How do you cope?
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Nishant Sivakumar wrote:
They should all learn from you I say!
I guess you have to temper Christians just like everything else. Some people use Linux and it's just a tool, other people have to convert the world to Linux. Some people enjoy watching a sport and others get consumed by the sport and start fights in the stands and other craziness. David and I know what we believe. It will never be taken from us. It's written upon us. However, he and I both are able to pick the context for discussing it (and almost every believer I know is). You won't see me with the fish all over my car, wearing funky bracelets or holding signs. I won't even wear a cross. If you cannot tell what I believe by how I act then I'm not living in a way that is consistent with how I believe and what I've read. It's that simple for me. Even now, you are not asking David and I to share a single thing with you about what we believe and neither of us will. The context isn't right. Both David and I think that if you want to ask questions of either of us you'll probably find email a better way to go. We don't need to rub anything in your face because both of us agree we'd hate someone rubbing it in ours. So instead, while in the lounge we do what other loungers do. Talk about mostly tech-related things and enjoy hanging out with our peers.:)
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code-frog wrote:
If you cannot tell what I believe by how I act then I'm not living in a way that is consistent with how I believe and what I've read. It's that simple for me.
A statement I whole-heartedly agree with. It was told to me once that you should not have to tell others that you are a Christian; they should be able to tell simply by how you act.
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Oh, I guess I meant in a fun way. We were all wrestling last night (Paige the 16 month old to) in the sleeping bags and it was a ragingly loud good time. I'm not sure others will agree but to me there are *only* rewards with kids. Yeah they will live their own lives and you just have to respect (as their parents) the choices they make. As a kid you wanted and exercised the same freedom so I don't begrudge it of them. There's only rewards in my book.:rose:
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code-frog wrote:
Oh, I guess I meant in a fun way.
I know you did, just offering you a nudge as a reminder for others. Don't want them to assume I am rubbing off on you. ;P We had that conversation while you were gone for a while. :laugh: _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)
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Jeremy Falcon wrote:
That's your interpretation of it which is wrong. It's not referring to the particular incident at all, but general advice for years later.
It's not like you were speaking in pig latin or anything. It was pretty clear what you said and it stands on its own without any further need of interpretation. Whether you deal with it immediately or later is irrelevant.
Jeremy Falcon wrote:
I know you think you're always right
Only because I assert myself what I know I'm right and I'm quiet when ambiguous. Therefore, whenever I communicate, there's a very good chance I'm right.
espeir wrote:
Whether you deal with it immediately or later is irrelevant.
That was never a means to deal with his grandfather's death, but a way to deal with the concept of death. Maybe you need to understand context a bit better and reread the line I quoted. Irregardless, you're wrong. I didn't say he should deal with his grandfather's death by bottling it up inside. If you cannot accept this then you are just a stubborn person.
espeir wrote:
Therefore, whenever I communicate, there's a very good chance I'm right.
No, there's a good chance you think you're right. But, since you're so vastly superior in intelligence, how could I ever assume you're anything but, oh lord espeir? Jeremy Falcon
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espeir wrote:
Well...Not having heard of Nero is pretty uneducated, but that's besides the point.
Duh, I said I did hear of him. But, that's beside the point.
espeir wrote:
The point is that every educated person derives his knowledge from what others have told him. That is pretty much the definition of education.
Maybe every educated person, but not to be a truly intelligent being. You do remember the difference don't you?
espeir wrote:
To dismiss something merely because you did not learn it from direct personal experience is ignorance.
Nobody said that was the reason. Jeremy Falcon
Jeremy Falcon wrote:
Maybe every educated person, but not to be a truly intelligent being. You do remember the difference don't you?
Yes. An educated person has the knowledge upon which he can use his intelligence. An intelligent person has no platform on which to stand.
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Jeremy Falcon wrote:
Maybe every educated person, but not to be a truly intelligent being. You do remember the difference don't you?
Yes. An educated person has the knowledge upon which he can use his intelligence. An intelligent person has no platform on which to stand.
espeir wrote:
An intelligent person has no platform on which to stand.
