What would be your reaction?
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I think that rather than addressing the comment per se, I'd just say to his manager, in passing, something to the effect of "It was nice to spend some time your new starter the other day. He seems like a really good guy. He gave me a fresh perceptive on Product X and helped me crack a bug while he was at it. Happy days!"
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PeejayAdams wrote:
I'd just say to his manager, in passing, something to the effect of
Oooh, I really like that. I'll go with that. I have meeting on Tue where the manager will be present, I'll bring mention it after the meeting.
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Marc Clifton wrote:
Would you take this just as a failed attempt by the manager at humor? Would you ignore it, keep your head down, and not do anything like this again, even though the company's "employee conduct" manual expressly has Dilbertesque phrases about team building, communication, etc. Would you write a complaint? Other?
Tell Marc that he should keep doing what he thinks is best and ignore everyone else.
Bassam Abdul-Baki wrote:
Tell Marc that he should keep doing what he thinks is best and ignore everyone else.
If Marc did that, you'd be reading about "the police are still interrogating Marc regarding his motives." :rolleyes:
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Bassam Abdul-Baki wrote:
Tell Marc that he should keep doing what he thinks is best and ignore everyone else.
If Marc did that, you'd be reading about "the police are still interrogating Marc regarding his motives." :rolleyes:
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We recently hired a few new people, and one of them has considerable experience in the main third party product we are using. Over lunch, said person asked me about how the product is integrated in to our other services, and I volunteered to show him my little corner of the world, which consists mainly of writing middleware libraries that take requests from the third party app, packages the request for consumption by various web services and responds with the results and/or errors. In return, Marc got some really good knowledge about the third party product which he has never formally received an overview/training in, even though he's been there for over a year. His manager, upon noticing the 2 hours we spent together (ironically, which when I was stepping through a project with a known bug that I hadn't worked out resulted in figuring out what the bug was), had this to say to the new hire (it's logged in a chat message, which is good): "Marc works only 3 days a week so his time is very constrained and he eats that stuff up [refering to "integrations"] so he'll probably never tell you that he's too busy." Let's make the following assumptions: Marc is a professional with 30+ years experience and can manage his own time. Marc was in a lull (of which there are many) and had some free time. Marc has previously demonstrated his ability to cross departmental silos to the benefit of all teams. Given said manager's direct message to the new hire, what, if anything should Marc do? Would you take this just as a failed attempt by the manager at humor? Would you ignore it, keep your head down, and not do anything like this again, even though the company's "employee conduct" manual expressly has Dilbertesque phrases about team building, communication, etc. Would you write a complaint? Other? Thanks ahead of time, I'm actually really bothered by the manager's comment, so looking for advice.
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Talk to your manager and explain your perspective of what happened. But, remember, the 'new' employee has his OWN manager he has to report to and if you sully the waters, it may be the waters he has to swim in.
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Bassam Abdul-Baki wrote:
Tell Marc that he should keep doing what he thinks is best and ignore everyone else.
If Marc did that, you'd be reading about "the police are still interrogating Marc regarding his motives." :rolleyes:
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Marc Clifton wrote:
the police are still interrogating Marc regarding his motives
I would think that the motives would be obvious, even to a policeman. :D
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We recently hired a few new people, and one of them has considerable experience in the main third party product we are using. Over lunch, said person asked me about how the product is integrated in to our other services, and I volunteered to show him my little corner of the world, which consists mainly of writing middleware libraries that take requests from the third party app, packages the request for consumption by various web services and responds with the results and/or errors. In return, Marc got some really good knowledge about the third party product which he has never formally received an overview/training in, even though he's been there for over a year. His manager, upon noticing the 2 hours we spent together (ironically, which when I was stepping through a project with a known bug that I hadn't worked out resulted in figuring out what the bug was), had this to say to the new hire (it's logged in a chat message, which is good): "Marc works only 3 days a week so his time is very constrained and he eats that stuff up [refering to "integrations"] so he'll probably never tell you that he's too busy." Let's make the following assumptions: Marc is a professional with 30+ years experience and can manage his own time. Marc was in a lull (of which there are many) and had some free time. Marc has previously demonstrated his ability to cross departmental silos to the benefit of all teams. Given said manager's direct message to the new hire, what, if anything should Marc do? Would you take this just as a failed attempt by the manager at humor? Would you ignore it, keep your head down, and not do anything like this again, even though the company's "employee conduct" manual expressly has Dilbertesque phrases about team building, communication, etc. Would you write a complaint? Other? Thanks ahead of time, I'm actually really bothered by the manager's comment, so looking for advice.
