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  • M Marc Clifton

    It's been suggested to me that I ought to look into life coaching, not because of my horrible programming talents, haha, but as a result of mentoring some (mostly) younger people over the last couple of years--don't get any inappropriate thoughts in your head--the feedback has been that I'm actually rather good at this nebulous term "life coaching". So, I'm curious, does anyone else here do anything that might fall under that category? I've been researching the topic a bit, and there sure is a lot of, well, garbage out there related to the idea, but I'd be interested in some actual professional training (and no, I'm not interested in a degree in psychology.) Marc

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    A friend of mine (in Australia) does this for a living.  He seems to be pretty successful. /ravi

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    • M Marc Clifton

      It's been suggested to me that I ought to look into life coaching, not because of my horrible programming talents, haha, but as a result of mentoring some (mostly) younger people over the last couple of years--don't get any inappropriate thoughts in your head--the feedback has been that I'm actually rather good at this nebulous term "life coaching". So, I'm curious, does anyone else here do anything that might fall under that category? I've been researching the topic a bit, and there sure is a lot of, well, garbage out there related to the idea, but I'd be interested in some actual professional training (and no, I'm not interested in a degree in psychology.) Marc

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      Tim Corey
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      I found myself needing to hire college students fresh out of school in order to keep the payroll down. I ended up teaching them how to work, but I found myself also teaching them how to live. I actually started to structure that into my plans so I could be a bit more intentional about it. I found that if I didn't work on the whole person, things tended to fall apart at work. In a way, I guess I became their life coach. I still keep in contact with a couple of them, even after they (and I) moved on. Most of my experience was very similar to being a dad to them. I found that the best management/coaching books on the subject ended up matching a lot of the things that are said in good parenting books (especially the parenting for teens books). The summary of everything I found is as follows: Care about them as a whole person. If you do that, you are well on your way to being an excellent life coach, or whatever you call it.

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        I found myself needing to hire college students fresh out of school in order to keep the payroll down. I ended up teaching them how to work, but I found myself also teaching them how to live. I actually started to structure that into my plans so I could be a bit more intentional about it. I found that if I didn't work on the whole person, things tended to fall apart at work. In a way, I guess I became their life coach. I still keep in contact with a couple of them, even after they (and I) moved on. Most of my experience was very similar to being a dad to them. I found that the best management/coaching books on the subject ended up matching a lot of the things that are said in good parenting books (especially the parenting for teens books). The summary of everything I found is as follows: Care about them as a whole person. If you do that, you are well on your way to being an excellent life coach, or whatever you call it.

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        Marc Clifton
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        Tim Corey wrote:

        Care about them as a whole person.

        Exactly. That's been my experience. And yes to the parenting as well. :) Marc

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        • M Marc Clifton

          It's been suggested to me that I ought to look into life coaching, not because of my horrible programming talents, haha, but as a result of mentoring some (mostly) younger people over the last couple of years--don't get any inappropriate thoughts in your head--the feedback has been that I'm actually rather good at this nebulous term "life coaching". So, I'm curious, does anyone else here do anything that might fall under that category? I've been researching the topic a bit, and there sure is a lot of, well, garbage out there related to the idea, but I'd be interested in some actual professional training (and no, I'm not interested in a degree in psychology.) Marc

          Reverse Engineering Legacy Applications
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          Ennis Ray Lynch Jr
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          I voted no confidence many years ago when I let my voters registration expire.

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          • M Marc Clifton

            It's been suggested to me that I ought to look into life coaching, not because of my horrible programming talents, haha, but as a result of mentoring some (mostly) younger people over the last couple of years--don't get any inappropriate thoughts in your head--the feedback has been that I'm actually rather good at this nebulous term "life coaching". So, I'm curious, does anyone else here do anything that might fall under that category? I've been researching the topic a bit, and there sure is a lot of, well, garbage out there related to the idea, but I'd be interested in some actual professional training (and no, I'm not interested in a degree in psychology.) Marc

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            Isn't life coach just another term for unemployed? Like consultant?

            There are only 10 types of people in the world, those who understand binary and those who don't.

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              Isn't life coach just another term for unemployed? Like consultant?

              There are only 10 types of people in the world, those who understand binary and those who don't.

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              I thought life coach was another term for wife.:~

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              • M Marc Clifton

                It's been suggested to me that I ought to look into life coaching, not because of my horrible programming talents, haha, but as a result of mentoring some (mostly) younger people over the last couple of years--don't get any inappropriate thoughts in your head--the feedback has been that I'm actually rather good at this nebulous term "life coaching". So, I'm curious, does anyone else here do anything that might fall under that category? I've been researching the topic a bit, and there sure is a lot of, well, garbage out there related to the idea, but I'd be interested in some actual professional training (and no, I'm not interested in a degree in psychology.) Marc

                Reverse Engineering Legacy Applications
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                Anna Jayne Metcalfe
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                Not personally, but we did meet someone at Bournemouth Barcamp who did it: https://twitter.com/alightheart[^]

                Anna :rose: Tech Blog | Visual Lint "Why would anyone prefer to wield a weapon that takes both hands at once, when they could use a lighter (and obviously superior) weapon that allows you to wield multiple ones at a time, and thus supports multi-paradigm carnage?"

