Skip to content
  • Categories
  • Recent
  • Tags
  • Popular
  • World
  • Users
  • Groups
Skins
  • Light
  • Cerulean
  • Cosmo
  • Flatly
  • Journal
  • Litera
  • Lumen
  • Lux
  • Materia
  • Minty
  • Morph
  • Pulse
  • Sandstone
  • Simplex
  • Sketchy
  • Spacelab
  • United
  • Yeti
  • Zephyr
  • Dark
  • Cyborg
  • Darkly
  • Quartz
  • Slate
  • Solar
  • Superhero
  • Vapor

  • Default (No Skin)
  • No Skin
Collapse
Code Project
  1. Home
  2. The Lounge
  3. Women in IT [modified]

Women in IT [modified]

Scheduled Pinned Locked Moved The Lounge
questioncareer
59 Posts 26 Posters 0 Views 1 Watching
  • Oldest to Newest
  • Newest to Oldest
  • Most Votes
Reply
  • Reply as topic
Log in to reply
This topic has been deleted. Only users with topic management privileges can see it.
  • P Pete OHanlon

    I have no problem acknowledging my emotional side. When my children put on a performance at school or in their dance school, I am the dad with the wobbly lip. When Newcastle were relegated, I was properly emotional (in fact, I was as emotional as a newt) - when they were promoted again, I was emotional again.

    "WPF has many lovers. It's a veritable porn star!" - Josh Smith

    As Braveheart once said, "You can take our freedom but you'll never take our Hobnobs!" - Martin Hughes.

    My blog | My articles | MoXAML PowerToys | Onyx

    L Offline
    L Offline
    Lost User
    wrote on last edited by
    #38

    Not as DD as a newt?

    Join the cool kids - Come fold with us[^]

    P 1 Reply Last reply
    0
    • P puromtec1

      My wife tends to 'take off' much more than i do, because of kids. So, judging from my statement right here, you might be on to something with your post ;P

      P Offline
      P Offline
      Pete OHanlon
      wrote on last edited by
      #39

      Hence the phrase "All men are onanists or liars".

      "WPF has many lovers. It's a veritable porn star!" - Josh Smith

      As Braveheart once said, "You can take our freedom but you'll never take our Hobnobs!" - Martin Hughes.

      My blog | My articles | MoXAML PowerToys | Onyx

      P 1 Reply Last reply
      0
      • L Lost User

        Not as DD as a newt?

        Join the cool kids - Come fold with us[^]

        P Offline
        P Offline
        Pete OHanlon
        wrote on last edited by
        #40

        Indeed - as emotional as a tadpole.

        "WPF has many lovers. It's a veritable porn star!" - Josh Smith

        As Braveheart once said, "You can take our freedom but you'll never take our Hobnobs!" - Martin Hughes.

        My blog | My articles | MoXAML PowerToys | Onyx

        1 Reply Last reply
        0
        • P puromtec1

          Truth is, I was told this fact by a financial planner a few years back and then heard through the grapevine about the studies Richard posted above.

          P Offline
          P Offline
          puromtec1
          wrote on last edited by
          #41

          ...studies that I did not visit, but will when I go home maybe...

          1 Reply Last reply
          0
          • P Pete OHanlon

            Hence the phrase "All men are onanists or liars".

            "WPF has many lovers. It's a veritable porn star!" - Josh Smith

            As Braveheart once said, "You can take our freedom but you'll never take our Hobnobs!" - Martin Hughes.

            My blog | My articles | MoXAML PowerToys | Onyx

            P Offline
            P Offline
            puromtec1
            wrote on last edited by
            #42

            I am starting to think I made a mistake when I posted my 2 cents earlier. Thanks.

            P 1 Reply Last reply
            0
            • P puromtec1

              I am starting to think I made a mistake when I posted my 2 cents earlier. Thanks.

              P Offline
              P Offline
              Pete OHanlon
              wrote on last edited by
              #43

              'Tis often the way.

              "WPF has many lovers. It's a veritable porn star!" - Josh Smith

              As Braveheart once said, "You can take our freedom but you'll never take our Hobnobs!" - Martin Hughes.