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Unless the manager is a known jerk, I'd assume his intentions are good and he's just trying to prevent you from being distracted/interrupted. One of the top complaints I've heard form developers I've worked with over the years is that constant distractions prevent them from accomplishing as much as they'd hoped to. It sounds to me like it's at least possible this manager knows your time is both limited and valuable, and he's trying to ensure that you've got the space needed to focus. So perhaps just approach him and tell him you appreciate that he's trying to proactively guard you from interruptions. But also mention that working with the new employee was your idea, that it helped you solve an immediate problem, and helped you better understand the third party product you integrate with. It's also possible that this manager is just upset that his new hire went off and spent a couple of hours with you, and he's using your limited schedule as an excuse to exercise a little bit of power over his subordinate. In this case, the approach of telling the manager that a) You appreciate his efforts and b) You appreciate his employee's efforts still works, because it boxes him and an makes it difficult for him to retaliate in any meaningful way. If possible, post your comments in the same chat where the original comment occurred (so your comment will also be logged), and follow up by thanking him in person too. That way, if his intentions are good, you both win. And if his intentions were nefarious, you still win...and he doesn't lose, because you make him and his new hire look good. If he's a jerk who likes playing politics, he'll note that you skilfully outmaneuvered him, and in the future he'll be careful about how he treats you to ensure you you remain an ally, not an enemy.
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We recently hired a few new people, and one of them has considerable experience in the main third party product we are using. Over lunch, said person asked me about how the product is integrated in to our other services, and I volunteered to show him my little corner of the world, which consists mainly of writing middleware libraries that take requests from the third party app, packages the request for consumption by various web services and responds with the results and/or errors. In return, Marc got some really good knowledge about the third party product which he has never formally received an overview/training in, even though he's been there for over a year. His manager, upon noticing the 2 hours we spent together (ironically, which when I was stepping through a project with a known bug that I hadn't worked out resulted in figuring out what the bug was), had this to say to the new hire (it's logged in a chat message, which is good): "Marc works only 3 days a week so his time is very constrained and he eats that stuff up [refering to "integrations"] so he'll probably never tell you that he's too busy." Let's make the following assumptions: Marc is a professional with 30+ years experience and can manage his own time. Marc was in a lull (of which there are many) and had some free time. Marc has previously demonstrated his ability to cross departmental silos to the benefit of all teams. Given said manager's direct message to the new hire, what, if anything should Marc do? Would you take this just as a failed attempt by the manager at humor? Would you ignore it, keep your head down, and not do anything like this again, even though the company's "employee conduct" manual expressly has Dilbertesque phrases about team building, communication, etc. Would you write a complaint? Other? Thanks ahead of time, I'm actually really bothered by the manager's comment, so looking for advice.
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Based purely on this anecdote, I think his manager made a valid observation. From HIS perspective, you are a limited resource and you are using up time of his resource in what may be unrelated to the latter's work. It's entirely possible his manager doesn't really care, but is reacting to a message given him by your manager or upper management. More importantly, this was written to another person, not you. It's really none of your business. In addition, this isn't your "own time"; it's the company's time. My advice: IF this looks like it's NOT going to blow up into a bigger issue, do nothing. Otherwise, go to the other guy's manager and say something like, "I heard you had concerns about the time I spent with X the other day. He was curious about integration and I felt that briefing him would be helpful to him and the company. I apologize for not clearing this with you first."
