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  • RaviBeeR RaviBee

    Too drunk, can't add: Why some Indian women are turning away grooms[^]  [Aunty]  :) /ravi

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    Western women have been doing this on dating sites for years and with far more insane reasons. The basic female predisposition is to reject all men unless there's a very good reason to accept them (well, I say good ...) whilst men will accept all women unless there's a very good reason to reject them. This explains why 80% of men on dating sites (figures courtesy of the Freakonomics guys) never receive a single message of any kind from a woman, whilst only a tiny proportion of women never receive a message form a man.

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      Western women have been doing this on dating sites for years and with far more insane reasons. The basic female predisposition is to reject all men unless there's a very good reason to accept them (well, I say good ...) whilst men will accept all women unless there's a very good reason to reject them. This explains why 80% of men on dating sites (figures courtesy of the Freakonomics guys) never receive a single message of any kind from a woman, whilst only a tiny proportion of women never receive a message form a man.

      I am not a number. I am a ... no, wait!

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      • RaviBeeR RaviBee

        Too drunk, can't add: Why some Indian women are turning away grooms[^]  [Aunty]  :) /ravi

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        Afzaal Ahmad Zeeshan
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        I have a wife-to-be from India. Thank you for pointing out a few things that I should be aware of "not to do". :laugh:

        The shit I complain about It's like there ain't a cloud in the sky and it's raining out - Eminem ~! Firewall !~

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        • RaviBeeR RaviBee

          Too drunk, can't add: Why some Indian women are turning away grooms[^]  [Aunty]  :) /ravi

          My new year resolution: 2048 x 1536 Home | Articles | My .NET bits | Freeware ravib(at)ravib(dot)com

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          Nish Nishant
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          Well, the guy who kissed the bride's sister takes the cake. I would assume this was a carnally intense kiss and not a peck on the cheeks! :-)

          Regards, Nish


          Website: www.voidnish.com Blog: voidnish.wordpress.com

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          • A Afzaal Ahmad Zeeshan

            I have a wife-to-be from India. Thank you for pointing out a few things that I should be aware of "not to do". :laugh:

            The shit I complain about It's like there ain't a cloud in the sky and it's raining out - Eminem ~! Firewall !~

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            Nish Nishant
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            Afzaal Ahmad Zeeshan wrote:

            have a wife-to-be from India.

            You should do an AMA on this. Pakistani men with Indian wives - that's a rarity! :)

            Regards, Nish


            Website: www.voidnish.com Blog: voidnish.wordpress.com

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              Well, the guy who kissed the bride's sister takes the cake. I would assume this was a carnally intense kiss and not a peck on the cheeks! :-)

              Regards, Nish


              Website: www.voidnish.com Blog: voidnish.wordpress.com

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              carnally intense?

              I learn new words and phrases every day here in the Lounge - Not to mention the Soapbox! :)

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              • N Nish Nishant

                Well, the guy who kissed the bride's sister takes the cake. I would assume this was a carnally intense kiss and not a peck on the cheeks! :-)

                Regards, Nish


                Website: www.voidnish.com Blog: voidnish.wordpress.com

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                To quote Jerry Seinfeld, she was probably "swapping spit". :) /ravi

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                • N Nish Nishant

                  Afzaal Ahmad Zeeshan wrote:

                  have a wife-to-be from India.

                  You should do an AMA on this. Pakistani men with Indian wives - that's a rarity! :)

                  Regards, Nish


                  Website: www.voidnish.com Blog: voidnish.wordpress.com

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                  Afzaal Ahmad Zeeshan
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                  Instead of a whole session, the thing is simple. She doesn't have problem with me being a Pakistani, and I don't say anything to her, for being an Indian. We're just two love birds. If that is understood by others, too, rarity would be found in every block. ;-)

                  The shit I complain about It's like there ain't a cloud in the sky and it's raining out - Eminem ~! Firewall !~

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                  • N Nish Nishant

                    Well, the guy who kissed the bride's sister takes the cake. I would assume this was a carnally intense kiss and not a peck on the cheeks! :-)

