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  • H Henry Minute

    Congratulations on resolving your personal situation. I hope that it all works out for you! :thumbsup::rose:

    Henry Minute Do not read medical books! You could die of a misprint. - Mark Twain Girl: (staring) "Why do you need an icy cucumber?" “I want to report a fraud. The government is lying to us all.” Why do programmers often confuse Halloween and Christmas? - Because 31 Oct = 25 Dec. Business Myths of the Geek #4 'What you think matters.'

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    Colin Angus Mackay
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    Thanks

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    • L Lost User

      I'm glad you felt able to do this and it a hell of a lot of man points for facing something that has been buried so deep. Mind you, it did make me think of that episode of Taggart when Fraser came out - an episode with typical Glaswegian humour in it!

      Join the cool kids - Come fold with us[^]

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      Thanks. :)

      User group: Scottish Developers Blog: Can Open... Worms? Everywhere! Quote: Man who stand on hill with mouth open wait long time for roast duck to drop in.

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      • M Mustafa Ismail Mustafa

        Holy crap man! That takes some guts to do! Good on ya man, you'll be all the better for being honest with yourself. :thumbsup:

        If the post was helpful, please vote, eh! Current activities: Book: Devils by Fyodor Dostoyevsky Project: Hospital Automation, final stage Learning: Image analysis, LINQ Now and forever, defiant to the end. What is Multiple Sclerosis[^]?

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        Colin Angus Mackay
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        Mustafa Ismail Mustafa wrote:

        That takes some guts to do!

        Well.... not so much. Once I accepted myself, it was pretty easy from then on.

        User group: Scottish Developers Blog: Can Open... Worms? Everywhere! Quote: Man who stand on hill with mouth open wait long time for roast duck to drop in.

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        • Mike HankeyM Mike Hankey

          Congrats Colin. Inner peace is a powerful healer. :) Mike

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          Colin Angus Mackay
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          Thanks :)

          User group: Scottish Developers Blog: Can Open... Worms? Everywhere! Quote: Man who stand on hill with mouth open wait long time for roast duck to drop in.

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          • C Colin Angus Mackay

            Mustafa Ismail Mustafa wrote:

            That takes some guts to do!

            Well.... not so much. Once I accepted myself, it was pretty easy from then on.

            User group: Scottish Developers Blog: Can Open... Worms? Everywhere! Quote: Man who stand on hill with mouth open wait long time for roast duck to drop in.

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            Mustafa Ismail Mustafa
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            Well, if you think so :) I still say it took guts and I still say good on you and I raise it a virtual pat on the back mate, what?!

            If the post was helpful, please vote, eh! Current activities: Book: Devils by Fyodor Dostoyevsky Project: Hospital Automation, final stage Learning: Image analysis, LINQ Now and forever, defiant to the end. What is Multiple Sclerosis[^]?

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            • C Colin Angus Mackay

              I just got a wee message from Pete asking where I was and what I was upto these days. I'm still around. I'm not dead yet. I've had a rather eventful year and I pretty much executed a handbreak turn on my life and I'm now going in a new (and finally, the correct) direction. Now the screaching of tyres has ceased and the smoke has cleared. Long story short, I finally figured out what was wrong in my life: I was in denial which was causing me mental stress. I have now accepted who I am and have come out the closet. I also found a boyfriend who is loving and caring and we are trying to build a life together. Anyway, you can find more details on my blog: Coming out of the closet[^] You can also follow me on twitter: @ColinMackay[^] On the software development front, I've just finished organising my third Software Development Conference in Scotland and I'm still involved with Scottish Developers. I also do the occasional talk (Mostly on SQL Injection Attacks) So, hello again.... And I'll try and spend more time here again soon. :-D

              User group: Scottish Developers Blog: Can Open... Worms? Everywhere! Quote: Man who stand on hill with mouth open wait long time for roast duck to drop in.

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              hairy_hats
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              A hoof in the spuds to whoever downvoted this.

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              • H hairy_hats

                A hoof in the spuds to whoever downvoted this.