              My blog | My articles | MoXAML PowerToys | Onyx

              1 Reply Last reply
              0
              • I Ian Shlasko

                Can't speak to the salary issue, as I've never been on the management side, but dunno about the rest... I haven't worked with many female techies... I can recall two programmers (One talented, one waste of oxygen), and I think two or three in QA (Not sure of their skill level). Back in college (University, for you non-USians), I don't remember seeing more than three or four women in all of my Computer Science classes combined... At least when I went to college (Right around 2000), very few women were going to school to learn how to program, and the few I knew really weren't very skilled. Obviously this isn't definitive proof of anything, as quite a lot of good developers are self-educated. Honestly, I wish we had more (talented) female developers, and not for the reasons you think... Men and women tend to think about problems (And everything else) differently, so it would be good to get some new perspectives on things. While it's good to be on the "same wavelength" as your team members, it also usually means you're all attacking the problem from the same side, and possibly missing a much better solution.

                Proud to have finally moved to the A-Ark. Which one are you in?
                Author of the Guardians Saga (Sci-Fi/Fantasy novels)

                J Offline
                J Offline
                J Dunlap
                wrote on last edited by
                #44

                Ian Shlasko wrote:

                Honestly, I wish we had more (talented) female developers, and not for the reasons you think... Men and women tend to think about problems (And everything else) differently, so it would be good to get some new perspectives on things. While it's good to be on the "same wavelength" as your team members, it also usually means you're all attacking the problem from the same side, and possibly missing a much better solution.

                Definitely agreed. This could also be applied to a lot of other areas, including the reverse in more female-dominated areas. Unfortunately, it seems (from my limited experience) that the minority gender often has a harder time influencing things because it goes against the dominant way of thinking.

                R 1 Reply Last reply
                0
                • I Ian Shlasko

                  Can't speak to the salary issue, as I've never been on the management side, but dunno about the rest... I haven't worked with many female techies... I can recall two programmers (One talented, one waste of oxygen), and I think two or three in QA (Not sure of their skill level). Back in college (University, for you non-USians), I don't remember seeing more than three or four women in all of my Computer Science classes combined... At least when I went to college (Right around 2000), very few women were going to school to learn how to program, and the few I knew really weren't very skilled. Obviously this isn't definitive proof of anything, as quite a lot of good developers are self-educated. Honestly, I wish we had more (talented) female developers, and not for the reasons you think... Men and women tend to think about problems (And everything else) differently, so it would be good to get some new perspectives on things. While it's good to be on the "same wavelength" as your team members, it also usually means you're all attacking the problem from the same side, and possibly missing a much better solution.

                  Proud to have finally moved to the A-Ark. Which one are you in?
                  Author of the Guardians Saga (Sci-Fi/Fantasy novels)

                  P Offline
                  P Offline
                  Pete OHanlon
                  wrote on last edited by
                  #45

                  Ian Shlasko wrote:

                  Honestly, I wish we had more (talented) female developers, and not for the reasons you think

                  I think Chris has hired most of them.

                  "WPF has many lovers. It's a veritable porn star!" - Josh Smith

                  As Braveheart once said, "You can take our freedom but you'll never take our Hobnobs!" - Martin Hughes.

                  My blog | My articles | MoXAML PowerToys | Onyx

                  1 Reply Last reply
                  0
                  • J J Dunlap

                    Ian Shlasko wrote:

                    Honestly, I wish we had more (talented) female developers, and not for the reasons you think... Men and women tend to think about problems (And everything else) differently, so it would be good to get some new perspectives on things. While it's good to be on the "same wavelength" as your team members, it also usually means you're all attacking the problem from the same side, and possibly missing a much better solution.

                    Definitely agreed. This could also be applied to a lot of other areas, including the reverse in more female-dominated areas. Unfortunately, it seems (from my limited experience) that the minority gender often has a harder time influencing things because it goes against the dominant way of thinking.

                    R Offline
                    R Offline
                    RichardM1
                    wrote on last edited by
                    #46

                    J. Dunlap wrote:

                    the minority gender often has a harder time influencing things

                    That's funny, I'm a guy,and I've never seen that. :rolleyes: There are more women than men in the US. YYMV[^]if dating, check here[^] :-D On the other hand, this says China and India are very male heavy, and getting more so[^], since they control 1/3 world population,they skew the over all statistics the other way.

                    Opacity, the new Transparency.

                    P 1 Reply Last reply
                    0
                    • L Lost User

                      Sadly there is a proportion of the of people who make themselves feel stronger by putting others down, it varies from industry to industry etc. I have seen it by race, gender, snobbery, inverse snobbery etc., even if you didn't go to the right Cambridge college and have the right tutor. Yes, that was the case at one place I went for an interview and I told the agency later I wasn't interested. There was another case where an agency rang up about a vacancy in Cambridge and made sure they told me that the people there "weren't the usual Cambridge type". :doh: By the way, the firm I mentioned where you were looked down on if you weren't one of the 'elite' closed. Mostly because they thought people should be greatful for whatever they did.

