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  • C Colin Angus Mackay

    Thanks :)

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    In fact, here's[^] a Tori Amos song to celebrate - not because I think it's particularly relevant, you understand, but rather just because it's a great live version of a great song and I'm obsessed with it at the moment. ;P I suppose I'm always being called 'gay' when I listen to Tori Amos, so that's one way it's relevant! :laugh: ;P

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      In fact, here's[^] a Tori Amos song to celebrate - not because I think it's particularly relevant, you understand, but rather just because it's a great live version of a great song and I'm obsessed with it at the moment. ;P I suppose I'm always being called 'gay' when I listen to Tori Amos, so that's one way it's relevant! :laugh: ;P

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      Vikram A Punathambekar
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      How did you take the news of Rudd being deposed? IIRC, you are/were a huge fan of K-Rudd, so I thought you'd be devastated? Unless, of course, you like the 2nd sexiest woman in Australia.... ;)

      Cheers, Vikram. (Got my troika of CCCs!)

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      • V Vikram A Punathambekar

        How did you take the news of Rudd being deposed? IIRC, you are/were a huge fan of K-Rudd, so I thought you'd be devastated? Unless, of course, you like the 2nd sexiest woman in Australia.... ;)

        Cheers, Vikram. (Got my troika of CCCs!)

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        I did like Kevin Rudd, but not so much nowadays and certainly less than Julia Gillard. :-D I definitely didn't see it coming though. I chalked that up to my almost complete lack of interest in politics at first, but it seems to have been unexpected for all. ;P

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        • C Colin Angus Mackay

          I just got a wee message from Pete asking where I was and what I was upto these days. I'm still around. I'm not dead yet. I've had a rather eventful year and I pretty much executed a handbreak turn on my life and I'm now going in a new (and finally, the correct) direction. Now the screaching of tyres has ceased and the smoke has cleared. Long story short, I finally figured out what was wrong in my life: I was in denial which was causing me mental stress. I have now accepted who I am and have come out the closet. I also found a boyfriend who is loving and caring and we are trying to build a life together. Anyway, you can find more details on my blog: Coming out of the closet[^] You can also follow me on twitter: @ColinMackay[^] On the software development front, I've just finished organising my third Software Development Conference in Scotland and I'm still involved with Scottish Developers. I also do the occasional talk (Mostly on SQL Injection Attacks) So, hello again.... And I'll try and spend more time here again soon. :-D

          User group: Scottish Developers Blog: Can Open... Worms? Everywhere! Quote: Man who stand on hill with mouth open wait long time for roast duck to drop in.

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          I'm glad you felt able to do this and it a hell of a lot of man points for facing something that has been buried so deep. Mind you, it did make me think of that episode of Taggart when Fraser came out - an episode with typical Glaswegian humour in it!

          Join the cool kids - Come fold with us[^]

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          • C Colin Angus Mackay

            I just got a wee message from Pete asking where I was and what I was upto these days. I'm still around. I'm not dead yet. I've had a rather eventful year and I pretty much executed a handbreak turn on my life and I'm now going in a new (and finally, the correct) direction. Now the screaching of tyres has ceased and the smoke has cleared. Long story short, I finally figured out what was wrong in my life: I was in denial which was causing me mental stress. I have now accepted who I am and have come out the closet. I also found a boyfriend who is loving and caring and we are trying to build a life together. Anyway, you can find more details on my blog: Coming out of the closet[^] You can also follow me on twitter: @ColinMackay[^] On the software development front, I've just finished organising my third Software Development Conference in Scotland and I'm still involved with Scottish Developers. I also do the occasional talk (Mostly on SQL Injection Attacks) So, hello again.... And I'll try and spend more time here again soon. :-D

            User group: Scottish Developers Blog: Can Open... Worms? Everywhere! Quote: Man who stand on hill with mouth open wait long time for roast duck to drop in.

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            Mustafa Ismail Mustafa
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            Holy crap man! That takes some guts to do! Good on ya man, you'll be all the better for being honest with yourself. :thumbsup:

            If the post was helpful, please vote, eh! Current activities: Book: Devils by Fyodor Dostoyevsky Project: Hospital Automation, final stage Learning: Image analysis, LINQ Now and forever, defiant to the end. What is Multiple Sclerosis[^]?