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                Lost User
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                Hmm... we could run a lottery and the winner gets the chance. [evil grin]

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                • C Colin Angus Mackay

                  I just got a wee message from Pete asking where I was and what I was upto these days. I'm still around. I'm not dead yet. I've had a rather eventful year and I pretty much executed a handbreak turn on my life and I'm now going in a new (and finally, the correct) direction. Now the screaching of tyres has ceased and the smoke has cleared. Long story short, I finally figured out what was wrong in my life: I was in denial which was causing me mental stress. I have now accepted who I am and have come out the closet. I also found a boyfriend who is loving and caring and we are trying to build a life together. Anyway, you can find more details on my blog: Coming out of the closet[^] You can also follow me on twitter: @ColinMackay[^] On the software development front, I've just finished organising my third Software Development Conference in Scotland and I'm still involved with Scottish Developers. I also do the occasional talk (Mostly on SQL Injection Attacks) So, hello again.... And I'll try and spend more time here again soon. :-D

                  User group: Scottish Developers Blog: Can Open... Worms? Everywhere! Quote: Man who stand on hill with mouth open wait long time for roast duck to drop in.

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                  Rama Krishna Vavilala
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                  :thumbsup: Facing the reality is the best way to overcome mental stress and it takes lot of courage for that. I truly admire people who have that kind of courage.

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                  • H hairy_hats

                    A hoof in the spuds to whoever downvoted this.

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                    Pete OHanlon
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                    I have my suspicions who it was.

                    "WPF has many lovers. It's a veritable porn star!" - Josh Smith

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                    • C Colin Angus Mackay

                      I just got a wee message from Pete asking where I was and what I was upto these days. I'm still around. I'm not dead yet. I've had a rather eventful year and I pretty much executed a handbreak turn on my life and I'm now going in a new (and finally, the correct) direction. Now the screaching of tyres has ceased and the smoke has cleared. Long story short, I finally figured out what was wrong in my life: I was in denial which was causing me mental stress. I have now accepted who I am and have come out the closet. I also found a boyfriend who is loving and caring and we are trying to build a life together. Anyway, you can find more details on my blog: Coming out of the closet[^] You can also follow me on twitter: @ColinMackay[^] On the software development front, I've just finished organising my third Software Development Conference in Scotland and I'm still involved with Scottish Developers. I also do the occasional talk (Mostly on SQL Injection Attacks) So, hello again.... And I'll try and spend more time here again soon. :-D

                      User group: Scottish Developers Blog: Can Open... Worms? Everywhere! Quote: Man who stand on hill with mouth open wait long time for roast duck to drop in.

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                      Congrats on getting your life back on track :) If it can be of any support you're not the only gay person in the IT industry. I have been through the coming out process about six years ago and am now in blissful domestic relationship of 2 and 1/2 years. All the best for you and your boyfriend.

                      "A democracy is nothing more than mob rule, where fifty-one percent of the people may take away the rights of the other forty-nine." - Thomas Jefferson "Democracy is two wolves and a lamb voting on what to have for lunch. Liberty is a well-armed lamb contesting the vote." - Benjamin Franklin Edbert Sydney, Australia

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                      • E Edbert P

                        Congrats on getting your life back on track :) If it can be of any support you're not the only gay person in the IT industry. I have been through the coming out process about six years ago and am now in blissful domestic relationship of 2 and 1/2 years. All the best for you and your boyfriend.

                        "A democracy is nothing more than mob rule, where fifty-one percent of the people may take away the rights of the other forty-nine." - Thomas Jefferson "Democracy is two wolves and a lamb voting on what to have for lunch. Liberty is a well-armed lamb contesting the vote." - Benjamin Franklin Edbert Sydney, Australia

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                        Pete OHanlon
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                        I've compensated for the univoting little homophobe. What an ignorant little bigoted shit.

                        "WPF has many lovers. It's a veritable porn star!" - Josh Smith

                        As Braveheart once said, "You can take our freedom but you'll never take our Hobnobs!" - Martin Hughes.

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                        • P Pete OHanlon

                          I've compensated for the univoting little homophobe. What an ignorant little bigoted shit.

                          "WPF has many lovers. It's a veritable porn star!" - Josh Smith

                          As Braveheart once said, "You can take our freedom but you'll never take our Hobnobs!" - Martin Hughes.

                          My blog | My articles | MoXAML PowerToys | Onyx

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                          I know this is old, but I was wondering why we hadn't seen anything from Colin since June, and came across this thread (the last time we heard from Colin). Question: Is it any less bigoted to be gay (or even not gay) and think anyone who doesn't agree with the lifestyle is somehow mentally deficient (aka "bigot/homophobe")? I don't personally agree with the lifestyle, but I don't think that makes me a bigot *or* a homophobe. If anything, it makes me "conservative". Everyone is entitled to their opinion, regardless of what kind of label other people seem to want to attach to that opinion. Whoever voted a 1 on this message was just expressing their opinions without getting into a shouting match, and to be quite honest, I really don't remember if I voted in this thread at all (but I don't recall doing so). Just saying...