                      Join the cool kids - Come fold with us[^]

                      R Offline
                      R Offline
                      RichardM1
                      wrote on last edited by
                      #47

                      You have hit that nail on the head. I remember reading somewhere that the fastest way to get ahead was to pull other people down. I know I am argumentative on here, but that is part of how I view soapbox, etc. The only thing to argue about at work is technical merit of an idea,and personal attacks shouldn't be anywhere in that.

                      Opacity, the new Transparency.

                      L 1 Reply Last reply
                      0
                      • R RichardM1

                        You have hit that nail on the head. I remember reading somewhere that the fastest way to get ahead was to pull other people down. I know I am argumentative on here, but that is part of how I view soapbox, etc. The only thing to argue about at work is technical merit of an idea,and personal attacks shouldn't be anywhere in that.

                        Opacity, the new Transparency.

                        L Offline
                        L Offline
                        Lost User
                        wrote on last edited by
                        #48

                        Captain Fantastic Incident level 4 - there is a wannabe alpha male at work and I manage the video streamers we use for playing back DVB recordings. There was a problem with one of the streamers and he 'knew' that one of the modulator cards was faulty and I 'had to' get the machine out the server room, strip it down etc. etc. and he 'knew' he was right. I power cycled the streamer and everything was fine, the driver for one card had glitched. Second incident in four years running about 70-80 modulators. Guess who was a grumpykins for the rest of that day. :laugh:

                        Join the cool kids - Come fold with us[^]

                        _ R 2 Replies Last reply
                        0
                        • L Lost User

                          Captain Fantastic Incident level 4 - there is a wannabe alpha male at work and I manage the video streamers we use for playing back DVB recordings. There was a problem with one of the streamers and he 'knew' that one of the modulator cards was faulty and I 'had to' get the machine out the server room, strip it down etc. etc. and he 'knew' he was right. I power cycled the streamer and everything was fine, the driver for one card had glitched. Second incident in four years running about 70-80 modulators. Guess who was a grumpykins for the rest of that day. :laugh:

                          Join the cool kids - Come fold with us[^]

                          _ Offline
                          _ Offline
                          _Damian S_
                          wrote on last edited by
                          #49

                          Trollslayer wrote:

                          Guess who was a grumpykins for the rest of that day.

                          You? Damn... I suck at these guessing games!! :laugh:

                          I don't have ADHD, I have ADOS... Attention Deficit oooh SHINY!! If you like cars, check out the Booger Mobile blog | If you feel generous - make a donation to Camp Quality!!

                          1 Reply Last reply
                          0
                          • L Lost User

                            Captain Fantastic Incident level 4 - there is a wannabe alpha male at work and I manage the video streamers we use for playing back DVB recordings. There was a problem with one of the streamers and he 'knew' that one of the modulator cards was faulty and I 'had to' get the machine out the server room, strip it down etc. etc. and he 'knew' he was right. I power cycled the streamer and everything was fine, the driver for one card had glitched. Second incident in four years running about 70-80 modulators. Guess who was a grumpykins for the rest of that day. :laugh:

                            Join the cool kids - Come fold with us[^]

                            R Offline
                            R Offline
                            RichardM1
                            wrote on last edited by
                            #50

                            ;) those damn people who think they know everything ... :rolleyes: I wish I had hardware that reliable!

                            Opacity, the new Transparency.

                            L 1 Reply Last reply
                            0
                            • M Maximilien

                              Being physically at work for many hours does not equate working for that many hours.

                              Watched code never compiles.

                              P Offline
                              P Offline
                              Phil Martin
                              wrote on last edited by
                              #51

                              That is exactly what 'working' means if you work in an office. Productivity is the measure of how much work is being generated while 'at work'. I work from home, so I tally my work hours a little differently. If I sit at the screen staring for no apparent reason, I get up and do something else and I don't count those hours as 'working'. Those in an office environment usually don't have that luxury, so the mental downtime still counts as work.

                              1 Reply Last reply
                              0
                              • R RichardM1

                                J. Dunlap wrote:

                                the minority gender often has a harder time influencing things

                                That's funny, I'm a guy,and I've never seen that. :rolleyes: There are more women than men in the US. YYMV[^]if dating, check here[^] :-D On the other hand, this says China and India are very male heavy, and getting more so[^], since they control 1/3 world population,they skew the over all statistics the other way.

                                Opacity, the new Transparency.

