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    I just wanted to say a huge thank you to everyone at CP who's been so supportive of me over the last year. I know there were a couple of people who were sceptical about me at the outset (I've even been accused of being that worm B**l S****o a couple of times! :omg: ) but that aside the reaction I've had (both in forum messages and emails) has been heartwarming. :rose: I'm now only two months away from changing role publicly, and to be honest I'm getting very tired of hiding who I am. I feel it's time to let you know me a bit better than you can through just the little bit of me you see in the forums. Before doing so I should say that I'm not completely "out" at work yet (although my immediate colleagues and the company are aware of the situation) so I would ask for discretion. Once the formal announcement is made at work (which I expect to happen sometime in December), I'll close off this account and switch back to my other one (renamed of course!). I'll also update my articles to change the name on them. The whole story of who I am and how I came to be in this position is on my website - www.annasplace.me.uk[^]. If you have a look I hope you find it interesting. I'm glad to call you all my friends. :love: Anna :rose: "Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
    - Marcia Graesch

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      I just wanted to say a huge thank you to everyone at CP who's been so supportive of me over the last year. I know there were a couple of people who were sceptical about me at the outset (I've even been accused of being that worm B**l S****o a couple of times! :omg: ) but that aside the reaction I've had (both in forum messages and emails) has been heartwarming. :rose: I'm now only two months away from changing role publicly, and to be honest I'm getting very tired of hiding who I am. I feel it's time to let you know me a bit better than you can through just the little bit of me you see in the forums. Before doing so I should say that I'm not completely "out" at work yet (although my immediate colleagues and the company are aware of the situation) so I would ask for discretion. Once the formal announcement is made at work (which I expect to happen sometime in December), I'll close off this account and switch back to my other one (renamed of course!). I'll also update my articles to change the name on them. The whole story of who I am and how I came to be in this position is on my website - www.annasplace.me.uk[^]. If you have a look I hope you find it interesting. I'm glad to call you all my friends. :love: Anna :rose: "Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
      - Marcia Graesch

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      Good luck, and I hope things go well for you. :rose: Life is too short to hold small differences like this against people, or even big differences for that matter. Just accept them for who and what they are. :cool: Roger Allen Sonork 100.10016 I think I need a new quote, I am on the prowl, so look out for a soft cute furry looking animal, which is really a Hippo in disguise. Its probably me.

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        I just wanted to say a huge thank you to everyone at CP who's been so supportive of me over the last year. I know there were a couple of people who were sceptical about me at the outset (I've even been accused of being that worm B**l S****o a couple of times! :omg: ) but that aside the reaction I've had (both in forum messages and emails) has been heartwarming. :rose: I'm now only two months away from changing role publicly, and to be honest I'm getting very tired of hiding who I am. I feel it's time to let you know me a bit better than you can through just the little bit of me you see in the forums. Before doing so I should say that I'm not completely "out" at work yet (although my immediate colleagues and the company are aware of the situation) so I would ask for discretion. Once the formal announcement is made at work (which I expect to happen sometime in December), I'll close off this account and switch back to my other one (renamed of course!). I'll also update my articles to change the name on them. The whole story of who I am and how I came to be in this position is on my website - www.annasplace.me.uk[^]. If you have a look I hope you find it interesting. I'm glad to call you all my friends. :love: Anna :rose: "Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
        - Marcia Graesch

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        Paul Selormey
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        Anna :) wrote: I'm glad to call you all my friends. Just exclude me, please. Best regards, Paul. Jesus Christ is LOVE! Please tell somebody.

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          Good luck, and I hope things go well for you. :rose: Life is too short to hold small differences like this against people, or even big differences for that matter. Just accept them for who and what they are. :cool: Roger Allen Sonork 100.10016 I think I need a new quote, I am on the prowl, so look out for a soft cute furry looking animal, which is really a Hippo in disguise. Its probably me.

