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  • L Lost User

    I'm feeling depressed today... My boyfriend is getting married on Saturday... I just learned it a week ago... If only I could go to the church and interrupt their wedding... He just did it by mistake... just to make revenge on me... but I know I'm the one he really loves... Should I email this girl and tell her everything about us? What shall I do? :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha

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    Oh fer christ's fuckin sake... Hey! I know! Why don't you contact one of those loser talk show hosts and they can do a show on vindictive bitches that have nothing better to do than to screw up other people's weddings. If you really even are a female (is that you "Janice"? Anna?) , why don't you take this relationship crap somewhere else. Fuckin' harpie... "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001 Please review the Legal Disclaimer in my bio.

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      Paul Watson wrote: One of those days huh? No. I'm very much in love with baby doll today. I feeling no yearnings for San Diego. I just think the earlier you find out the better. She was lucky to find out what a jerk he was so that she doesn't waste any more time on him. Imagine if she had married him, had kids and then found out. What a mess that would be! Cathy Life's uncertain, have dessert first!

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      Cathy wrote: I just think the earlier you find out the better. She was lucky to find out what a jerk he was so that she doesn't waste any more time on him. I guess I am.... it's so happen that I hacked his e-mail and I read all their exchanging of emails.. the truth really hurts... I replaced the password so, he can no longer used it... when we saw each other face to face I throw some copies of the emails that I printed in front of his face.... I felt terrible, I felt the world fell down on me... :(( :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha

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        Oh fer christ's fuckin sake... Hey! I know! Why don't you contact one of those loser talk show hosts and they can do a show on vindictive bitches that have nothing better to do than to screw up other people's weddings. If you really even are a female (is that you "Janice"? Anna?) , why don't you take this relationship crap somewhere else. Fuckin' harpie... "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001 Please review the Legal Disclaimer in my bio.

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        Roger Wright
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        Nice to have the old John back:-D Your last few posts (much too rare lately) have been so, er, patient... I Drowned Schroedinger's Stupid Cat!

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          Oh fer christ's fuckin sake... Hey! I know! Why don't you contact one of those loser talk show hosts and they can do a show on vindictive bitches that have nothing better to do than to screw up other people's weddings. If you really even are a female (is that you "Janice"? Anna?) , why don't you take this relationship crap somewhere else. Fuckin' harpie... "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001 Please review the Legal Disclaimer in my bio.

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          Oh go away! Screwing up someone's wedding? If you knew someone was going to marry someone who was cheating on them, wouldn't you feel obligated to let them know? Vidictive would be not telling her. Cathy Life's uncertain, have dessert first!

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            Oh fer christ's fuckin sake... Hey! I know! Why don't you contact one of those loser talk show hosts and they can do a show on vindictive bitches that have nothing better to do than to screw up other people's weddings. If you really even are a female (is that you "Janice"? Anna?) , why don't you take this relationship crap somewhere else. Fuckin' harpie... "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001 Please review the Legal Disclaimer in my bio.

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            Joao Vaz
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            Ouch ! Totally John Simmons / outlaw programmer ! I was expecting a answer like this at some time , since yours last posts were strangely not so direct ! Cheers, Joao Vaz A person who is nice to you, but rude to the waiter, is not a nice person - Natalie Portman (Padme/Amidala of Star Wars)

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              Cathy wrote: I just think the earlier you find out the better. She was lucky to find out what a jerk he was so that she doesn't waste any more time on him. I guess I am.... it's so happen that I hacked his e-mail and I read all their exchanging of emails.. the truth really hurts... I replaced the password so, he can no longer used it... when we saw each other face to face I throw some copies of the emails that I printed in front of his face.... I felt terrible, I felt the world fell down on me... :(( :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha

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              But it's going to get better from here. Now that you're not wasting time on him you'll be available to meet someone nice. Review the relationship. Were there signs, any red flags you can look out for next time? Cathy Life's uncertain, have dessert first!

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                I'm feeling depressed today... My boyfriend is getting married on Saturday... I just learned it a week ago... If only I could go to the church and interrupt their wedding... He just did it by mistake... just to make revenge on me... but I know I'm the one he really loves... Should I email this girl and tell her everything about us? What shall I do? :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha

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                I'm not quite sure if you're saying that your CURRENT boyfriend or your EX-boyfriend is getting married. Based on the "just to make revenge on me", I think it is your EX-boyfriend and you broke up with him. But, based on "If only I could go to the church and interrupt their wedding", it makes me think it is your CURRENT boyfriend or that he broke up with you because you obviously aren't over him. But, if he's your EX-boyfriend, why would you want to "email this girl and tell her everything about us?" - since there is no "us" with an ex-boyfriend. It seems to me that if he is your ex-boyfriend, then there is nothing to tell this other girl and there is no reason to interrupt this wedding. Leave him and his fiance alone and get over him. If he is your current boyfriend, then you'll just have to face the fact that you were the "girl on the side". If he's getting married in less than a week and still fooling around with another you, then you should be happy to get the loser out of your life.