                                P Offline
                                P Offline
                                Phil Martin
                                wrote on last edited by
                                #52

                                I have. The wife was a teacher and in Australia schools are very female dominated. At the schools my wife has been to, male teachers get denigrated and ignored on a regular basis. I hope its not the case everywhere, but since everyone else is talking in generalisations, I summarise it like this: People suck.

                                P 1 Reply Last reply
                                0
                                • M Maximilien

                                  Being physically at work for many hours does not equate working for that many hours.

                                  Watched code never compiles.

                                  P Offline
                                  P Offline
                                  peterchen
                                  wrote on last edited by
                                  #53

                                  Being physically at work less hours doesn't mean, either.

                                  Agh! Reality! My Archnemesis![^]
                                  | FoldWithUs! | sighist | µLaunch - program launcher for server core and hyper-v server.

                                  P 1 Reply Last reply
                                  0
                                  • R RichardM1

                                    ;) those damn people who think they know everything ... :rolleyes: I wish I had hardware that reliable!

                                    Opacity, the new Transparency.

                                    L Offline
                                    L Offline
                                    Lost User
                                    wrote on last edited by
                                    #54

                                    RichardM1 wrote:

                                    those damn people who think they know everything

                                    Yeah, they really annoy those of us that do. ;)

                                    Join the cool kids - Come fold with us[^]

                                    1 Reply Last reply
                                    0
                                    • I Ian Shlasko

                                      Can't speak to the salary issue, as I've never been on the management side, but dunno about the rest... I haven't worked with many female techies... I can recall two programmers (One talented, one waste of oxygen), and I think two or three in QA (Not sure of their skill level). Back in college (University, for you non-USians), I don't remember seeing more than three or four women in all of my Computer Science classes combined... At least when I went to college (Right around 2000), very few women were going to school to learn how to program, and the few I knew really weren't very skilled. Obviously this isn't definitive proof of anything, as quite a lot of good developers are self-educated. Honestly, I wish we had more (talented) female developers, and not for the reasons you think... Men and women tend to think about problems (And everything else) differently, so it would be good to get some new perspectives on things. While it's good to be on the "same wavelength" as your team members, it also usually means you're all attacking the problem from the same side, and possibly missing a much better solution.

                                      Proud to have finally moved to the A-Ark. Which one are you in?
                                      Author of the Guardians Saga (Sci-Fi/Fantasy novels)

                                      L Offline
                                      L Offline
                                      Lost User
                                      wrote on last edited by
                                      #55

                                      ...Men and women tend to think about problems (And everything else) differently, so... In my experience this does not help with solving problems. It creates them.

                                      A while ago he asked me what he should have printed on my business cards. I said 'Wizard'. I read books which nobody else understand. Then I do something which nobody understands. After that the computer does something which nobody understands. When asked, I say things about the results which nobody understand. But everybody expects miracles from me on a regular basis. Looks to me like the classical definition of a wizard.

                                      1 Reply Last reply
                                      0
                                      • P peterchen

                                        Being physically at work less hours doesn't mean, either.

                                        Agh! Reality! My Archnemesis![^]
                                        | FoldWithUs! | sighist | µLaunch - program launcher for server core and hyper-v server.

                                        P Offline
                                        P Offline
                                        puromtec1
                                        wrote on last edited by
                                        #56

                                        if you want to move the discussion away from numbers and into our own little slices of perception in our minds...consider this... I assume that you are assuming a general disconnect between quality of employee and promotions and believe it is due to a 'social injustice' (that can't be proven). Then, I could say that I think that long work hours, regardless of their value, tend to create the impression of a good employee, leading them to get a promotion--even while they maybe worth -$ to their business.

                                        P 1 Reply Last reply
                                        0
                                        • P Phil Martin

                                          I have. The wife was a teacher and in Australia schools are very female dominated. At the schools my wife has been to, male teachers get denigrated and ignored on a regular basis. I hope its not the case everywhere, but since everyone else is talking in generalisations, I summarise it like this: People suck.

                                          P Offline
                                          P Offline
                                          PIEBALDconsult
                                          wrote on last edited by
                                          #57

                                          "To summarize the summary of the summary, people are a problem." -- Douglas Adams

                                          1 Reply Last reply
                                          0
                                          Reply
                                          • Reply as topic
                                          Log in to reply
                                          • Oldest to Newest
                                          • Newest to Oldest
                                          • Most Votes


                                          • Login

                                          • Don't have an account? Register

                                          • Login or register to search.
                                          • First post
                                            Last post
                                          0
                                          • Categories
                                          • Recent
                                          • Tags
                                          • Popular
                                          • World
                                          • Users
                                          • Groups