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  • P Pete OHanlon

    Actually, I have just read the first page rather than his rant against me. It seems like GAMerritt is entirely too impressed with his own intelligence and doesn't realise that starting a discussion from the middle of a thought and not finishing the same thought isn't going to get people involved in reasoned debate.

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    Oakman
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    Pete O'Hanlon wrote:

    sn't going to get people involved in reasoned debate.

    Pete, I have great respect for you as a coder and as an author, but calling what he originally wrote, "bilge," was hardly involving yourself in reasoned debate either. You can argue that what he wrote deserved short shrift, but it seemed to me that you were being deliberately inflammatory in your original response.

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      Pete O'Hanlon wrote:

      sn't going to get people involved in reasoned debate.

      Pete, I have great respect for you as a coder and as an author, but calling what he originally wrote, "bilge," was hardly involving yourself in reasoned debate either. You can argue that what he wrote deserved short shrift, but it seemed to me that you were being deliberately inflammatory in your original response.

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      Pete OHanlon
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      Oakman wrote:

      but calling what he originally wrote, "bilge," was hardly involving yourself in reasoned debate either

      I didn't say the reasoned debate would be with me, now did I. I would have had far more respect for him if he'd come back and attacked my post in the lounge, or stated why I was wrong there. To go off and create an anonymous page elsewhere is cowardly though, so I am not inclined to give him the benefit of the doubt. With the greatest respect to the poster, he posted a rant that assumed a US-centric stance. Now, at no point in this post did he state that he was interested in this from the point of view of an American audience only. As this is an international site I took exception to the implication that a US point of view would be applicable outside the US (hence my comments on Syria). The mistake he made here was not to state that this was purely for US consumption, as we have seen so many posts where there is an assumption that the rest of the world will fall into line. I appreciate that my point of view here will not be popular with the US members of the site, but I have a suspicion that many none-US members feel the same way. On this point, I think we'll probably have to agree to disagree. As regards to whether I was being deliberately inflamatory, that was not my intention. My intention was to purely to point out that there are other POVs than an American one - granted I was harsh in my approach, but the sheer arrogance of the rant was enough to trigger my vituperative gene. I appreciate, also, that my answer probably comes across as arrogant, but that's kind of tough because you also know me well enough to know that I am arrogant to the point of upper-class. Had he stuck with his post to a personal attack on me, then I'd have been OK with it (it actually made me grin, and if I couldn't take somebody having a go at me, then I have no right to dish it out), but he has effectively said that we are all too stupid to understand his point of view. I'm fine with him thinking I'm a stupid ass, but I won't have him denigrating all the people who replied.

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      • G GAMerritt

        Re: The Lounge, and some of you. Here's what I have to say about it, in detail: http://cqvis.zxq.net/CMT/POH1.html[^]

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        R Giskard Reventlov
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        I think you might be taking yourself a bit too seriously.

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        • P Pete OHanlon

          Oakman wrote:

          but calling what he originally wrote, "bilge," was hardly involving yourself in reasoned debate either

          I didn't say the reasoned debate would be with me, now did I. I would have had far more respect for him if he'd come back and attacked my post in the lounge, or stated why I was wrong there. To go off and create an anonymous page elsewhere is cowardly though, so I am not inclined to give him the benefit of the doubt. With the greatest respect to the poster, he posted a rant that assumed a US-centric stance. Now, at no point in this post did he state that he was interested in this from the point of view of an American audience only. As this is an international site I took exception to the implication that a US point of view would be applicable outside the US (hence my comments on Syria). The mistake he made here was not to state that this was purely for US consumption, as we have seen so many posts where there is an assumption that the rest of the world will fall into line. I appreciate that my point of view here will not be popular with the US members of the site, but I have a suspicion that many none-US members feel the same way. On this point, I think we'll probably have to agree to disagree. As regards to whether I was being deliberately inflamatory, that was not my intention. My intention was to purely to point out that there are other POVs than an American one - granted I was harsh in my approach, but the sheer arrogance of the rant was enough to trigger my vituperative gene. I appreciate, also, that my answer probably comes across as arrogant, but that's kind of tough because you also know me well enough to know that I am arrogant to the point of upper-class. Had he stuck with his post to a personal attack on me, then I'd have been OK with it (it actually made me grin, and if I couldn't take somebody having a go at me, then I have no right to dish it out), but he has effectively said that we are all too stupid to understand his point of view. I'm fine with him thinking I'm a stupid ass, but I won't have him denigrating all the people who replied.

