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  • E El Corazon

    some things will change, but you have to be part of it... get out and walk, choose locations of interest, take a camera, learn the guitar, learn the flute. I used to sit under the bridge playing a flute, and although I was already dating, more ladies came up to me to ask me about it than ever had in previous years! Do something with your life, and you will find life rewards you... and keep your eyes OPEN! Someone could be close at hand and you may not realize it. Desperation and sorrow is no way to meet a woman! Thirst (February 1999) Do you know what it is like to thirst? Not want or desire, everybody wants. . . A thirst comes from inside, Telling you that it is necessary For your very survival. A thirst tears at your sanity. A thirst tears at your soul, The very fabric of your being. Only the strongest of men Can survive a true thirst Without finding a way to quench it. Do you know what it is like to be Lonely? Not the loneliness of one, It is easy to be lonely when you are one. True loneliness is the lonliness of many, The loneliness that strikes you in a crowd. True loneliness that invades your sleep. True loneliness that catches you at a party To tell you that you do not belong. True loneliness is an ache in your soul. True loneliness is NOT a desire. . . True loneliness is . . . a thirst. Thank You My Friend A friend walked down life's path with me. At first behind, where I did not see. She followed close, watching patiently, Until, at last, I saw her still with me. Hand in hand we walked for miles. She talked me through all life's trials. Until, at last, we met the garden aisles; Exchanging our very heartfelt smiles. Thank you, my friend, for walking with me! Thank you, my friend, for helping me see That life's trials did not reflect poorly on me. May I now walk a little farther with thee?

    _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb) John Andrew Holmes "It is well to remember that the entire universe, with one trifling exception, is composed of others."

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    "Stranger Than Fiction" with Will Farrel says this so well.

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      Corinna John wrote:

      breakfast:granola lunch:potato + ketchup supper:fried mushrooms (takes the same amount of time as noodle) breakfast:fresh fruit + crispbread lunch:tofu supper:salad

      He was looking to be cheered up, not to be made more miserable! Here's what he needs: Breakfast: Dirty great big fry up. Lunch: Pub. Dinner: Steak, chips, vino. Supper: Beer. :)

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      martin_hughes wrote:

      Breakfast: Dirty great big fry up.

      Was it you Martin that told me about his massive and insane (IMO) Sunday fry up for breakfast?

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      • T tidelgl

        breakfast:two bread lunch:noodle supper:noodle :(( Morning:Programing noon:Programing afternoon:Programing night:learning having a walk:alone playing games:alone shopping:alone cooking:alone watching a movie:alone washing clothes:myself :doh: Oh,man.

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        Being alone gets easier after the Xth year (insert figure you feel is appropriate). Then worse then better then... Just remember that it averages out to being on an even keel over the long term. :)

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          Consider finding a woman.

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          You make it sound so simple, like turning on a light switch!

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            martin_hughes wrote:

            Breakfast: Dirty great big fry up.

            Was it you Martin that told me about his massive and insane (IMO) Sunday fry up for breakfast?

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            I don't recall ever telling anyone about huge Sunday fry-ups, but then again I drink too much so my memory ain't what it used to be :)

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              You make it sound so simple, like turning on a light switch!

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              Ah, you see, you're thinking about finding the right woman. Now that is tricky because she doesn't exist, but the indefinite woman is very easy to find :)

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                You make it sound so simple, like turning on a light switch!

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                Steve_Harris wrote:

                like turning on a light switch!

                In a way it is.... There are no woman outside? You drive to work past none? You live in montana where they are all taken? finding someone is first Not jumping to the conclusion. If you want to bed someone or get married tomorrow, chances are you will find only someone to make you more miserable. :) getting to know someone takes time, but the first light switch is knowing it does, accepting it does, and trying anyhow. Don't wear your heart on a sleeve, don't mope around and ignore all the women either. Living life is a light switch, the rest just comes with time.

                _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb) John Andrew Holmes "It is well to remember that the entire universe, with one trifling exception, is composed of others."

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                • E El Corazon

                  Steve_Harris wrote:

                  like turning on a light switch!

                  In a way it is.... There are no woman outside? You drive to work past none? You live in montana where they are all taken? finding someone is first Not jumping to the conclusion. If you want to bed someone or get married tomorrow, chances are you will find only someone to make you more miserable. :) getting to know someone takes time, but the first light switch is knowing it does, accepting it does, and trying anyhow. Don't wear your heart on a sleeve, don't mope around and ignore all the women either. Living life is a light switch, the rest just comes with time.

                  _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb) John Andrew Holmes "It is well to remember that the entire universe, with one trifling exception, is composed of others."

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                  El Corazon wrote:

                  You drive to work past none?

                  I should get to know women by shouting at them from my car??? :D

                  El Corazon wrote:

                  don't mope around

                  That is achievable in moderation...when being single goes on too long moping gets hard to suppress 100% of the time.

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                    It's a no win situation, so make the best of it. When you're alone you wish you had someone around and when there is someone always around you wish you were alone. I picked the one that was best for me. My wife isn't the greatest to look at, but she's good company. I figure out ways to go off by myself for some me time when I need it.

                    My Blog: http://cynicalclots.blogspot.com

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                    Dirk Higbee wrote:

                    My wife isn't the greatest to look at, but she's good company. I figure out ways to go off by myself for some me time when I need it.

                    You mean, when you need to be around attractive women? ;)

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                      I don't recall ever telling anyone about huge Sunday fry-ups, but then again I drink too much so my memory ain't what it used to be :)

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                      Big fat fry up, black pudding, lots of Soss and eggs, tomatoes, some sort of fries (or hashbrowns I think), liver, the heart of your mortal enemy, then its off to the pub for a midday drink before its off to the football game to continue your conquest of your foes... ring any bells?

