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  • F Forogar

    First thing I do is turn off the suggestion "feature". English is my primary and native language so I grew up learning how to speak and write it properly - I don't need some American software who thinks it knows better (it doesn't) telling me how to write. My second language is American. Since I came to live in the US I thought I should learn the local language. It is surprisingly different. :~

    - I would love to change the world, but they won’t give me the source code.

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    Mark_Wallace
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    *Ahem!*

    Forogar wrote:

    I don't need some American software who that thinks it knows better

    Let's keep the relative personal pronouns where they belong, eh? No-one is above Skitt's Law.

    I wanna be a eunuchs developer! Pass me a bread knife!

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    • F Forogar

      First thing I do is turn off the suggestion "feature". English is my primary and native language so I grew up learning how to speak and write it properly - I don't need some American software who thinks it knows better (it doesn't) telling me how to write. My second language is American. Since I came to live in the US I thought I should learn the local language. It is surprisingly different. :~

      - I would love to change the world, but they won’t give me the source code.

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      Forogar wrote:

      First thing I do is turn off the suggestion "feature".

      I leave it on because it makes me laugh.

      I wanna be a eunuchs developer! Pass me a bread knife!

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      • Sander RosselS Sander Rossel

        I'm writing some stuff in Word and Word thinks it's necessary to improve my writing. Mostly, that's true, but it has one suggestion that I followed until I found out it's not right. Every time I write "have to" or some form of it, Word says "use 'must' for concise language." Now, as I understand it, that's perfectly fine in American English, but not so much in British English where "have to" indicates an external incentive while "must" comes from an internal incentive. For example, "I have to use the Azure cloud at work" (dictated by your boss) and "I must work out more often" (something you wish to do because it's healthy). Of course, if your doctor or wife tells you to work out more often "or else" it becomes "I have to work out more often." Anyway, I must now change "must" to "have to" or my readers will make fun of me for not understanding the English language :sigh: The issue is pretty much un-Googleable, but does anyone know how I can turn off this very specific "have to" to "must" rule?

        Best, Sander sanderrossel.com Migrating Applications to the Cloud with Azure arrgh.js - Bringing LINQ to JavaScript Object-Oriented Programming in C# Succinctly

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        Ravi Bhavnani
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        Sander Rossel wrote:

        I have to use the Azure cloud at work

        IMHO, that's not professional.  I would rewrite that as "I am required to use the Azure cloud at work". /ravi

        My new year resolution: 2048 x 1536 Home | Articles | My .NET bits | Freeware ravib(at)ravib(dot)com

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        • Sander RosselS Sander Rossel

          I'm writing some stuff in Word and Word thinks it's necessary to improve my writing. Mostly, that's true, but it has one suggestion that I followed until I found out it's not right. Every time I write "have to" or some form of it, Word says "use 'must' for concise language." Now, as I understand it, that's perfectly fine in American English, but not so much in British English where "have to" indicates an external incentive while "must" comes from an internal incentive. For example, "I have to use the Azure cloud at work" (dictated by your boss) and "I must work out more often" (something you wish to do because it's healthy). Of course, if your doctor or wife tells you to work out more often "or else" it becomes "I have to work out more often." Anyway, I must now change "must" to "have to" or my readers will make fun of me for not understanding the English language :sigh: The issue is pretty much un-Googleable, but does anyone know how I can turn off this very specific "have to" to "must" rule?

          Best, Sander sanderrossel.com Migrating Applications to the Cloud with Azure arrgh.js - Bringing LINQ to JavaScript Object-Oriented Programming in C# Succinctly

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          DerekT P
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          Sander Rossel wrote:

          Anyway, I must now change "must" to "have to" or my readers will make fun of me for not understanding the English language

          I certainly wouldn't worry about that, especially in this situation. Whilst it might be technically correct (I'll leave others to verify) I've not consciously ever differentiated "must" and "have to" in the way described. Someone suggests "required to" which I agree is more explicit where the requirement is from an external agency, and implies that despite the requirement it may not be the best course of action. I despair daily of English people (born and bred) who haven't a clue about the language, even about the phrases they use. When so many people today (even older people, despite this being a recent "innovation") use "You could of done that" and similar, your standard of English appears exemplary, with or without Word's grammar checker. :) And don't get me started on "damp squids", "tender hooks", "fine tooth-combs" and so on... :doh: :mad:

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          • M MarkTJohnson

            Or you could just turn off the suggestion feature and happily go on about your life.