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            • C Colin Angus Mackay

              I just got a wee message from Pete asking where I was and what I was upto these days. I'm still around. I'm not dead yet. I've had a rather eventful year and I pretty much executed a handbreak turn on my life and I'm now going in a new (and finally, the correct) direction. Now the screaching of tyres has ceased and the smoke has cleared. Long story short, I finally figured out what was wrong in my life: I was in denial which was causing me mental stress. I have now accepted who I am and have come out the closet. I also found a boyfriend who is loving and caring and we are trying to build a life together. Anyway, you can find more details on my blog: Coming out of the closet[^] You can also follow me on twitter: @ColinMackay[^] On the software development front, I've just finished organising my third Software Development Conference in Scotland and I'm still involved with Scottish Developers. I also do the occasional talk (Mostly on SQL Injection Attacks) So, hello again.... And I'll try and spend more time here again soon. :-D

              User group: Scottish Developers Blog: Can Open... Worms? Everywhere! Quote: Man who stand on hill with mouth open wait long time for roast duck to drop in.

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              Mike Hankey
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              Congrats Colin. Inner peace is a powerful healer. :) Mike

              Age doesn't make you forgetful. Having way too many stupid things to remember makes you forgetful. http://www.hq4thmarinescomm.com[^] My Site

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              • P Pete OHanlon

                I tried to get to your SQL Injection talk at nebytes, but client commitments got in the way, so I thought I'd try and check in with you in other ways. Colin, this is huge news and I'm delighted that you have found yourself in a way that fulfils you and that you are in a loving relationship. Don't be a stranger now.

                "WPF has many lovers. It's a veritable porn star!" - Josh Smith

                As Braveheart once said, "You can take our freedom but you'll never take our Hobnobs!" - Martin Hughes.

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                Colin Angus Mackay
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                Pete O'Hanlon wrote:

                I tried to get to your SQL Injection talk at nebytes

                If I ever get around to putting together another talk I'll let you know :)

                User group: Scottish Developers Blog: Can Open... Worms? Everywhere! Quote: Man who stand on hill with mouth open wait long time for roast duck to drop in.

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                • H Henry Minute

                  Congratulations on resolving your personal situation. I hope that it all works out for you! :thumbsup::rose:

                  Henry Minute Do not read medical books! You could die of a misprint. - Mark Twain Girl: (staring) "Why do you need an icy cucumber?" “I want to report a fraud. The government is lying to us all.” Why do programmers often confuse Halloween and Christmas? - Because 31 Oct = 25 Dec. Business Myths of the Geek #4 'What you think matters.'

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                  Colin Angus Mackay
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                  Thanks

                  User group: Scottish Developers Blog: Can Open... Worms? Everywhere! Quote: Man who stand on hill with mouth open wait long time for roast duck to drop in.

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                  • L Lost User

                    I'm glad you felt able to do this and it a hell of a lot of man points for facing something that has been buried so deep. Mind you, it did make me think of that episode of Taggart when Fraser came out - an episode with typical Glaswegian humour in it!

                    Join the cool kids - Come fold with us[^]

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                    Colin Angus Mackay
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                    Thanks. :)

                    User group: Scottish Developers Blog: Can Open... Worms? Everywhere! Quote: Man who stand on hill with mouth open wait long time for roast duck to drop in.

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                    • M Mustafa Ismail Mustafa

                      Holy crap man! That takes some guts to do! Good on ya man, you'll be all the better for being honest with yourself. :thumbsup:

                      If the post was helpful, please vote, eh! Current activities: Book: Devils by Fyodor Dostoyevsky Project: Hospital Automation, final stage Learning: Image analysis, LINQ Now and forever, defiant to the end. What is Multiple Sclerosis[^]?

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                      Colin Angus Mackay
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                      Mustafa Ismail Mustafa wrote:

                      That takes some guts to do!

                      Well.... not so much. Once I accepted myself, it was pretty easy from then on.

                      User group: Scottish Developers Blog: Can Open... Worms? Everywhere! Quote: Man who stand on hill with mouth open wait long time for roast duck to drop in.