                    Regards, Nish


                    Website: www.voidnish.com Blog: voidnish.wordpress.com

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                    Afzaal Ahmad Zeeshan
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                    Must've been bride's twin sister. :laugh:

                    The shit I complain about It's like there ain't a cloud in the sky and it's raining out - Eminem ~! Firewall !~

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                    • A Afzaal Ahmad Zeeshan

                      Instead of a whole session, the thing is simple. She doesn't have problem with me being a Pakistani, and I don't say anything to her, for being an Indian. We're just two love birds. If that is understood by others, too, rarity would be found in every block. ;-)

                      The shit I complain about It's like there ain't a cloud in the sky and it's raining out - Eminem ~! Firewall !~

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                      Nish Nishant
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                      How did you two meet? I would assume you are both living in a western country?

                      Regards, Nish


                      Website: www.voidnish.com Blog: voidnish.wordpress.com

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                      • A Afzaal Ahmad Zeeshan

                        Instead of a whole session, the thing is simple. She doesn't have problem with me being a Pakistani, and I don't say anything to her, for being an Indian. We're just two love birds. If that is understood by others, too, rarity would be found in every block. ;-)

                        The shit I complain about It's like there ain't a cloud in the sky and it's raining out - Eminem ~! Firewall !~

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                        Afzaal Ahmad Zeeshan wrote:

                        She doesn't have problem with me being a Pakistani, and I don't say anything to her, for being an Indian. We're just two love birds.

                        :thumbsup: /ravi

                        My new year resolution: 2048 x 1536 Home | Articles | My .NET bits | Freeware ravib(at)ravib(dot)com

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                          How did you two meet? I would assume you are both living in a western country?

                          Regards, Nish


                          Website: www.voidnish.com Blog: voidnish.wordpress.com

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                          Afzaal Ahmad Zeeshan
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                          You may want to cover your ears while I say, "Facebook". I live in Pakistan, Punjab. She lives in India, New Delhi. We haven't met ever, (may sound strange! I know), I am willing to travel to India this month, after a few days. 10 maybe, and I will meet her, for the first time. You, just can't imagine the feeling that we are having these days as I wait for visa approval call and she waits for me to come to India to meet her. I will share the moments that we will have, and oh yes, apart from CodeProject I am also going to get an MVP award from C# Corner. I think, credit for making two love birds meet, goes to them. ;) Our both families know, we are not having a typical Indopak relation, where both end up being terminated by their families. :laugh:

                          The shit I complain about It's like there ain't a cloud in the sky and it's raining out - Eminem ~! Firewall !~

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                          • A Afzaal Ahmad Zeeshan

                            You may want to cover your ears while I say, "Facebook". I live in Pakistan, Punjab. She lives in India, New Delhi. We haven't met ever, (may sound strange! I know), I am willing to travel to India this month, after a few days. 10 maybe, and I will meet her, for the first time. You, just can't imagine the feeling that we are having these days as I wait for visa approval call and she waits for me to come to India to meet her. I will share the moments that we will have, and oh yes, apart from CodeProject I am also going to get an MVP award from C# Corner. I think, credit for making two love birds meet, goes to them. ;) Our both families know, we are not having a typical Indopak relation, where both end up being terminated by their families. :laugh:

                            The shit I complain about It's like there ain't a cloud in the sky and it's raining out - Eminem ~! Firewall !~

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                            Nish Nishant
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                            Wow, this is awesome, like out of a Bollywood movie :-) Good luck to both of you.

                            Regards, Nish


                            Website: www.voidnish.com Blog: voidnish.wordpress.com

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                              Wow, this is awesome, like out of a Bollywood movie :-) Good luck to both of you.