That depends on the context of the platform. A smart man that is stranded in the middle of nowhere with no education has a better chance of survival than an educated idiot. Also, that wasn't my point. I never said education wasn't important. But they are different aspects that you've been overlaying in attempts to belittle me because I didn't know too much about Nero. Jeremy Falcon
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My grandfather died just a few years back, 84 years old. Up 'till the last year of his life, he would still ride his dirt bike out into the fields each day, with the dogs running along side. Seeing him weaken and succumb to cancer so quickly was hard... at the same time, i know he never gave up on Life. I treasure the memories of the time i got to spend with him, and hope to be reunited again some day.
AAntix wrote:
How do you live on in peace knowing the inevitable?
Because i don't know the inevitable. Oh, sure - this body is gonna wear out and fail, as sure as the sun is gonna rise. But when, where, or how that'll happen is far from a given. Much less so what happens after that. There's a corrolary to what Steve wrote, btw: don't put your faith in things you know will fail. Enjoy what you have today, do your best to make the most of it. But if you want hope for tomorrow, you'll need to look beyond this world where all things eventually crumble and pass away.
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code-frog wrote:
Oh, I guess I meant in a fun way.
I know you did, just offering you a nudge as a reminder for others. Don't want them to assume I am rubbing off on you. ;P We had that conversation while you were gone for a while. :laugh: _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)
:-D I kind of figured and the reminder was *very* good. :rose: You've already rubbed off on me though. This weekend I tried to get closer to a buck to get a better photo and I found myself wondering what Jeffry's grandfather might have to offer for advice at this moment in time. Needless to say, I didn't have the advice and consequently don't have a photo either.:sigh::-D
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I don't know. I almost think knowing they are still alive would be worse. I didn't get to see my mother's body before she was cremated. I still have dreams she is really alive, I track her down, and she faked her death because she didn't love me anymore and still doesn't want me in her life. Death you can't control. Other situations such as abandonment I think are emotionally worse.
Well, either way. It's something a kid shouldn't have to endure IMO. Jeremy Falcon
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leckey wrote:
irstly, the gospels were written long after Jesus lived--we're talking a couple hundred years. It's hard to take it as a historical non-fiction piece when looked at it in that light.
The gospels were written shortly after Jesus' death (within a couple of decades). They were compiled a couple hundred years later into what is now the accepted New Testament. This was done in order to exclude false works (like the Gospel of Judas) that were written by the gnostics during early Christianity. This isn't a matter of faith but of documented and accepted history (by both secular and religious historians).
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espeir wrote:
An intelligent person has no platform on which to stand.
That depends on the context of the platform. A smart man that is stranded in the middle of nowhere with no education has a better chance of survival than an educated idiot. Also, that wasn't my point. I never said education wasn't important. But they are different aspects that you've been overlaying in attempts to belittle me because I didn't know too much about Nero. Jeremy Falcon
Jeremy Falcon wrote:
That depends on the context of the platform. A smart man that is stranded in the middle of nowhere with no education has a better chance of survival than an educated idiot.
Education isn't suitable for survival. Animal-like behavior is. And you're assuming that educated people are unintelligent, when in fact there's a high correlation between IQ and the level of one's education.
Jeremy Falcon wrote:
Also, that wasn't my point. I never said education wasn't important. But they are different aspect that you've been overlaying in attempts to belittle me because I didn't know too much about Nero.
I'm belittling you for stating that you don't believe anything that is simply told to you. If that's the case, then you reject most of the world, its history and science and will never learn a thing.
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I know I'm going to get flamed for this but it's important. You need to find out what it means to accept Jesus as your Saviour and Lord. There is no hope otherwise. Find a Christian friend and ask him what this means and where to start. Let me know if I can help.
So.. you're taking advantage of someone's misfortunate state of being? Shame on you.
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espeir wrote:
which you revere but apparently lack
This proves you are being stupid. Do not confuse (I'm sure it's difficult for you) not being the most educated in history with not being educated. In case you haven't noticed, there are plenty of fields of study. Also, do not confuse education with intelligence. I hope that's not too much to ask of you.
espeir wrote:
ou probably have not undertaken a life-long quest to prove that he existed.