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                • M Marc Clifton

                  It's been suggested to me that I ought to look into life coaching, not because of my horrible programming talents, haha, but as a result of mentoring some (mostly) younger people over the last couple of years--don't get any inappropriate thoughts in your head--the feedback has been that I'm actually rather good at this nebulous term "life coaching". So, I'm curious, does anyone else here do anything that might fall under that category? I've been researching the topic a bit, and there sure is a lot of, well, garbage out there related to the idea, but I'd be interested in some actual professional training (and no, I'm not interested in a degree in psychology.) Marc

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                  Andy Brummer
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                  I would have figured it was a bunch of garbage, but I took a time and life management course for work and it changed my opinion. I've got to get some things in order, but I'm going to look the guy up and setup a 5 year plan with him including education and mentors. His website does a very poor job of presenting him, but here it is[^].

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                    Isn't life coach just another term for unemployed? Like consultant?

                    There are only 10 types of people in the world, those who understand binary and those who don't.

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                    Marc Clifton
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                    ryanb31 wrote:

                    Isn't life coach just another term for unemployed? Like consultant?

                    Heh. Funny you should mention that. :~ Marc

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                    • A Andy Brummer

                      I would have figured it was a bunch of garbage, but I took a time and life management course for work and it changed my opinion. I've got to get some things in order, but I'm going to look the guy up and setup a 5 year plan with him including education and mentors. His website does a very poor job of presenting him, but here it is[^].

                      Curvature of the Mind now with 3D

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                      Cool! Thanks! Marc

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                      • A Anna Jayne Metcalfe

                        Not personally, but we did meet someone at Bournemouth Barcamp who did it: https://twitter.com/alightheart[^]

                        Anna :rose: Tech Blog | Visual Lint "Why would anyone prefer to wield a weapon that takes both hands at once, when they could use a lighter (and obviously superior) weapon that allows you to wield multiple ones at a time, and thus supports multi-paradigm carnage?"

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                        Anna-Jayne Metcalfe wrote:

                        but we did meet someone at Bournemouth Barcamp who did it:

                        Thanks! Marc

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                        • RaviBeeR RaviBee

                          A friend of mine (in Australia) does this for a living.  He seems to be pretty successful. /ravi

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                          CG is a life coach?

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                            CG is a life coach?

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                            He may be, but that's not who I was referring to. :) /ravi

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                            • M Marc Clifton

                              It's been suggested to me that I ought to look into life coaching, not because of my horrible programming talents, haha, but as a result of mentoring some (mostly) younger people over the last couple of years--don't get any inappropriate thoughts in your head--the feedback has been that I'm actually rather good at this nebulous term "life coaching". So, I'm curious, does anyone else here do anything that might fall under that category? I've been researching the topic a bit, and there sure is a lot of, well, garbage out there related to the idea, but I'd be interested in some actual professional training (and no, I'm not interested in a degree in psychology.) Marc

                              Reverse Engineering Legacy Applications
                              Vote No Confidence In November
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                              Computational Types in C# and F#

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                              Roger Wright
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                              I've helped to raise a few kids that weren't my own, for short periods of time, and I'm happy to report that they've all turned out great, but I have no idea how one would make a business out of this. I feel a strong sense of moral duty to pass on to youngsters what I've learned in life, if they happen to be smart enough to ask; it would feel wrong to charge for that service. Still, it's a gift beyond value to be granted the wisdom of another who has earned it from the school of life. How many are really capable of understanding and appreciating such a boon? For as long as I've known you, Marc, yours has been a voice of reason and tolerance. If anyone here is qualified to offer such a service, it's you. If you want to try this, I encourage you to do so. I know of no one more qualified or capable. My only worry is that you might be casting pearls before swine. That can lead to bitterness, and that would diminish and demean you. Don't let it get that far, if you decide to pursue this course.

                              Will Rogers never met me.

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                              • M Marc Clifton

                                It's been suggested to me that I ought to look into life coaching, not because of my horrible programming talents, haha, but as a result of mentoring some (mostly) younger people over the last couple of years--don't get any inappropriate thoughts in your head--the feedback has been that I'm actually rather good at this nebulous term "life coaching". So, I'm curious, does anyone else here do anything that might fall under that category? I've been researching the topic a bit, and there sure is a lot of, well, garbage out there related to the idea, but I'd be interested in some actual professional training (and no, I'm not interested in a degree in psychology.) Marc

                                Reverse Engineering Legacy Applications
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                                Mark_Wallace
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                                I don't think you should spend altogether too much time on it. Try a short course: Breathe, eat, sh1t, sleep. Now get back to work.

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                                  He may be, but that's not who I was referring to. :) /ravi

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                                  Ravi Bhavnani wrote:

                                  He may be, but that's not who I was referring to. :)

                                  Sorry to have to tell you Ravi, but I've given up my Anthony Robbins style business.

                                  Michael Martin Australia "I controlled my laughter and simple said "No,I am very busy,so I can't write any code for you". The moment they heard this all the smiling face turned into a sad looking face and one of them farted. So I had to leave the place as soon as possible." - Mr.Prakash One Fine Saturday. 24/04/2004

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                                    Ravi Bhavnani wrote:

                                    He may be, but that's not who I was referring to. :)

                                    Sorry to have to tell you Ravi, but I've given up my Anthony Robbins style business.

                                    Michael Martin Australia "I controlled my laughter and simple said "No,I am very busy,so I can't write any code for you". The moment they heard this all the smiling face turned into a sad looking face and one of them farted. So I had to leave the place as soon as possible." - Mr.Prakash One Fine Saturday. 24/04/2004

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                                    That's too bad.  I'm sure you would've been a rip-roaring success! :-D /ravi

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