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          Roger Allen wrote: Good luck, and I hope things go well for you. Life is too short to hold small differences like this against people, or even big differences for that matter. Just accept them for who and what they are. Thank you Roger. I try my best, no matter what some may think! Anna :rose: "Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
          - Marcia Graesch

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            I just wanted to say a huge thank you to everyone at CP who's been so supportive of me over the last year. I know there were a couple of people who were sceptical about me at the outset (I've even been accused of being that worm B**l S****o a couple of times! :omg: ) but that aside the reaction I've had (both in forum messages and emails) has been heartwarming. :rose: I'm now only two months away from changing role publicly, and to be honest I'm getting very tired of hiding who I am. I feel it's time to let you know me a bit better than you can through just the little bit of me you see in the forums. Before doing so I should say that I'm not completely "out" at work yet (although my immediate colleagues and the company are aware of the situation) so I would ask for discretion. Once the formal announcement is made at work (which I expect to happen sometime in December), I'll close off this account and switch back to my other one (renamed of course!). I'll also update my articles to change the name on them. The whole story of who I am and how I came to be in this position is on my website - www.annasplace.me.uk[^]. If you have a look I hope you find it interesting. I'm glad to call you all my friends. :love: Anna :rose: "Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
            - Marcia Graesch

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            Jason Henderson
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            Call me intolerant, but this is information I would rather not know. X|

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            "If you are going through hell, keep going." - Sir Winston Churchill

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              Anna :) wrote: I'm glad to call you all my friends. Just exclude me, please. Best regards, Paul. Jesus Christ is LOVE! Please tell somebody.

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              Paul A Howes
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              Paul Selormey wrote: Just exclude me, please. Best regards, Paul. Jesus Christ is LOVE! Please tell somebody. If you're going to have a signature that saccharine, you should really check your attitude at the door. -- Paul A. Howes

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                I just wanted to say a huge thank you to everyone at CP who's been so supportive of me over the last year. I know there were a couple of people who were sceptical about me at the outset (I've even been accused of being that worm B**l S****o a couple of times! :omg: ) but that aside the reaction I've had (both in forum messages and emails) has been heartwarming. :rose: I'm now only two months away from changing role publicly, and to be honest I'm getting very tired of hiding who I am. I feel it's time to let you know me a bit better than you can through just the little bit of me you see in the forums. Before doing so I should say that I'm not completely "out" at work yet (although my immediate colleagues and the company are aware of the situation) so I would ask for discretion. Once the formal announcement is made at work (which I expect to happen sometime in December), I'll close off this account and switch back to my other one (renamed of course!). I'll also update my articles to change the name on them. The whole story of who I am and how I came to be in this position is on my website - www.annasplace.me.uk[^]. If you have a look I hope you find it interesting. I'm glad to call you all my friends. :love: Anna :rose: "Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
                - Marcia Graesch

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                Your welcome. Seems you have a had tough couple of years. From your web-site I see you were asked not to attend your Church and yet it seems it was the Church that was the catalyst that has now brought you to this current situation. I do hope some of the other parishioners are still in contact with you and that you have found other ways of expressing your faith. Shaun PS I agree about Basingstoke.

                Stupidity dies. The end of future offspring. Evolution wins. - A Darwin Awards Haiku

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                  I just wanted to say a huge thank you to everyone at CP who's been so supportive of me over the last year. I know there were a couple of people who were sceptical about me at the outset (I've even been accused of being that worm B**l S****o a couple of times! :omg: ) but that aside the reaction I've had (both in forum messages and emails) has been heartwarming. :rose: I'm now only two months away from changing role publicly, and to be honest I'm getting very tired of hiding who I am. I feel it's time to let you know me a bit better than you can through just the little bit of me you see in the forums. Before doing so I should say that I'm not completely "out" at work yet (although my immediate colleagues and the company are aware of the situation) so I would ask for discretion. Once the formal announcement is made at work (which I expect to happen sometime in December), I'll close off this account and switch back to my other one (renamed of course!). I'll also update my articles to change the name on them. The whole story of who I am and how I came to be in this position is on my website - www.annasplace.me.uk[^]. If you have a look I hope you find it interesting. I'm glad to call you all my friends. :love: Anna :rose: "Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
                  - Marcia Graesch

