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Different people do and want different things. Your advice will never work for me, for example. The problem with doing things the way you have suggested is that it leaves too many maybes for Adam. At the end of the day he will still not have a straight answer to his question. It would just drive him insane. He will go into never ending analysis of every word she said and how she said it and when she said it and what reason she might have to be saying it. I am sure Adam is already doing that, so why not just cut to the chase and resolve the problem. I am not saying act as a Rambo, just be straight with her and tell her what is on his mind. Even if she does not feel like being anything other than a friend she will still be able to be a friend after his words. What is there better than a friend that loves you? If she does not understand that and get scared - she is probably not worthy of his love anyway.
Konstantin Vasserman wrote: At the end of the day he will still not have a straight answer to his question. Imho, things like this can take time. Of course it's entirely possible that at the end of the day Adam will have an answer. But will it be the one he wants? Adam, we await your posts! /ravi "There is always one more bug..." http://www.ravib.com ravib@ravib.com
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Well guys... i think we have our first article for "The DateProject". :-D Mauricio Teichmann Ritter Brazil mauricioritter@hotmail.com
Gee, what can I say? People have been coming to me for advice for years. :) Hmmm, maybe if I'd followed some of it I wouldn't be spending Saturday night working on my next product... /ravi "There is always one more bug..." http://www.ravib.com ravib@ravib.com
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Konstantin Vasserman wrote: Love for woman vs. love for computer Such a hard choice!! :-D :-D Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart "And that's the news from Lake Wobegon, where all the women are strong, the men are good-looking, and the children are above-average." - Garrison Keillor
Unless you can find a woman who likes computers too .. oh, wait, nevermind... "Am I talking too fast, or are you just playing dumb? If you want I can write it down." -Jarvis Cocker/Pulp
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Hey dude, Remember the advice you got ! We demend an update . So will it be a slap on the face or success ? :-) Regardz Colin J Davies
Sonork ID 100.9197:Colin
I live in Bob's HungOut now
Frankly Colin, I don't think what he is doing is smart. What if she comes across this thread. or someone she knows sees this thread and forwards it to her. He's gonna be in trouble. Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut
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What in the world are you confused about? Stop being confused. It looks like she is very much interested in you. Make your move and figure your doubts later. If you just sit on your behind being confused she will loose interest in you before you get a chance to find out what it's all about... Gash, I thought you already got married by now. :) Good luck.
Konstantin Vasserman wrote: Gash, I thought you already got married by now LOL Not so soon, not so soon..... Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut
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Konstantin Vasserman wrote: Love for woman vs. love for computer Such a hard choice!! :-D :-D Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart "And that's the news from Lake Wobegon, where all the women are strong, the men are good-looking, and the children are above-average." - Garrison Keillor
Brian Hart wrote: Love for woman vs. love for computer Such a hard choice!! Not all all. The decision is obvious. The lady has to go! Some other time, maybe, but now it has to be the computer Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut
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Konstantin Vasserman wrote: At the end of the day he will still not have a straight answer to his question. Imho, things like this can take time. Of course it's entirely possible that at the end of the day Adam will have an answer. But will it be the one he wants? Adam, we await your posts! /ravi "There is always one more bug..." http://www.ravib.com ravib@ravib.com
Ravi Bhavnani wrote: Adam, we await your posts! Are we? I'd have thought he'd be better off, not saying all these things here in public. Damn, he's even using his real name. The girl is not dumb, right? What if she sees this whole thread? I dont think she'd like it when she knows that 25 people from 15 different countries are discussin her relationship with Adam Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut
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Unless you can find a woman who likes computers too .. oh, wait, nevermind... "Am I talking too fast, or are you just playing dumb? If you want I can write it down." -Jarvis Cocker/Pulp
No, even that wont matter. Its either the woman or the comp, see? So the woman's liking/disliking for comps dont come into the pic at all. Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut
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Gee, what can I say? People have been coming to me for advice for years. :) Hmmm, maybe if I'd followed some of it I wouldn't be spending Saturday night working on my next product... /ravi "There is always one more bug..." http://www.ravib.com ravib@ravib.com
Ravi Bhavnani wrote: Hmmm, maybe if I'd followed some of it I wouldn't be spending Saturday night working on You do not know how lucky and fortunate you are Ravi! Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut
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Hi, remember my post a while ago? Well, Wednesday she calls at 10:00, and we talk on the phone for two hours. THursday, she calls at 12:02, and we talk for four hours. Then she invites me to go grocery shopping with her at Costco. I'm still confused.
Well, she went to her aunt's this weekend. I am going to invite her to go hiking in the Santa Monica mountains. We both enjoy this type of activity, so I think its a good oppertunity to break the ice. Thanks everyone for your advice, I really appreiciate it! And, I'll be sure to update you. Thanks, once again!
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Ravi Bhavnani wrote: Hmmm, maybe if I'd followed some of it I wouldn't be spending Saturday night working on You do not know how lucky and fortunate you are Ravi! Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut
Ah... sometimes I think so, but often I don't. :| /ravi "There is always one more bug..." http://www.ravib.com ravib@ravib.com
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Hi, remember my post a while ago? Well, Wednesday she calls at 10:00, and we talk on the phone for two hours. THursday, she calls at 12:02, and we talk for four hours. Then she invites me to go grocery shopping with her at Costco. I'm still confused.