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                          • realJSOPR realJSOP

                            I know this is old, but I was wondering why we hadn't seen anything from Colin since June, and came across this thread (the last time we heard from Colin). Question: Is it any less bigoted to be gay (or even not gay) and think anyone who doesn't agree with the lifestyle is somehow mentally deficient (aka "bigot/homophobe")? I don't personally agree with the lifestyle, but I don't think that makes me a bigot *or* a homophobe. If anything, it makes me "conservative". Everyone is entitled to their opinion, regardless of what kind of label other people seem to want to attach to that opinion. Whoever voted a 1 on this message was just expressing their opinions without getting into a shouting match, and to be quite honest, I really don't remember if I voted in this thread at all (but I don't recall doing so). Just saying...

                            ".45 ACP - because shooting twice is just silly" - JSOP, 2010
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                            You can never have too much ammo - unless you're swimming, or on fire. - JSOP, 2010
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                            "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass." - Dale Earnhardt, 1997

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                            Nish Nishant
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                            John Simmons / outlaw programmer wrote:

                            Is it any less bigoted to be gay (or even not gay) and think anyone who doesn't agree with the lifestyle is somehow mentally deficient (aka "bigot/homophobe")?

                            Interesting point. And yeah, I know this is an old thread too :-)

                            Regards, Nish


                            New article available: Resetting a View Model in WPF MVVM applications without code-behind in the view My technology blog: voidnish.wordpress.com

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                              John Simmons / outlaw programmer wrote:

                              Is it any less bigoted to be gay (or even not gay) and think anyone who doesn't agree with the lifestyle is somehow mentally deficient (aka "bigot/homophobe")?

                              Interesting point. And yeah, I know this is an old thread too :-)

                              Regards, Nish


                              New article available: Resetting a View Model in WPF MVVM applications without code-behind in the view My technology blog: voidnish.wordpress.com

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                              I'm surprised you found this given that the reply was to POH as opposed to you. Are you actively seeking out my recent posts? Should I feel special? Am I being considered for some sort of award? and you're just verifying my worthiness? :Do I need to send you my mailing address? :) Completely OT: You know what would make a cool CP award? Each year someone new wins in (that hasn't won it before). The Leg Lamp from A Christmas Story. A suitable engraved plaque could be sent along with it stating the reason for the award, the name of the person that won it, and the year. :)

                              ".45 ACP - because shooting twice is just silly" - JSOP, 2010
                              -----
                              You can never have too much ammo - unless you're swimming, or on fire. - JSOP, 2010
                              -----
                              "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass." - Dale Earnhardt, 1997

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                              • realJSOPR realJSOP

                                I'm surprised you found this given that the reply was to POH as opposed to you. Are you actively seeking out my recent posts? Should I feel special? Am I being considered for some sort of award? and you're just verifying my worthiness? :Do I need to send you my mailing address? :) Completely OT: You know what would make a cool CP award? Each year someone new wins in (that hasn't won it before). The Leg Lamp from A Christmas Story. A suitable engraved plaque could be sent along with it stating the reason for the award, the name of the person that won it, and the year. :)

                                ".45 ACP - because shooting twice is just silly" - JSOP, 2010
                                -----
                                You can never have too much ammo - unless you're swimming, or on fire. - JSOP, 2010
                                -----
                                "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass." - Dale Earnhardt, 1997

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                                John Simmons / outlaw programmer wrote:

                                I'm surprised you found this given that the reply was to POH as opposed to you.

                                Are you actively seeking out my recent posts? Should I feel special? Am I being considered for some sort of award? and you're just verifying my worthiness? :Do I need to send you my mailing address?

                                Colin Angus Mackay's name came up in a mailing list I participate in and I wondered where he'd gone to. This thread was one of his last on CP.

                                John Simmons / outlaw programmer wrote:

                                The Leg Lamp from A Christmas Story.

                                Amazon has one for 40 bucks: http://www.amazon.com/Christmas-Story-Inch-Lamp-Replica/dp/B00026F4EY[^] And yeah, Chris would love this idea! :rolleyes:

                                Regards, Nish


                                New article available: Resetting a View Model in WPF MVVM applications without code-behind in the view My technology blog: voidnish.wordpress.com

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