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            dandy72
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            Exactly. It's a suggestion from a word processor, not a compiler error.

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            • C CoolTeddyBear

              whilst I agree with your sentiment...

              I don't need some American software who thinks it knows better

              is grammatically incorrect. The American software is inanimate. 'who' should be 'that'

              Live long and prosper

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              kalberts
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              Many years ago, I bought a book with the title "Machines who think". I am sure the title was deliberately chosen. I am equally sure that _Forogar_ chose his words equally deliberately. (I really should pick up that book and read it again, to see what we - and the machines - were thinking back in 1979; my copy is the 1st edition.)

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              • F Forogar

                First thing I do is turn off the suggestion "feature". English is my primary and native language so I grew up learning how to speak and write it properly - I don't need some American software who thinks it knows better (it doesn't) telling me how to write. My second language is American. Since I came to live in the US I thought I should learn the local language. It is surprisingly different. :~

                - I would love to change the world, but they won’t give me the source code.

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                dandy72
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                Forogar wrote:

                It is surprisingly different

                Still [one of my favorites](https://me.me/i/english-traditional-english-simplified-dnotiv-oh-ashotsfired-1427636)...

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                • R Ravi Bhavnani

                  Sander Rossel wrote:

                  I have to use the Azure cloud at work

                  IMHO, that's not professional.  I would rewrite that as "I am required to use the Azure cloud at work". /ravi

                  My new year resolution: 2048 x 1536 Home | Articles | My .NET bits | Freeware ravib(at)ravib(dot)com

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                  Ravi Bhavnani wrote:

                  IMHO

                  Well, I'm glad it's a humble opinion, because it's incorrect. I think almost everyone here is well aware that verbosity is not a sign of professionalism.

                  I wanna be a eunuchs developer! Pass me a bread knife!

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                  • Sander RosselS Sander Rossel

                    I'm writing some stuff in Word and Word thinks it's necessary to improve my writing. Mostly, that's true, but it has one suggestion that I followed until I found out it's not right. Every time I write "have to" or some form of it, Word says "use 'must' for concise language." Now, as I understand it, that's perfectly fine in American English, but not so much in British English where "have to" indicates an external incentive while "must" comes from an internal incentive. For example, "I have to use the Azure cloud at work" (dictated by your boss) and "I must work out more often" (something you wish to do because it's healthy). Of course, if your doctor or wife tells you to work out more often "or else" it becomes "I have to work out more often." Anyway, I must now change "must" to "have to" or my readers will make fun of me for not understanding the English language :sigh: The issue is pretty much un-Googleable, but does anyone know how I can turn off this very specific "have to" to "must" rule?

                    Best, Sander sanderrossel.com Migrating Applications to the Cloud with Azure arrgh.js - Bringing LINQ to JavaScript Object-Oriented Programming in C# Succinctly

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                    Gary Wheeler
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                    I turn the grammar checker off in Word. Its recommendations are worthless, especially since they are inappropriate for most of the technical documentation I write. I also tend to disable the spell check, since most of the time I'm correct and it's not. It also tends to false-positive far too many things - filenames, proper names of all kinds, program symbols, and so on.

                    Software Zen: delete this;

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                    • C CoolTeddyBear

                      whilst I agree with your sentiment...

                      I don't need some American software who thinks it knows better

                      is grammatically incorrect. The American software is inanimate. 'who' should be 'that'

                      Live long and prosper

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                      dandy72
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                      CoolTeddyBear wrote:

                      The American software is inanimate. 'who' should be 'that'

                      I know some Americans who that are rather inanimate themselves.

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                      • M Mark_Wallace

                        *Ahem!*

                        Forogar wrote:

                        I don't need some American software who that thinks it knows better

                        Let's keep the relative personal pronouns where they belong, eh? No-one is above Skitt's Law.

                        I wanna be a eunuchs developer! Pass me a bread knife!

