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  • P Pete OHanlon

    Immediately after university, Jen got a job with a clothing manufacturer in their IT department. Despite being the most qualified person in the department and having a 2:1, she was quickly moved to running the help desk so that the work could be left to "the real men". It's lucky for her manager that I was working in a different country at the time; I'd have ripped his dick off and made him wear it as a tie for such misogynistic crap. Shortly after that, Jen left the company and came to work for me. She was a damn good coder (when we had the kids, she decided to leave the industry and is now a teacher and photographer).

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    Pete O'Hanlon wrote:

    I'd have ripped his dick off and made him wear it as a tie for such misogynistic crap.

    :cool:

    Pete O'Hanlon wrote:

    she was quickly moved to running the help desk so that the work could be left to "the real men".

    Now as you know I'm not one to cause trouble but... isn't this a perfect example of how emotional men are? I.e. crying is seen as emotional but violence and agression isn't?

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    • W Wenff

      Recently I've been reading alot about how women in IT are still being predjudiced against - lower salaries, experience bias from men, fewer in positions of power, the usual stories about how women can't seem to make it in a male-dominated industry. Given my own experience in IT, I'm inclined to think that most of this is rubbish as I've found gender to be mostly irrelevant. I've found that hard work, being good at your job and having the confidence to stand your ground carries far more weight than "being a skirt". Am I alone in this thinking?

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      When I worked for a big company, I once asked the boss why we had not one female programmer. He told me not one had ever applied. I've still never worked with a female programmer, but I know a few through CP. I was also in the MSDN forums at a time when one of the female moderators raved about sexism in IT. She was real nut job. There was one other prominent female in the group, and she studiously avoided the conversation. My overall feeling is that there can be sexism anywhere, but it's not necessarily endemic, not today. The flip side of the coin is that an incompetent woman can always call on sexism to explain her lack of success in the workforce.

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      • R RichardM1

        Do you argue that they don't (relative to men) spend more time doing house work spend more time with their kids? Not sure how good this is (I don't see a citation), but... The gender gap in earnings has decreased substantially since 1980. From 1980 to 1994, the ratio increased from 0.6 to 0.74, although the ratio has stagnated since 1994. Thus, in the fourteen years from 1980 to 1994, 35 percent of the preexisting gender gap in pay was eliminated. Moreover, these annual earnings data overstate the size of the gender gap because women who work full time actually work about 10 percent fewer hours than do men.[^] probably more reliable... However, even among full-time workers (those usually working 35 hours or more per week), men worked longer than women--8.3 versus 7.7 hours. (See table 4.) [^]

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        Thanks, I am at work and cannot prove anything. I am greatful that codeproject.com is allowed. All sites are blocked unless categorized by work site higher-ups.

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        • P Pete OHanlon

          I'm guessing that you live life as an onanist having such progressive views. :rolleyes:

          "WPF has many lovers. It's a veritable porn star!" - Josh Smith

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          puromtec1
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          My wife tends to 'take off' much more than i do, because of kids. So, judging from my statement right here, you might be on to something with your post ;P

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          • C Chris Austin

            Can you prove this fact? I've know many women that completely out work their male counterparts.

            And above all things, never think that you're not good enough yourself. A man should never think that. My belief is that in life people will take you at your own reckoning. --Isaac Asimov Avoid the crowd. Do your own thinking independently. Be the chess player, not the chess piece. --Ralph Charell

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            See Richard's/my posts above.

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              Pete O'Hanlon wrote:

              I'd have ripped his dick off and made him wear it as a tie for such misogynistic crap.

              :cool:

              Pete O'Hanlon wrote:

              she was quickly moved to running the help desk so that the work could be left to "the real men".

              Now as you know I'm not one to cause trouble but... isn't this a perfect example of how emotional men are? I.e. crying is seen as emotional but violence and agression isn't?

              Join the cool kids - Come fold with us[^]

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              Pete OHanlon
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              I have no problem acknowledging my emotional side. When my children put on a performance at school or in their dance school, I am the dad with the wobbly lip. When Newcastle were relegated, I was properly emotional (in fact, I was as emotional as a newt) - when they were promoted again, I was emotional again.

              "WPF has many lovers. It's a veritable porn star!" - Josh Smith

              As Braveheart once said, "You can take our freedom but you'll never take our Hobnobs!" - Martin Hughes.

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                Can you prove this fact? I've know many women that completely out work their male counterparts.