This is bullshit. It's much easier to prove someone existed than to prove someone that did exist was in fact the son of God. I do believe a man named Jesus could've very well existed. I do not believe he was without sin and the son of God. Granted, it all comes down to "what's written" and what we choose to believe about it. Let's say Nero didn't really exist, well at least we are not basing religion and fundamental ways of current life on that. And, we can still take the lessons of history from that. We cannot do the same with Jesus being or not being the son of God. Jeremy Falcon
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So.. you're taking advantage of someone's misfortunate state of being? Shame on you.
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If you mean offering a hand up is "taking advantage" I'd have to agree.
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Jeremy Falcon wrote:
That depends on the context of the platform. A smart man that is stranded in the middle of nowhere with no education has a better chance of survival than an educated idiot.
Education isn't suitable for survival. Animal-like behavior is. And you're assuming that educated people are unintelligent, when in fact there's a high correlation between IQ and the level of one's education.
Jeremy Falcon wrote:
Also, that wasn't my point. I never said education wasn't important. But they are different aspect that you've been overlaying in attempts to belittle me because I didn't know too much about Nero.
I'm belittling you for stating that you don't believe anything that is simply told to you. If that's the case, then you reject most of the world, its history and science and will never learn a thing.
espeir wrote:
And you're assuming that educated people are unintelligent
No I'm not. And never did I say that. You need to double-check your own logic.
espeir wrote:
when in fact there's a high correlation between IQ and the level of one's education.
Yes, but they are two independent things.
espeir wrote:
I'm belittling you for stating that you don't believe anything that is simply told to you. If that's the case, then you reject most of the world, its history and science and will never learn a thing.
Then you're retarded. Me not beleiving in Jesus being the son of God does not mean I do not beleive anything someone tells me. Really, get off your damn high horse. Jeremy Falcon
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You don't either. In fact you just created division over someone trying to show kindness and support.:rose:
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Hmm.. I didn't see that as kindness and support. What I saw was someone trying to push his beliefs onto someone who's saddened. Maybe it was his intent, but it didn't show. I think it just enforced my view of the human race: we're all just a bunch of egomaniacs, trying to convert everybody to our own belief system. (If that wasn't the case, we wouldn't be arguing so much, would we? :))
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Jeremy Falcon wrote:
I do believe a man named Jesus could've very well existed.
He does! He lives over by the park. Jesus Rodriguez, horrible basketball player but pretty nice guy. :)
:-D Jeremy Falcon
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leckey wrote:
irstly, the gospels were written long after Jesus lived--we're talking a couple hundred years. It's hard to take it as a historical non-fiction piece when looked at it in that light.
The gospels were written shortly after Jesus' death (within a couple of decades). They were compiled a couple hundred years later into what is now the accepted New Testament. This was done in order to exclude false works (like the Gospel of Judas) that were written by the gnostics during early Christianity. This isn't a matter of faith but of documented and accepted history (by both secular and religious historians).
There is no hard evidence for what you assert, except for the church's word. I've yet to see anything but "take my word for it!"-evidence.
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Jeremy Falcon wrote:
This proves you are being stupid. Do not confuse (I'm sure it's difficult for you) not being the most educated in history with not being educated. In case you haven't noticed, there are plenty of fields of study. Also, do not confuse education with intelligence. I hope that's not too much to ask of you.
Well...Not having heard of Nero is pretty uneducated, but that's besides the point. The point is that every educated person derives his knowledge from what others have told him. That is pretty much the definition of education. To dismiss something merely because you did not learn it from direct personal experience is ignorance.
espeir wrote:
The point is that every educated person derives his knowledge from what others have told him.
So where do uneducated persons derive their knowledge? From unothers? Perhaps "others that have untold him"?
espeir wrote:
The point is
Still waiting for that. :confused:
espeir wrote:
That is pretty much the definition of education.
and that. :zzz: