom.
this is this.
try to forget them or make new friends in your circle now. And as Vasudevan said simply ignore them.
Regards, Satips.:rose: Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow; Don't walk behind me, I may not lead; Walk beside me, and just be my friend. - Albert Camus
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How do you forget someone? I mean how do you get over a relationship that failed? I need help here, and I can't talk to friends about it. I used to know her years ago, but now I have learnt that she left last year. I even disconnected myself from old friends because they would remind me of her. I just wanted it to be over, but now the memories have come back. I need to get over it before I do something stupid. (I don't know if I can get any more stupid than looking for love in the wrong people). I really want myself to be glad it is over, but how? (It was an abusive relationship for me that started in 1999 that I ended around mid 2003, four years ago!) Please make some suggestions / words of wisdom.
this is this.
The more you want to forget her, the more you can't forget her. From my experience:), just find another girl or get busy.
Work hard, Work effectively. Stock Pick
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The more you want to forget her, the more you can't forget her. From my experience:), just find another girl or get busy.
Work hard, Work effectively. Stock Pick
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try to forget them or make new friends in your circle now. And as Vasudevan said simply ignore them.
Regards, Satips.:rose: Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow; Don't walk behind me, I may not lead; Walk beside me, and just be my friend. - Albert Camus
True. We have one million productive tasks in pipeline. My preferred Task Manager is Todolist for all personal and official guidance: http://www.codeproject.com/tools/ToDoList2.asp[^] The reason of me suggesting is that instead of wasting time over people who don't support us, we can concenterate on healthy relationship building, and this also, in my view should be one item in the Todolist. As Satips tells "make new friends in your circle now" is a good policy as we expand our healthy friends circle.
Vasudevan Deepak Kumar Personal Homepage Tech Gossips
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The more you want to forget her, the more you can't forget her. From my experience:), just find another girl or get busy.
Work hard, Work effectively. Stock Pick
Yulianto. wrote:
get busy.
That is why we have a saying "
An idle mind is devil's workshop"Vasudevan Deepak Kumar Personal Homepage Tech Gossips
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How do you forget someone? I mean how do you get over a relationship that failed? I need help here, and I can't talk to friends about it. I used to know her years ago, but now I have learnt that she left last year. I even disconnected myself from old friends because they would remind me of her. I just wanted it to be over, but now the memories have come back. I need to get over it before I do something stupid. (I don't know if I can get any more stupid than looking for love in the wrong people). I really want myself to be glad it is over, but how? (It was an abusive relationship for me that started in 1999 that I ended around mid 2003, four years ago!) Please make some suggestions / words of wisdom.
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khan++ wrote:
I mean how do you get over a relationship that failed?
Be patient. Time is a great healer. You'll feel bad for a while but it will pass. Distract yourself until then, do new things, take up new hobbies, write an article for CP.
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Yulianto. wrote:
get busy.
That is why we have a saying "
An idle mind is devil's workshop"Vasudevan Deepak Kumar Personal Homepage Tech Gossips
Vasudevan Deepak Kumar wrote:
"An idle mind is devil's workshop"
Well Said.
Regards, Satips.:rose: Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow; Don't walk behind me, I may not lead; Walk beside me, and just be my friend. - Albert Camus
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How do you forget someone? I mean how do you get over a relationship that failed? I need help here, and I can't talk to friends about it. I used to know her years ago, but now I have learnt that she left last year. I even disconnected myself from old friends because they would remind me of her. I just wanted it to be over, but now the memories have come back. I need to get over it before I do something stupid. (I don't know if I can get any more stupid than looking for love in the wrong people). I really want myself to be glad it is over, but how? (It was an abusive relationship for me that started in 1999 that I ended around mid 2003, four years ago!) Please make some suggestions / words of wisdom.
this is this.
