Alice in Wonderland toddler suitability
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Definitely a bit N-O from me. Read through this[^] and see why. Our girl's first movie was at the age of 3. She found it very loud and even though it was an animated kids show aimed at very young kids, it was too long for her in that setting. 4 years old would have been a better bet, I think. Tips for the first timer: 1) Use the booster seat they have stacked at the entrance. It keeps the seat from flipping up with them in it when they're that small. 2) Cover their ears before the previews start. They're shockingly lout to a little kid. 3) Read the parent's advisory at IMDB.com first. Prepare yourself for any scary parts and be ready to cover eyes if necessary. That can be the difference between making it to the end and leaving half way through. 4) If, after reading the parent's advisory you're not sure if the movie will be appropriate, DON'T GO. So many people do it the other way around. 5) When kiddo says it's time to go, it's time to go. Assume you'll be leaving part way through. Hope that helps. Cheers, Drew.
Completely Agree. :thumbsup: And the kids those under/upto 3-4 years would not have patience to watch out an entire movie. Either they would got sleep or they would be cry entirely. And to understand what going on in the movie would be totally out of their reach.
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Mark Wallace wrote:
Try a beamer.
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Maximilien wrote:
IMO, no; not because of the movie itself, the kid is too young to comprehend what's going on , but because movies (in general) are loud, and that kids of that age need more attention than what you cou ld give them at a viewing. Me think you should take turn to go see the movie, or get a babysitter.
Thanks Maximilien. I was primarily thinking of introducing him to the whole concept of watching a movie on the big screen. The 3D won't work since it's unlikely he'll keep the glasses on the whole time. I guess I'll wait till he's a little older and also for a more kid-friendly movie, like Finding Nemo.
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My latest book : C++/CLI in Action / Amazon.com linkSeeing the kids of my friends grow up, I have to agree with Maximilien. At two years, the kid most likely won't be able to follow, and it might be a rather scary experience (independent of the contents). Even a bit older the next problem is keeping concentration for a full lenght film (plus ads?!). BTW. the local arthouse theater has "pacifier shows" saturday / sunday morning with lights only dimmed, reduced sound levels - and people that are morally required to tolerate the baby noise. However, they are mainly intended for parents.
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I've got a question for CPian parents here (uncles and aunts too I guess). Would the non 3D version of Alice in Wonderland be suitable for a 2 year old? He has never even been to a movie so far, so that's another factor. Thanks for any and all suggestions.
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My latest book : C++/CLI in Action / Amazon.com linkNo. Catherine (she's nearly 8) went to see this film with a friend and her family. The kids were seriously freaked out by it; especially by Johnny Depp.
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I've got a question for CPian parents here (uncles and aunts too I guess). Would the non 3D version of Alice in Wonderland be suitable for a 2 year old? He has never even been to a movie so far, so that's another factor. Thanks for any and all suggestions.
Regards, Nish
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My latest book : C++/CLI in Action / Amazon.com linkGood god man, ae you serious? Sit on the sofa, put on a 1 1/2 hour DVD, turn out the lights and see how long he sits on the sofa with you. In my experience you'd be lucky to get more than ten minutes of attention. OTOH you could take him just before nap time, he'll hopefully nod off and you can watch it. BTW PLEASE when you eventually do take him, don't take him to a 'normal' screening - find a time when the cinema runs a toddlers viewing - they're fun (for about 4 year olds IMHO) as they're tollerated running around and yelling out questions.
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Seeing the kids of my friends grow up, I have to agree with Maximilien. At two years, the kid most likely won't be able to follow, and it might be a rather scary experience (independent of the contents). Even a bit older the next problem is keeping concentration for a full lenght film (plus ads?!). BTW. the local arthouse theater has "pacifier shows" saturday / sunday morning with lights only dimmed, reduced sound levels - and people that are morally required to tolerate the baby noise. However, they are mainly intended for parents.
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| FoldWithUs! | sighist | µLaunch - program launcher for server core and hyper-v server.Thanks Peterchen, we decided not take him to a movie for now.
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Nishant Sivakumar wrote:
I was basically thinking of getting him used to the concept of watching a movie on the big screen.
Try a beamer. On the whole, though, the only reason I'd be against Alice is the 3D glasses. Any other movie, no problem. Children that age just soak in sights and sounds, so he should enjoy the whole experience.
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Mark Wallace wrote:
On the whole, though, the only reason I'd be against Alice is the 3D glasses.
Well I had already picked a non-3D movie place for this. Anyway we decided not to take him to a movie for a while.
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That would be very alien for a small child, frankly somewhat alien for a number of adults. Now if Horton Hears a Who was on... And the first person to say I'm like a two year old will be right ;P
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Thanks Trollslayer - we'll wait I guess :-)
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He may screem his head off throughout the following night and you will feel like sh$t having to listen to it. Did the movie thing once with my kid around that age (kid's puppy movie). He did not watch it, just ran around the empty theater. He is 3 and will get nightmares if he sees something a even a little scary on tv (especially if at later at night).
Thanks for relating your experience. We've decided to wait longer.
