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  • N Nish Nishant

    I've got a question for CPian parents here (uncles and aunts too I guess). Would the non 3D version of Alice in Wonderland be suitable for a 2 year old? He has never even been to a movie so far, so that's another factor. Thanks for any and all suggestions.

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    Definitely a bit N-O from me. Read through this[^] and see why. Our girl's first movie was at the age of 3. She found it very loud and even though it was an animated kids show aimed at very young kids, it was too long for her in that setting. 4 years old would have been a better bet, I think. Tips for the first timer: 1) Use the booster seat they have stacked at the entrance. It keeps the seat from flipping up with them in it when they're that small. 2) Cover their ears before the previews start. They're shockingly lout to a little kid. 3) Read the parent's advisory at IMDB.com first. Prepare yourself for any scary parts and be ready to cover eyes if necessary. That can be the difference between making it to the end and leaving half way through. 4) If, after reading the parent's advisory you're not sure if the movie will be appropriate, DON'T GO. So many people do it the other way around. 5) When kiddo says it's time to go, it's time to go. Assume you'll be leaving part way through. Hope that helps. Cheers, Drew.

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    • N Nish Nishant

      I've got a question for CPian parents here (uncles and aunts too I guess). Would the non 3D version of Alice in Wonderland be suitable for a 2 year old? He has never even been to a movie so far, so that's another factor. Thanks for any and all suggestions.

      Regards, Nish


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      Chris Austin
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      I've got a 4 year old boy and we took him to his first movie recently during a 'cry baby' matinée and it was still a bit much. But, if you want your little one to see Alice in Wonderland with you it might be fun to read 'Through The Looking Glass' to your little guy and then rent the movie.

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      • A Andy Brummer

        I'd just add that the American Association of Pediatricians AAP - Media guidelines[^] suggests no screens at all for children under 2 and I'm personally hedging my bet by a few more years past that. Though, I have shown my son a few short videos directly related to things he was interested in like nature shows. I do stay away from any cartoons or fantasy, as he's still completely engaged figuring out the the world around him without me adding a bunch of nonsense that is just going to confuse him. It's hard though, there are so many fun shows and movies that I can't wait to experience with him.

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        The Upside Down Show[^] and The Universe are the only things I feel comfortable letting my son watch.

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        • N Nish Nishant

          I've got a question for CPian parents here (uncles and aunts too I guess). Would the non 3D version of Alice in Wonderland be suitable for a 2 year old? He has never even been to a movie so far, so that's another factor. Thanks for any and all suggestions.

          Regards, Nish


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          Robert Surtees
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          Our first movie was The Little Mermaid. Sounded pretty harmless. Three tickets, popcorn, candy, drinks. Small loan to pay it all off... Didn't even make it through the opening credits which featured a ship going down in a thunderstorm as I recall.

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          • N Nish Nishant

            I've got a question for CPian parents here (uncles and aunts too I guess). Would the non 3D version of Alice in Wonderland be suitable for a 2 year old? He has never even been to a movie so far, so that's another factor. Thanks for any and all suggestions.

            Regards, Nish


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            Based on the trailers, the new Alice movie I wouldn't recommend for under-12's.

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            • N Nish Nishant

              I've got a question for CPian parents here (uncles and aunts too I guess). Would the non 3D version of Alice in Wonderland be suitable for a 2 year old? He has never even been to a movie so far, so that's another factor. Thanks for any and all suggestions.

              Regards, Nish


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              This new Alice in Wonderland scares me, and that is not usually an easy thing to do.

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              • R Rama Krishna Vavilala

                You are very right.

                CaptainSeeSharp wrote:

                He might be traumatized

                True, even I am traumatized when I see Johnny Depp in that movie's trailer.

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                Rama Krishna Vavilala wrote:

                I am traumatized when I see Johnny Depp in that movie's trailer

                :laugh: True!!

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                  CaptainSeeSharp wrote:

                  No, tell your toddler tried and true stories from an old story book.

                  Well, we already do that. I was basically thinking of getting him used to the concept of watching a movie on the big screen.

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                  Nishant Sivakumar wrote:

                  I was basically thinking of getting him used to the concept of watching a movie on the big screen.

                  Try a beamer. On the whole, though, the only reason I'd be against Alice is the 3D glasses. Any other movie, no problem. Children that age just soak in sights and sounds, so he should enjoy the whole experience.

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                    Powerful experiences might cause serious changes in the development of his mind. I think it is a bad idea for toddlers and preteens to watch TV, unless its a real wholesome show. He might be traumatized and permanently effected.

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                    CaptainSeeSharp wrote:

                    Powerful experiences might cause serious changes in the development of his mind. I think it is a bad idea for toddlers and preteens to watch TV, unless its a real wholesome show.He might be traumatized and permanently effected.

                    Jesus wept. You've never had kids, then? You forgot to add: -- Buy lots of cotton wool, to wrap him in, 24 hours a day. -- Throw away all the knives, forks, and spoons with a bit of a sharp edge. -- Burn any furniture and knock down any walls that don't have two-inch padding. ... And, for God's sake, keep him away from all other children! There's no telling what awful diseases that might be carrying!

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                      Nishant Sivakumar wrote:

                      I was basically thinking of getting him used to the concept of watching a movie on the big screen.

                      Try a beamer. On the whole, though, the only reason I'd be against Alice is the 3D glasses. Any other movie, no problem. Children that age just soak in sights and sounds, so he should enjoy the whole experience.

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                      Mark Wallace wrote:

                      Try a beamer.