Don't forget her, remember all those good times you had together
Grady Booch: I told Google to their face...what you need is some serious adult supervision. (2007 Turing lecture) http://www.frankkerrigan.com/[^]
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How do you forget someone? I mean how do you get over a relationship that failed? I need help here, and I can't talk to friends about it. I used to know her years ago, but now I have learnt that she left last year. I even disconnected myself from old friends because they would remind me of her. I just wanted it to be over, but now the memories have come back. I need to get over it before I do something stupid. (I don't know if I can get any more stupid than looking for love in the wrong people). I really want myself to be glad it is over, but how? (It was an abusive relationship for me that started in 1999 that I ended around mid 2003, four years ago!) Please make some suggestions / words of wisdom.
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khan++ wrote:
(It was an abusive relationship for me that started in 1999 that I ended around mid 2003, four years ago!)
Wow! That sounds familiar. My ex was a psycotic b*tch. I won't forget her, I just refer to her as Lady Voldemort or She-who-must-not-be-named. I tell people about her. About how she smashed the car in to the neighbour's house, how she insulted one of my friends so badly I've not spoken to him in 6 years, how she insulted my uncle that I've not spoken with him in about 6 years also. Due to her my dad refused to visit for about 6 months. And during that relationship I ended up in accident and emergency more times that the rest of my life put together. (And there is more to that than I really want to talk about)
khan++ wrote:
How do you forget someone?
You don't
khan++ wrote:
I mean how do you get over a relationship that failed?
Learn the lesson and move on.
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Simply ignore them.
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Find someone else, that are interested in what you do and say.
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How do you forget someone? I mean how do you get over a relationship that failed? I need help here, and I can't talk to friends about it. I used to know her years ago, but now I have learnt that she left last year. I even disconnected myself from old friends because they would remind me of her. I just wanted it to be over, but now the memories have come back. I need to get over it before I do something stupid. (I don't know if I can get any more stupid than looking for love in the wrong people). I really want myself to be glad it is over, but how? (It was an abusive relationship for me that started in 1999 that I ended around mid 2003, four years ago!) Please make some suggestions / words of wisdom.
this is this.
Don't blame your self about something you don't have a choice with it , then don't ever remember or think about anyone left you without any reasonable reason. just let it go
When you get mad...THINK twice that the only advice Tamimi - Code
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khan++ wrote:
(It was an abusive relationship for me that started in 1999 that I ended around mid 2003, four years ago!)
Wow! That sounds familiar. My ex was a psycotic b*tch. I won't forget her, I just refer to her as Lady Voldemort or She-who-must-not-be-named. I tell people about her. About how she smashed the car in to the neighbour's house, how she insulted one of my friends so badly I've not spoken to him in 6 years, how she insulted my uncle that I've not spoken with him in about 6 years also. Due to her my dad refused to visit for about 6 months. And during that relationship I ended up in accident and emergency more times that the rest of my life put together. (And there is more to that than I really want to talk about)
khan++ wrote:
How do you forget someone?
You don't
khan++ wrote:
I mean how do you get over a relationship that failed?
Learn the lesson and move on.
Upcoming events: * Glasgow: Mock Objects, SQL Server CLR Integration, Reporting Services, db4o, Dependency Injection with Spring ... "I wouldn't say boo to a goose. I'm not a coward, I just realise that it would be largely pointless." My website
Colin Angus Mackay wrote:
Learn the lesson and move on.
it's sometime so costly........ so many tears
When you get mad...THINK twice that the only advice Tamimi - Code
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Colin Angus Mackay wrote:
Learn the lesson and move on.
it's sometime so costly........ so many tears
When you get mad...THINK twice that the only advice Tamimi - Code
Tamimi - Code wrote:
it's sometime so costly........ so many tears
The tears go away after a while. The great big dent in my bank account takes a while longer.
Upcoming events: * Glasgow: Mock Objects, SQL Server CLR Integration, Reporting Services, db4o, Dependency Injection with Spring ... "I wouldn't say boo to a goose. I'm not a coward, I just realise that it would be largely pointless." My website
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khan++ wrote:
(It was an abusive relationship for me that started in 1999 that I ended around mid 2003, four years ago!)