Adam Arthur wrote: Well, Wednesday she calls at 10:00, and we talk on the phone for two hours. Thursday, she calls at 12:02, and we talk for four hours. How can you be confused? What the hell did you talk about for 6 hours? I don't think I've spent 6 hours talking to my wife on the phone... total... in 16 years!!! Jesus Christ*, man!!! Stop being a wuss and tell her how you feel!!! At your current pace, you'll both be middle-aged before your first kiss. Damn the torpedoes, full speed ahead!!! *Religous reference for effect only, I'm actually an athiest!!
Mike Mullikin - Sonork 100.10096 "Programming is like sex. One mistake and you have to support it for the rest of your life." - Michael Sinz
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Ah... sometimes I think so, but often I don't. :| /ravi "There is always one more bug..." http://www.ravib.com ravib@ravib.com
Ravi Bhavnani wrote: but often I don't Good heavens!!!!! Ravi, be careful of those moments. Be very careful. Dont fall into the black hole which has sucked up so many people, so many! Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut
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Ravi Bhavnani wrote: Adam, we await your posts! Are we? I'd have thought he'd be better off, not saying all these things here in public. Damn, he's even using his real name. The girl is not dumb, right? What if she sees this whole thread? I dont think she'd like it when she knows that 25 people from 15 different countries are discussin her relationship with Adam Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut
Nish [BusterBoy] wrote: I dont think she'd like it when she knows that 25 people from 15 different countries are discussin her relationship with Adam On the contrary! I think she'd be flattered. I just hope he invites the supporting CP cast to his wedding. :-D /ravi "There is always one more bug..." http://www.ravib.com ravib@ravib.com
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Nish [BusterBoy] wrote: I dont think she'd like it when she knows that 25 people from 15 different countries are discussin her relationship with Adam On the contrary! I think she'd be flattered. I just hope he invites the supporting CP cast to his wedding. :-D /ravi "There is always one more bug..." http://www.ravib.com ravib@ravib.com
Ravi Bhavnani wrote: I just hope he invites the supporting CP cast to his wedding. Hey! That's a nice idea Ravi. Will he get me a visiting VISA and also my to-fro air-tickets ;-);-);-);-);-) Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut
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Adam Arthur wrote: Well, Wednesday she calls at 10:00, and we talk on the phone for two hours. Thursday, she calls at 12:02, and we talk for four hours. How can you be confused? What the hell did you talk about for 6 hours? I don't think I've spent 6 hours talking to my wife on the phone... total... in 16 years!!! Jesus Christ*, man!!! Stop being a wuss and tell her how you feel!!! At your current pace, you'll both be middle-aged before your first kiss. Damn the torpedoes, full speed ahead!!! *Religous reference for effect only, I'm actually an athiest!!
Mike Mullikin - Sonork 100.10096 "Programming is like sex. One mistake and you have to support it for the rest of your life." - Michael Sinz
Mike Mullikin wrote: What the hell did you talk about for 6 hours? Yeah, that's what I been wonderin' too. And he says he's confused! About what? Mike Mullikin wrote: I've spent 6 hours talking to my wife on the phone... total... in 16 years!!! ooooooh! You talked about 3 hours too long. I think a decent average should be 3 hrs in 16 years. Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut
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Well, she went to her aunt's this weekend. I am going to invite her to go hiking in the Santa Monica mountains. We both enjoy this type of activity, so I think its a good oppertunity to break the ice. Thanks everyone for your advice, I really appreiciate it! And, I'll be sure to update you. Thanks, once again!
Adam Arthur wrote: And, I'll be sure to update you. :-) Ask her to join Code Project. Show off your cool friends to her. Nish p.s. First make sure she approves of all this public international level discussion. If she seems to dislike it even slightly, never post anything more.....Else, like Ravi said, call us all for the wedding, including David Wulff [Colin and Paul will make sure he wont start making sex-doll-sheep complaints aloud] Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut
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Ravi Bhavnani wrote: I just hope he invites the supporting CP cast to his wedding. Hey! That's a nice idea Ravi. Will he get me a visiting VISA and also my to-fro air-tickets ;-);-);-);-);-) Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut
Hell, after all the moral support and helpful advice he's been getting, it's the least he can do! :laugh: /ravi "There is always one more bug..." http://www.ravib.com ravib@ravib.com
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Mike Mullikin wrote: What the hell did you talk about for 6 hours? Yeah, that's what I been wonderin' too. And he says he's confused! About what? Mike Mullikin wrote: I've spent 6 hours talking to my wife on the phone... total... in 16 years!!! ooooooh! You talked about 3 hours too long. I think a decent average should be 3 hrs in 16 years. Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut
Nish [BusterBoy] wrote: ooooooh! You talked about 3 hours too long. I think a decent average should be 3 hrs in 16 years. Agreed! But, sometimes you gotta break down and do what she wants. Call me a "romantic"! :rolleyes:
Mike Mullikin - Sonork 100.10096 "Programming is like sex. One mistake and you have to support it for the rest of your life." - Michael Sinz
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Nish [BusterBoy] wrote: ooooooh! You talked about 3 hours too long. I think a decent average should be 3 hrs in 16 years. Agreed! But, sometimes you gotta break down and do what she wants. Call me a "romantic"! :rolleyes:
Mike Mullikin - Sonork 100.10096 "Programming is like sex. One mistake and you have to support it for the rest of your life." - Michael Sinz
LOL Sure, a romantic :-) Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut
