Thanks for the kind words. For something that affects so many families, I have been astounded at the lack of quality information and the overwhelming prevalence of misguided stereotypes. I hope with this we can help make the situation a little better for Fathers whose marriages don't work out. The ultimate goal of our effort is to install what's called "rebuttable presumption of equal shared parenting." The idea being that the court would assume both parents are equal, and should spend equal time with the kids, unless there is some reason that's not a good idea like mental illness, disability, extreme work commitments, etc. I truly believe that if this was enacted (and many jurisdictions are on the cusp of doing in, Australia and Tennessee for example) it would take a lot of the aggressiveness and anger out of divorce. Right now, the "winner" gets the house, the kids and most of the money and so they fight tooth and nail for it. The "Loser" becomes a bit player in their kids lives and is rather traumatically forced to go out, broke, and start a new life from scratch. If you know any separated fathers, please send them an email and introduce them to the site! http://answers.modernfather.com/[^] http://blog.modernfather.com/[^]