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                        kalberts
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                        Even professional writers make the same mistake: Pamela McCorduck: Machines Who Think[^]

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                        • D DerekT P

                          Sander Rossel wrote:

                          Anyway, I must now change "must" to "have to" or my readers will make fun of me for not understanding the English language

                          I certainly wouldn't worry about that, especially in this situation. Whilst it might be technically correct (I'll leave others to verify) I've not consciously ever differentiated "must" and "have to" in the way described. Someone suggests "required to" which I agree is more explicit where the requirement is from an external agency, and implies that despite the requirement it may not be the best course of action. I despair daily of English people (born and bred) who haven't a clue about the language, even about the phrases they use. When so many people today (even older people, despite this being a recent "innovation") use "You could of done that" and similar, your standard of English appears exemplary, with or without Word's grammar checker. :) And don't get me started on "damp squids", "tender hooks", "fine tooth-combs" and so on... :doh: :mad:

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                          When I read could of instead of could've, I relegate the writer to moron status, which is then hard for them to overcome.

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                          • M Mark_Wallace

                            Be very careful with "have to", because it implies a higher power. Good examples: - You have to obey the speed limit (because the law says so). - You have to do your homework (because your teacher says so). - You have to charge your phone battery (because the laws of Physics say so). - You have to fill in fields marked with asterisks (because the form won't work if you don't). Only one bad example is needed: - You have to do what I want (because I am a higher power, and am far more important than you). If you are not a higher power, the reaction will be along the lines of "He's an arrogant little shite, that one!" i.e. don't tell customers (or anyone else) that they "have to" do something that's for your benefit. "Must", as you say, implies "for your benefit": - You must book your flight early (because it fills up pretty quickly). However, we also have a "gentle" imperative, which can be used for either case, but is less pushy: - You need to get that finished by the end of the week (because I/you/we/they need it). But if you want to be really co-operative, go reflexive: - I need you to help me peeling these grapes.

                            I wanna be a eunuchs developer! Pass me a bread knife!

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                            Interesting examples. I and a couple of coworkers do support for our software (answering email when we have time and such). I'm not a native English speaker; my coworkers are, but I always go out of my way in my responses to customers to discuss "the problem", whereas my coworkers might use "your problem". I've always thought "your problem" had a rather strong undertone suggesting a customer was having problems because of his own doing...whereas "the problem" is more neutral. I've mentioned it to my coworkers, but they don't see it that way at all. I'm concluded maybe it's just me and my French background (in French, "ton probleme" is very informal and infers "you're the only one seeing that"), but I still avoid using "your problem" in correspondence with customers...

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                            • R Ravi Bhavnani

                              Sander Rossel wrote:

                              I have to use the Azure cloud at work

                              IMHO, that's not professional.  I would rewrite that as "I am required to use the Azure cloud at work". /ravi

                              My new year resolution: 2048 x 1536 Home | Articles | My .NET bits | Freeware ravib(at)ravib(dot)com

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                              I have to use the Azure cloud at work
                              I am required to use the Azure cloud at work

                              To me, both suggest a sense of disgust in being made/forced to use Azure against one's wishes. :-) Whereas "...we're using Azure cloud at work" is as neutral a statement as can be, IMNSHO...but the tone of voice used when saying this out loud would indicate what you think of that situation. That might be lost when written down, but that could be a good thing...

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                              • R raddevus

                                Oh, also if you float over the have to where the "suggestion line" appears under the words and right-click it then you get a popup-- looks like this[^]. Then you can click the "Options for conciseness" and you get a dialog box --- looks like this[^]. And if you uncheck the "wordiness" option it turns it off. Also, to get to this setting again, you go to File...Options... and choose the Proofing tab. Then click the [Settings...] button next to Writing Style It's under Grammar & Refinements and it looks like this[^].

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                                I think you are missing the point. I took Sander's frustration not as a complaint that there is such an option that can be turned off, but treating this as a mere matter of "consise-ness", while the two alternatives in fact convey quite different meanings. Sander emphasizes that he is writing British English, and he wants his word processor to treat as British English - not as American English where you have turned off the mechanisms that doesn't work properly in BE. Just for the records: If you translate "have to" word by word to Norwegian, "Du har å gjøre det!", it is a strict order to someone who objects to it, "Do it, or else ...". Certainly, word by word tranlations from one language to the other can lead to crazy results. AE and BE are different languages. Closer than AE and Norwegian, yet different. I come to think of the old joke: - Daddy, why do they call it a "Word processor"? - Well, son ... You've seen what food processors do to food...