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                  Navin wrote: Speaking of that, so what are you doing Friday night? Nice try.... :-O :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha

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                  Hey, just trying to be helpful here. :-D No generalization is 100% true. Not even this one.

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                    Cathy wrote: I told her he was a very paranoid violent man. I guess that impressed her they've been together for over 12 years. I never cease to be amazed at the number of women who seem to seek out personal abuse! A friend recently got married. They were going to have a big wedding, but her friends refused to attend, and her father refused to give her away. So did three of her good friends she asked to stand in for him. Mind you, this guy has beaten her repeatedly, shoved a gun in her mouth and threatened to kill her, and that's when he's sober. Now they've eloped and are having a potluck reception at the bar where she works. The word on the street is that two McDonald's happy meals should be enough to feed the masses, as only she and her husband will be attending the event. The bartender has to, else he'd be elsewhere too. We're putting together a pool on how long she lives... Sad. I Drowned Schroedinger's Stupid Cat!

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                    Yes that is very sad. This guy would put a gun to his head and threaten to kill himself if I left him. Luckily I was in therapy at the time and the therapist told me to go to Battered Women's meetings. I went. It really woke me up. Soon after that he broke into my house and was pinning me and kicking me. I stabbed him in the neck with a pen and called the police. He took off. They came. He called on the phone and was telling them he was going to kill himself. The male police officer wanted me to talk to him to calm him down. I said no way. You go take care of him. I'm done. The female officer told me how to get a restraining order. My dad, who was so upset at me for being with this guy that he wasn't speaking to me anymore, filed a complaint against the male police officer. Anyways I learned what personality type to watch out for and I've never been in an abusive relationship since. Cathy Life's uncertain, have dessert first!

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                      Oh fer christ's fuckin sake... Hey! I know! Why don't you contact one of those loser talk show hosts and they can do a show on vindictive bitches that have nothing better to do than to screw up other people's weddings. If you really even are a female (is that you "Janice"? Anna?) , why don't you take this relationship crap somewhere else. Fuckin' harpie... "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001 Please review the Legal Disclaimer in my bio.

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                      John Simmons / outlaw programmer wrote: why don't you take this relationship crap somewhere else. Well, if you don't like the topic and you feel offended by this.... find somewhere else and make your own thread... Or maybe just pick up some dry leaves, I guess that would make you feel better and you will be a big help to the community...:omg: :rolleyes: :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha

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                        Cathy wrote: You should tell her but don't expect any kind of gratitude Actually, I already created an email but I'll just need to click the button "Send"... some of my friends are telling me not to bother and I will just ruin their relationship... but I feel like I couldn't just keep it to myself... if I will send the email to the girl, I might feel relieved or the guy might start bugging me once he learned it from the girl... I know they're going to have a big confrontation... :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha

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                        I would. Just let her know that he's been unfaithful and what she does with that information is on her. That way your concience is clear. Cathy Life's uncertain, have dessert first!

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                          John Simmons / outlaw programmer wrote: why don't you take this relationship crap somewhere else. Well, if you don't like the topic and you feel offended by this.... find somewhere else and make your own thread... Or maybe just pick up some dry leaves, I guess that would make you feel better and you will be a big help to the community...:omg: :rolleyes: :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha

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                          sAmAnThA wrote: Or maybe just pick up some dry leaves Double Ouch ! :omg: Cheers, Joao Vaz A person who is nice to you, but rude to the waiter, is not a nice person - Natalie Portman (Padme/Amidala of Star Wars)

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                            Yes that is very sad. This guy would put a gun to his head and threaten to kill himself if I left him. Luckily I was in therapy at the time and the therapist told me to go to Battered Women's meetings. I went. It really woke me up. Soon after that he broke into my house and was pinning me and kicking me. I stabbed him in the neck with a pen and called the police. He took off. They came. He called on the phone and was telling them he was going to kill himself. The male police officer wanted me to talk to him to calm him down. I said no way. You go take care of him. I'm done. The female officer told me how to get a restraining order. My dad, who was so upset at me for being with this guy that he wasn't speaking to me anymore, filed a complaint against the male police officer. Anyways I learned what personality type to watch out for and I've never been in an abusive relationship since. Cathy Life's uncertain, have dessert first!