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                      • Mike HankeyM Mike Hankey

                        Congrats Colin. Inner peace is a powerful healer. :) Mike

                        Age doesn't make you forgetful. Having way too many stupid things to remember makes you forgetful. http://www.hq4thmarinescomm.com[^] My Site

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                        Colin Angus Mackay
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                        Thanks :)

                        User group: Scottish Developers Blog: Can Open... Worms? Everywhere! Quote: Man who stand on hill with mouth open wait long time for roast duck to drop in.

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                        • C Colin Angus Mackay

                          Mustafa Ismail Mustafa wrote:

                          That takes some guts to do!

                          Well.... not so much. Once I accepted myself, it was pretty easy from then on.

                          User group: Scottish Developers Blog: Can Open... Worms? Everywhere! Quote: Man who stand on hill with mouth open wait long time for roast duck to drop in.

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                          Mustafa Ismail Mustafa
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                          Well, if you think so :) I still say it took guts and I still say good on you and I raise it a virtual pat on the back mate, what?!

                          If the post was helpful, please vote, eh! Current activities: Book: Devils by Fyodor Dostoyevsky Project: Hospital Automation, final stage Learning: Image analysis, LINQ Now and forever, defiant to the end. What is Multiple Sclerosis[^]?

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                          • C Colin Angus Mackay

                            I just got a wee message from Pete asking where I was and what I was upto these days. I'm still around. I'm not dead yet. I've had a rather eventful year and I pretty much executed a handbreak turn on my life and I'm now going in a new (and finally, the correct) direction. Now the screaching of tyres has ceased and the smoke has cleared. Long story short, I finally figured out what was wrong in my life: I was in denial which was causing me mental stress. I have now accepted who I am and have come out the closet. I also found a boyfriend who is loving and caring and we are trying to build a life together. Anyway, you can find more details on my blog: Coming out of the closet[^] You can also follow me on twitter: @ColinMackay[^] On the software development front, I've just finished organising my third Software Development Conference in Scotland and I'm still involved with Scottish Developers. I also do the occasional talk (Mostly on SQL Injection Attacks) So, hello again.... And I'll try and spend more time here again soon. :-D

                            User group: Scottish Developers Blog: Can Open... Worms? Everywhere! Quote: Man who stand on hill with mouth open wait long time for roast duck to drop in.

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                            A hoof in the spuds to whoever downvoted this.

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                            • H hairy_hats

                              A hoof in the spuds to whoever downvoted this.

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                              Lost User
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                              Hmm... we could run a lottery and the winner gets the chance. [evil grin]

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                              • C Colin Angus Mackay

                                I just got a wee message from Pete asking where I was and what I was upto these days. I'm still around. I'm not dead yet. I've had a rather eventful year and I pretty much executed a handbreak turn on my life and I'm now going in a new (and finally, the correct) direction. Now the screaching of tyres has ceased and the smoke has cleared. Long story short, I finally figured out what was wrong in my life: I was in denial which was causing me mental stress. I have now accepted who I am and have come out the closet. I also found a boyfriend who is loving and caring and we are trying to build a life together. Anyway, you can find more details on my blog: Coming out of the closet[^] You can also follow me on twitter: @ColinMackay[^] On the software development front, I've just finished organising my third Software Development Conference in Scotland and I'm still involved with Scottish Developers. I also do the occasional talk (Mostly on SQL Injection Attacks) So, hello again.... And I'll try and spend more time here again soon. :-D

                                User group: Scottish Developers Blog: Can Open... Worms? Everywhere! Quote: Man who stand on hill with mouth open wait long time for roast duck to drop in.

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                                Rama Krishna Vavilala
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                                :thumbsup: Facing the reality is the best way to overcome mental stress and it takes lot of courage for that. I truly admire people who have that kind of courage.

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                                  A hoof in the spuds to whoever downvoted this.

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                                  Pete OHanlon
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                                  I have my suspicions who it was.

                                  "WPF has many lovers. It's a veritable porn star!" - Josh Smith

                                  As Braveheart once said, "You can take our freedom but you'll never take our Hobnobs!" - Martin Hughes.

