These jerkoff interviewers ,that you described, are doing you a favor. You don't want to work there. And you are finding out early. Move on. -KOT
Mac
These jerkoff interviewers ,that you described, are doing you a favor. You don't want to work there. And you are finding out early. Move on. -KOT
Mac
Hey dudes, Dating is somewhat like a job interview. Both, are for seeking a position. And, both take practice. Often it's a numbers game, you may have to go through a lot of bad dates to experience a good one. And, also often it's a matter of timing. Being in the right situation at the right time. That's why you have to keep trying in order to "get lucky". Some basic advice: Be courteous and attentive : open doors, pull out chairs and pay the check! (Women want equal rights right up until the check comes.). Listen and ask questions, just like a job interview, major points earned. Dating is all about earning enough points to qualify... Don't provide solutions unless specifically asked to do so. This is a major hard one to learn considering we men want to solve problems. My experience shows, for the most part, women want empathy not solutions. Phrases like "I can FEEL what you are going through" earns points. This may seem phoney when you start but, as you practice and get some positive results it becomes part of your nature and that's what you want is to change your behavior and outlook for positive returns. I'm an average Joe so here I am not bragging. Since I have had some success mixed with a lot "Jees what am I doing here?" moments. I just want to let you know if you want it don't give up. There is a woman out there who will get naked for you. You just have to qualify for the position.
Keep on Truckin'
God help us, every one. - Tiny Tim
What do you call 30,000 recruiters at the bottom of the ocean? > A good start!
Mac
Very easy. Ask, what do you want? And, when do you want it? Then deliver.
Mac
El Corazon? Are you a man or a marshmallow? Do your job to the best of your ability let "the cards" fall where they may.
Mac
Hi, Ask why? Many people will do or say things and they don't have a clue as to why they are doing or saying something. Often it's a political statement and has nothing to do with engineering. So, if you see or hear something you think is wrong; ask "Why?". Sometimes there is a factual reason and, you may learn something. Or, you may find the reason to be irrational. Then you can reply with a "What do you think if we did it this way?" and, show them a way you prefer.
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