                              Regards, Nish


                              Website: www.voidnish.com Blog: voidnish.wordpress.com

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                              Afzaal Ahmad Zeeshan
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                              Thank you, Nishant! :-)

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                                Thank you, Nishant! :-)

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                                Don't answer this if it's personal, but I would assume that either both of you are non-religious or you are both of the same religion. Can't imagine an inter-country as well as an inter-religious south Asian relationship going this smooth family-wise. :-)

                                Regards, Nish


                                Website: www.voidnish.com Blog: voidnish.wordpress.com

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                                  Don't answer this if it's personal, but I would assume that either both of you are non-religious or you are both of the same religion. Can't imagine an inter-country as well as an inter-religious south Asian relationship going this smooth family-wise. :-)

                                  Regards, Nish


                                  Website: www.voidnish.com Blog: voidnish.wordpress.com

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                                  Afzaal Ahmad Zeeshan
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                                  No, that's fine by me, because I don't take things personal too often. The thing is, I haven't yet went to her parents to say, "I want to marry your daughter". Maybe later, not yet because she said, she wants to complete her study first and then talk about marriage, so I respect her choice of freedom. Once she completes her study, and I mine, and I find a good job. I will go and talk to her parents, because they're educated and not typical kind of family who would not understand. And, we're not of same religion.

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                                    No, that's fine by me, because I don't take things personal too often. The thing is, I haven't yet went to her parents to say, "I want to marry your daughter". Maybe later, not yet because she said, she wants to complete her study first and then talk about marriage, so I respect her choice of freedom. Once she completes her study, and I mine, and I find a good job. I will go and talk to her parents, because they're educated and not typical kind of family who would not understand. And, we're not of same religion.

                                    The shit I complain about It's like there ain't a cloud in the sky and it's raining out - Eminem ~! Firewall !~

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                                    Nish Nishant
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                                    Impressive, very impressive :-)

                                    Regards, Nish


                                    Website: www.voidnish.com Blog: voidnish.wordpress.com

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                                    • A Afzaal Ahmad Zeeshan

                                      You may want to cover your ears while I say, "Facebook". I live in Pakistan, Punjab. She lives in India, New Delhi. We haven't met ever, (may sound strange! I know), I am willing to travel to India this month, after a few days. 10 maybe, and I will meet her, for the first time. You, just can't imagine the feeling that we are having these days as I wait for visa approval call and she waits for me to come to India to meet her. I will share the moments that we will have, and oh yes, apart from CodeProject I am also going to get an MVP award from C# Corner. I think, credit for making two love birds meet, goes to them. ;) Our both families know, we are not having a typical Indopak relation, where both end up being terminated by their families. :laugh:

                                      The shit I complain about It's like there ain't a cloud in the sky and it's raining out - Eminem ~! Firewall !~

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                                      Awesome!  Good luck to both of you! :rose: /ravi

                                      My new year resolution: 2048 x 1536 Home | Articles | My .NET bits | Freeware ravib(at)ravib(dot)com

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                                        You may want to cover your ears while I say, "Facebook". I live in Pakistan, Punjab. She lives in India, New Delhi. We haven't met ever, (may sound strange! I know), I am willing to travel to India this month, after a few days. 10 maybe, and I will meet her, for the first time. You, just can't imagine the feeling that we are having these days as I wait for visa approval call and she waits for me to come to India to meet her. I will share the moments that we will have, and oh yes, apart from CodeProject I am also going to get an MVP award from C# Corner. I think, credit for making two love birds meet, goes to them. ;) Our both families know, we are not having a typical Indopak relation, where both end up being terminated by their families. :laugh:

                                        The shit I complain about It's like there ain't a cloud in the sky and it's raining out - Eminem ~! Firewall !~

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                                        Nice to hear...My Greetings and best wishes to both of you :thumbsup:

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                                          Awesome!  Good luck to both of you! :rose: /ravi

                                          My new year resolution: 2048 x 1536 Home | Articles | My .NET bits | Freeware ravib(at)ravib(dot)com

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                                          Afzaal Ahmad Zeeshan
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                                          Thank you, Ravi! :-)

                                          The shit I complain about It's like there ain't a cloud in the sky and it's raining out - Eminem ~! Firewall !~

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