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  • M MidwestLimey

    Same here, except her ring was a tad lot more expensive. Otherwise she's a very frugal woman :D Planning a 10 year renewal in a few years, hopefully on a beach with all and sundry present.

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    Big Daddy Farang
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    MidwestLimey wrote:

    very frugal woman

    What?

    BDF People don't mind being mean; but they never want to be ridiculous. -- Moliere

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    • M Mustafa Ismail Mustafa

      1.21 Gigawatts wrote:

      Do you think I'll be able to un-propose?

      :laugh: I assure you, she (and probably your mum and her mum and any females in both families involved) would sacrifice you on the nearest make-shift altar. It'll become more gruesome the closer it is to the wedding. Still funny though :laugh: Here, in the Middle East, getting married is a back-breaker. I coughed up my life savings for: 1. a house (3 bedroom apartment) 2. the wedding (about 23,000 JOD not counting the miscellaneous expenses and the honeymoon) (that's just over 19,000 GBP) 3. the bridal gold set (this set me back 13,000 JOD alone) Its expensive, but if she's the one, its so worth it :)

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      Mustafa Ismail Mustafa wrote:

      Here, in the Middle East, getting married is a back-breaker

      how about those who do not have life savings? Do they stay single? (Or maybe wait for the next life, when they have savings from the former life...)

      You can't turn lead into gold, unless you've built yourself a nuclear plant.

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      • B Big Daddy Farang

        I have bothered to read the article, but I heard this reported on the radio yesterday. That report includec the tidbit that a major portion of the cost is for housing. Well, you have pay for that whether you have zero, twelve, or anywhere in between children. Seems like a misleading headline.

        BDF People don't mind being mean; but they never want to be ridiculous. -- Moliere

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        Unless you're an idiot buying a house strictly as a status symbol as a single person/childless couple your house is almost certainly smaller than that of a parents house because you don't need as much space. Then factor in that since you have no direct use for an excellent school you don't need to pay extra for a location that offers one.

        The European Way of War: Blow your own continent up. The American Way of War: Go over and help them.

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        • 1 1 21 Gigawatts

          Only the sound of my sacks falling on the floor. Poor attempt at humour. Sorry. :sigh:

          "...great scott!" Dilbert: Aren't all meetings like this... Richard Dawkins: "What if you're wrong?"

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          1.21 Gigawatts wrote:

          Only the sound of my sacks falling on the floor.

          You have two sacks? :omg:

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          • B Big Daddy Farang

            MidwestLimey wrote:

            very frugal woman

            What?

            BDF People don't mind being mean; but they never want to be ridiculous. -- Moliere

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            Single Step Debugger
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            There are such models. I never saw them personally but the rumor has it that they exists.

            The narrow specialist in the broad sense of the word is a complete idiot in the narrow sense of the word. Advertise here – minimum three posts per day are guaranteed.

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              1.21 Gigawatts wrote:

              Only the sound of my sacks falling on the floor.

              You have two sacks? :omg:

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              Single Step Debugger
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              What? Your mom told you that the three is the normal number and everything with you is okay? :-D

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              • S Single Step Debugger

                There are such models. I never saw them personally but the rumor has it that they exists.

                The narrow specialist in the broad sense of the word is a complete idiot in the narrow sense of the word. Advertise here – minimum three posts per day are guaranteed.

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                Big Daddy Farang
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                I think the rumor is based on creatures that once existed and now are an endangered species if not already extinct. :)

                BDF People don't mind being mean; but they never want to be ridiculous. -- Moliere

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                • H Henry Minute

                  1.21 Gigawatts wrote:

                  Luckily, we are already living in sin together

                  I really, really hate that expression. Before I married, we lived together like man and wife. You know, no sex and lots of arguments. :-D The divorce solved the arguments bit anyway. :laugh:

                  Henry Minute Do not read medical books! You could die of a misprint. - Mark Twain Girl: (staring) "Why do you need an icy cucumber?" “I want to report a fraud. The government is lying to us all.”

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                  charlieg
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                  Oh Henry. Priceless!

                  Charlie Gilley You're going to tell me what I want to know, or I'm going to beat you to death in your own house. "Where liberty dwells, there is my country." B. Franklin, 1783

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                  • D Dan Neely

                    Unless you're an idiot buying a house strictly as a status symbol as a single person/childless couple your house is almost certainly smaller than that of a parents house because you don't need as much space. Then factor in that since you have no direct use for an excellent school you don't need to pay extra for a location that offers one.

                    The European Way of War: Blow your own continent up. The American Way of War: Go over and help them.

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                    I agree with that. Like I said, I haven't read the article so I don't know the details of how they arrived at the figure, but including housing seems like it could skew the figure drastically. One child in million dollar house, three kids in a 200K house, etc. I guess I'd have to check out the article to know, but I can't be bothered because I couldn't care less. :)

                    BDF People don't mind being mean; but they never want to be ridiculous. -- Moliere

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                    • P Pierre Leclercq

                      Mustafa Ismail Mustafa wrote:

                      Here, in the Middle East, getting married is a back-breaker

                      how about those who do not have life savings? Do they stay single? (Or maybe wait for the next life, when they have savings from the former life...)