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We recently hired a few new people, and one of them has considerable experience in the main third party product we are using. Over lunch, said person asked me about how the product is integrated in to our other services, and I volunteered to show him my little corner of the world, which consists mainly of writing middleware libraries that take requests from the third party app, packages the request for consumption by various web services and responds with the results and/or errors. In return, Marc got some really good knowledge about the third party product which he has never formally received an overview/training in, even though he's been there for over a year. His manager, upon noticing the 2 hours we spent together (ironically, which when I was stepping through a project with a known bug that I hadn't worked out resulted in figuring out what the bug was), had this to say to the new hire (it's logged in a chat message, which is good): "Marc works only 3 days a week so his time is very constrained and he eats that stuff up [refering to "integrations"] so he'll probably never tell you that he's too busy." Let's make the following assumptions: Marc is a professional with 30+ years experience and can manage his own time. Marc was in a lull (of which there are many) and had some free time. Marc has previously demonstrated his ability to cross departmental silos to the benefit of all teams. Given said manager's direct message to the new hire, what, if anything should Marc do? Would you take this just as a failed attempt by the manager at humor? Would you ignore it, keep your head down, and not do anything like this again, even though the company's "employee conduct" manual expressly has Dilbertesque phrases about team building, communication, etc. Would you write a complaint? Other? Thanks ahead of time, I'm actually really bothered by the manager's comment, so looking for advice.
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Do you know his home address?
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We recently hired a few new people, and one of them has considerable experience in the main third party product we are using. Over lunch, said person asked me about how the product is integrated in to our other services, and I volunteered to show him my little corner of the world, which consists mainly of writing middleware libraries that take requests from the third party app, packages the request for consumption by various web services and responds with the results and/or errors. In return, Marc got some really good knowledge about the third party product which he has never formally received an overview/training in, even though he's been there for over a year. His manager, upon noticing the 2 hours we spent together (ironically, which when I was stepping through a project with a known bug that I hadn't worked out resulted in figuring out what the bug was), had this to say to the new hire (it's logged in a chat message, which is good): "Marc works only 3 days a week so his time is very constrained and he eats that stuff up [refering to "integrations"] so he'll probably never tell you that he's too busy." Let's make the following assumptions: Marc is a professional with 30+ years experience and can manage his own time. Marc was in a lull (of which there are many) and had some free time. Marc has previously demonstrated his ability to cross departmental silos to the benefit of all teams. Given said manager's direct message to the new hire, what, if anything should Marc do? Would you take this just as a failed attempt by the manager at humor? Would you ignore it, keep your head down, and not do anything like this again, even though the company's "employee conduct" manual expressly has Dilbertesque phrases about team building, communication, etc. Would you write a complaint? Other? Thanks ahead of time, I'm actually really bothered by the manager's comment, so looking for advice.
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We recently hired a few new people, and one of them has considerable experience in the main third party product we are using. Over lunch, said person asked me about how the product is integrated in to our other services, and I volunteered to show him my little corner of the world, which consists mainly of writing middleware libraries that take requests from the third party app, packages the request for consumption by various web services and responds with the results and/or errors. In return, Marc got some really good knowledge about the third party product which he has never formally received an overview/training in, even though he's been there for over a year. His manager, upon noticing the 2 hours we spent together (ironically, which when I was stepping through a project with a known bug that I hadn't worked out resulted in figuring out what the bug was), had this to say to the new hire (it's logged in a chat message, which is good): "Marc works only 3 days a week so his time is very constrained and he eats that stuff up [refering to "integrations"] so he'll probably never tell you that he's too busy." Let's make the following assumptions: Marc is a professional with 30+ years experience and can manage his own time. Marc was in a lull (of which there are many) and had some free time. Marc has previously demonstrated his ability to cross departmental silos to the benefit of all teams. Given said manager's direct message to the new hire, what, if anything should Marc do? Would you take this just as a failed attempt by the manager at humor? Would you ignore it, keep your head down, and not do anything like this again, even though the company's "employee conduct" manual expressly has Dilbertesque phrases about team building, communication, etc. Would you write a complaint? Other? Thanks ahead of time, I'm actually really bothered by the manager's comment, so looking for advice.
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I believe you've got a lot of good advice here. Apart from that, do you trust your own manager? If you do it could be a good idea to ask for advice as he or she might know how the other manager is wired.