                And above all things, never think that you're not good enough yourself. A man should never think that. My belief is that in life people will take you at your own reckoning. --Isaac Asimov Avoid the crowd. Do your own thinking independently. Be the chess player, not the chess piece. --Ralph Charell

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                Truth is, I was told this fact by a financial planner a few years back and then heard through the grapevine about the studies Richard posted above.

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                • P Pete OHanlon

                  I have no problem acknowledging my emotional side. When my children put on a performance at school or in their dance school, I am the dad with the wobbly lip. When Newcastle were relegated, I was properly emotional (in fact, I was as emotional as a newt) - when they were promoted again, I was emotional again.

                  "WPF has many lovers. It's a veritable porn star!" - Josh Smith

                  As Braveheart once said, "You can take our freedom but you'll never take our Hobnobs!" - Martin Hughes.

                  My blog | My articles | MoXAML PowerToys | Onyx

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                  Not as DD as a newt?

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                  • P puromtec1

                    My wife tends to 'take off' much more than i do, because of kids. So, judging from my statement right here, you might be on to something with your post ;P

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                    Pete OHanlon
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                    Hence the phrase "All men are onanists or liars".

                    "WPF has many lovers. It's a veritable porn star!" - Josh Smith

                    As Braveheart once said, "You can take our freedom but you'll never take our Hobnobs!" - Martin Hughes.

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                      Not as DD as a newt?

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                      Pete OHanlon
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                      Indeed - as emotional as a tadpole.

                      "WPF has many lovers. It's a veritable porn star!" - Josh Smith

                      As Braveheart once said, "You can take our freedom but you'll never take our Hobnobs!" - Martin Hughes.

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                      • P puromtec1

                        Truth is, I was told this fact by a financial planner a few years back and then heard through the grapevine about the studies Richard posted above.

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                        ...studies that I did not visit, but will when I go home maybe...

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                        • P Pete OHanlon

                          Hence the phrase "All men are onanists or liars".

                          "WPF has many lovers. It's a veritable porn star!" - Josh Smith

                          As Braveheart once said, "You can take our freedom but you'll never take our Hobnobs!" - Martin Hughes.

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                          puromtec1
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                          I am starting to think I made a mistake when I posted my 2 cents earlier. Thanks.

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                          • P puromtec1

                            I am starting to think I made a mistake when I posted my 2 cents earlier. Thanks.

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                            Pete OHanlon
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                            'Tis often the way.

                            "WPF has many lovers. It's a veritable porn star!" - Josh Smith

                            As Braveheart once said, "You can take our freedom but you'll never take our Hobnobs!" - Martin Hughes.

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                            • I Ian Shlasko

                              Can't speak to the salary issue, as I've never been on the management side, but dunno about the rest... I haven't worked with many female techies... I can recall two programmers (One talented, one waste of oxygen), and I think two or three in QA (Not sure of their skill level). Back in college (University, for you non-USians), I don't remember seeing more than three or four women in all of my Computer Science classes combined... At least when I went to college (Right around 2000), very few women were going to school to learn how to program, and the few I knew really weren't very skilled. Obviously this isn't definitive proof of anything, as quite a lot of good developers are self-educated. Honestly, I wish we had more (talented) female developers, and not for the reasons you think... Men and women tend to think about problems (And everything else) differently, so it would be good to get some new perspectives on things. While it's good to be on the "same wavelength" as your team members, it also usually means you're all attacking the problem from the same side, and possibly missing a much better solution.

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                              Ian Shlasko wrote:

                              Honestly, I wish we had more (talented) female developers, and not for the reasons you think... Men and women tend to think about problems (And everything else) differently, so it would be good to get some new perspectives on things. While it's good to be on the "same wavelength" as your team members, it also usually means you're all attacking the problem from the same side, and possibly missing a much better solution.

                              Definitely agreed. This could also be applied to a lot of other areas, including the reverse in more female-dominated areas. Unfortunately, it seems (from my limited experience) that the minority gender often has a harder time influencing things because it goes against the dominant way of thinking.

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                                Can't speak to the salary issue, as I've never been on the management side, but dunno about the rest... I haven't worked with many female techies... I can recall two programmers (One talented, one waste of oxygen), and I think two or three in QA (Not sure of their skill level). Back in college (University, for you non-USians), I don't remember seeing more than three or four women in all of my Computer Science classes combined... At least when I went to college (Right around 2000), very few women were going to school to learn how to program, and the few I knew really weren't very skilled. Obviously this isn't definitive proof of anything, as quite a lot of good developers are self-educated. Honestly, I wish we had more (talented) female developers, and not for the reasons you think... Men and women tend to think about problems (And everything else) differently, so it would be good to get some new perspectives on things. While it's good to be on the "same wavelength" as your team members, it also usually means you're all attacking the problem from the same side, and possibly missing a much better solution.