Wow! That sounds familiar. My ex was a psycotic b*tch. I won't forget her, I just refer to her as Lady Voldemort or She-who-must-not-be-named. I tell people about her. About how she smashed the car in to the neighbour's house, how she insulted one of my friends so badly I've not spoken to him in 6 years, how she insulted my uncle that I've not spoken with him in about 6 years also. Due to her my dad refused to visit for about 6 months. And during that relationship I ended up in accident and emergency more times that the rest of my life put together. (And there is more to that than I really want to talk about)
khan++ wrote:
How do you forget someone?
You don't
khan++ wrote:
I mean how do you get over a relationship that failed?
Learn the lesson and move on.
Upcoming events: * Glasgow: Mock Objects, SQL Server CLR Integration, Reporting Services, db4o, Dependency Injection with Spring ... "I wouldn't say boo to a goose. I'm not a coward, I just realise that it would be largely pointless." My website
Thanks for the reply. And yes, I had been in more trouble when with her than I have been in without her. I had real bad relations with some university teachers. I was almost kicked out of the uni. I passed out once in the classroom, and nearly a second time. I smashed a glass while standing on stage. I almost hit a teacher once... and many other things I have forgotten. Yes, all because of her.
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Thanks for the reply. And yes, I had been in more trouble when with her than I have been in without her. I had real bad relations with some university teachers. I was almost kicked out of the uni. I passed out once in the classroom, and nearly a second time. I smashed a glass while standing on stage. I almost hit a teacher once... and many other things I have forgotten. Yes, all because of her.
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khan++ wrote:
I almost hit a teacher once
That sounds more like you were the one with a problem. I never ("almost") hit anybody.
Upcoming events: * Glasgow: Mock Objects, SQL Server CLR Integration, Reporting Services, db4o, Dependency Injection with Spring ... "I wouldn't say boo to a goose. I'm not a coward, I just realise that it would be largely pointless." My website
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Tamimi - Code wrote:
it's sometime so costly........ so many tears
The tears go away after a while. The great big dent in my bank account takes a while longer.
Upcoming events: * Glasgow: Mock Objects, SQL Server CLR Integration, Reporting Services, db4o, Dependency Injection with Spring ... "I wouldn't say boo to a goose. I'm not a coward, I just realise that it would be largely pointless." My website
Colin Angus Mackay wrote:
The great big dent in my bank account takes a while longer.
excuse me but this makes me laugh :laugh: , but its totally true
When you get mad...THINK twice that the only advice Tamimi - Code
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khan++ wrote:
I almost hit a teacher once
That sounds more like you were the one with a problem. I never ("almost") hit anybody.
Upcoming events: * Glasgow: Mock Objects, SQL Server CLR Integration, Reporting Services, db4o, Dependency Injection with Spring ... "I wouldn't say boo to a goose. I'm not a coward, I just realise that it would be largely pointless." My website
Colin Angus Mackay wrote:
That sounds more like you were the one with a problem
No, I wasn't looking for trouble, ever. The teacher was in love with one of his other students. And that student had a crush on me. The teacher wanted to get rid of me, so I became their (the teachers group's) target, and he kicked me out of that study group into another one. Hence I became a little more aggresive when he tried to push me again, but never hit anyone.
this is this.
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Colin Angus Mackay wrote:
The great big dent in my bank account takes a while longer.
excuse me but this makes me laugh :laugh: , but its totally true
When you get mad...THINK twice that the only advice Tamimi - Code
Tamimi - Code wrote:
excuse me but this makes me laugh
No worries - I can laugh about it now.
Upcoming events: * Glasgow: Mock Objects, SQL Server CLR Integration, Reporting Services, db4o, Dependency Injection with Spring ... "I wouldn't say boo to a goose. I'm not a coward, I just realise that it would be largely pointless." My website