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  • A Andrei Straut

    Warning: May trigger tl;dr Just got back from a long, long vacation (2 and a half weeks), and not surprisingly, I find I'm more tired than when I left. No motivation to do any work whatsoever, just lazing around, doing "code review", and thinking about those beautiful, beautiful sunny days. Furthermore, I'm kinda worried, as I took the decision (which I think may have been rash) to go to France. Definitively. My girlfriend left there last year, and managed to secure a comfy job (at Mars...yes, the chocolate Mars) and a master's degree, and she's been pushing me to come to France too. After lots and lots of talks, I finally said yes, so now I'm preparing to leave everything behind and go there - starting October (I'm still looking for a job in Strasbourg, but no luck yet). On the other hand at least, I got a call today from a contractor I have been previously outsourced to, who needed some work on a program I developed a while ago, and seeing as the outsourcing company I used to work for is closed, they came directly to me. And the most important thing, they said they were perfectly ok with me working remotely (it's 1-2 month contract). However, as nothing is for sure yet, I still have nothing, so I still have no guarantee that I'll be fine, so still worried. So, did anyone go through anything like it? Leaving all behind and heading to...well...nothing? Any thoughts or advice? Should I post this in Q&A?

    Full-fledged Java/.NET lover, full-fledged PHP hater. Full-fledged Google/Microsoft lover, full-fledged Apple hater. Full-fledged Skype lover, full-fledged YM hater.

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    JimmyRopes
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    Andrei Straut wrote:

    My girlfriend left [for] there last year, and managed to secure a comfy job ... she's been pushing me to come to France too.

    Andrei Straut wrote:

    So, did anyone go through anything like it? Leaving all behind and heading to...well...nothing?

    I hope your, perhaps former, girlfriend doesn't read this post. :wtf:

    The report of my death was an exaggeration - Mark Twain
    Simply Elegant Designs JimmyRopes Designs
    Think inside the box! ProActive Secure Systems
    I'm on-line therefore I am. JimmyRopes

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    • A Andrei Straut

      Rage wrote:

      and Mars are paying quite good, so....

      Oh no, the girlfriend is with Mars, not me. And she's yet an apprentie, so...

      Rage wrote:

      Alsace is not the worst place on the Earth, so don't worry

      Yeah, I've already been to Strasbourg, actually spent the last year's Christmas and New Year there (the avatar photo is from the Notre Dame). Totally great city :thumbsup: EDIT (Wrongly pressed "Post Message"):

      Rage wrote:

      I would recommend you to look for a job in Germany

      I was also thinking about this too, and I would prefer a job in Germany to a job in France

      Rage wrote:

      Feel free to contact me when you are on Strasbourg, it would be cool to meet a CPian in real life

      Yeah, I was actually thinking about posting something in get-togethers.

      Full-fledged Java/.NET lover, full-fledged PHP hater. Full-fledged Google/Microsoft lover, full-fledged Apple hater. Full-fledged Skype lover, full-fledged YM hater.

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      Rage
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      Andrei Straut wrote:

      Oh no, the girlfriend is with Mars

      And I thought it was the opposite...[^]

      Andrei Straut wrote:

      I would prefer a job in Germany

      monster.de is your friend, then.

      Andrei Straut wrote:

      posting something in get-togethers

      :thumbsup:

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        Andrei Straut wrote:

        My girlfriend left [for] there last year, and managed to secure a comfy job ... she's been pushing me to come to France too.

        Andrei Straut wrote:

        So, did anyone go through anything like it? Leaving all behind and heading to...well...nothing?

        I hope your, perhaps former, girlfriend doesn't read this post. :wtf:

        The report of my death was an exaggeration - Mark Twain
        Simply Elegant Designs JimmyRopes Designs
        Think inside the box! ProActive Secure Systems
        I'm on-line therefore I am. JimmyRopes

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        Andrei Straut
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        Yeah, wrote that post in a bit of a hurry, didn't properly check for mistakes

        JimmyRopes wrote:

        I hope your, perhaps former, girlfriend doesn't read this post. :WTF:

        She is current (5 and a half year now) and I only meant that from the professional point of view (if she ever reads this)

        Full-fledged Java/.NET lover, full-fledged PHP hater. Full-fledged Google/Microsoft lover, full-fledged Apple hater. Full-fledged Skype lover, full-fledged YM hater.

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        • A Andrei Straut

          Yeah, wrote that post in a bit of a hurry, didn't properly check for mistakes

          JimmyRopes wrote:

          I hope your, perhaps former, girlfriend doesn't read this post. :WTF:

          She is current (5 and a half year now) and I only meant that from the professional point of view (if she ever reads this)

          Full-fledged Java/.NET lover, full-fledged PHP hater. Full-fledged Google/Microsoft lover, full-fledged Apple hater. Full-fledged Skype lover, full-fledged YM hater.

