Living and Working in the USA
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I'm a SharePoint Developer and Administrator. Sometimes called a SharePoint Specialist or Expert in South Africa. My wife and I started discussion immigrating to the USA. Can anyone tell me what it's like to live and work over there? What is the job market like for SharePoint, etc. Please, don't sugar coat your responses. We would love to know how it really is.
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I'm a SharePoint Developer and Administrator. Sometimes called a SharePoint Specialist or Expert in South Africa. My wife and I started discussion immigrating to the USA. Can anyone tell me what it's like to live and work over there? What is the job market like for SharePoint, etc. Please, don't sugar coat your responses. We would love to know how it really is.
Jacques.Murray wrote:
Please, don't sugar coat your responses. We would love to know how it really is.
Thanks to the government, it's slowly but surely turning into the very place that folks from other countries are trying to escape from.
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I'm a SharePoint Developer and Administrator. Sometimes called a SharePoint Specialist or Expert in South Africa. My wife and I started discussion immigrating to the USA. Can anyone tell me what it's like to live and work over there? What is the job market like for SharePoint, etc. Please, don't sugar coat your responses. We would love to know how it really is.
Jacques.Murray wrote:
Can anyone tell me what it's like to live and work over there?
Depends on what state we're talking about...
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I lived and worked for a year and a half in Clearwater, Florida, and both my wife and I had a fantastic time. We comfortably lived on one Salary, had the two cars in the driveway (a Mustang - Just because, brought that one home with us, and a Miata because you've got to have a convertible in Florida). Folklore may perpetuate myths of Ireland being a friendly welcoming country, and the US being some sort of over commercialised, gun totin', isolationist asylum. I have to say that didn't tally at all with reality. We made more friends and better friends during our short stay in the US that we have in Ireland. We got to know our neighbours better, we went to the movies with them, to restaurants, to coffee shops etc. Americans we met both in a personal capacity and in the course of day to day activities were almost universally friendly. Some of that may be down to the fact that at least some of them were relying on us for tips, but I do think you can only pretend to be happy and helpful for so long before your true self shines through and for the most part they were great people. America is (at least from the perspective of an Irish person) a very efficient place. We had two minor car accidents in which we were rear ended (same road, within a month of each other). The Police were insanely helpful and efficient. The work situation is a little different in the US. I was a contractor so my European pay and conditions were what I worked under. It seemed to me that Americans work quite long hours. I don't know if it's a pride thing, or a peer pressure thing, or just a peculiarity of the American Psyche, but work is VERY important, it's a reflection of your personality. Depending on the job you might find the hours and the conditions less favourable than work in your own country. All things considered I loved every minute of my time in the US. If the chance came up to go back I'd have a very hard time saying no. That's it. That was Florida (which many American's hate). Going to different states in the US is a bit like going to different countries. Downsides: Society is very divided in the US, the rich poor divide is nothing new, all countries have that, but the phoney Liberal Conservative divide gets tiresome. Particularly when you realise that it's in large part a divide created to bolster particular voting blocks and sell books and tv programming. It seems that most of the people most entrenched in their hatred of the other half of the country, don't even realise that they are be
Thank you. It seems rare to hear someone from outside the U.S. make a considered complimentary statement about the country. Most of the time it's either a vehement diatribe or jingoistic cheerleading.
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I'm a SharePoint Developer and Administrator. Sometimes called a SharePoint Specialist or Expert in South Africa. My wife and I started discussion immigrating to the USA. Can anyone tell me what it's like to live and work over there? What is the job market like for SharePoint, etc. Please, don't sugar coat your responses. We would love to know how it really is.
My husband and I moved from SA to the states just less than 3 years ago. I came over on a student visa and did my Masters in Software Engineering. We were in Florida for about 2 years and we loved it. I then got a job in Kansas and we've been here for almost a year. Kansas is a nice state to live and work in. Going the student visa route meant that we had to pay for tuition and my husband is not allowed to work but it did give us a chance to stay in the country for a while and see if we would like it. It is also easier to get a job if you're here already (and have 1 year practical training). My family and I are much less stressed than we were in JHB SA and we don't regret making the move. :-D As others have said, it depends very much on which state you end up in. I'd be happy to answer any other questions you might have.