          Forgive your enemies - it messes with their heads

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          Oakman
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          I appreciate your measured response and I certainly agree that there can be other points of view besides the American, believing as I do that everyone has the right to be wrong. ;)

          Pete O'Hanlon wrote:

          I appreciate, also, that my answer probably comes across as arrogant, but that's kind of tough because you also know me well enough to know that I am arrogant to the point of upper-class.

          Arrogance has never bothered me when it's backed by competence.

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          • O Oakman

            I appreciate your measured response and I certainly agree that there can be other points of view besides the American, believing as I do that everyone has the right to be wrong. ;)

            Pete O'Hanlon wrote:

            I appreciate, also, that my answer probably comes across as arrogant, but that's kind of tough because you also know me well enough to know that I am arrogant to the point of upper-class.

            Arrogance has never bothered me when it's backed by competence.

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            Oakman wrote:

            Arrogance has never bothered me when it's backed by competence.

            A classic quote. If it is original I shall use it and attribute it to you! <Edit> I see it is not original.[^] </Edit> Still good though.

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            • O Oakman

              I appreciate your measured response and I certainly agree that there can be other points of view besides the American, believing as I do that everyone has the right to be wrong. ;)

              Pete O'Hanlon wrote:

              I appreciate, also, that my answer probably comes across as arrogant, but that's kind of tough because you also know me well enough to know that I am arrogant to the point of upper-class.

              Arrogance has never bothered me when it's backed by competence.

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              Pete OHanlon
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              Oakman wrote:

              I certainly agree that there can be other points of view besides the American, believing as I do that everyone has the right to be wrong

              :laugh:

              Oakman wrote:

              Arrogance has never bothered me when it's backed by competence.

              I'm screwed then.

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                Dalek Dave wrote:

                the bastardised abuse version favoured across the Atlantic.

                Which is merely English of 3 centuries ago. And sicne it predates the English spoken in England today... English is already a dogs dinner of a language. No amount of misuse could make it any worse. :)

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                :thumbsup:

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                • G GAMerritt

                  Re: The Lounge, and some of you. Here's what I have to say about it, in detail: http://cqvis.zxq.net/CMT/POH1.html[^]

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                  You write a long post about some politcal idea saying that this "they" everyone is worried about should be allowed to access your SQL data to a forum that explicitly forbids political discussions and discourages long posts, when you could have just as easily marked your post as long and posted it in a forum that allows political discussion. Then you get so angry when people take the piss out of you for transgressing the rules that you feel compelled to write a website highlighting the flames you recieved, thus reiterating the association of your name with the phrase "disconnected, paranioa raddled consciousness". Overreact much?

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                  • P Pete OHanlon

                    Oakman wrote:

                    I certainly agree that there can be other points of view besides the American, believing as I do that everyone has the right to be wrong

                    :laugh:

                    Oakman wrote:

                    Arrogance has never bothered me when it's backed by competence.

                    I'm screwed then.

                    Forgive your enemies - it messes with their heads

                    My blog | My articles | MoXAML PowerToys | Mole 2010 - debugging made easier - my favourite utility

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                    Pete O'Hanlon wrote:

                    I'm screwed then.

                    Most of us are - hopefully by attractive and eager women.

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                    • D Dalek Dave

                      Oakman wrote:

                      Arrogance has never bothered me when it's backed by competence.

                      A classic quote. If it is original I shall use it and attribute it to you! <Edit> I see it is not original.[^] </Edit> Still good though.

                      ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave CCC Link[^] Trolls[^]

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                      Oakman
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                      Dave, do you really think I would spend enough time on a site that used tweety-birds as avatars??? X| I am sure that neither the thought nor the phrasing is particularly unique to me, and it's possible that I have forgotten reading it, but I assure you that I am quite sure that I was not inspired by that site. Show me one with Sylvester on it and that's a possibility. ;)

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                      • G GAMerritt

                        Thanks for finding that dead link for me. I probably wouldn't have noticed that for another month, at least.

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                        BTW it's still dead

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                        • G GAMerritt

                          Thanks for finding that dead link for me. I probably wouldn't have noticed that for another month, at least.

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                          Prerak Patel
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                          You should link it as http://cqvis.zxq.net/index.html[^] or http://cqvis.zxq.net[^]

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                          • P Prerak Patel

                            You should link it as http://cqvis.zxq.net/index.html[^] or http://cqvis.zxq.net[^]

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                            Oakman
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                            Prerak Patel wrote:

                            You should link it as http://cqvis.zxq.net/index.html[^] or http://cqvis.zxq.net[^]

                            Helpfulness: the cruelest cut of all.

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