                      You can't turn lead into gold, unless you've built yourself a nuclear plant.

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                      Pierre Leclercq wrote:

                      they have savings from the former life

                      So you can take it with you?

                      BDF People don't mind being mean; but they never want to be ridiculous. -- Moliere

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                      • B Big Daddy Farang

                        Pierre Leclercq wrote:

                        they have savings from the former life

                        So you can take it with you?

                        BDF People don't mind being mean; but they never want to be ridiculous. -- Moliere

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                        Pierre Leclercq
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                        :) Not if you are reincarnated into a beetle!

                        You can't turn lead into gold, unless you've built yourself a nuclear plant.

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                        • P Pierre Leclercq

                          :) Not if you are reincarnated into a beetle!

                          You can't turn lead into gold, unless you've built yourself a nuclear plant.

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                          Dan Neely
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                          No need to worry about that happening. Muslims don't reincarnate. :doh:

                          The European Way of War: Blow your own continent up. The American Way of War: Go over and help them.

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                          • D Dan Neely

                            No need to worry about that happening. Muslims don't reincarnate. :doh:

                            The European Way of War: Blow your own continent up. The American Way of War: Go over and help them.

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                            Pierre Leclercq
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                            :) (By the way how about wedding several wives?)

                            You can't turn lead into gold, unless you've built yourself a nuclear plant.

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                              :) (By the way how about wedding several wives?)

                              You can't turn lead into gold, unless you've built yourself a nuclear plant.

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                              Pierre Leclercq wrote:

                              wedding several wives

                              Concurrently or serially?

                              BDF People don't mind being mean; but they never want to be ridiculous. -- Moliere

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                              • B Big Daddy Farang

                                Pierre Leclercq wrote:

                                wedding several wives

                                Concurrently or serially?

                                BDF People don't mind being mean; but they never want to be ridiculous. -- Moliere

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                                Pierre Leclercq
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                                What is the difference? (Back recovery?)

                                You can't turn lead into gold, unless you've built yourself a nuclear plant.

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                                • H hairy_hats

                                  Three weddings at under £10K.[^]

                                  I hope you realise that hamsters are very creative when it comes to revenge. - Elaine

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                                  Pierre Leclercq
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                                  Actually so cheap it gave me a 404!

                                  You can't turn lead into gold, unless you've built yourself a nuclear plant.

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                                  • P Pierre Leclercq

                                    Mustafa Ismail Mustafa wrote:

                                    Here, in the Middle East, getting married is a back-breaker

                                    how about those who do not have life savings? Do they stay single? (Or maybe wait for the next life, when they have savings from the former life...)

                                    You can't turn lead into gold, unless you've built yourself a nuclear plant.

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                                    Pierre Leclercq wrote:

                                    how about those who do not have life savings? Do they stay single?

                                    Some do, some go into debt, and some get A LOT of help from family and friends.

                                    If the post was helpful, please vote, eh! Current activities: Book: Devils by Fyodor Dostoyevsky Project: Hospital Automation, final stage Learning: Image analysis, LINQ Now and forever, defiant to the end. What is Multiple Sclerosis[^]?

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                                    • 1 1 21 Gigawatts

                                      ...expensive. Do you think I'll be able to un-propose?

                                      "...great scott!" Dilbert: Aren't all meetings like this... Richard Dawkins: "What if you're wrong?"

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                                      leckey 0
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                                      We spent the most on our rings--about $2500 US for the two. The rest of it was about $2000 I think. We did have a banquet hall but had "fun" food like mini tacos and a giant cheese ball. Hubby's aunt made the punch. We hate wedding cake so we got cheesecakes from Sam's Club instead. I rented a few decorations for tables. Made my own invitations and programs. Got a discount on the DJ since he was a friend. And NO country music or things like the Chicken Dance were allowed. Was a pretty good day. As a former wedding photographer I learned the more you focus on the wedding day and not the day after the wedding going forward, chances of long term marriage diminish.

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                                      • M Mustafa Ismail Mustafa

                                        Pierre Leclercq wrote:

                                        how about those who do not have life savings? Do they stay single?

                                        Some do, some go into debt, and some get A LOT of help from family and friends.

                                        If the post was helpful, please vote, eh! Current activities: Book: Devils by Fyodor Dostoyevsky Project: Hospital Automation, final stage Learning: Image analysis, LINQ Now and forever, defiant to the end. What is Multiple Sclerosis[^]?

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                                        Pierre Leclercq
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                                        or live in sin? :-O

                                        You can't turn lead into gold, unless you've built yourself a nuclear plant.

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                                        • M Michael Bookatz

                                          You've never been to a Jewish wedding I take it? If I really pushed and ran around like a headless chicken it can be done for under £15,000 or cheaper if I was to have it in Israel. Or cut down on guests.

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                                          hairy_hats
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                                          Nope, but I've been to a Greek wedding with 650 guests. Doesn't guarantee a successful marriage. I'd rather express my love in less showy ways and use the money to have a more comfortable life.

                                          I hope you realise that hamsters are very creative when it comes to revenge. - Elaine

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