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                                • Sander RosselS Sander Rossel

                                  I'm writing some stuff in Word and Word thinks it's necessary to improve my writing. Mostly, that's true, but it has one suggestion that I followed until I found out it's not right. Every time I write "have to" or some form of it, Word says "use 'must' for concise language." Now, as I understand it, that's perfectly fine in American English, but not so much in British English where "have to" indicates an external incentive while "must" comes from an internal incentive. For example, "I have to use the Azure cloud at work" (dictated by your boss) and "I must work out more often" (something you wish to do because it's healthy). Of course, if your doctor or wife tells you to work out more often "or else" it becomes "I have to work out more often." Anyway, I must now change "must" to "have to" or my readers will make fun of me for not understanding the English language :sigh: The issue is pretty much un-Googleable, but does anyone know how I can turn off this very specific "have to" to "must" rule?

                                  Best, Sander sanderrossel.com Migrating Applications to the Cloud with Azure arrgh.js - Bringing LINQ to JavaScript Object-Oriented Programming in C# Succinctly

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                                  Have you checked which version of English is driving the spelling/grammar checkers? If you're right to be blaming it on a US vs UK difference I'm wondering if you ended up with the American rules turned on by mistake. If so: Options - Language - Office authoring languages and proofing. Change from English (United States) to English (United Kingdom).

                                  Did you ever see history portrayed as an old man with a wise brow and pulseless heart, weighing all things in the balance of reason? Is not rather the genius of history like an eternal, imploring maiden, full of fire, with a burning heart and flaming soul, humanly warm and humanly beautiful? --Zachris Topelius Training a telescope on one’s own belly button will only reveal lint. You like that? You go right on staring at it. I prefer looking at galaxies. -- Sarah Hoyt

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                                  • M Mark_Wallace

                                    Be very careful with "have to", because it implies a higher power. Good examples: - You have to obey the speed limit (because the law says so). - You have to do your homework (because your teacher says so). - You have to charge your phone battery (because the laws of Physics say so). - You have to fill in fields marked with asterisks (because the form won't work if you don't). Only one bad example is needed: - You have to do what I want (because I am a higher power, and am far more important than you). If you are not a higher power, the reaction will be along the lines of "He's an arrogant little shite, that one!" i.e. don't tell customers (or anyone else) that they "have to" do something that's for your benefit. "Must", as you say, implies "for your benefit": - You must book your flight early (because it fills up pretty quickly). However, we also have a "gentle" imperative, which can be used for either case, but is less pushy: - You need to get that finished by the end of the week (because I/you/we/they need it). But if you want to be really co-operative, go reflexive: - I need you to help me peeling these grapes.

                                    I wanna be a eunuchs developer! Pass me a bread knife!

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                                    These kinds of concern are important. But, they are highly language and culture dependent. For this discussion, we certainly must (/have to) treat British and American English as distinct languages. Even within the Norwegian language, native to about 5 mill people, you see large variations among dialects. The are cases of word pairs that swaps meanings from one dialect to the other ("brød" is "bread" in one dialect, "cake" in another, while "kake" is the other way around, same with "kirsebær" and "moreller" - which is the sweet cherry, which is the sour kind). Sometimes, a single word in one dialect takes a sentence to represent in other dialects: In Trøndelag, where I live now, I could ask if you know some person, and you might answer "Æ vætt'a 'n, ja", which says "I know who he is, but I have never have any personal contact with him". In my own south Norway dialect, there is no single term (literally: "I know of him") that expresses that kind of relationship. One of my language books has illustration of where different European languages (as determined by gallups from speakers of those languages) sets the limits between yellow and orange, red, green, blue, violet, ... The differences are surprisingly large, even within Europe (which you might think is reasonably homogenous from a cultural point of view). Another case study in the same book is personal relations: How close is a "friend"? A "buddy"? An "acquaintance"? The dictionary provides translations, but on closer inspection it turns out that, say, the Norwegian terms "venn", "kamerat" and "bekjent" cover significantly different sectors of the social scale than the Amerian terms. When I first visited the USA as a teenager, of course I was familiar with "girlfriend"s and "boyfriend"s, and was confused when my host family referred to my buddies as my boyfriends. When I asked, they explained that the boyfriend of a girl is quite different from a boyfriend of a boy. But, I asked, what do you then call it when two boys are sweethearts? That shocked my Catholic, Midwestern host family deeply. The reaction was like Russian: We do not have such perverts in our society! It wasn't phrased exactly that way, but the meaning was the same. So I learned not to take lightly on taking words from one cultural context to another.