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                        El Corazon wrote:

                        You drive to work past none?

                        I should get to know women by shouting at them from my car??? :D

                        El Corazon wrote:

                        don't mope around

                        That is achievable in moderation...when being single goes on too long moping gets hard to suppress 100% of the time.

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                        Steve_Harris wrote:

                        I should get to know women by shouting at them from my car???

                        Well, I have seen it tried... never tried it myself... I think it only works under the age of 21, after that it gets creepy....

                        Steve_Harris wrote:

                        That is achievable in moderation...when being single goes on too long moping gets hard to suppress 100% of the time.

                        Perhaps, perhaps.... First I had to learn how to live alone, without desperation, then all of sudden there were women. :) If you are trying to fill a gap in your own life with another person, perhaps filling it with things you like, then finding a woman who shares those things you filled it with?

                        _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb) John Andrew Holmes "It is well to remember that the entire universe, with one trifling exception, is composed of others."

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                          Big fat fry up, black pudding, lots of Soss and eggs, tomatoes, some sort of fries (or hashbrowns I think), liver, the heart of your mortal enemy, then its off to the pub for a midday drink before its off to the football game to continue your conquest of your foes... ring any bells?

                          Don't forget to vote if the response was helpful


                          Sig history "dad" Ishmail-Samuel Mustafa "There's no point questioning the actions of a c0ck-juggling thunderc*nt" From the book of testy commentary by martin_hughes Unix is a Four Letter Word, and Vi is a Two Letter Abbreviation

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                          Mustafa Ismail Mustafa wrote:

                          ring any bells?

                          Everything except the football (not a big fan of the "beautiful" game) :)

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                          • E El Corazon

                            Steve_Harris wrote:

                            I should get to know women by shouting at them from my car???

                            Well, I have seen it tried... never tried it myself... I think it only works under the age of 21, after that it gets creepy....

                            Steve_Harris wrote:

                            That is achievable in moderation...when being single goes on too long moping gets hard to suppress 100% of the time.

                            Perhaps, perhaps.... First I had to learn how to live alone, without desperation, then all of sudden there were women. :) If you are trying to fill a gap in your own life with another person, perhaps filling it with things you like, then finding a woman who shares those things you filled it with?

                            _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb) John Andrew Holmes "It is well to remember that the entire universe, with one trifling exception, is composed of others."

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                            El Corazon wrote:

                            filling it with things you like, then finding a woman who shares those things you filled it with

                            I live in a rural town of about 8,000 where many young(er) people of any intelligence move away to find work, so there's only a small pool to choose from to begin with. Finding a woman who reads CP from those who are left will be tricky... ;P

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                              El Corazon wrote:

                              You drive to work past none?

                              I should get to know women by shouting at them from my car??? :D

                              El Corazon wrote:

                              don't mope around

                              That is achievable in moderation...when being single goes on too long moping gets hard to suppress 100% of the time.

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                              There are many ways to meet women, especially nowadays. You could take up an evening class, join a club, get involved with some local activity and there's always online dating. A lot of (completely wrong-headed) people will tell you that any of the above is sad/geeky/nerdy/whatever, but f'em. You'll meet more women than you ordinarily would in day to day life, have more of a chance of finding someone who has the same interests as you and is possibly also looking for the same things you are. In short, get out there Steve and mix it up a bit. Sitting at home staring at a screen waiting for Miss. Perfect to knock on the door ain't going to do it for you. Seek and ye shall find!

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                                I really appreciate for your pretty menu.I'll try it someday.

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                                Someday?! Oh no, that will be too late...

                                This statement is false.

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                                  There are many ways to meet women, especially nowadays. You could take up an evening class, join a club, get involved with some local activity and there's always online dating. A lot of (completely wrong-headed) people will tell you that any of the above is sad/geeky/nerdy/whatever, but f'em. You'll meet more women than you ordinarily would in day to day life, have more of a chance of finding someone who has the same interests as you and is possibly also looking for the same things you are. In short, get out there Steve and mix it up a bit. Sitting at home staring at a screen waiting for Miss. Perfect to knock on the door ain't going to do it for you. Seek and ye shall find!

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                                  martin_hughes wrote:

                                  there's always online dating

                                  I could write a book about it mate, from the one who flashed me her tits via mobile and said she wanted to wake up next to me, before we'd even met(!), to the stock response after chatting online/meeting of "keep in touch" which actually means "sod off". In my experience it's not a great success.

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                                    Mustafa Ismail Mustafa wrote:

                                    ring any bells?

                                    Everything except the football (not a big fan of the "beautiful" game) :)

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                                    and if memory serves, its a recipe that you learned from your grandfather(s), correct?

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                                      and if memory serves, its a recipe that you learned from your grandfather(s), correct?

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                                      Ah, probably not me. My Grandparents (on both sides) died during the war.

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                                        Ah, you see, you're thinking about finding the right woman. Now that is tricky because she doesn't exist, but the indefinite woman is very easy to find :)

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                                        martin_hughes wrote:

                                        the indefinite woman is very easy to find

                                        Really? In my experience, it's just the opposite, as in: "I definitely want those shoes" "I definitely need a new handbag" "I'm definitely not giving you my phone number"

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                                          El Corazon wrote:

                                          filling it with things you like, then finding a woman who shares those things you filled it with

                                          I live in a rural town of about 8,000 where many young(er) people of any intelligence move away to find work, so there's only a small pool to choose from to begin with. Finding a woman who reads CP from those who are left will be tricky... ;P

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                                          I came from a rural town of 5092... your point? or are you just excusing why you should never have to try?

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