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  • D Dalek Dave

    aspdotnetdev wrote:

    I'm going to expertsexchange.com!

    Too right, nothing worse than a amateur sexchange!

    ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave

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    AspDotNetDev
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    If I get one of those, I figure that opens up a world of possibilities for me here at Code Project. :rolleyes:

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    • M Michel Godfroid

      When answering questions, I find myself always referring to other OP's as 'he' or 'him'. Now if I see the person's full name (and it's a Western Name), that may be all right. However, lots of OP's use aliases, and to be honest, I'm at odds to determine a person's sex from his/her name when it's an African or Asian name. On the other hand, I don't want to write he/she or her/him all the time, as it cramps my style, and wears out the keyboard. Would it be a good idea to add this information to the OP's profile, and maybe overlay the OP's icon with a little symbol that allows us to address people politely and correctly? (Chris, and think of the data mining possibilities: statistics on the battle of the sexes, who gets the most 5's, who writes the most crap articles? :-D )

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      Super Lloyd
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      How about addressing people as 'it'?!? ;P

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      • M Michel Godfroid

        When answering questions, I find myself always referring to other OP's as 'he' or 'him'. Now if I see the person's full name (and it's a Western Name), that may be all right. However, lots of OP's use aliases, and to be honest, I'm at odds to determine a person's sex from his/her name when it's an African or Asian name. On the other hand, I don't want to write he/she or her/him all the time, as it cramps my style, and wears out the keyboard. Would it be a good idea to add this information to the OP's profile, and maybe overlay the OP's icon with a little symbol that allows us to address people politely and correctly? (Chris, and think of the data mining possibilities: statistics on the battle of the sexes, who gets the most 5's, who writes the most crap articles? :-D )

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        CPallini
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        Solving such 'sexism' problem is easy: let's remove all accounts of 'females' from CodeProject. :rolleyes:

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        • CPalliniC CPallini

          Solving such 'sexism' problem is easy: let's remove all accounts of 'females' from CodeProject. :rolleyes:

          If the Lord God Almighty had consulted me before embarking upon the Creation, I would have recommended something simpler. -- Alfonso the Wise, 13th Century King of Castile.
          This is going on my arrogant assumptions. You may have a superb reason why I'm completely wrong. -- Iain Clarke
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          Michel Godfroid
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          CPallini wrote:

          let's remove all accounts of 'females' from CodeProject

          You'll have to find them before you shoot them... :laugh:

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          • M Michel Godfroid

            CPallini wrote:

            let's remove all accounts of 'females' from CodeProject

            You'll have to find them before you shoot them... :laugh:

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            CPallini
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            When in doubt, shoot! :-D

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            This is going on my arrogant assumptions. You may have a superb reason why I'm completely wrong. -- Iain Clarke
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            • M Michel Godfroid

              When answering questions, I find myself always referring to other OP's as 'he' or 'him'. Now if I see the person's full name (and it's a Western Name), that may be all right. However, lots of OP's use aliases, and to be honest, I'm at odds to determine a person's sex from his/her name when it's an African or Asian name. On the other hand, I don't want to write he/she or her/him all the time, as it cramps my style, and wears out the keyboard. Would it be a good idea to add this information to the OP's profile, and maybe overlay the OP's icon with a little symbol that allows us to address people politely and correctly? (Chris, and think of the data mining possibilities: statistics on the battle of the sexes, who gets the most 5's, who writes the most crap articles? :-D )

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              Lost User
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              Unless you go to the bother of using gender neutral pronouns this would cause more trouble that it's worth. If someone is actually sexist it gets dealth with. Trust me. ;) Signed The Tigress :laugh:

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              • M Michel Godfroid

                When answering questions, I find myself always referring to other OP's as 'he' or 'him'. Now if I see the person's full name (and it's a Western Name), that may be all right. However, lots of OP's use aliases, and to be honest, I'm at odds to determine a person's sex from his/her name when it's an African or Asian name. On the other hand, I don't want to write he/she or her/him all the time, as it cramps my style, and wears out the keyboard. Would it be a good idea to add this information to the OP's profile, and maybe overlay the OP's icon with a little symbol that allows us to address people politely and correctly? (Chris, and think of the data mining possibilities: statistics on the battle of the sexes, who gets the most 5's, who writes the most crap articles? :-D )

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                peterchen
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                Sexism, a term coined in the mid-20th century,[1] is the belief or attitude that one gender or sex is inferior to, less competent, or less valuable than the other. Calling an anonymous poster "him" on this forum is, basically, good old statistics. I don't say "him" because I think a girl can't program, I say "him" because it's right significantly more often. Feel free to downvote me for my next statement: If she feels discriminated by having to point out my mistake to receive the correct attribution, it's not my problem. Get help, or at least learn to ask for it. If there are 5 girls on this world who won't enter CompSci because they have been called "he" on a forum two times in a row, get lost. You ego is in the way, not your gender.