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My advice is to be sure you have a job before you go and that the company which hires you will sponsor you for a Green Card - you will not be able to change jobs during the process which takes 3 - 7 years. Your immigration lawyer will have to prove that no American could do or want your job. So a lot of the Green Card process is to do with how creative the lawyer is. Once you get your Green Card you have complete freedom to come and go and can change jobs if you wish. Basically the only thing you won't be able to do is vote. As for living in the US, it was a culture shock even though I speak English. I moved from Amsterdam to Chicago and it took me a year or two to feel at home. People are very welcoming and you'll make loads of friends. If you have any specific questions, fire away. BTW I ended up staying 17 years and am now back in Scotland, but all my clients are in the US.
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AnnieMacD wrote:
As for living in the US, it was a culture shock even though I speak English. I moved from Amsterdam to Chicago and it took me a year or two to feel at home.
Chicago has that effect.
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AndyInUK wrote:
I would say you are more secure in South Africa than in states. My 2 cents.
Why would you say that? South Africa is recognized as having one of the highest crime rates in the world. Its intentional homicide rate if five times that of the United States. For that matter, Official crime figures in 2009 showed the UK as having a worse rate for all types of violence than the U.S. and even South Africa [^]
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AndyInUK wrote:
I would say you are more secure in South Africa than in states. My 2 cents.
Why would you say that? South Africa is recognized as having one of the highest crime rates in the world. Its intentional homicide rate if five times that of the United States. For that matter, Official crime figures in 2009 showed the UK as having a worse rate for all types of violence than the U.S. and even South Africa [^]
The 3-legged stool of understanding is held up by history, languages, and mathematics. Equipped with these three you can learn anything you want to learn. But if you lack any one of them you are just another ignorant peasant with dung on your boots. R. A. H.
Those figures are bullsh*t as different countries have a very different idea of what constitutes a 'violent' crime. The Daily Mail is a notorious right-wing scaremongering rag that tries to convince people that the sky is falling at every opportunity. The UK is far from perfect but please don't let that shitty excuse for a newspaper cloud your view. But I do agree with you about AndyInUK's comment - it was bizarre. I wouldn't live in South Africa if you paid me but would jump at the chance to live in the USA. Judging by the amount of South Africans who have emigrated to the UK in the last 20 years I don't think I'm alone in this view.
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I lived and worked for a year and a half in Clearwater, Florida, and both my wife and I had a fantastic time. We comfortably lived on one Salary, had the two cars in the driveway (a Mustang - Just because, brought that one home with us, and a Miata because you've got to have a convertible in Florida). Folklore may perpetuate myths of Ireland being a friendly welcoming country, and the US being some sort of over commercialised, gun totin', isolationist asylum. I have to say that didn't tally at all with reality. We made more friends and better friends during our short stay in the US that we have in Ireland. We got to know our neighbours better, we went to the movies with them, to restaurants, to coffee shops etc. Americans we met both in a personal capacity and in the course of day to day activities were almost universally friendly. Some of that may be down to the fact that at least some of them were relying on us for tips, but I do think you can only pretend to be happy and helpful for so long before your true self shines through and for the most part they were great people. America is (at least from the perspective of an Irish person) a very efficient place. We had two minor car accidents in which we were rear ended (same road, within a month of each other). The Police were insanely helpful and efficient. The work situation is a little different in the US. I was a contractor so my European pay and conditions were what I worked under. It seemed to me that Americans work quite long hours. I don't know if it's a pride thing, or a peer pressure thing, or just a peculiarity of the American Psyche, but work is VERY important, it's a reflection of your personality. Depending on the job you might find the hours and the conditions less favourable than work in your own country. All things considered I loved every minute of my time in the US. If the chance came up to go back I'd have a very hard time saying no. That's it. That was Florida (which many American's hate). Going to different states in the US is a bit like going to different countries. Downsides: Society is very divided in the US, the rich poor divide is nothing new, all countries have that, but the phoney Liberal Conservative divide gets tiresome. Particularly when you realise that it's in large part a divide created to bolster particular voting blocks and sell books and tv programming. It seems that most of the people most entrenched in their hatred of the other half of the country, don't even realise that they are be
Richard A. Dalton wrote:
Going to different states in the US is a bit like going to different countries.