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                                    • M Mark_Wallace

                                      Ravi Bhavnani wrote:

                                      IMHO

                                      Well, I'm glad it's a humble opinion, because it's incorrect. I think almost everyone here is well aware that verbosity is not a sign of professionalism.

                                      I wanna be a eunuchs developer! Pass me a bread knife!

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                                      Verbosity depens on which verbs (and nouns, and adjectives) are used. If they are of "current buzzword" kind, they could signify "professionalism". Noone would arrest you today for using the term "agile" in statements where it could just as well have been left out. Same with "open source". Same with a lot of buzzwords. They contribute nothing to the informtion value, except telling that the author knows which are the current buzzwords. Also, an important aspect of professionalism is precision. If you tell that "I am required to" use a given tool, then there is an explicitly stated requirement. If you tell "I must" use some tool, it could be that anything else is too slow on given hardware, that your colleagues are not familiar with other tools, that alternatives are too expensive, ... it could be anything, maybe formal and maybe not. If there is a stated requirement (from the customer, or from the management) to use a given tool, then that is essential. You can't blur it, smear it out, by reducing it to a diffuse "must".

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                                      • Sander RosselS Sander Rossel

                                        I'm writing some stuff in Word and Word thinks it's necessary to improve my writing. Mostly, that's true, but it has one suggestion that I followed until I found out it's not right. Every time I write "have to" or some form of it, Word says "use 'must' for concise language." Now, as I understand it, that's perfectly fine in American English, but not so much in British English where "have to" indicates an external incentive while "must" comes from an internal incentive. For example, "I have to use the Azure cloud at work" (dictated by your boss) and "I must work out more often" (something you wish to do because it's healthy). Of course, if your doctor or wife tells you to work out more often "or else" it becomes "I have to work out more often." Anyway, I must now change "must" to "have to" or my readers will make fun of me for not understanding the English language :sigh: The issue is pretty much un-Googleable, but does anyone know how I can turn off this very specific "have to" to "must" rule?

                                        Best, Sander sanderrossel.com Migrating Applications to the Cloud with Azure arrgh.js - Bringing LINQ to JavaScript Object-Oriented Programming in C# Succinctly

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                                        W Balboos GHB
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                                        There are other considerations whereby, aside for nuance of source (internal vs. external) they are just not interchangeable.

                                        • I do not have to go to work vs. I do not must go to work ?
                                        • What about a context such as "Must I?" vs. "Do I have to?", both of which are suggesting an external source.

                                        Other breakage of these rules could be constructed but I prefer, if at all possible, writing as I speak (excessive commas and all).

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                                        • K kalberts

                                          Verbosity depens on which verbs (and nouns, and adjectives) are used. If they are of "current buzzword" kind, they could signify "professionalism". Noone would arrest you today for using the term "agile" in statements where it could just as well have been left out. Same with "open source". Same with a lot of buzzwords. They contribute nothing to the informtion value, except telling that the author knows which are the current buzzwords. Also, an important aspect of professionalism is precision. If you tell that "I am required to" use a given tool, then there is an explicitly stated requirement. If you tell "I must" use some tool, it could be that anything else is too slow on given hardware, that your colleagues are not familiar with other tools, that alternatives are too expensive, ... it could be anything, maybe formal and maybe not. If there is a stated requirement (from the customer, or from the management) to use a given tool, then that is essential. You can't blur it, smear it out, by reducing it to a diffuse "must".

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                                          Ravi Bhavnani
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                                          Well put. :thumbsup: /ravi

                                          My new year resolution: 2048 x 1536 Home | Articles | My .NET bits | Freeware ravib(at)ravib(dot)com

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