Christian, I tried taking some pictures at work today although I could not find a STL book, but they did look very nice and I was not impressed, so over the week I will see if I can get some Pics done in a studio or by a professional. Yes I do worry about my appearance, but am equally surprised so many others seem to judge me by it here. Are all Girls who work in computing meant to be non attractive ? :rose: Janice :rose:

I have spent most of the day thinking about this, and am wondering why opposites do not attract, like they should. Ravi Bhavnani wrote: Whatver you choose to do, be completely honest with him, Yes, I will always do that, as I have learned it really helps things to be simplified. Ravi Bhavnani wrote: Good luck! Thanks Ravi and everyone else for your kind words. :rose: Janice :rose:

Mike Nordell wrote: maybe his computer skills matches your person skills? Oh, Yes I admit clearly I'm not a people person, and I do not try to be somthing I am not. Despite my picture here, I am quite a nerd or geek type girl, and do have better relationships with machines than people. :rose: Janice :rose:

John, no mater how hard you try using bad words to chat me up, it will not work, I am not that sort of girl. :rose: Janice :rose:

Hockey wrote: Personally I need a women who is up to date with current affairs... I am not really into current affairs, but more into a computer life. Hockey wrote: Theres plenty of tech savvy guys on here.... Yes maybe I should spend more time at Code Project. :-) I normally have got better work responses at codeguru.com. :rose: Janice :rose:

lauren wrote: give him a "teach yourself c++ in 21 days" book wait 21 days I don't have to try that, I can tell he could not handle it. :rose: Janice :rose:

Maxwell Chen wrote: It's so hard to meet girls here... I mean where I work and where I live. I find everyone is living in there own little bubble world and its hard to make contact. :rose: Janice :rose:

It depends what mans involvement has been with making an endangered species, endangered. :rose: Janice :rose:

Daniel Ferguson wrote: I, too, find this really funny. Do not worry it was intended to be funny. :-) Daniel Ferguson wrote: I think a relationship should be based on more than computers, Yes, I do too but computers play such a big part of my life, and I expect that to only increase in the future. Daniel Ferguson wrote: so if you do like him and you have common interests, then keep in touch with him. I probably will only because I find it so hard to meet guys. Yes that does sound week does it not :-(( And we do not really have any common interests. :rose: Janice :rose:

Have you never seen me post here before? The first time I ask a personal question I get accussed of trolling. :(( :rose: Janice :rose:

Nish - Native CPian wrote: I think you better dump him before he dumps you. Who dumps whom really doesn't worry me, because there would be nothing worse for me thqan to get into a bad relationship. I guess I'm just upset that I lost a lot of time getting involved with Internet dating, and when I finally met the guy he wasn't what I expected. :rose: Janice :rose:

Christian Graus wrote: 'Janice', it seems that the CPians have had a discussion and decided you're really a guy. Christian Graus wrote: Just take another photo ( in different undies if you could ), and this time have a book in one hand, ( any book on C++ or the STL will be fine ), and a sign that says 'I am woman, see me browse' in the other. Mmmm, the other CPans must have also noticed that my pic is a photo of a painting. I can hardly be expected to find an artist this early in the morning. :rose: Janice :rose:

I'm a software developer and as so I have to work with users too often. I find they really give me headaches. Most of the people I work with are male and I prefer the smart ones by far. I really enjoy stimulating conversation and discovering, having to teach a guy anything doesn't interest me. If we get in to a long term relationship and I have continually have to explain things to him I'll be driven crazy. :rose: Janice :rose:

Hope somebody can offer me some good advice. I met this guy almost two years ago in an ICQ chat room. Well we started emailing each other a lot and sending pics and chatting a lot. This month he finally flew over to meet and he stayed in a hotel in town. We had a lot of fun together it was great, but towards the end of the first week I found he really did not know anything about computers :(( and was just really a user. I think I would hate to stay in a relationship where I was totally the technology savvy partner. Is it right for me to dump him, just because he does not understand OSes and can not program? Am I being selfish wanting somone who can boot from a floppy? I hope I have not bothered anyone by posting this here, but I thought I would turn to my friends first. :rose: Janice :rose:

Roger Wright wrote: Any American bird would be good for a pair of dozen stands a night. Is that all. :rose:

Michael Martin wrote: I want to know how people read to best absorb knowledge. Alone and with a book. :-)

Nice to see you apologising Nish, Implying such bad things about pachederms was rather bad. they have enough problems already. :-) :rose:

Chris Maunder wrote: Australia gets drunk, wakes up in North Atlantic SO that was what all the noise was last night. Hey, do you really have pet kangarus ?

David Wulff wrote: I know of a fool-proof natural method for getting rid of stress and making you relaxed, but you'd need a box of tissue (or a partner who's openminded)... Yes that should work :-)

Mauricio Ritter wrote: Does anyone have a solution A good massage, followed by a fulll bath.