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Unless the manager is a known jerk, I'd assume his intentions are good and he's just trying to prevent you from being distracted/interrupted. One of the top complaints I've heard form developers I've worked with over the years is that constant distractions prevent them from accomplishing as much as they'd hoped to. It sounds to me like it's at least possible this manager knows your time is both limited and valuable, and he's trying to ensure that you've got the space needed to focus. So perhaps just approach him and tell him you appreciate that he's trying to proactively guard you from interruptions. But also mention that working with the new employee was your idea, that it helped you solve an immediate problem, and helped you better understand the third party product you integrate with. It's also possible that this manager is just upset that his new hire went off and spent a couple of hours with you, and he's using your limited schedule as an excuse to exercise a little bit of power over his subordinate. In this case, the approach of telling the manager that a) You appreciate his efforts and b) You appreciate his employee's efforts still works, because it boxes him and an makes it difficult for him to retaliate in any meaningful way. If possible, post your comments in the same chat where the original comment occurred (so your comment will also be logged), and follow up by thanking him in person too. That way, if his intentions are good, you both win. And if his intentions were nefarious, you still win...and he doesn't lose, because you make him and his new hire look good. If he's a jerk who likes playing politics, he'll note that you skilfully outmaneuvered him, and in the future he'll be careful about how he treats you to ensure you you remain an ally, not an enemy.
Ryan Peden wrote:
Unless the manager is a known jerk
Bingo! The general consensus among the rank and file is that they would never want to work for this guy. In fact, at least two people that I know of have asked (and were granted) transfers to another department because of this manager.
Ryan Peden wrote:
It's also possible that this manager is just upset that his new hire went off and spent a couple of hours with you, and he's using your limited schedule as an excuse to exercise a little bit of power over his subordinate.
Bingo again! His management style is basically smile and say good morning as he passes you in the hallway, and smack you with a stick for any initiative or deviation from his bean counter mentality until you submit to being a drone. I suspect he will incarnate as a Borg in the far future.
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We recently hired a few new people, and one of them has considerable experience in the main third party product we are using. Over lunch, said person asked me about how the product is integrated in to our other services, and I volunteered to show him my little corner of the world, which consists mainly of writing middleware libraries that take requests from the third party app, packages the request for consumption by various web services and responds with the results and/or errors. In return, Marc got some really good knowledge about the third party product which he has never formally received an overview/training in, even though he's been there for over a year. His manager, upon noticing the 2 hours we spent together (ironically, which when I was stepping through a project with a known bug that I hadn't worked out resulted in figuring out what the bug was), had this to say to the new hire (it's logged in a chat message, which is good): "Marc works only 3 days a week so his time is very constrained and he eats that stuff up [refering to "integrations"] so he'll probably never tell you that he's too busy." Let's make the following assumptions: Marc is a professional with 30+ years experience and can manage his own time. Marc was in a lull (of which there are many) and had some free time. Marc has previously demonstrated his ability to cross departmental silos to the benefit of all teams. Given said manager's direct message to the new hire, what, if anything should Marc do? Would you take this just as a failed attempt by the manager at humor? Would you ignore it, keep your head down, and not do anything like this again, even though the company's "employee conduct" manual expressly has Dilbertesque phrases about team building, communication, etc. Would you write a complaint? Other? Thanks ahead of time, I'm actually really bothered by the manager's comment, so looking for advice.
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My reaction would NOT be to write something in a forum somewhere on the internet. But I might be saying to myself, as long as I keep getting payed, I'll continue to do that job for which I recieve that pay. You know the sermon, the one the judge always gives to the pool of prospective jurors that are down to a single room of badge bearers but it's so late in the day that he's got to let them go. "Don't discuss the case with anyone, your kids, your wife, your dog, your mechanic, your butcher, your tailor, the guy down at the local hardware, the cashier at the bodega ..." This is a swearing-in issue.
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PeejayAdams wrote:
I'd just say to his manager, in passing, something to the effect of
Oooh, I really like that. I'll go with that. I have meeting on Tue where the manager will be present, I'll bring mention it after the meeting.
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There is nothing like being positive about a coworker to a manager, tends to confuse the crap out of them. So there are 2 benefits of doing this. This is especially valid when you are so senior/essential that you position is unassailable.
