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  • R Ravi Bhavnani

    Gee, what can I say? People have been coming to me for advice for years. :) Hmmm, maybe if I'd followed some of it I wouldn't be spending Saturday night working on my next product... /ravi "There is always one more bug..." http://www.ravib.com ravib@ravib.com

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    Ravi Bhavnani wrote: Hmmm, maybe if I'd followed some of it I wouldn't be spending Saturday night working on You do not know how lucky and fortunate you are Ravi! Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut

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      Hi, remember my post a while ago? Well, Wednesday she calls at 10:00, and we talk on the phone for two hours. THursday, she calls at 12:02, and we talk for four hours. Then she invites me to go grocery shopping with her at Costco. I'm still confused.

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      Well, she went to her aunt's this weekend. I am going to invite her to go hiking in the Santa Monica mountains. We both enjoy this type of activity, so I think its a good oppertunity to break the ice. Thanks everyone for your advice, I really appreiciate it! And, I'll be sure to update you. Thanks, once again!

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        Ravi Bhavnani wrote: Hmmm, maybe if I'd followed some of it I wouldn't be spending Saturday night working on You do not know how lucky and fortunate you are Ravi! Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut

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        Ravi Bhavnani
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        Ah... sometimes I think so, but often I don't. :| /ravi "There is always one more bug..." http://www.ravib.com ravib@ravib.com

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          Hi, remember my post a while ago? Well, Wednesday she calls at 10:00, and we talk on the phone for two hours. THursday, she calls at 12:02, and we talk for four hours. Then she invites me to go grocery shopping with her at Costco. I'm still confused.

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          Adam Arthur wrote: Well, Wednesday she calls at 10:00, and we talk on the phone for two hours. Thursday, she calls at 12:02, and we talk for four hours. How can you be confused? What the hell did you talk about for 6 hours? I don't think I've spent 6 hours talking to my wife on the phone... total... in 16 years!!! Jesus Christ*, man!!! Stop being a wuss and tell her how you feel!!! At your current pace, you'll both be middle-aged before your first kiss. Damn the torpedoes, full speed ahead!!! *Religous reference for effect only, I'm actually an athiest!!

          Mike Mullikin - Sonork 100.10096 "Programming is like sex. One mistake and you have to support it for the rest of your life." - Michael Sinz

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          • R Ravi Bhavnani

            Ah... sometimes I think so, but often I don't. :| /ravi "There is always one more bug..." http://www.ravib.com ravib@ravib.com

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            Ravi Bhavnani wrote: but often I don't Good heavens!!!!! Ravi, be careful of those moments. Be very careful. Dont fall into the black hole which has sucked up so many people, so many! Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut

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              Ravi Bhavnani wrote: Adam, we await your posts! Are we? I'd have thought he'd be better off, not saying all these things here in public. Damn, he's even using his real name. The girl is not dumb, right? What if she sees this whole thread? I dont think she'd like it when she knows that 25 people from 15 different countries are discussin her relationship with Adam Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut

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              Nish [BusterBoy] wrote: I dont think she'd like it when she knows that 25 people from 15 different countries are discussin her relationship with Adam On the contrary! I think she'd be flattered. I just hope he invites the supporting CP cast to his wedding. :-D /ravi "There is always one more bug..." http://www.ravib.com ravib@ravib.com

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                Nish [BusterBoy] wrote: I dont think she'd like it when she knows that 25 people from 15 different countries are discussin her relationship with Adam On the contrary! I think she'd be flattered. I just hope he invites the supporting CP cast to his wedding. :-D /ravi "There is always one more bug..." http://www.ravib.com ravib@ravib.com

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                Ravi Bhavnani wrote: I just hope he invites the supporting CP cast to his wedding. Hey! That's a nice idea Ravi. Will he get me a visiting VISA and also my to-fro air-tickets ;-);-);-);-);-) Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut

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                  Adam Arthur wrote: Well, Wednesday she calls at 10:00, and we talk on the phone for two hours. Thursday, she calls at 12:02, and we talk for four hours. How can you be confused? What the hell did you talk about for 6 hours? I don't think I've spent 6 hours talking to my wife on the phone... total... in 16 years!!! Jesus Christ*, man!!! Stop being a wuss and tell her how you feel!!! At your current pace, you'll both be middle-aged before your first kiss. Damn the torpedoes, full speed ahead!!! *Religous reference for effect only, I'm actually an athiest!!

                  Mike Mullikin - Sonork 100.10096 "Programming is like sex. One mistake and you have to support it for the rest of your life." - Michael Sinz

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                  Mike Mullikin wrote: What the hell did you talk about for 6 hours? Yeah, that's what I been wonderin' too. And he says he's confused! About what? Mike Mullikin wrote: I've spent 6 hours talking to my wife on the phone... total... in 16 years!!! ooooooh! You talked about 3 hours too long. I think a decent average should be 3 hrs in 16 years. Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut

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                  • A Adam Arthur

                    Well, she went to her aunt's this weekend. I am going to invite her to go hiking in the Santa Monica mountains. We both enjoy this type of activity, so I think its a good oppertunity to break the ice. Thanks everyone for your advice, I really appreiciate it! And, I'll be sure to update you. Thanks, once again!