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                  Ya know, I like to think of myself as a fairly understanding live-and-let-live kinda guy where this stuff is concerned, but I honestly think you would have been better off not mentioning your mental problems here. Just because some nitwit gave it a name (Gender Dysphoria?) does NOT mean the condition really exists, nor does it mean we should just accept it. If you want to be a girl, fine, be one, but coming in here and expecting sympathy, understanding, and acceptance from the bulk of the audience after saying you're a guy that wants to be a girl is pure bullshit, and I for one don't want to hear about it. I'm not sure how many people agree with my outlook, but I'm sure there are a few. I don't want to know who you were (ad I really do give a flying donkey f**k either), and frankly people like you creap me out - you're as bad as fundamentalist religious fanatics. Your "coming out" messages are precisely the kind of bullshit that gets posted here that does NOT belong and that I hate to see, and I will continue to visciously lash out and verbally viscerate anyone that does so. Now, before anyone gets on their freakin high-horse, remember one thing - I'm not in the mood to debate with whiny, sniveling little Barbies who think I'm being too harsh or downright rude. This "coming out" shit has no place in the lounge. ------- signature starts "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001 Please review the Legal Disclaimer in my bio. ------- signature ends

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                    Paul Selormey wrote: Just exclude me, please. Best regards, Paul. Jesus Christ is LOVE! Please tell somebody. If you're going to have a signature that saccharine, you should really check your attitude at the door. -- Paul A. Howes

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                    Paul A. Howes wrote: If you're going to have a signature that saccharine, you should really check your attitude at the door. Please can you explain what you mean? Best regards, Paul. Jesus Christ is LOVE! Please tell somebody.

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                      Call me intolerant, but this is information I would rather not know. X|

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                      "If you are going through hell, keep going." - Sir Winston Churchill

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                      I wonder how you would expect people to treat you in Anna's situation ? Would you like to meet my teddy bear ?

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                        Anna :) wrote: I'm glad to call you all my friends. Just exclude me, please. Best regards, Paul. Jesus Christ is LOVE! Please tell somebody.

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                        Sorry, but I agree with the reply above. Your sig line is hypocritial. Would you like to meet my teddy bear ?

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                          I wonder how you would expect people to treat you in Anna's situation ? Would you like to meet my teddy bear ?

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                          "In Anna's situation"? It's nobody's fault but "Anna's". He did NOT have to announce what was happening, and he (and the rest of us) would have been a lot better off without doing so. He brought it on himself. ------- signature starts "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001 Please review the Legal Disclaimer in my bio. ------- signature ends

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                            Your welcome. Seems you have a had tough couple of years. From your web-site I see you were asked not to attend your Church and yet it seems it was the Church that was the catalyst that has now brought you to this current situation. I do hope some of the other parishioners are still in contact with you and that you have found other ways of expressing your faith. Shaun PS I agree about Basingstoke.

                            Stupidity dies. The end of future offspring. Evolution wins. - A Darwin Awards Haiku

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                            Shaun Wilde wrote: Seems you have a had tough couple of years. From your web-site I see you were asked not to attend your Church and yet it seems it was the Church that was the catalyst that has now brought you to this current situation. I do hope some of the other parishioners are still in contact with you and that you have found other ways of expressing your faith. Thanks Shaun. :) It has been hard (and arguably the worst isn't over yet), but all in all I'm glad it's all on the way to being sorted out now. I'm not in regular contact with anyone from my old church, though I do bump into people from time to time and they've been fine so far. I'm glad to say I've found a new church now (Anglican lol) and things are much more positive. :) Shaun Wilde wrote: PS I agree about Basingstoke. I'm glad I'm not the only one! Anna :rose: "Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
                            - Marcia Graesch

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                              I wonder how you would expect people to treat you in Anna's situation ? Would you like to meet my teddy bear ?

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                              Jason Henderson
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                              I'm never going to be in "Anna's" situation so I'm not worried about it. He/She can live however he/she wants, I just don't think this is the place to talk about it. Do you really think it necessary to "come out" in the CP Lounge?