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                            sAmAnThA
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                            Cathy wrote: he broke into my house and was pinning me and kicking me. That's harsh..:omg: :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha

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                              Yes that is very sad. This guy would put a gun to his head and threaten to kill himself if I left him. Luckily I was in therapy at the time and the therapist told me to go to Battered Women's meetings. I went. It really woke me up. Soon after that he broke into my house and was pinning me and kicking me. I stabbed him in the neck with a pen and called the police. He took off. They came. He called on the phone and was telling them he was going to kill himself. The male police officer wanted me to talk to him to calm him down. I said no way. You go take care of him. I'm done. The female officer told me how to get a restraining order. My dad, who was so upset at me for being with this guy that he wasn't speaking to me anymore, filed a complaint against the male police officer. Anyways I learned what personality type to watch out for and I've never been in an abusive relationship since. Cathy Life's uncertain, have dessert first!

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                              Good for you, Cathy! Some do learn, though far too few:( I Drowned Schroedinger's Stupid Cat!

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                                I'm feeling depressed today... My boyfriend is getting married on Saturday... I just learned it a week ago... If only I could go to the church and interrupt their wedding... He just did it by mistake... just to make revenge on me... but I know I'm the one he really loves... Should I email this girl and tell her everything about us? What shall I do? :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha

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                                Maciej Pirog
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                                sAmAnThA****Should I email this girl Send her 'I LOVE YOU' virus! :) Don't worry! You will find another boyfriend! MP Maciej Pirog

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                                  I'm feeling depressed today... My boyfriend is getting married on Saturday... I just learned it a week ago... If only I could go to the church and interrupt their wedding... He just did it by mistake... just to make revenge on me... but I know I'm the one he really loves... Should I email this girl and tell her everything about us? What shall I do? :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha

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                                  Thanks guys for all your feedback... I feel relieved... CP, you're a great help!! :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha
                                  "I respect a person who gives respect to other people, but I feel pity to a person who is rude and seems to hate the world except for himself"

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                                    sAmAnThA****Samantha *sigh* my first girlfriend was named Samantha (without the wierd capitlisation.) Actually, that was her second name. She was going through a divorce when we met. *sigh* thank god I am going to go watch a war movie tonight and not a romantic one, otherwise I would get seriously drunk. oh, and if he wants to marry her and you love him then let him go. If you love something enough, set it free. regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love, and to be loved in return - Moulin Rouge Tim Smith wrote: Over here in the third world of humor (a.k.a. BBC America), peterchen wrote: _We should petition microsoft to a "target=_Paul" attribute._

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                                    Andrew Peace
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                                    Paul Watson wrote: If you love something enough, set it free. ... And if the love was true it will come right back to you. - Indecent Proposal. I can see you a mile off ;P -- Andrew.

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                                      John Simmons / outlaw programmer wrote: why don't you take this relationship crap somewhere else. Well, if you don't like the topic and you feel offended by this.... find somewhere else and make your own thread... Or maybe just pick up some dry leaves, I guess that would make you feel better and you will be a big help to the community...:omg: :rolleyes: :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha

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                                      Anybody that comes here for relationship help is implicitly a freakin loser. If I was feeling a bit less sensitive and caring, I would have suggested another course of action... like learning to swallow... Just be a big girl (or whatever) and chalk it up as a lesson learned instead of complaining to a bunch of propeller heads that you've been dumped by someone who's three compiler warnings short of a clean build himself. There's your dry leaves... "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001 Please review the Legal Disclaimer in my bio.

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                                        Oh go away! Screwing up someone's wedding? If you knew someone was going to marry someone who was cheating on them, wouldn't you feel obligated to let them know? Vidictive would be not telling her. Cathy Life's uncertain, have dessert first!

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                                        Cathy wrote: ? If you knew someone was going to marry someone who was cheating on them, wouldn't you feel obligated to let them know? No. It's none of my business. Cathy wrote: Oh go away! No way, I'm here for the duration. Learn it. Live it. Love it. "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001 Please review the Legal Disclaimer in my bio.

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                                          Anybody that comes here for relationship help is implicitly a freakin loser. If I was feeling a bit less sensitive and caring, I would have suggested another course of action... like learning to swallow... Just be a big girl (or whatever) and chalk it up as a lesson learned instead of complaining to a bunch of propeller heads that you've been dumped by someone who's three compiler warnings short of a clean build himself. There's your dry leaves... "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001 Please review the Legal Disclaimer in my bio.

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                                          you know, when i see brilliant comments like this, i am a bit sad that the "rant and rave" forum was created the lounge is a lot less colorful now -John

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