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                • M Michel Godfroid

                  When answering questions, I find myself always referring to other OP's as 'he' or 'him'. Now if I see the person's full name (and it's a Western Name), that may be all right. However, lots of OP's use aliases, and to be honest, I'm at odds to determine a person's sex from his/her name when it's an African or Asian name. On the other hand, I don't want to write he/she or her/him all the time, as it cramps my style, and wears out the keyboard. Would it be a good idea to add this information to the OP's profile, and maybe overlay the OP's icon with a little symbol that allows us to address people politely and correctly? (Chris, and think of the data mining possibilities: statistics on the battle of the sexes, who gets the most 5's, who writes the most crap articles? :-D )

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                  Amarnath S
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                  Use (s)he. Regarding his/her, I'm still thinking.

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                  • D Dalek Dave

                    aspdotnetdev wrote:

                    I'm going to expertsexchange.com!

                    Too right, nothing worse than a amateur sexchange!

                    ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave

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                    KenBonny
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                    You mean the guy who wanted to be a Eunichs Developer? (Saw his sig and found it funny, can't remember who's sig that is though.)

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                    • D Dalek Dave

                      Girls? We got Girls? Real Girls? Real Girls with girly hair and skirts type girls? MMMMMMmmmmm!

                      ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave

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                      peterchen
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                      Yes, with and guns and claws and compilers and all that other girly stuff. As you said, real girls.

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                      • M Michel Godfroid

                        When answering questions, I find myself always referring to other OP's as 'he' or 'him'. Now if I see the person's full name (and it's a Western Name), that may be all right. However, lots of OP's use aliases, and to be honest, I'm at odds to determine a person's sex from his/her name when it's an African or Asian name. On the other hand, I don't want to write he/she or her/him all the time, as it cramps my style, and wears out the keyboard. Would it be a good idea to add this information to the OP's profile, and maybe overlay the OP's icon with a little symbol that allows us to address people politely and correctly? (Chris, and think of the data mining possibilities: statistics on the battle of the sexes, who gets the most 5's, who writes the most crap articles? :-D )

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                        KenBonny
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                        Put a disclaimer in your sig, something like: "Dear reader, since I do not know your gender and because I think it is irrelevant to our discussion. I will henceforth address everybody, male or female, with a male attribution to make my writing more enjoyable to read. I appologise for any inconvenience I may have caused you or your momma."

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                        • M Michel Godfroid

                          When answering questions, I find myself always referring to other OP's as 'he' or 'him'. Now if I see the person's full name (and it's a Western Name), that may be all right. However, lots of OP's use aliases, and to be honest, I'm at odds to determine a person's sex from his/her name when it's an African or Asian name. On the other hand, I don't want to write he/she or her/him all the time, as it cramps my style, and wears out the keyboard. Would it be a good idea to add this information to the OP's profile, and maybe overlay the OP's icon with a little symbol that allows us to address people politely and correctly? (Chris, and think of the data mining possibilities: statistics on the battle of the sexes, who gets the most 5's, who writes the most crap articles? :-D )

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                          Rage
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                          Michel Godfroid wrote:

                          to add this information to the OP's profile,

                          Holding this piece of information in a database is illegal in France.

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                          • D Dalek Dave

                            Girls? We got Girls? Real Girls? Real Girls with girly hair and skirts type girls? MMMMMMmmmmm!

                            ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave

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                            Steven J Jowett
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                            Dalek Dave wrote:

                            Girls? We got Girls? Real Girls?

                            Only the one's that rightly believe that "Once you've had geek, you've reached your peak!!!"