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                                  • C Colin Angus Mackay

                                    I just got a wee message from Pete asking where I was and what I was upto these days. I'm still around. I'm not dead yet. I've had a rather eventful year and I pretty much executed a handbreak turn on my life and I'm now going in a new (and finally, the correct) direction. Now the screaching of tyres has ceased and the smoke has cleared. Long story short, I finally figured out what was wrong in my life: I was in denial which was causing me mental stress. I have now accepted who I am and have come out the closet. I also found a boyfriend who is loving and caring and we are trying to build a life together. Anyway, you can find more details on my blog: Coming out of the closet[^] You can also follow me on twitter: @ColinMackay[^] On the software development front, I've just finished organising my third Software Development Conference in Scotland and I'm still involved with Scottish Developers. I also do the occasional talk (Mostly on SQL Injection Attacks) So, hello again.... And I'll try and spend more time here again soon. :-D

                                    User group: Scottish Developers Blog: Can Open... Worms? Everywhere! Quote: Man who stand on hill with mouth open wait long time for roast duck to drop in.

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                                    Congrats on getting your life back on track :) If it can be of any support you're not the only gay person in the IT industry. I have been through the coming out process about six years ago and am now in blissful domestic relationship of 2 and 1/2 years. All the best for you and your boyfriend.

                                    "A democracy is nothing more than mob rule, where fifty-one percent of the people may take away the rights of the other forty-nine." - Thomas Jefferson "Democracy is two wolves and a lamb voting on what to have for lunch. Liberty is a well-armed lamb contesting the vote." - Benjamin Franklin Edbert Sydney, Australia

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                                      Congrats on getting your life back on track :) If it can be of any support you're not the only gay person in the IT industry. I have been through the coming out process about six years ago and am now in blissful domestic relationship of 2 and 1/2 years. All the best for you and your boyfriend.

                                      "A democracy is nothing more than mob rule, where fifty-one percent of the people may take away the rights of the other forty-nine." - Thomas Jefferson "Democracy is two wolves and a lamb voting on what to have for lunch. Liberty is a well-armed lamb contesting the vote." - Benjamin Franklin Edbert Sydney, Australia

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                                      Pete OHanlon
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                                      I've compensated for the univoting little homophobe. What an ignorant little bigoted shit.

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                                      As Braveheart once said, "You can take our freedom but you'll never take our Hobnobs!" - Martin Hughes.

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                                        I've compensated for the univoting little homophobe. What an ignorant little bigoted shit.

                                        "WPF has many lovers. It's a veritable porn star!" - Josh Smith

                                        As Braveheart once said, "You can take our freedom but you'll never take our Hobnobs!" - Martin Hughes.

                                        My blog | My articles | MoXAML PowerToys | Onyx

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                                        I know this is old, but I was wondering why we hadn't seen anything from Colin since June, and came across this thread (the last time we heard from Colin). Question: Is it any less bigoted to be gay (or even not gay) and think anyone who doesn't agree with the lifestyle is somehow mentally deficient (aka "bigot/homophobe")? I don't personally agree with the lifestyle, but I don't think that makes me a bigot *or* a homophobe. If anything, it makes me "conservative". Everyone is entitled to their opinion, regardless of what kind of label other people seem to want to attach to that opinion. Whoever voted a 1 on this message was just expressing their opinions without getting into a shouting match, and to be quite honest, I really don't remember if I voted in this thread at all (but I don't recall doing so). Just saying...

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                                        • realJSOPR realJSOP

                                          I know this is old, but I was wondering why we hadn't seen anything from Colin since June, and came across this thread (the last time we heard from Colin). Question: Is it any less bigoted to be gay (or even not gay) and think anyone who doesn't agree with the lifestyle is somehow mentally deficient (aka "bigot/homophobe")? I don't personally agree with the lifestyle, but I don't think that makes me a bigot *or* a homophobe. If anything, it makes me "conservative". Everyone is entitled to their opinion, regardless of what kind of label other people seem to want to attach to that opinion. Whoever voted a 1 on this message was just expressing their opinions without getting into a shouting match, and to be quite honest, I really don't remember if I voted in this thread at all (but I don't recall doing so). Just saying...

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                                          Nish Nishant
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                                          John Simmons / outlaw programmer wrote:

                                          Is it any less bigoted to be gay (or even not gay) and think anyone who doesn't agree with the lifestyle is somehow mentally deficient (aka "bigot/homophobe")?

                                          Interesting point. And yeah, I know this is an old thread too :-)

                                          Regards, Nish


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