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Stan Shannon

Well, dammit! Someone has to say it: That really took balls! :omg: "Any clod can have the facts, but having opinions is an art." Charles McCabe, San Francisco Chronicle

thowra

Gary Kirkham wrote: This isn't about Anna, but I am curious. Is being spiteful acceptable if it is delivered with humor? The only reason I ask is that my wife has a liberal friend who is a self proclaimed "Tolerant person". This woman has been know to say all types of cruel and intolerant things to myself and others and then say, "Only joking" when someone takes offense. I reckon it's probably all about intention. If the woman you mention, honestly means it when she says "only joking" then I guess that's OK, though hopefully, she would then modify her behaviour. If she's not sincere, then in my opinion, it's unacceptable. I just have no time for spiteful people and I really don't understand why they have to be that way. I'm also at a loss why people argue like they do. If you enter an argument, you should be aware of what it is you're trying to achieve. For example, in an argument with my wife, I could know I was in the right and argue forever until she gives in but if I know she will be humiliated if I prove her wrong, then there's no justification. Arguments with family members are the same - you can argue your point until you're blue in the face if you know you're right, but what will the result be? Will you end up not talking to that family member? Will there always be a rift between you as a result? This is my argument against people who say what the hell they want with the excuse that they are entitled to their opinion and anyone who suffers as a consequence deserves to. The World would be a better (and just nicer) place if it wasn't for people like this. "The folly of man is that he dreams of what he can never achieve rather than dream of what he can."

thowra

Well said David, and seconded by me :) "The folly of man is that he dreams of what he can never achieve rather than dream of what he can."

Anna Jayne Metcalfe

Jason, I know we disagree on this subject, but I'd appreciate it if you don't refer me as "he" or "his". Please? Anna :rose: www.annasplace.me.uk

"Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
- Marcia Graesch

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David Wulff

*groan* :rolleyes:

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Le centriste

:rose:

Jason Henderson

It will be difficult, because I think of you as still being male but hiding it. I would be lying and I really can't do that. I will do my best to avoid the situation. I hope you can understand.

Jason Henderson
start page ; articles henderson is coming henderson is an opponent's worst nightmare * googlism *

Anna Jayne Metcalfe

Thanks Dave. :) I do try my best to ignore John and his bigotted comments, but at times I really do have to restrain myself from telling him what I think of his opinions! :mad: As far as the new version of ResOrg goes - once the code's done, I expect to have to take at least a couple of weeks to update the help and website. That's the real boring bit. :| Once I get that far I'm quite happy to send you an advance copy (I'd guess source is best) so you can have a sneak preview. Just let me know. :) Anna :rose: www.annasplace.me.uk

"Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
- Marcia Graesch

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peterchen

gave you a fiver despite that baaaad pun.

Those who not hear the music think the dancers are mad. [sighist] [Agile]

David Wulff

This is getting into a real mud wrestling match. ;P I will admit he could very easily have been in The Village People, but you shouldn't go round calling people gay or lesbian purely because of how they look or act - that creates bad stereotypes and gives John something to laugh about. :rolleyes:

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Anna Jayne Metcalfe

Stan Shannon wrote: Well, dammit! Someone has to say it: That really took balls! It sure did. :-O But now it's done, I've got a pair going spare. Hmmm....Ebay? :wtf: Anna :rose: www.annasplace.me.uk

"Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
- Marcia Graesch

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Shog9 0

ROTFL! :laugh: :eek:

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David Wulff

Anna-Jayne Metcalfe wrote: Ebay Someone is bound to buy them (I hear they are quite a delicatessen in Germany ;P)!

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David Wulff

Anna-Jayne Metcalfe wrote: Just let me know Sure thing. :)

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benjymous

A close friend of the family (husband of my mum's closest friend) has recently come out, and I'm finding some of the bigotted reactions of people around me very surprising (and tbh I found the entire concept a bit unreal myself, to start out) I'm glad you're comfortable at work, as he (hmm, still feels strange thinking of someone I've known all my life as a him, as a her) lectures in a university, so I imagine there could be some incredibly hurtful comments from the students. I know I was hugely reluctant to see the photos, but she does look fantastic, and more importantly, looks happy which is the most important thing, imo Oh yeah, I notice you like to Jennifer Diane Reitz's site - are you hooked on unicornjelly.com[^] too? -- Help me! I'm turning into a grapefruit!

Lost User

This is getting into a real mud wrestling match. Preferably involving young blonde Swedish ladies ... ooops ... there I go stereotyping again ... :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

When I am king, you will be first against the wall.

Anna Jayne Metcalfe

I really do Jason. :rose: It just hurts when I hear it, I'm afraid. Anna :rose: www.annasplace.me.uk

"Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
- Marcia Graesch

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Anna Jayne Metcalfe

David Wulff wrote: Someone is bound to buy them (I hear they are quite a delicatessen in Germany )! That's the scariest thing! Anna :rose: www.annasplace.me.uk

"Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
- Marcia Graesch

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Anna Jayne Metcalfe

I do try, but don't always succeed! :-O Anna :rose: www.annasplace.me.uk

"Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
- Marcia Graesch

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Paul Watson

Jason Henderson wrote: It will be difficult, because I think of you as still being male but hiding it. I would be lying and I really can't do that. Yet earlier you said "Sometimes its better to be quiet than to be honest about your feelings.", so while not a direct hypocrisy I think it is bordering on one. Also as I am no doubt you are aware I don't believe in idly sitting by when I disagree with something. I do try and be constructively critical though.

Paul Watson
Bluegrass
Cape Town, South Africa

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