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                    Adam Arthur wrote: And, I'll be sure to update you. :-) Ask her to join Code Project. Show off your cool friends to her. Nish p.s. First make sure she approves of all this public international level discussion. If she seems to dislike it even slightly, never post anything more.....Else, like Ravi said, call us all for the wedding, including David Wulff [Colin and Paul will make sure he wont start making sex-doll-sheep complaints aloud] Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut

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                      Ravi Bhavnani wrote: I just hope he invites the supporting CP cast to his wedding. Hey! That's a nice idea Ravi. Will he get me a visiting VISA and also my to-fro air-tickets ;-);-);-);-);-) Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut

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                      Ravi Bhavnani
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                      Hell, after all the moral support and helpful advice he's been getting, it's the least he can do! :laugh: /ravi "There is always one more bug..." http://www.ravib.com ravib@ravib.com

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                        Mike Mullikin wrote: What the hell did you talk about for 6 hours? Yeah, that's what I been wonderin' too. And he says he's confused! About what? Mike Mullikin wrote: I've spent 6 hours talking to my wife on the phone... total... in 16 years!!! ooooooh! You talked about 3 hours too long. I think a decent average should be 3 hrs in 16 years. Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut

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                        Nish [BusterBoy] wrote: ooooooh! You talked about 3 hours too long. I think a decent average should be 3 hrs in 16 years. Agreed! But, sometimes you gotta break down and do what she wants. Call me a "romantic"! :rolleyes:

                        Mike Mullikin - Sonork 100.10096 "Programming is like sex. One mistake and you have to support it for the rest of your life." - Michael Sinz

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                          Nish [BusterBoy] wrote: ooooooh! You talked about 3 hours too long. I think a decent average should be 3 hrs in 16 years. Agreed! But, sometimes you gotta break down and do what she wants. Call me a "romantic"! :rolleyes:

                          Mike Mullikin - Sonork 100.10096 "Programming is like sex. One mistake and you have to support it for the rest of your life." - Michael Sinz

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                          Nish Nishant
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                          LOL Sure, a romantic :-) Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut

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                            Brian Hart wrote: Love for woman vs. love for computer Such a hard choice!! Not all all. The decision is obvious. The lady has to go! Some other time, maybe, but now it has to be the computer Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut

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                            Nish [BusterBoy] wrote: Not all all. The decision is obvious. The lady has to go! pLady = NULL; Simon Nobody does chicken like MFC Sonork ID 100.10024

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                              Frankly Colin, I don't think what he is doing is smart. What if she comes across this thread. or someone she knows sees this thread and forwards it to her. He's gonna be in trouble. Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut

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                              Nish [BusterBoy] wrote: What if she comes across this thread. or someone she knows sees this thread and forwards it to her. He's gonna be in trouble. Oh contraire mon frair! I will bet a sci-fi book that she would be swept off her feet with all the attention he is giving to the problem. He has opened his heart to find out how to woo her, and just that act alone is difficult and to be rewarded, especially by her. I am sure she would be quite chuffed he feels so strongly for her. p.s. I was serious about sending you those books, so reply to the post :) regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa "The greatest thing you will ever learn is to love, and be loved in return" - Moulin Rouge Martin Marvinski wrote: Unfortunatly Deep Throat isn't my cup of tea Do you Sonork? I do! 100.9903 Stormfront

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                                No, even that wont matter. Its either the woman or the comp, see? So the woman's liking/disliking for comps dont come into the pic at all. Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut

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                                Nish [BusterBoy] wrote: So the woman's liking/disliking for comps dont come into the pic at all. I think any of the married guys on CP will tell you that in fact that is a HUGELY important factor. Also if she likes computers then the two of them can spend hours chatting on IRC. He gets his computer fix while she gets the conversation fix. regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa "The greatest thing you will ever learn is to love, and be loved in return" - Moulin Rouge Martin Marvinski wrote: Unfortunatly Deep Throat isn't my cup of tea Do you Sonork? I do! 100.9903 Stormfront

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                                • E Ed K

                                  Confused means you don't know how you feel about her. She doesn't have a clue as to how you feel about her either and treats you as a friend. If you want to be a friend (I don't believe in friendships between the sexes BTW) you need to get away from her. If you want the babe...go after it! NOW, QUIT WHINING, GET OFF YOUR ASS, AND GO FOR IT! Just be sure to post snapshots! ):rolleyes: ed 'Love is an obsessive delusion that is cured by marriage.' Dr. Karl Bowman

