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    A 140 page document of the commision Adriaensen. :-). If you've followed the (belgian) media last year, there was a huge commotion about cover ups in the church. Investigation still pending.

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    Oakman
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    Chased it down on Google - According to what the NY Times reported, the great majority of the abuse ended 30 years ago - you figure they're covering up stuff that happened more recently?

    "I am for doing good to the poor, but I differ in opinion of the means. I think the best way of doing good to the poor, is not making them easy in poverty, but leading or driving them out of it. In my youth. I have observed in different countries, that the more public provisions were made for the poor, the less they provided for themselves, and of course became poorer. And, on the contrary, the less was done for them, the more they did for themselves, and became richer." ~ Benj Franklin

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      Chased it down on Google - According to what the NY Times reported, the great majority of the abuse ended 30 years ago - you figure they're covering up stuff that happened more recently?

      "I am for doing good to the poor, but I differ in opinion of the means. I think the best way of doing good to the poor, is not making them easy in poverty, but leading or driving them out of it. In my youth. I have observed in different countries, that the more public provisions were made for the poor, the less they provided for themselves, and of course became poorer. And, on the contrary, the less was done for them, the more they did for themselves, and became richer." ~ Benj Franklin

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      That's the point, most events did indeed happen long ago, but the commision was organized not long ago, because people finally brought up the courage to testify or file a formal complaint. The cover up of the stories themselves is from the eighties until even today (there is an investigation ongoing called 'operation Kelk' if I'm not mistaken). Anyway, this brings us too far from the subject.

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        I was wondering. Me and my wife decided not to baptize our son as we just don't see the point. In Belgium almost every priest is marked a pedofile and my own experience with most of those guys were not really positive either (although they didn't touch me ;-)). In addition, if he wants to become a Christian, he can later still decide to do so. My parents are trying to push me to baptize him and my sister also baptized her son. Some seem to think it 'finishes' the welcome of the child into this world. I respect their thoughts and feelings, but do not agree with them. So why should I or shouldn't I subscribe my kid to the Christian posse of believers?

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        V. wrote:

        In addition, if he wants to become a Christian, he can later still decide to do so.

        Cudos to you for being rational. It should not be up to a parent to decide what a child believes.

        I wasn't, now I am, then I won't be anymore.

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        • M Manfred Rudolf Bihy

          I'm with Griff on this one. I do want to know what a pedofile is though. Is that a document on their computer where they keep the names of all the little boys and girls? :laugh:

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          fjdiewornncalwe
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          Manfred R. Bihy wrote:

          Is that a document on their computer where they keep the names of all the little boys and girls?

          Yes, but it may or may not include pictures... X|

          I wasn't, now I am, then I won't be anymore.

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            fjdiewornncalwe
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            Cool... I'll have to look that up as I don't accept anything without verification, but if it is the case, I'll have learned something new today... :) Thanks for that.

            I wasn't, now I am, then I won't be anymore.

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              super wrote:

              As a Hindu please forgive my ignorance about christianity

              Lol, don't worry, we Christians don't know anything about Hindu either, no offence. My opinion is that people should believe anything they're comfortable in (as long as it is accepted by society, so no human sacrifices on the altar if you tend to believe in Quetzalcoatl or something like that) The idea is that indeed you are bound to Christianity, however in practice, this is not really enforced. If you want to marry in front of the church eg, you do need to be baptized first. In my case, I'm baptized in theory, but I'm not following. :-D

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              fjdiewornncalwe
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              But as a christian, you do believe in sacrifices to some extent. I mean, the entire religion is based on some jewish guy being sacrified to make atonement for sin. Martyrdom is also a form of self-sacrifice.

              I wasn't, now I am, then I won't be anymore.

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                wolfbinary wrote:

                You have people saying they believe in turning the other cheek

                When you slap them in the face or kick them in the bum? :laugh:

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                fjdiewornncalwe
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                That depends on which cheek they present to you...

                I wasn't, now I am, then I won't be anymore.

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                  I was wondering. Me and my wife decided not to baptize our son as we just don't see the point. In Belgium almost every priest is marked a pedofile and my own experience with most of those guys were not really positive either (although they didn't touch me ;-)). In addition, if he wants to become a Christian, he can later still decide to do so. My parents are trying to push me to baptize him and my sister also baptized her son. Some seem to think it 'finishes' the welcome of the child into this world. I respect their thoughts and feelings, but do not agree with them. So why should I or shouldn't I subscribe my kid to the Christian posse of believers?

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                  Corporal Agarn
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                  Unlike some here I do not believe Christianity is a con. However, to baptize or not is your decision. Even Christians can not agree on infant baptism.

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                  • M Manfred Rudolf Bihy

                    I'm with Griff on this one. I do want to know what a pedofile is though. Is that a document on their computer where they keep the names of all the little boys and girls? :laugh:

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                    I believe it is someone who loves feet.

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                      I was wondering. Me and my wife decided not to baptize our son as we just don't see the point. In Belgium almost every priest is marked a pedofile and my own experience with most of those guys were not really positive either (although they didn't touch me ;-)). In addition, if he wants to become a Christian, he can later still decide to do so. My parents are trying to push me to baptize him and my sister also baptized her son. Some seem to think it 'finishes' the welcome of the child into this world. I respect their thoughts and feelings, but do not agree with them. So why should I or shouldn't I subscribe my kid to the Christian posse of believers?

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                      Dalek Dave
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                      Why brainwash a child into believing in something that does not exist? Still at least you are not mutilating a child's genitals for the sake of what a sky-pixie manual states ought to be done.

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                        I believe it is someone who loves feet.