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          JimmyRopes
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          Andrei Straut wrote:

          I only meant that from the professional point of view (if she ever reads this)

          She may not get this far down in the thread! :-D

          The report of my death was an exaggeration - Mark Twain
          Simply Elegant Designs JimmyRopes Designs
          Think inside the box! ProActive Secure Systems
          I'm on-line therefore I am. JimmyRopes

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            Andrei Straut wrote:

            I only meant that from the professional point of view (if she ever reads this)

            She may not get this far down in the thread! :-D

            The report of my death was an exaggeration - Mark Twain
            Simply Elegant Designs JimmyRopes Designs
            Think inside the box! ProActive Secure Systems
            I'm on-line therefore I am. JimmyRopes

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            Andrei Straut
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            I should bookmark a permalink to this, just in case. Maybe even make this page available offline

            Full-fledged Java/.NET lover, full-fledged PHP hater. Full-fledged Google/Microsoft lover, full-fledged Apple hater. Full-fledged Skype lover, full-fledged YM hater.

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            • A Andrei Straut

              That's....quite awesome actually. But at this line, it throws a NullReferenceException, and I don't know what to do. andrei.AcceptJob(devJob); Pleez help it's urgentzzzz :thumbsup: 5 for that snippet, really made my day!

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              Lost User
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              andrei must be null ;-)

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              • A Andrei Straut

                Warning: May trigger tl;dr Just got back from a long, long vacation (2 and a half weeks), and not surprisingly, I find I'm more tired than when I left. No motivation to do any work whatsoever, just lazing around, doing "code review", and thinking about those beautiful, beautiful sunny days. Furthermore, I'm kinda worried, as I took the decision (which I think may have been rash) to go to France. Definitively. My girlfriend left there last year, and managed to secure a comfy job (at Mars...yes, the chocolate Mars) and a master's degree, and she's been pushing me to come to France too. After lots and lots of talks, I finally said yes, so now I'm preparing to leave everything behind and go there - starting October (I'm still looking for a job in Strasbourg, but no luck yet). On the other hand at least, I got a call today from a contractor I have been previously outsourced to, who needed some work on a program I developed a while ago, and seeing as the outsourcing company I used to work for is closed, they came directly to me. And the most important thing, they said they were perfectly ok with me working remotely (it's 1-2 month contract). However, as nothing is for sure yet, I still have nothing, so I still have no guarantee that I'll be fine, so still worried. So, did anyone go through anything like it? Leaving all behind and heading to...well...nothing? Any thoughts or advice? Should I post this in Q&A?

                Full-fledged Java/.NET lover, full-fledged PHP hater. Full-fledged Google/Microsoft lover, full-fledged Apple hater. Full-fledged Skype lover, full-fledged YM hater.

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                Dr Walt Fair PE
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                Well, I quit a good job as an ex-pat and moved back home to go back into consulting just when the economy tanked. One has to be a little crazy and an optimist to strike off the beaten path, do something that makes them wonder if they were crazy, etc. Keep up the optimism, work hard, stay busy and things will work out.

                CQ de W5ALT

                Walt Fair, Jr., P. E. Comport Computing Specializing in Technical Engineering Software

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                • A Andrei Straut

                  Warning: May trigger tl;dr Just got back from a long, long vacation (2 and a half weeks), and not surprisingly, I find I'm more tired than when I left. No motivation to do any work whatsoever, just lazing around, doing "code review", and thinking about those beautiful, beautiful sunny days. Furthermore, I'm kinda worried, as I took the decision (which I think may have been rash) to go to France. Definitively. My girlfriend left there last year, and managed to secure a comfy job (at Mars...yes, the chocolate Mars) and a master's degree, and she's been pushing me to come to France too. After lots and lots of talks, I finally said yes, so now I'm preparing to leave everything behind and go there - starting October (I'm still looking for a job in Strasbourg, but no luck yet). On the other hand at least, I got a call today from a contractor I have been previously outsourced to, who needed some work on a program I developed a while ago, and seeing as the outsourcing company I used to work for is closed, they came directly to me. And the most important thing, they said they were perfectly ok with me working remotely (it's 1-2 month contract). However, as nothing is for sure yet, I still have nothing, so I still have no guarantee that I'll be fine, so still worried. So, did anyone go through anything like it? Leaving all behind and heading to...well...nothing? Any thoughts or advice? Should I post this in Q&A?

                  Full-fledged Java/.NET lover, full-fledged PHP hater. Full-fledged Google/Microsoft lover, full-fledged Apple hater. Full-fledged Skype lover, full-fledged YM hater.

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                  Iain Clarke Warrior Programmer
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                  Andrei Straut wrote:

                  So, did anyone go through anything like it? Leaving all behind and heading to...well...nothing?

                  You've already been told off for referring to your better half as "nothing", so I'll resist. Taking your question seriously, I did just that. Left a job in the UK (OK, it wasn't 100% secure, but as much as most jobs were), and moved to Sweden to be with the (now) missus. Luckily, I left my old job pretty amicably and did a bunch of consulting work for them and previous customers. Then someone who read my articles approached me asking me to work for them. The interview was very backwards. Now, I work from home, have new friends, family (including baby boy), occasionally go to the office, and so on. Life ended up pretty good. I suppose I should make more of an effort with the language, but every here is so darn accomodating! That probably wouldn't be so true in DE or FR. Iain.