This is one very nice part about the US. If you don't like one place, pack and move to another that is very different. You don't need to worry about visas or immigration, just move. At most, you'll have to get a new drivers license, but that's not a big deal.
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If you want to know what the hiring environment is like, check out hiring boards. monster, craigslist, etc. If you know what area you would like to live in, check out recruiters in that area. If you want to know what it's like to live here, it's a large country and I think it differs greatly depending on where you live.
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Honestly, the whole "It's different depending on where you live" thing is a little hard to digest, I've live here 4 years...been to 15+ states and they all seem carbon copies of each other. I mean I can be sure I'll spot a walmart/J.C. Penny/Macy's/Dunkin/Pep boys everywhere. Everything just seems to be a corporate chain :-D . Don't get me wrong, it nice they're consistent BUT it does get a little boring after some time ;P
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Honestly, the whole "It's different depending on where you live" thing is a little hard to digest, I've live here 4 years...been to 15+ states and they all seem carbon copies of each other. I mean I can be sure I'll spot a walmart/J.C. Penny/Macy's/Dunkin/Pep boys everywhere. Everything just seems to be a corporate chain :-D . Don't get me wrong, it nice they're consistent BUT it does get a little boring after some time ;P
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Seems like you never lived any where long enough to notice the differences. "Been to x number of places" only qualifies you to make ignorant statements about x number of places. Are you a social person? I would expect talking to the people in these 15 different states would definitely bring out the difference. The entire Western world is populated with chain stores (urban areas usually lesser so), but does the name of the store in which you buy your pants dictate what it's like to live there? It seems you are very focused on the commercialism, which is odd considering you seem to despise it.
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Seems like you never lived any where long enough to notice the differences. "Been to x number of places" only qualifies you to make ignorant statements about x number of places. Are you a social person? I would expect talking to the people in these 15 different states would definitely bring out the difference. The entire Western world is populated with chain stores (urban areas usually lesser so), but does the name of the store in which you buy your pants dictate what it's like to live there? It seems you are very focused on the commercialism, which is odd considering you seem to despise it.
"I have a theory that the truth is never told during the nine-to-five hours. " — Hunter S. Thompson
Despise is a strong word. I do like it here and yes I do socialize but again it's no different at different places, not a bad thing again or maybe I just need to get out more :~ I seem to have offended you. Not my intent at all :)
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Despise is a strong word. I do like it here and yes I do socialize but again it's no different at different places, not a bad thing again or maybe I just need to get out more :~ I seem to have offended you. Not my intent at all :)
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Sorry, the term despise was pretty strong considering you only said that chain stores bored you. I'm by no means offended, just pointing out that it seems you haven't really lived here if your focus is on the commercialized aspect of a society. I would recommend moving to a city from the burbs if that is the case.
"I have a theory that the truth is never told during the nine-to-five hours. " — Hunter S. Thompson
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Thank you. It seems rare to hear someone from outside the U.S. make a considered complimentary statement about the country. Most of the time it's either a vehement diatribe or jingoistic cheerleading.
Software Zen:
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Most of the time it's either a vehement diatribe or jingoistic cheerleading.
Sorry I've let this slip of late, a few more nights of study and I'll be back, bigger and better than ever spewing even more facts about the horror that is the USA.