Never underestimate the power of human stupidity RAH
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Unless the manager is a known jerk, I'd assume his intentions are good and he's just trying to prevent you from being distracted/interrupted. One of the top complaints I've heard form developers I've worked with over the years is that constant distractions prevent them from accomplishing as much as they'd hoped to. It sounds to me like it's at least possible this manager knows your time is both limited and valuable, and he's trying to ensure that you've got the space needed to focus. So perhaps just approach him and tell him you appreciate that he's trying to proactively guard you from interruptions. But also mention that working with the new employee was your idea, that it helped you solve an immediate problem, and helped you better understand the third party product you integrate with. It's also possible that this manager is just upset that his new hire went off and spent a couple of hours with you, and he's using your limited schedule as an excuse to exercise a little bit of power over his subordinate. In this case, the approach of telling the manager that a) You appreciate his efforts and b) You appreciate his employee's efforts still works, because it boxes him and an makes it difficult for him to retaliate in any meaningful way. If possible, post your comments in the same chat where the original comment occurred (so your comment will also be logged), and follow up by thanking him in person too. That way, if his intentions are good, you both win. And if his intentions were nefarious, you still win...and he doesn't lose, because you make him and his new hire look good. If he's a jerk who likes playing politics, he'll note that you skilfully outmaneuvered him, and in the future he'll be careful about how he treats you to ensure you you remain an ally, not an enemy.
Ryan Peeden:
in the future he'll be careful about how he treats you
And will be coming up with a carefully thought-out strategy to ensure that you and pesky little Mark atleast think twice before outmaneuvering him in the future. ;P
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We recently hired a few new people, and one of them has considerable experience in the main third party product we are using. Over lunch, said person asked me about how the product is integrated in to our other services, and I volunteered to show him my little corner of the world, which consists mainly of writing middleware libraries that take requests from the third party app, packages the request for consumption by various web services and responds with the results and/or errors. In return, Marc got some really good knowledge about the third party product which he has never formally received an overview/training in, even though he's been there for over a year. His manager, upon noticing the 2 hours we spent together (ironically, which when I was stepping through a project with a known bug that I hadn't worked out resulted in figuring out what the bug was), had this to say to the new hire (it's logged in a chat message, which is good): "Marc works only 3 days a week so his time is very constrained and he eats that stuff up [refering to "integrations"] so he'll probably never tell you that he's too busy." Let's make the following assumptions: Marc is a professional with 30+ years experience and can manage his own time. Marc was in a lull (of which there are many) and had some free time. Marc has previously demonstrated his ability to cross departmental silos to the benefit of all teams. Given said manager's direct message to the new hire, what, if anything should Marc do? Would you take this just as a failed attempt by the manager at humor? Would you ignore it, keep your head down, and not do anything like this again, even though the company's "employee conduct" manual expressly has Dilbertesque phrases about team building, communication, etc. Would you write a complaint? Other? Thanks ahead of time, I'm actually really bothered by the manager's comment, so looking for advice.
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I wouldn't mention anything to any managers in particular, but (and especially if the new hire is fairly inexperienced in comparison) have a chat with the new hire to reassure them that they hadn't been wasting your time & to pretty much ignore the email. If something similar needs to happen in future, it may be wise to let the manager know in advance (in a let-me-know-if-you-don't-want-this-to-happen style email that he may well not even read in time).
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We recently hired a few new people, and one of them has considerable experience in the main third party product we are using. Over lunch, said person asked me about how the product is integrated in to our other services, and I volunteered to show him my little corner of the world, which consists mainly of writing middleware libraries that take requests from the third party app, packages the request for consumption by various web services and responds with the results and/or errors. In return, Marc got some really good knowledge about the third party product which he has never formally received an overview/training in, even though he's been there for over a year. His manager, upon noticing the 2 hours we spent together (ironically, which when I was stepping through a project with a known bug that I hadn't worked out resulted in figuring out what the bug was), had this to say to the new hire (it's logged in a chat message, which is good): "Marc works only 3 days a week so his time is very constrained and he eats that stuff up [refering to "integrations"] so he'll probably never tell you that he's too busy." Let's make the following assumptions: Marc is a professional with 30+ years experience and can manage his own time. Marc was in a lull (of which there are many) and had some free time. Marc has previously demonstrated his ability to cross departmental silos to the benefit of all teams. Given said manager's direct message to the new hire, what, if anything should Marc do? Would you take this just as a failed attempt by the manager at humor? Would you ignore it, keep your head down, and not do anything like this again, even though the company's "employee conduct" manual expressly has Dilbertesque phrases about team building, communication, etc. Would you write a complaint? Other? Thanks ahead of time, I'm actually really bothered by the manager's comment, so looking for advice.