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So YOU'RE the parent in every movie I've ever been to with the screaming kid. :rolleyes: Why get him hooked on movies so early? I'd say, make him think books are the most exciting priviledge in the world, then show him movies before his friends get that opportunity. On the other hand, I'm only 25, so please disregard everything I say relating to parenthood. ;P
Thank you, aspdotnetdev. He already loves books. The movie was an after thought from me :-) Anyway we'll wait an year longer I guess.
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I'd just add that the American Association of Pediatricians AAP - Media guidelines[^] suggests no screens at all for children under 2 and I'm personally hedging my bet by a few more years past that. Though, I have shown my son a few short videos directly related to things he was interested in like nature shows. I do stay away from any cartoons or fantasy, as he's still completely engaged figuring out the the world around him without me adding a bunch of nonsense that is just going to confuse him. It's hard though, there are so many fun shows and movies that I can't wait to experience with him.
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Thanks Andy. My son already watched movies on TV - well short ones meant for kids (45-50 mins max). But he's never had a big screen in the darkness experience. Anyway we'll wait an year more.
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Definitely a bit N-O from me. Read through this[^] and see why. Our girl's first movie was at the age of 3. She found it very loud and even though it was an animated kids show aimed at very young kids, it was too long for her in that setting. 4 years old would have been a better bet, I think. Tips for the first timer: 1) Use the booster seat they have stacked at the entrance. It keeps the seat from flipping up with them in it when they're that small. 2) Cover their ears before the previews start. They're shockingly lout to a little kid. 3) Read the parent's advisory at IMDB.com first. Prepare yourself for any scary parts and be ready to cover eyes if necessary. That can be the difference between making it to the end and leaving half way through. 4) If, after reading the parent's advisory you're not sure if the movie will be appropriate, DON'T GO. So many people do it the other way around. 5) When kiddo says it's time to go, it's time to go. Assume you'll be leaving part way through. Hope that helps. Cheers, Drew.
Thanks for the info, Drew. Yeah, we are going to wait at least an year longer.
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I've got a 4 year old boy and we took him to his first movie recently during a 'cry baby' matinée and it was still a bit much. But, if you want your little one to see Alice in Wonderland with you it might be fun to read 'Through The Looking Glass' to your little guy and then rent the movie.
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Thanks Chris. It's useful to hear everyone's personal experiences with this. This is a great thread! :thumbsup:
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Our first movie was The Little Mermaid. Sounded pretty harmless. Three tickets, popcorn, candy, drinks. Small loan to pay it all off... Didn't even make it through the opening credits which featured a ship going down in a thunderstorm as I recall.
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harold aptroot wrote:
This new Alice in Wonderland scares me, and that is not usually an easy thing to do.
:-D Thanks Harold. We are going to wait some more time.
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Based on the trailers, the new Alice movie I wouldn't recommend for under-12's.
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No. Catherine (she's nearly 8) went to see this film with a friend and her family. The kids were seriously freaked out by it; especially by Johnny Depp.
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Thank you Pete. It's great that so many people have replied to this question. Really good to know people's experiences with this.
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Good god man, ae you serious? Sit on the sofa, put on a 1 1/2 hour DVD, turn out the lights and see how long he sits on the sofa with you. In my experience you'd be lucky to get more than ten minutes of attention. OTOH you could take him just before nap time, he'll hopefully nod off and you can watch it. BTW PLEASE when you eventually do take him, don't take him to a 'normal' screening - find a time when the cinema runs a toddlers viewing - they're fun (for about 4 year olds IMHO) as they're tollerated running around and yelling out questions.
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Thanks _Maxxx_. We'ce deciced not to take him now and to wait an year longer. This has been a great thread. Thank you everyone. I tried to reply to everyone who replied but I may have missed one or two out. This has been a great thread! :thumbsup:
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Mark Wallace wrote:
On the whole, though, the only reason I'd be against Alice is the 3D glasses.
Well I had already picked a non-3D movie place for this. Anyway we decided not to take him to a movie for a while.
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My latest book : C++/CLI in Action / Amazon.com linkSeriously, don't take the kind of reply you've been getting seriously. Children are so incredibly robust, if you let them be so. It's your reaction to things that can upset/frighten/worry them. For a pretty extreme example: -- Alien: If you watch this for the first time, you will be tense and nervous. This will make your lad tense and nervous, and, because he doesn't really know what he's being tense and nervous about, he'll be in a terrible mood, and fearful. -- Aliens: If you watch this for the first time, you will be excited and thrilled (it's a different kind of movie, and they're both made well). This will make your lad excited and thrilled, etc, watching the nasty monsters get smushed. The difference? You. If you act like he's going to be frightened, he will be frightened, have nightmares, the works. If you act like you're having fun, when watching bad-guys (and especially monsters) get beaten, he will join you in your fun. Kids aren't afraid of monsters. Parents are afraid of monsters. Children depend heavily on their parents for knowing what to feel and how to react to the world. If you show no fear, he will know no fear. To quote one of my favourite songs: "Momma's gonna put all of her fears into you..."
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So YOU'RE the parent in every movie I've ever been to with the screaming kid. :rolleyes: Why get him hooked on movies so early? I'd say, make him think books are the most exciting priviledge in the world, then show him movies before his friends get that opportunity. On the other hand, I'm only 25, so please disregard everything I say relating to parenthood. ;P
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make him think books are the most exciting priviledge in the world
That's a brilliant comment. Well said.
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