Christian Graus wrote: It's actually not so bad anymore, not as bad as it was shortly after the kids were born. At least that :rolleyes: Christian Graus wrote: We've talked, but I don't think she will ever get it. Time changes a lot of things , including people, time is a not static thing neither is static the person's personnality, so with more serious talking and with your kids growth things could improve at your favour ... Cheers,Joao Vaz And if your dream is to care for your family, to put food on the table, to provide them with an education and a good home, then maybe suffering through an endless, pointless, boring job will seem to have purpose. And you will realize how even a rock can change the world, simply by remaining obstinately stationary.-Shog9 Remember just because a good thing comes to an end, doesn't mean that the next one can't be better.-Chris Meech