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                                Pete OHanlon
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                                Ian Shlasko wrote:

                                Honestly, I wish we had more (talented) female developers, and not for the reasons you think

                                I think Chris has hired most of them.

                                "WPF has many lovers. It's a veritable porn star!" - Josh Smith

                                As Braveheart once said, "You can take our freedom but you'll never take our Hobnobs!" - Martin Hughes.

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                                  Ian Shlasko wrote:

                                  Honestly, I wish we had more (talented) female developers, and not for the reasons you think... Men and women tend to think about problems (And everything else) differently, so it would be good to get some new perspectives on things. While it's good to be on the "same wavelength" as your team members, it also usually means you're all attacking the problem from the same side, and possibly missing a much better solution.

                                  Definitely agreed. This could also be applied to a lot of other areas, including the reverse in more female-dominated areas. Unfortunately, it seems (from my limited experience) that the minority gender often has a harder time influencing things because it goes against the dominant way of thinking.

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                                  J. Dunlap wrote:

                                  the minority gender often has a harder time influencing things

                                  That's funny, I'm a guy,and I've never seen that. :rolleyes: There are more women than men in the US. YYMV[^]if dating, check here[^] :-D On the other hand, this says China and India are very male heavy, and getting more so[^], since they control 1/3 world population,they skew the over all statistics the other way.

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                                    Sadly there is a proportion of the of people who make themselves feel stronger by putting others down, it varies from industry to industry etc. I have seen it by race, gender, snobbery, inverse snobbery etc., even if you didn't go to the right Cambridge college and have the right tutor. Yes, that was the case at one place I went for an interview and I told the agency later I wasn't interested. There was another case where an agency rang up about a vacancy in Cambridge and made sure they told me that the people there "weren't the usual Cambridge type". :doh: By the way, the firm I mentioned where you were looked down on if you weren't one of the 'elite' closed. Mostly because they thought people should be greatful for whatever they did.

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                                    You have hit that nail on the head. I remember reading somewhere that the fastest way to get ahead was to pull other people down. I know I am argumentative on here, but that is part of how I view soapbox, etc. The only thing to argue about at work is technical merit of an idea,and personal attacks shouldn't be anywhere in that.

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                                    • R RichardM1

                                      You have hit that nail on the head. I remember reading somewhere that the fastest way to get ahead was to pull other people down. I know I am argumentative on here, but that is part of how I view soapbox, etc. The only thing to argue about at work is technical merit of an idea,and personal attacks shouldn't be anywhere in that.

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                                      Captain Fantastic Incident level 4 - there is a wannabe alpha male at work and I manage the video streamers we use for playing back DVB recordings. There was a problem with one of the streamers and he 'knew' that one of the modulator cards was faulty and I 'had to' get the machine out the server room, strip it down etc. etc. and he 'knew' he was right. I power cycled the streamer and everything was fine, the driver for one card had glitched. Second incident in four years running about 70-80 modulators. Guess who was a grumpykins for the rest of that day. :laugh:

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                                        Captain Fantastic Incident level 4 - there is a wannabe alpha male at work and I manage the video streamers we use for playing back DVB recordings. There was a problem with one of the streamers and he 'knew' that one of the modulator cards was faulty and I 'had to' get the machine out the server room, strip it down etc. etc. and he 'knew' he was right. I power cycled the streamer and everything was fine, the driver for one card had glitched. Second incident in four years running about 70-80 modulators. Guess who was a grumpykins for the rest of that day. :laugh:

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                                        Trollslayer wrote:

                                        Guess who was a grumpykins for the rest of that day.

                                        You? Damn... I suck at these guessing games!! :laugh:

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                                          Captain Fantastic Incident level 4 - there is a wannabe alpha male at work and I manage the video streamers we use for playing back DVB recordings. There was a problem with one of the streamers and he 'knew' that one of the modulator cards was faulty and I 'had to' get the machine out the server room, strip it down etc. etc. and he 'knew' he was right. I power cycled the streamer and everything was fine, the driver for one card had glitched. Second incident in four years running about 70-80 modulators. Guess who was a grumpykins for the rest of that day. :laugh:

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                                          ;) those damn people who think they know everything ... :rolleyes: I wish I had hardware that reliable!

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