                      Excellent advice!  I recommend a circa 1975 BMW 2002.  :cool: /ravi

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                        Definitely a bit N-O from me. Read through this[^] and see why. Our girl's first movie was at the age of 3. She found it very loud and even though it was an animated kids show aimed at very young kids, it was too long for her in that setting. 4 years old would have been a better bet, I think. Tips for the first timer: 1) Use the booster seat they have stacked at the entrance. It keeps the seat from flipping up with them in it when they're that small. 2) Cover their ears before the previews start. They're shockingly lout to a little kid. 3) Read the parent's advisory at IMDB.com first. Prepare yourself for any scary parts and be ready to cover eyes if necessary. That can be the difference between making it to the end and leaving half way through. 4) If, after reading the parent's advisory you're not sure if the movie will be appropriate, DON'T GO. So many people do it the other way around. 5) When kiddo says it's time to go, it's time to go. Assume you'll be leaving part way through. Hope that helps. Cheers, Drew.

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                        Completely Agree. :thumbsup: And the kids those under/upto 3-4 years would not have patience to watch out an entire movie. Either they would got sleep or they would be cry entirely. And to understand what going on in the movie would be totally out of their reach.

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                        • R Ravi Bhavnani

                          Mark Wallace wrote:

                          Try a beamer.

                          Excellent advice!  I recommend a circa 1975 BMW 2002.  :cool: /ravi

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                          Ravi Bhavnani wrote:

                          I recommend a circa 1975 BMW 2002.

                          Blue. You forgot to say blue.

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                            Maximilien wrote:

                            IMO, no; not because of the movie itself, the kid is too young to comprehend what's going on , but because movies (in general) are loud, and that kids of that age need more attention than what you cou ld give them at a viewing. Me think you should take turn to go see the movie, or get a babysitter.

                            Thanks Maximilien. I was primarily thinking of introducing him to the whole concept of watching a movie on the big screen. The 3D won't work since it's unlikely he'll keep the glasses on the whole time. I guess I'll wait till he's a little older and also for a more kid-friendly movie, like Finding Nemo.

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                            Seeing the kids of my friends grow up, I have to agree with Maximilien. At two years, the kid most likely won't be able to follow, and it might be a rather scary experience (independent of the contents). Even a bit older the next problem is keeping concentration for a full lenght film (plus ads?!). BTW. the local arthouse theater has "pacifier shows" saturday / sunday morning with lights only dimmed, reduced sound levels - and people that are morally required to tolerate the baby noise. However, they are mainly intended for parents.

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                            • N Nish Nishant

                              I've got a question for CPian parents here (uncles and aunts too I guess). Would the non 3D version of Alice in Wonderland be suitable for a 2 year old? He has never even been to a movie so far, so that's another factor. Thanks for any and all suggestions.

                              Regards, Nish


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                              No. Catherine (she's nearly 8) went to see this film with a friend and her family. The kids were seriously freaked out by it; especially by Johnny Depp.

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                              • N Nish Nishant

                                I've got a question for CPian parents here (uncles and aunts too I guess). Would the non 3D version of Alice in Wonderland be suitable for a 2 year old? He has never even been to a movie so far, so that's another factor. Thanks for any and all suggestions.

                                Regards, Nish


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                                Good god man, ae you serious? Sit on the sofa, put on a 1 1/2 hour DVD, turn out the lights and see how long he sits on the sofa with you. In my experience you'd be lucky to get more than ten minutes of attention. OTOH you could take him just before nap time, he'll hopefully nod off and you can watch it. BTW PLEASE when you eventually do take him, don't take him to a 'normal' screening - find a time when the cinema runs a toddlers viewing - they're fun (for about 4 year olds IMHO) as they're tollerated running around and yelling out questions.

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                                  Seeing the kids of my friends grow up, I have to agree with Maximilien. At two years, the kid most likely won't be able to follow, and it might be a rather scary experience (independent of the contents). Even a bit older the next problem is keeping concentration for a full lenght film (plus ads?!). BTW. the local arthouse theater has "pacifier shows" saturday / sunday morning with lights only dimmed, reduced sound levels - and people that are morally required to tolerate the baby noise. However, they are mainly intended for parents.

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                                  Nish Nishant
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                                  Thanks Peterchen, we decided not take him to a movie for now.

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                                    Nishant Sivakumar wrote:

                                    I was basically thinking of getting him used to the concept of watching a movie on the big screen.

                                    Try a beamer. On the whole, though, the only reason I'd be against Alice is the 3D glasses. Any other movie, no problem. Children that age just soak in sights and sounds, so he should enjoy the whole experience.

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                                    Nish Nishant
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                                    Mark Wallace wrote:

                                    On the whole, though, the only reason I'd be against Alice is the 3D glasses.

                                    Well I had already picked a non-3D movie place for this. Anyway we decided not to take him to a movie for a while.

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                                      That would be very alien for a small child, frankly somewhat alien for a number of adults. Now if Horton Hears a Who was on... And the first person to say I'm like a two year old will be right ;P

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                                      Nish Nishant
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                                      Thanks Trollslayer - we'll wait I guess :-)

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                                      • P puromtec1

                                        He may screem his head off throughout the following night and you will feel like sh$t having to listen to it. Did the movie thing once with my kid around that age (kid's puppy movie). He did not watch it, just ran around the empty theater. He is 3 and will get nightmares if he sees something a even a little scary on tv (especially if at later at night).

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                                        Nish Nishant
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                                        Thanks for relating your experience. We've decided to wait longer.

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                                        • A AspDotNetDev

                                          So YOU'RE the parent in every movie I've ever been to with the screaming kid. :rolleyes: Why get him hooked on movies so early? I'd say, make him think books are the most exciting priviledge in the world, then show him movies before his friends get that opportunity. On the other hand, I'm only 25, so please disregard everything I say relating to parenthood. ;P

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                                          Nish Nishant
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                                          Thank you, aspdotnetdev. He already loves books. The movie was an after thought from me :-) Anyway we'll wait an year longer I guess.

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