                  I am one of "those foreigners coming over here and stealing our jobs". Yay me!

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                    Andrei Straut wrote:

                    So, did anyone go through anything like it? Leaving all behind and heading to...well...nothing?

                    You've already been told off for referring to your better half as "nothing", so I'll resist. Taking your question seriously, I did just that. Left a job in the UK (OK, it wasn't 100% secure, but as much as most jobs were), and moved to Sweden to be with the (now) missus. Luckily, I left my old job pretty amicably and did a bunch of consulting work for them and previous customers. Then someone who read my articles approached me asking me to work for them. The interview was very backwards. Now, I work from home, have new friends, family (including baby boy), occasionally go to the office, and so on. Life ended up pretty good. I suppose I should make more of an effort with the language, but every here is so darn accomodating! That probably wouldn't be so true in DE or FR. Iain.

                    I am one of "those foreigners coming over here and stealing our jobs". Yay me!

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                    Iain Clarke, Warrior Programmer wrote:

                    I should make more of an effort with the language, but every here is so darn accomodating! That probably wouldn't be so true in DE or FR

                    Yeah, I heard people are quite picky with foreigners looking for jobs who don't speak the local language, which is perfectly understandable, and I support it.

                    Iain Clarke, Warrior Programmer wrote:

                    Taking your question seriously, I did just that ... Life ended up pretty good

                    It's good to know other people around here did that and ended fine. That's just what I was looking for.

                    Full-fledged Java/.NET lover, full-fledged PHP hater. Full-fledged Google/Microsoft lover, full-fledged Apple hater. Full-fledged Skype lover, full-fledged YM hater.

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                    • D Dr Walt Fair PE

                      Well, I quit a good job as an ex-pat and moved back home to go back into consulting just when the economy tanked. One has to be a little crazy and an optimist to strike off the beaten path, do something that makes them wonder if they were crazy, etc. Keep up the optimism, work hard, stay busy and things will work out.

                      CQ de W5ALT

                      Walt Fair, Jr., P. E. Comport Computing Specializing in Technical Engineering Software

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                      Andrei Straut
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                      Walt Fair, Jr. wrote:

                      Keep up the optimism, work hard, stay busy and things will work out.

                      Yeah, I may be worried, but I'm still optimistic. I'm thinking even if I fail, it's not like I'll die, get shot, starve to death or anything. I can always come back to my country, and try again later. Still, it's a big step to do (even bigger than when I left my local town to go work in Bucharest, which is still a tad away from family and most of the people I know), taking into consideration that I'm accustomed to supporting the future missus, and not the other way around (although I'm thinking it'll be fun to be the wife in the house, at least for a while :) )

                      Full-fledged Java/.NET lover, full-fledged PHP hater. Full-fledged Google/Microsoft lover, full-fledged Apple hater. Full-fledged Skype lover, full-fledged YM hater.

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                      • A Andrei Straut

                        Warning: May trigger tl;dr Just got back from a long, long vacation (2 and a half weeks), and not surprisingly, I find I'm more tired than when I left. No motivation to do any work whatsoever, just lazing around, doing "code review", and thinking about those beautiful, beautiful sunny days. Furthermore, I'm kinda worried, as I took the decision (which I think may have been rash) to go to France. Definitively. My girlfriend left there last year, and managed to secure a comfy job (at Mars...yes, the chocolate Mars) and a master's degree, and she's been pushing me to come to France too. After lots and lots of talks, I finally said yes, so now I'm preparing to leave everything behind and go there - starting October (I'm still looking for a job in Strasbourg, but no luck yet). On the other hand at least, I got a call today from a contractor I have been previously outsourced to, who needed some work on a program I developed a while ago, and seeing as the outsourcing company I used to work for is closed, they came directly to me. And the most important thing, they said they were perfectly ok with me working remotely (it's 1-2 month contract). However, as nothing is for sure yet, I still have nothing, so I still have no guarantee that I'll be fine, so still worried. So, did anyone go through anything like it? Leaving all behind and heading to...well...nothing? Any thoughts or advice? Should I post this in Q&A?

                        Full-fledged Java/.NET lover, full-fledged PHP hater. Full-fledged Google/Microsoft lover, full-fledged Apple hater. Full-fledged Skype lover, full-fledged YM hater.

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                        wizardzz
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                        You're girlfriend works for a chocolate company? Then what the hell do you buy her when you fuck up?

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                        • W wizardzz

                          You're girlfriend works for a chocolate company? Then what the hell do you buy her when you fuck up?

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                          Andrei Straut
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                          The only other thing that works. Flowers

                          Full-fledged Java/.NET lover, full-fledged PHP hater. Full-fledged Google/Microsoft lover, full-fledged Apple hater. Full-fledged Skype lover, full-fledged YM hater.

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