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                                I just wanted to say a huge thank you to everyone at CP who's been so supportive of me over the last year. I know there were a couple of people who were sceptical about me at the outset (I've even been accused of being that worm B**l S****o a couple of times! :omg: ) but that aside the reaction I've had (both in forum messages and emails) has been heartwarming. :rose: I'm now only two months away from changing role publicly, and to be honest I'm getting very tired of hiding who I am. I feel it's time to let you know me a bit better than you can through just the little bit of me you see in the forums. Before doing so I should say that I'm not completely "out" at work yet (although my immediate colleagues and the company are aware of the situation) so I would ask for discretion. Once the formal announcement is made at work (which I expect to happen sometime in December), I'll close off this account and switch back to my other one (renamed of course!). I'll also update my articles to change the name on them. The whole story of who I am and how I came to be in this position is on my website - www.annasplace.me.uk[^]. If you have a look I hope you find it interesting. I'm glad to call you all my friends. :love: Anna :rose: "Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
                                - Marcia Graesch

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                                Anna, good luck. It shows that people can achieve some amazing things :) By the way - if you get into the goth scene maybe we'll meet up at Scarlet or Carnival of Souls sometime ? (I'm still waiting to get to a goth night locally) :cool: Take care Elaine (fluffy tigress emoticon) Would you like to meet my teddy bear ?

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                                  Paul A. Howes wrote: If you're going to have a signature that saccharine, you should really check your attitude at the door. Please can you explain what you mean? Best regards, Paul. Jesus Christ is LOVE! Please tell somebody.

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                                  He's saying that despite your sig preaching love and tolerance, you seem to be quite willing to make the occasional exception. Stick to your guns, for whatever reason you may be holding them. ------- signature starts "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001 Please review the Legal Disclaimer in my bio. ------- signature ends

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                                    Sorry, but I agree with the reply above. Your sig line is hypocritial. Would you like to meet my teddy bear ?

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                                    Jason Henderson
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                                    His sig says that JESUS CHRIST is love, not Paul Selormey. Not hypocrisy here.

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                                      Ya know, I like to think of myself as a fairly understanding live-and-let-live kinda guy where this stuff is concerned, but I honestly think you would have been better off not mentioning your mental problems here. Just because some nitwit gave it a name (Gender Dysphoria?) does NOT mean the condition really exists, nor does it mean we should just accept it. If you want to be a girl, fine, be one, but coming in here and expecting sympathy, understanding, and acceptance from the bulk of the audience after saying you're a guy that wants to be a girl is pure bullshit, and I for one don't want to hear about it. I'm not sure how many people agree with my outlook, but I'm sure there are a few. I don't want to know who you were (ad I really do give a flying donkey f**k either), and frankly people like you creap me out - you're as bad as fundamentalist religious fanatics. Your "coming out" messages are precisely the kind of bullshit that gets posted here that does NOT belong and that I hate to see, and I will continue to visciously lash out and verbally viscerate anyone that does so. Now, before anyone gets on their freakin high-horse, remember one thing - I'm not in the mood to debate with whiny, sniveling little Barbies who think I'm being too harsh or downright rude. This "coming out" shit has no place in the lounge. ------- signature starts "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001 Please review the Legal Disclaimer in my bio. ------- signature ends

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                                      Touché! Come on, he/she/it must be a VB programmer... :) My latest articles: Desktop Bob - Instant CP notifications XOR tricks for RAID data protection

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                                        Anna, good luck. It shows that people can achieve some amazing things :) By the way - if you get into the goth scene maybe we'll meet up at Scarlet or Carnival of Souls sometime ? (I'm still waiting to get to a goth night locally) :cool: Take care Elaine (fluffy tigress emoticon) Would you like to meet my teddy bear ?

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                                        Trollslayer wrote: Anna, good luck. It shows that people can achieve some amazing things By the way - if you get into the goth scene maybe we'll meet up at Scarlet or Carnival of Souls sometime ? (I'm still waiting to get to a goth night locally) Thank you Elaine. I'd love to sometime (black rather suits me if you hadn't noticed...) :) Anna :rose: "Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
                                        - Marcia Graesch

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                                          Paul A. Howes wrote: If you're going to have a signature that saccharine, you should really check your attitude at the door. Please can you explain what you mean? Best regards, Paul. Jesus Christ is LOVE! Please tell somebody.

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                                          Paul Selormey wrote: Please can you explain what you mean? Well I was going to reply the same as Howes so maybe my explanation is the same: You profess that Jesus Christ is love, and that that message should be spread. By that I assume you are a follower and a practicer of JC's message. Yet you refuse the friendship of Anna almost to the point of banishment, which seems to me to be very hypocritical. I was also going to ask you: Is what Anna is going through a "sin" or wrong according to your beliefs?

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