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                        Manfred Rudolf Bihy
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                        The way he wrote it, wouldn't that be a phoot foot file. What ever that could be totally escapes me. :-D

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                          Original sin was introduced in the second century by the Bishop of Lyon. I.e. it's an add-on here[^].

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                          Manfred Rudolf Bihy
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                          Yes, a wonderful case to study when you're learning about CRM. :laugh:

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                            That depends on which cheek they present to you...

                            I wasn't, now I am, then I won't be anymore.

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                            I prefer my wife's. :laugh:

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                              But as a christian, you do believe in sacrifices to some extent. I mean, the entire religion is based on some jewish guy being sacrified to make atonement for sin. Martyrdom is also a form of self-sacrifice.

                              I wasn't, now I am, then I won't be anymore.

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                              Marcus Kramer wrote:

                              But as a christian, you do believe in sacrifices to some extent

                              I don't see myself as a Christian, but I do believe in some sort of sacrifice. One does not imply the other. I'm curious why you start on sacrifice, what does that have to do with baptism or taking up a child in Christian community?

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                                I was wondering. Me and my wife decided not to baptize our son as we just don't see the point. In Belgium almost every priest is marked a pedofile and my own experience with most of those guys were not really positive either (although they didn't touch me ;-)). In addition, if he wants to become a Christian, he can later still decide to do so. My parents are trying to push me to baptize him and my sister also baptized her son. Some seem to think it 'finishes' the welcome of the child into this world. I respect their thoughts and feelings, but do not agree with them. So why should I or shouldn't I subscribe my kid to the Christian posse of believers?

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                                TheGreatAndPowerfulOz
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                                Baptism is meant for the remission of sins (forgiving and washing clean). Therefore, baptizing little children before the age of accountability, babies especially, is particularly offensive in the sight of God. Don't do it. Wait until he can choose for himself. In the meantime, teach him to be a good person.

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                                  Baptism is meant for the remission of sins (forgiving and washing clean). Therefore, baptizing little children before the age of accountability, babies especially, is particularly offensive in the sight of God. Don't do it. Wait until he can choose for himself. In the meantime, teach him to be a good person.

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                                  ahmed zahmed wrote:

                                  Baptism is meant for the remission of sins (forgiving and washing clean).

                                  And only for those who are circumcised. ;)

                                  "I am for doing good to the poor, but I differ in opinion of the means. I think the best way of doing good to the poor, is not making them easy in poverty, but leading or driving them out of it. In my youth. I have observed in different countries, that the more public provisions were made for the poor, the less they provided for themselves, and of course became poorer. And, on the contrary, the less was done for them, the more they did for themselves, and became richer." ~ Benj Franklin

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                                    ahmed zahmed wrote:

                                    Baptism is meant for the remission of sins (forgiving and washing clean).

                                    And only for those who are circumcised. ;)

                                    "I am for doing good to the poor, but I differ in opinion of the means. I think the best way of doing good to the poor, is not making them easy in poverty, but leading or driving them out of it. In my youth. I have observed in different countries, that the more public provisions were made for the poor, the less they provided for themselves, and of course became poorer. And, on the contrary, the less was done for them, the more they did for themselves, and became richer." ~ Benj Franklin

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                                    Oakman wrote:

                                    And only for those who are circumcised

                                    I realize you're probably joking, but, that's incorrect. Circumcision is no longer required as it was part of the law that was fulfilled by Jesus Christ. Circumcision of heart (a broken heart and a contrite spirit) is what is now required. Something much more internalized and life changing.

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                                      Oakman wrote:

                                      And only for those who are circumcised

                                      I realize you're probably joking, but, that's incorrect. Circumcision is no longer required as it was part of the law that was fulfilled by Jesus Christ. Circumcision of heart (a broken heart and a contrite spirit) is what is now required. Something much more internalized and life changing.

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                                      I never understood why the genital mutilation of children was so important to being a member of a social club.

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                                        I never understood why the genital mutilation of children was so important to being a member of a social club.

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                                        TheGreatAndPowerfulOz
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                                        It was an outer symbol of an inner commitment. But, then, how could 8-day old babies commit to anything? But then who am I to question the Almighty... But yes, rather strange and incomprehensible to me as well.

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                                        • T TheGreatAndPowerfulOz

                                          Oakman wrote:

                                          And only for those who are circumcised

                                          I realize you're probably joking, but, that's incorrect. Circumcision is no longer required as it was part of the law that was fulfilled by Jesus Christ. Circumcision of heart (a broken heart and a contrite spirit) is what is now required. Something much more internalized and life changing.

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                                          ahmed zahmed wrote:

                                          realize you're probably joking,

                                          Nope. Just pointing out that things change. John The Baptist and all the other Essenes would have died before they would have baptized anyone but a circumcised Jew. Saul of Tarsus, who never met John, discovered without any textual evidence, that Yeshua ben Yussif had made circumcision no longer necessary, which certainly increased the potential number of converts/donors for his brand of Christianity. Luckily (for Paul) all of the original disciples were all killed defending the Temple from the Romans, so his brand became the brand and the uncircumcised had a clear bath to heaven. I find it noteworthy that Simon the Rock in Acts(2:38-39) specifically includes children when he says that only the baptized get to go to heaven. Of course, you probably know better what Yeshua wanted than did the big fisherman, after all what credentials did he have, other than the keys to the Kingdom of God?

                                          "I am for doing good to the poor, but I differ in opinion of the means. I think the best way of doing good to the poor, is not making them easy in poverty, but leading or driving them out of it. In my youth. I have observed in different countries, that the more public provisions were made for the poor, the less they provided for themselves, and of course became poorer. And, on the contrary, the less was done for them, the more they did for themselves, and became richer." ~ Benj Franklin

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