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                            • M Michel Godfroid

                              When answering questions, I find myself always referring to other OP's as 'he' or 'him'. Now if I see the person's full name (and it's a Western Name), that may be all right. However, lots of OP's use aliases, and to be honest, I'm at odds to determine a person's sex from his/her name when it's an African or Asian name. On the other hand, I don't want to write he/she or her/him all the time, as it cramps my style, and wears out the keyboard. Would it be a good idea to add this information to the OP's profile, and maybe overlay the OP's icon with a little symbol that allows us to address people politely and correctly? (Chris, and think of the data mining possibilities: statistics on the battle of the sexes, who gets the most 5's, who writes the most crap articles? :-D )

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                              Steven J Jowett
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                              Michel Godfroid wrote:

                              I don't want to write he/she or her/him all the time, as it cramps my style, and wears out the keyboard.

                              Have you not realised that words 'He' and 'She' both contain H and E and that 'Him' and 'Her' are 3 characters in length. So I think you're mistaken about wearing out your keyboard. In fact refering to someone as 'He' and 'Him' would prolong the life of your keyboard. I love being a smart-arse :-D

                              Steve Jowett ------------------------- Real programmers don't comment their code. If it was hard to write, it should be hard to read.

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                              • R Rage

                                Michel Godfroid wrote:

                                to add this information to the OP's profile,

                                Holding this piece of information in a database is illegal in France.

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                                Michel Godfroid
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                                Rage wrote:

                                Holding this piece of information in a database is illegal in France

                                I think it's illegal in most European Countries, if your database is held in the confines of the EU. (you have to register your database with the authorities) However you must also allow people to change the information you keep about them, so gender changers, welcome :-)

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                                • M Michel Godfroid

                                  aspdotnetdev wrote:

                                  I'm going to assume you're a man

                                  Was last time I looked, but I find myself sitting down on the toilet more and more often, due to my advanced age :-D

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                                  • M Michel Godfroid

                                    When answering questions, I find myself always referring to other OP's as 'he' or 'him'. Now if I see the person's full name (and it's a Western Name), that may be all right. However, lots of OP's use aliases, and to be honest, I'm at odds to determine a person's sex from his/her name when it's an African or Asian name. On the other hand, I don't want to write he/she or her/him all the time, as it cramps my style, and wears out the keyboard. Would it be a good idea to add this information to the OP's profile, and maybe overlay the OP's icon with a little symbol that allows us to address people politely and correctly? (Chris, and think of the data mining possibilities: statistics on the battle of the sexes, who gets the most 5's, who writes the most crap articles? :-D )

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                                    If a woman here wants it known that's she's not man, and her user ID doesn't actually suggest her gender (like "Trollslayer"), she'll say something when she gets tired of being referred to as he/him. Given that an overwhelming percentage of programmers are male, I would say that putting too much time into being politically correct is a huge waste of time.

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                                      If a woman here wants it known that's she's not man, and her user ID doesn't actually suggest her gender (like "Trollslayer"), she'll say something when she gets tired of being referred to as he/him. Given that an overwhelming percentage of programmers are male, I would say that putting too much time into being politically correct is a huge waste of time.

                                      .45 ACP - because shooting twice is just silly
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                                      "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt, 1997
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                                      "The staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - J. Jystad, 2001

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                                      Dalek Dave
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                                      No-one's name indicates their gender. Nor, in fact, their sex. For example, Hillary may be male or female, and my MD is called Patrick Mary Joseph Tattan. Even your name only indicates your sex, however, your gender is your own business. (I suspect masculine though, given the posts). However, as you say, anyone who wishes to be addressed in the correct personal pronoun ought at some point indicate which would be the correct one.

                                      ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave

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                                      • realJSOPR realJSOP

                                        If a woman here wants it known that's she's not man, and her user ID doesn't actually suggest her gender (like "Trollslayer"), she'll say something when she gets tired of being referred to as he/him. Given that an overwhelming percentage of programmers are male, I would say that putting too much time into being politically correct is a huge waste of time.

                                        .45 ACP - because shooting twice is just silly
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                                        "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt, 1997
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                                        "The staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - J. Jystad, 2001

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                                        Rage
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                                        John Simmons / outlaw programmer wrote:

                                        putting too much time into being politically correct is a huge waste of time

                                        This is IMHO always true. Politically correct is BS.

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                                        • L Lost User

                                          Unless you go to the bother of using gender neutral pronouns this would cause more trouble that it's worth. If someone is actually sexist it gets dealth with. Trust me. ;) Signed The Tigress :laugh:

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                                          Henry Minute
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                                          Well said sir!

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