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Based purely on this anecdote, I think his manager made a valid observation. From HIS perspective, you are a limited resource and you are using up time of his resource in what may be unrelated to the latter's work. It's entirely possible his manager doesn't really care, but is reacting to a message given him by your manager or upper management. More importantly, this was written to another person, not you. It's really none of your business. In addition, this isn't your "own time"; it's the company's time. My advice: IF this looks like it's NOT going to blow up into a bigger issue, do nothing. Otherwise, go to the other guy's manager and say something like, "I heard you had concerns about the time I spent with X the other day. He was curious about integration and I felt that briefing him would be helpful to him and the company. I apologize for not clearing this with you first."
Joe Woodbury wrote:
More importantly, this was written to another person, not you. It's really none of your business.
Agreed.
Joe Woodbury wrote:
I apologize for not clearing this with you first."
Oh god, I can't do that. I don't participate well in an arbitrary dictatorship where I have to seek permission before taking a shit.
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I believe you've got a lot of good advice here. Apart from that, do you trust your own manager? If you do it could be a good idea to ask for advice as he or she might know how the other manager is wired.
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Jörgen Andersson wrote:
Apart from that, do you trust your own manager?
Mostly. My direct manager (who works under the manager of the other person) definitely goes into "circle the wagons" mode when encountering confrontational issues.
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My reaction would NOT be to write something in a forum somewhere on the internet. But I might be saying to myself, as long as I keep getting payed, I'll continue to do that job for which I recieve that pay. You know the sermon, the one the judge always gives to the pool of prospective jurors that are down to a single room of badge bearers but it's so late in the day that he's got to let them go. "Don't discuss the case with anyone, your kids, your wife, your dog, your mechanic, your butcher, your tailor, the guy down at the local hardware, the cashier at the bodega ..." This is a swearing-in issue.
RedDk wrote:
My reaction would NOT be to write something in a forum somewhere on the internet.
But where else am I going to get good feedback? And if this post is discovered by said people (highly unlikely) I actually really don't care.
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We recently hired a few new people, and one of them has considerable experience in the main third party product we are using. Over lunch, said person asked me about how the product is integrated in to our other services, and I volunteered to show him my little corner of the world, which consists mainly of writing middleware libraries that take requests from the third party app, packages the request for consumption by various web services and responds with the results and/or errors. In return, Marc got some really good knowledge about the third party product which he has never formally received an overview/training in, even though he's been there for over a year. His manager, upon noticing the 2 hours we spent together (ironically, which when I was stepping through a project with a known bug that I hadn't worked out resulted in figuring out what the bug was), had this to say to the new hire (it's logged in a chat message, which is good): "Marc works only 3 days a week so his time is very constrained and he eats that stuff up [refering to "integrations"] so he'll probably never tell you that he's too busy." Let's make the following assumptions: Marc is a professional with 30+ years experience and can manage his own time. Marc was in a lull (of which there are many) and had some free time. Marc has previously demonstrated his ability to cross departmental silos to the benefit of all teams. Given said manager's direct message to the new hire, what, if anything should Marc do? Would you take this just as a failed attempt by the manager at humor? Would you ignore it, keep your head down, and not do anything like this again, even though the company's "employee conduct" manual expressly has Dilbertesque phrases about team building, communication, etc. Would you write a complaint? Other? Thanks ahead of time, I'm actually really bothered by the manager's comment, so looking for advice.
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All communications are either an act of love, or a cry for help. His was the latter. As a manager, ignore it and move on. In our world, we have our #1 rule: It's About People. If you violate that rule (by treating people poorly), YOU won't be happy. I had a manager write up an employee who left her cubicle, went to the managers glass office, and took a DOCTORS call about a lab result that needed to be handled in private. She worked with mostly men around her. I think it was perfectly reasonable, everyone said it was a few minutes, and she locked the office back up. Clearly violating rule #1: It's About People. When we forget that... Things end badly!