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I lived and worked for a year and a half in Clearwater, Florida, and both my wife and I had a fantastic time. We comfortably lived on one Salary, had the two cars in the driveway (a Mustang - Just because, brought that one home with us, and a Miata because you've got to have a convertible in Florida). Folklore may perpetuate myths of Ireland being a friendly welcoming country, and the US being some sort of over commercialised, gun totin', isolationist asylum. I have to say that didn't tally at all with reality. We made more friends and better friends during our short stay in the US that we have in Ireland. We got to know our neighbours better, we went to the movies with them, to restaurants, to coffee shops etc. Americans we met both in a personal capacity and in the course of day to day activities were almost universally friendly. Some of that may be down to the fact that at least some of them were relying on us for tips, but I do think you can only pretend to be happy and helpful for so long before your true self shines through and for the most part they were great people. America is (at least from the perspective of an Irish person) a very efficient place. We had two minor car accidents in which we were rear ended (same road, within a month of each other). The Police were insanely helpful and efficient. The work situation is a little different in the US. I was a contractor so my European pay and conditions were what I worked under. It seemed to me that Americans work quite long hours. I don't know if it's a pride thing, or a peer pressure thing, or just a peculiarity of the American Psyche, but work is VERY important, it's a reflection of your personality. Depending on the job you might find the hours and the conditions less favourable than work in your own country. All things considered I loved every minute of my time in the US. If the chance came up to go back I'd have a very hard time saying no. That's it. That was Florida (which many American's hate). Going to different states in the US is a bit like going to different countries. Downsides: Society is very divided in the US, the rich poor divide is nothing new, all countries have that, but the phoney Liberal Conservative divide gets tiresome. Particularly when you realise that it's in large part a divide created to bolster particular voting blocks and sell books and tv programming. It seems that most of the people most entrenched in their hatred of the other half of the country, don't even realise that they are be
Richard A. Dalton wrote:
It seemed to me that Americans work quite long hours. I don't know if it's a pride thing, or a peer pressure thing, or just a peculiarity of the American Psyche, but work is VERY important, it's a reflection of your personality.
Of these I think psyche is closest, although it kind of fits all of the above to some extent. Add in guilt and for some a need to appear to be a certain image as well. And Obviously some folks are immune. Work is how a lot of us define our lives. Kind of like "what we do is what we are" but what we do away from work often doesn't count the same. I've had to quit jobs where I wasn't allowed to work. Just sit at the desk and surf the web and answer the occasional phone call or whatever. And slowly go mad.
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AndyInUK wrote:
I would say you are more secure in South Africa than in states. My 2 cents.
Why would you say that? South Africa is recognized as having one of the highest crime rates in the world. Its intentional homicide rate if five times that of the United States. For that matter, Official crime figures in 2009 showed the UK as having a worse rate for all types of violence than the U.S. and even South Africa [^]
The 3-legged stool of understanding is held up by history, languages, and mathematics. Equipped with these three you can learn anything you want to learn. But if you lack any one of them you are just another ignorant peasant with dung on your boots. R. A. H.
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I'm a SharePoint Developer and Administrator. Sometimes called a SharePoint Specialist or Expert in South Africa. My wife and I started discussion immigrating to the USA. Can anyone tell me what it's like to live and work over there? What is the job market like for SharePoint, etc. Please, don't sugar coat your responses. We would love to know how it really is.
Yes, there will be lots of chain stores that are consistent from coast to coast this is no different than the ubiquity of Tesco stores in the UK. Regional differences can be very stark. New England is VERY different from the midwest which is in turn different from the Pacific Northwest. The cultural differences tend to be more regional than state-centric. You can easily hit 15 states in the midwest and be struck by their similarity (not picking on the midwest, just sayin') then go to Maine and it's like a different country. Cuisine in New England is primarily driven by locally owned one-off restaurants, in Florida it's hard NOT to end up at a Chili's or Applebees. Work. There's an interesting topic. It runs the gamut. Some places will treat you like family (largely smaller companies) most like a fungible commodity. Employment is mostly at will. In other words, they can fire you without reason and you have no recourse. Many companies expect 60 hours from you for the salary that is of course based on 40 hours of pay. Likewise most companies expect you to be contactable when you are vacation and some actually frown upon those who have the temerity to take vacation.