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                                  Ed K wrote: I don't believe in friendships between the sexes BTW You honestly don't think a female and a male can have a platonic friendship? While I agree that in a lot of cases the issue of "are we friends or lovers?" comes up there are some cases were it really is platonic and you both know it. Ok I am going to put my foot in it again (and make Christian think I am a girl again) but some of my best friendships have been with a woman and not a guy. Guys have a lot of issues with opening up that girls don't have. my 2 cents regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa "The greatest thing you will ever learn is to love, and be loved in return" - Moulin Rouge Martin Marvinski wrote: Unfortunatly Deep Throat isn't my cup of tea Do you Sonork? I do! 100.9903 Stormfront

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                                    Ah... sometimes I think so, but often I don't. :| /ravi "There is always one more bug..." http://www.ravib.com ravib@ravib.com

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                                    Ravi Bhavnani wrote: Ah... sometimes I think so, but often I don't. That black hole that Nish talks about? Fall into it. It is not so black and in fact is far better than any computer or programming challenge. regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa "The greatest thing you will ever learn is to love, and be loved in return" - Moulin Rouge Martin Marvinski wrote: Unfortunatly Deep Throat isn't my cup of tea Do you Sonork? I do! 100.9903 Stormfront

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                                      Adam Arthur wrote: Well, Wednesday she calls at 10:00, and we talk on the phone for two hours. Thursday, she calls at 12:02, and we talk for four hours. How can you be confused? What the hell did you talk about for 6 hours? I don't think I've spent 6 hours talking to my wife on the phone... total... in 16 years!!! Jesus Christ*, man!!! Stop being a wuss and tell her how you feel!!! At your current pace, you'll both be middle-aged before your first kiss. Damn the torpedoes, full speed ahead!!! *Religous reference for effect only, I'm actually an athiest!!

                                      Mike Mullikin - Sonork 100.10096 "Programming is like sex. One mistake and you have to support it for the rest of your life." - Michael Sinz

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                                      Mike Mullikin wrote: How can you be confused? What the hell did you talk about for 6 hours? I had a friend much like Adams once, though I was not quite so love-stricken over her as he is. We would talk for hours on the phone (she lived in New Zealand and I was in London the one time, the phone bill was huge) but it would be about life in general, not how she felt about me or I her. It was great but as Adam has said you left the conversation still feeling very confused. I can imagine though that part of her conversation with Adam was over her last boyfriend, that can be a killer! You just want to scream "shut up and listen to how much I love you, you daft broad!" Mike Mullikin wrote: I don't think I've spent 6 hours talking to my wife on the phone... total... in 16 years!!! Just curious but you have spent more than 6 hours talking in person, right? Talking as in talking, not chatting about the weather, work or the bills. Mike Mullikin wrote: Damn the torpedoes, full speed ahead!!! LMAO! Great analogy! regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa "The greatest thing you will ever learn is to love, and be loved in return" - Moulin Rouge Martin Marvinski wrote: Unfortunatly Deep Throat isn't my cup of tea Do you Sonork? I do! 100.9903 Stormfront

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                                        Ravi Bhavnani wrote: but often I don't Good heavens!!!!! Ravi, be careful of those moments. Be very careful. Dont fall into the black hole which has sucked up so many people, so many! Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut

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                                        Nish [BusterBoy] wrote: Dont fall into the black hole which has sucked up so many people, so many! Nish, I have this very strong feeling that we should all be helping you out with love and not Adam. Someone famous once said about love: Do not let your experiences with love blacken the joy of a virgin in the throes of romance. regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa "The greatest thing you will ever learn is to love, and be loved in return" - Moulin Rouge Martin Marvinski wrote: Unfortunatly Deep Throat isn't my cup of tea Do you Sonork? I do! 100.9903 Stormfront

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                                          Nish [BusterBoy] wrote: What if she comes across this thread. or someone she knows sees this thread and forwards it to her. He's gonna be in trouble. Oh contraire mon frair! I will bet a sci-fi book that she would be swept off her feet with all the attention he is giving to the problem. He has opened his heart to find out how to woo her, and just that act alone is difficult and to be rewarded, especially by her. I am sure she would be quite chuffed he feels so strongly for her. p.s. I was serious about sending you those books, so reply to the post :) regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa "The greatest thing you will ever learn is to love, and be loved in return" - Moulin Rouge Martin Marvinski wrote: Unfortunatly Deep Throat isn't my cup of tea Do you Sonork? I do! 100.9903 Stormfront

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                                          Paul Watson wrote: . I was serious about sending you those books, so reply to the post Ok. Then I'll email you, assuming that I can get your email address from somewhere. It's gonna be hard with the new CP anti-spam measures Nish Sonork ID 100.9786 voidmain www.busterboy.org If you don't find me on CP, I'll be at Bob's HungOut

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