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I lived and worked for a year and a half in Clearwater, Florida, and both my wife and I had a fantastic time. We comfortably lived on one Salary, had the two cars in the driveway (a Mustang - Just because, brought that one home with us, and a Miata because you've got to have a convertible in Florida). Folklore may perpetuate myths of Ireland being a friendly welcoming country, and the US being some sort of over commercialised, gun totin', isolationist asylum. I have to say that didn't tally at all with reality. We made more friends and better friends during our short stay in the US that we have in Ireland. We got to know our neighbours better, we went to the movies with them, to restaurants, to coffee shops etc. Americans we met both in a personal capacity and in the course of day to day activities were almost universally friendly. Some of that may be down to the fact that at least some of them were relying on us for tips, but I do think you can only pretend to be happy and helpful for so long before your true self shines through and for the most part they were great people. America is (at least from the perspective of an Irish person) a very efficient place. We had two minor car accidents in which we were rear ended (same road, within a month of each other). The Police were insanely helpful and efficient. The work situation is a little different in the US. I was a contractor so my European pay and conditions were what I worked under. It seemed to me that Americans work quite long hours. I don't know if it's a pride thing, or a peer pressure thing, or just a peculiarity of the American Psyche, but work is VERY important, it's a reflection of your personality. Depending on the job you might find the hours and the conditions less favourable than work in your own country. All things considered I loved every minute of my time in the US. If the chance came up to go back I'd have a very hard time saying no. That's it. That was Florida (which many American's hate). Going to different states in the US is a bit like going to different countries. Downsides: Society is very divided in the US, the rich poor divide is nothing new, all countries have that, but the phoney Liberal Conservative divide gets tiresome. Particularly when you realise that it's in large part a divide created to bolster particular voting blocks and sell books and tv programming. It seems that most of the people most entrenched in their hatred of the other half of the country, don't even realise that they are be
"Society is very divided in the US, the rich poor divide is nothing new, all countries have that, but the phoney Liberal Conservative divide gets tiresome. Particularly when you realise that it's in large part a divide created to bolster particular voting blocks and sell books and tv programming." Perfectly stated. Perfectly. I guess it takes an outsider's perspective to better see this, although I've been touting this exact thought for years.
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I'm a SharePoint Developer and Administrator. Sometimes called a SharePoint Specialist or Expert in South Africa. My wife and I started discussion immigrating to the USA. Can anyone tell me what it's like to live and work over there? What is the job market like for SharePoint, etc. Please, don't sugar coat your responses. We would love to know how it really is.
There are different problems in different parts of the country. Along the west coast they have earthquakes. Along the east coast and southeast they have hurricanes. Down the middle (Michigan to Kansas) they have tornadoes. In the south it's very hot; you can't survive in Florida without air conditioning. Many jobs (e.g. software development) are being outsourced to low-wage countries, so there's competition for jobs. Despite all that, I'd rather live in the US than anywhere else.
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I'm a SharePoint Developer and Administrator. Sometimes called a SharePoint Specialist or Expert in South Africa. My wife and I started discussion immigrating to the USA. Can anyone tell me what it's like to live and work over there? What is the job market like for SharePoint, etc. Please, don't sugar coat your responses. We would love to know how it really is.
"Can anyone tell me what it's like to live and work over there?" Get up, go to work, work, go home, sleep, repeat. Same as it is pretty much everywhere in the world, I suspect. Perhaps the best way to aproach this is to decide what it is about where you curently live that you and your wife really like, and try to see if anybody can help you figure out what part of the US might provide that for you? What climate do you like? What kind of culture do you like? What kinds of free-time activities do you like to do? etc.
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